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FamilyRe: As A Lady, I'm Tired Of Carrying My Family's Heavy Responsibilities by eeewise(m): 8:16am On Oct 21, 2025
Nelfund fees and stipend can help with the expenses so he does not have to drop out .

The two other girls with time will marry and their husband will be their responsibility

The boy will start hustling later and want to be independent

Time will balance things up

I can relate

Hang in there while

Keep praying and hoping
Jobs/VacanciesRe: To Be Sack From Work And To Resigned, Which One Is The Best by eeewise(m): 4:06pm On Sep 24, 2025
Retrenchment is different from sack.

Sack is due to a misconduct and you forfeit certain benefits

Especially in civil service, it is disgraceful, no gratuity, pensions etc


When you resign or get retrenched you are entitled to benefits and serverance pay


Key word

One is honorable

The other dishonorable
EducationRe: Help . Uniben Has Refused To Clear Me Since I Graduated In 2019. by eeewise(m): 6:56am On Jul 23, 2025
Ebenezer2021:
transcript wey take some people years.
Abeg boss how did you get it so quick I need help.
When I gained admission into that school I had issues with my local government as a different LGA was on my kofa which delayed my 100 level clearance. Omo for more than 2 months I was unable to be cleared as they kept tossing me up and down.
Bro I got fed up and went to the ICT section at Akin Deko and instantly right there it was fixed.
Message me
FamilyRe: Please by eeewise(m): 9:11pm On Jul 13, 2025
By law he will need you to sign a consent form

If he forges that he will be arrested and prosecuted

Kids cannot TRAVEL ABROAD WITHOUT THE CONSENT OF BOTH PARENTS
PoliticsRe: Sowere And Other Senior Lawyers Escort Embattled NYSC Corper To Her LGI Office by eeewise(m): 2:27pm On Mar 17, 2025
Ikaeniyan0:
I doubt the NYSC will even let sowore enter the LGI office. If the girl is found guilty, she might serve for some month without getting allawee. Nothing sowore can do about it.
Las Las common sense is not common

Serve without 33k lol

They have a bye law and stipulated punishments

Serving without the platry 33k isn't one of them
TravelRe: How Safe Is It For A Group Of White American Women To Travel To Nigeria? by eeewise(m): 5:41am On Sep 18, 2024
Very safe

Just avoid northern, eastern cities entirely and you are good. Prioritize Lagos, abuja, portharcourt cities

When you guys come to Nigeria first stay in high brow areas, hotels (might be expensive so you have to save up) example protea hotel Lagos, legend hotel Lagos


To be double sure also save up and pay for police escorts to accompany in your movements especially at nights


But generally if you are in high brow areas like the government reserved area which has night life's, clubs etc etc it is safe

I encourage you to come and break the stereotypes

People of all nationalities stay here.

We have many whites here
I will keep editing this and adding so keep coming back to this
Jobs/VacanciesRe: VC And Registrar, Who Is More Positioned To Secure A Job For Someone In The Sch? by eeewise(m): 6:58pm On Sep 17, 2024
Been working more than 2 decades in the university.
Oga na the vice chancellor oooooooooooooooo
Any thing outside this just disregard
HealthRe: "NMA Membership Not Compulsory For Physicians" - Court Rules by eeewise(m): 5:06am On May 15, 2024
Racoon:
See wahala! So there will now be freelance medical practitioner with no regulatory authority? This one nah license to kill o.
Nma is not a regulatory authority. Mdcn is
FamilyRe: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by eeewise(m): 6:00am On May 09, 2024
castro316:
All guys do is to come and protect men who are supposed to be flogged with cane.
1. How will you live with a wife when you cannot provide common 15k for wedding preparations
2. How will you be living in your parents house and still be talking about marriage.

Putting a woman in house house when you cannot take are of yourself is an irresponsible thing to do.

The woman is right joor.
But she agreed despite all this conditions listed above

Why didn't she tell him to put off Marriage until he is more financially capable


She is irresponsible
FamilyRe: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by eeewise(m): 5:26am On May 09, 2024
poshestmina:
A very valid reason ,I wouldn't date or marry a man that still lives with his parents ,regardless the living condition.

I love ,LOVE my privacy and space a lot ,some days you wake up and just want to be alone and want your thoughts coordinated.

