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Uselessmanna:
He's a shameless and useless son. May we never have such a son

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mariahAngel:
Mumu wey suppose build house for him mama, dey follow him mama drag house! Ode!

Na wetin dem teach am for South Africa? Those ones no kuku send their parents!

Awon omokomo osi!

Pls I need reviews buying a 2007 c280 4matic in terms of maintenance of parts and fuel usage

Yes but I work as an electrical engineer with the government for years now and also friends with civil engineers and architect's

Why can't he read civil giving him an edge to compete for jobs in the government and other companies

Then learn autocad 3d and co by the side and even on the job developing his architectural expertise .

Bricklayers with experience do both civil and architectural jobs and even get the jobs also remember

He can leave university with a civil degree and architectural expertise .And civil engineering is broad (bridges ,Roads etc not limited to buildings only

Look for a job placement at the same time independently bidding for jobs based on his ability to draw building plans

Remember our terrain people with connections get the jobs not even the professionals

Summarily..1, he graduates a civil engineer looking for work 2, by the side he learns how to design building plans and architectural designs 3, he starts looking for building jobs as a civil engineer and uses archi expertise to draw his plan

NetValueFX:
In Nigeria it doesn't make much changes the one you are. I am a Civil Engineer and I have friends who are Architects. In the eyes of the average country man we are all called Engineers because all of us collect building contracts and majority of us the Engineers draw also. Architects don't draw for me, as a matter of fact only few of them will create something better can I would. Only few knows the difference. Bottom line, which ever you choose , broadening your knowledge is a must because in this country na who draw house dey build am.
Unless you are planning to work for a company then you might consider Civil Engineering because their are more openings for their vast area of discipline than Architecture.
However, if you want to be independent, Architecture will start paying you quite early and going fully professional with your ARCON is quite faster than joining COREN.

as an electrical engineer close to many civil engineers/architects and based on the terrian in Nigeria both are good courses . The civil enginner is the number in the project and building frame work and brings the direction of the project( the rest of us are called to bring our inputs)

So be the almighty civil engineer with architectural expertise and experience undergoing courses in 3d simulations with autocad

So it's a win win...you are the civil engineer with architectural expertise.

To be honest in this country even we electrical engineers bid for civil jobs and do it ourselves. You just have to learn everything to survive here.
Gone are the days people are restricted to a certain field.

Mbbs oga. Pls don't reason this one. You can do residency in a branch of medicine dealing on drugs ( allergy and immunology) and sub specialists in drugs which is a win win. Doctors are resident in opthalmology which doubles and does the job of optometrist. Mbbs all the way pls.

Tyg3rFvry:
I'm having the same problem with the OP. Between Pharmacy and MBBs which should I study

I can endure stress... But I don't want what I will look back on someday and say "damn, I wasted all those years". I want to earn every income worth every stress and hardwork I input. Please advice me guys!!!

Philadelphia:
This Sienna is not a 2006 model year

What year please?

Pls I need reviews from anyone other experience this this car toyota sienna 2006
Fuel
Maintenance of parts
Durability etc

eeewise:
Any review for a used toyota sienna 2006 factoring

Economy and maintenance?

To be used for everyday inner city running not travels?

Any review for a used toyota sienna 2006 factoring

Economy and maintenance?

To be used for everyday inner city running not travels?

Very good fuel
At least it will be manageable to use

dadabashua1:
just know Sienna comes in V6 version only,2006 is the 3.3l version,so don't expect a 'very' Good fuel consumption rate,the environmental protection agency rates it MPG at 17/24 estimated consumption rate for city and highway, parts are available, most sweetable for highway drive,reasons why some use it for inter state transportation,but overall its a good car especially for the 'BIG'family.

Pls I need reviews on a used Toyota sienna 2006 model in terms of
Fuel consumption
Maintenance and availability of parts

1.9?

Can anyone help get a used lexus es330 2004/2005 upwards
Clean neatly used
Budget 1.5 to 1.8
Buy and drive

Or toyota yaris sedan 2008 upwards

Ok sir I will

pembisco:
Like I said before. Shut already

So much bitterness and hates lol

Life must be hard in Nigeria o

Anyways pls re read my comment this time slowly to comprehend

Maybe you will realise I never said the man was not born again

pembisco:
Pls shut it already. Who told you the lady is saved and the man not saved? And BTW, nobody hates pentacostals here. It's rather peoctacostals attacking Catholics just like the idiaaat lady did

Many will bash and insult you here because of your write up(catholics vs pentecostal). Besides very few can relate with what you wrote considering there is a general "hatred" for pentecostal pastors here.

My opinion is not to rush a decision as big as marriage when in doubt.


If he is not truly saved ( some Catholics are saved) call it off immediately without battling an eye lid


Align with the wisdom of the word ( don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers)

Don't be intimidating by comments here. If he is not born again ( which is irrespective of being a Catholic or pentecostal) drop him. If he is but isn't spiritual enough then I will say pray again and postpone wedding dates for clarity

Can it go for 1.8m? So I cal you now

NewDawn2O21:
can I meet you in school on Monday?

Well oga lots of people have mailed me here and have sorted out theirs , others in the process . I really don't have much time on my hands for meetings but why not send a mail we can set up a brief meeting remotely via zoom .
But since you are already in benin you can as well go to exams and records dept.

Ese trains in uniben sports complex. Practically seeher often

Life is hard and complicated

Being a Nigerian is even harder

Cost of consumer goods is on an all time high

No one wants a wife that will stress them further

I am not saying divorce her but pls don't entertain foolsihness

Don't mind them. Comprehensionis a problem in Nigeria.
I am a civil servant and can relate to the issue.

The wife is plain wicked and selfish even to her self.

He shdnt have married someone with this mentality.

She does not love him. If you dig deep inside the marriage story you will realise she never loved him.

How can you watch a man you claim to love struggle and demand extra for rent

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moriss33:
Obviously you lack comprehension skills...na shop rent be the matter
He didn't ask her for money to take care of his needs or responsibilities.
She has N250k in her account made 4rm the shop
Yes he didn't open the shop 4 her but he assisted in furnishing it.
Now why can't she pay for her shop rent of 90k from the N250k in her account.
This is a civil servant not a business man so his income is limited...also he is paying rent, feeding them & giving her money too.
Now as a man he also has to save for when babies start coming, school fees, building of his own home & Etc which are all his sole responsibility.
Why can't his wife pay 4 shop rent., when she obviously has the money...no b wickedness ?
Let me not forget....she dey send money to male friends buy can't pay her shop rent.

Oga I doubt your age but when you have 4 kids in this economy and have rent ,school fees to pay, feeding kids upkeep and all then come back and quote"" total money is 2k nonsense""

If you have 2k and your better half and extension has 1m and the total money is 2k its better not to marry. It defeats the purpose of marriage � and its unbiblical to say the least

princewarri1985:
Bro am a guy, you are not matured enough for marriage. If you have 2k at home and your wife have 1 million naira, the total money you have at home is 2k. Secondly you are very wrong for not disclosing how much you earn to your wife, because you might be earning 150k and she will assume you earn 1million monthly, so show her your pay slip open up to her use wisdom and treat her right i promise you she will love you more and open up to you and tell you everything including her account balance, she will empty her account for you when she knows you need it even without you asking. Your wife can be an angel or a jezebel and it all depends on how you treat her

Telling your wife 100k plus range is very very ok
How can u live with a man and not able to gauge his financial level and know if he is struggling or not

Pls he married an entitled selfish woman who's mentality is skewed towards always being at the receiving end of care. This mindset is prevalent with women.

Very few understand the concept of marriage , partnership and power of 2

Maobichek:
I must be open with you because I calmly read and digested all you wrote here; you are only reaping what you sowed.

From what you said, it was clear that you were not open with her at first, a woman who would spend the rest of her life with you should know what you receive and not just 100k+ as you put it. If you had been open with her, you will have the basis to complain ok.

You gave an example with your sister buying a jeep and helping her husband build a house. The truth is that you sis knows what her husband earns or receives per month.

You are not ready for marriage, marriage is not just paying bride price and doing white wedding. Every home you admire today is built by the wife (woman). This simple but the bitter truth.

Pls retrace your step, it's not too late ok. Most times, we accuse women of saying and displaying the attitude of "my money is my own, his money is our own" but we cause it some times, you did by laying a bad financial foundation in your home.

Sit your wife down, talk to her, all you have is her own and all she has should be yours, thank you.

Too many simps as husbands
A woman who has money in her account yet decides to bother her husband is a ticking time bomb and that mentality defeats the whole idea of marriage
Two should be better than one. Their reward for their labour should be better.

He that is faithful in little is faithful in much.

Truth be told a woman not willing to be a contributory partner in her marriage especially financially indicates lack of love for her spouse PERIOD.
Every man invests in the direction of their care.
Oga stand your ground and refuse to pay any rent. You can't demand her to support her self ( home) but can alter the way you relate with her financially by adjusting your life to your finances since she is a liability

The part wherehe saidhe just retired from the civil service?? Or you don't understand English??

jD32:
Accomplice trying to save his life

My opinions are different.

1,You are still mourning so you shdnt be accommodating another relationship just after 3 months

2, if you opt to Start another relationship pls forget the past and allow whoever you are with bring their own uniqueness to your life

3, no man or woman wants to be competing with anyone's past and trying to measure up to another person's standard. You need to tabular raza , complete erasing of any standard your late wife set and embrace change whole heartedly


4, take a break so you heal properly

Your focus should be on returning the money you used to the account and leave it there.

Thank God its just 220k u spent which is easier to return


Return the money and lock up

Don't fill any mandate form or anything

Return the money and chill and watch how things will play out

My advice is to use your mom to meet up the people and beg beg beg. Your aged mom is liable by law .

Just corporate with the lady and look for ways to repay the 220k small small

They might forgive you but show some sort of commitment

Hello house
So I bought an ml350 2007 model

Shipped from USA

Any tips for the oil to use � �

And regular maintenance tips

Then recommend a good mechanic in Benin City

Thanks

I work in uniben. Send me a mail...akasramon@gmail.com.
Or drop your number to call you
100% genuine
Actually doing anyone a favour cos I am not expecting you pay
Just want to see how i can assist for those living far and genuinely need on ground assistance

This same set of staff are being denied hazard allowances by the federal government. They prioritise academic staff over them.reasons they are going on strike Feb 5