You automatically become the family's Chef ,Advicer, emergency Gele tier ,Nanny to everyone and having someone else make decisions for you and hubby.

Even if it's a face me public compound ,let's contribute and rent . I no need see finish !
But his reasons are valid also.

Ideally both families could have made adjustments in budget to accommodate a self contain room close to the where their business is not far away


Also this couple already discussed all this and agreed to for 2 months. If she was advised to go and stay far from her in laws, there is a way to go about it than telling him adamantly she won't bulge.

She lacks proper counsel
Christianity EtcRe: Is It Bad To Locate A Church In A Prostitution Hotspot? by eeewise(m): 4:33pm On Feb 04, 2024
Gospel pillars church (ark of light to all nations) at 11c kudirat Abiola way
Before the church rented that place girls used to prostitute at night around there.

After the church rented and started holding services with time they dominated the atmosphere spiritually

And this ladies with time started subconsciously relocating far

As I type this they no more hang around there at nights.

Light is supposed to dispel darkness. Light shines in the dark and darkness comprehends not

The church is supposed to increase the intensity of its fire 🔥 🔥 🔥 and atmosphere to dominate not accommodate darkness

Light and darkness can't co exist
CareerRe: My Salary Not Enough For My Transport Fare - Nigerian Soldier Cries Out (Video) by eeewise(m): 10:45am On Feb 01, 2024
Nazgul:
Jonathan's government wasn't as bad as this, yet thousands hit the streets to protest thus forcing the government to reverse subsidy removal.

Today some people's salaries isn't even enough to transport them to work for 30 working days, yet they prefer to suffer in silence. Even our Police officers who wouldn't hesitate to teargas protests are even worse. Most of them can't even boast of 20k lying idle in their account.

As long as we remain silent, things would continue to get worse, the only language this government understands is violence. ASUU understood this that's why they were able to even get some of their demands met as compared to other federal government parastatls.
Oga which ASUU demand was met?? ??

As we speak no single demand has been met by govt with respect to salary increase
Christianity EtcRe: Your January Salary Is For Me And Not The Church — Pastor Anosike (video) by eeewise(m): 11:55am On Jan 18, 2024
The best of all the firstfruits and of all your special gifts will belong to the priests. You are to give them the first portion of your ground meal so that a blessing may rest on your household

Ezekiel 44 VS 30

Context is key
PoliticsRe: Fuel Hike: It Will Be An Indefinite Nationwide Strike Without Notice - Ajaero by eeewise(m): 8:09pm On Aug 14, 2023
Taylor90:
Make the strike loud

Reasons for the 6 months strike during Buhari wasn’t even this bad

This strike suppose last 3yrs

Cripple this evil government
Colos

Cripple the govt, cripple yourself

The govt is taken from amongst you
PropertiesRe: Who is to blame here? Me or my landlord by eeewise(m): 4:57pm On Jul 13, 2023
Why not just go solar with the appliances you have and pay for in installments
PoliticsRe: Ebonyi REC Declares 'Returning Officer' Wanted For Disappearing With Results by eeewise(m): 7:16pm On Feb 27, 2023
In my opinion

I think he was unable to balance the results given to me by the ward collated officers

hirizontal amd vertical column must align

maybe out of frustration he opted to run

thats my opinion

He shd have been humble to seek for assistance from inec staff
AutosDriver For Daily Balance Needed , Benin City by eeewise(op): 12:51pm On Dec 28, 2022
I have a honda odysee , looking for a driver to run benin to asaba

interested drivers contact me here
PhonesRe: One Plus , Google Pixel, Vivo Or Oppo Help me by eeewise(m): 6:50am On Nov 27, 2022
I use a vivo
the phone is superb

but with your budget

i will settle for a pixel
HealthRe: Carter Oshodin, UNIBEN Official, Commits Suicide Over Hardship by eeewise(m): 6:17pm On Sep 11, 2022
david22uu:
ASUU IS ACADEMIC STAFF

HE IS NOT ON STRIKE, HE HIS BEING PAID
I think the bribes he received from students has stopped

This is corruption that fought back

MY OWN THINKING
foolish thinking devoid of exposure and sound reasoning
everyone has not been paid
EducationRe: SSANU, NASU Suspend Strike After Meeting With Education Minister by eeewise(m): 6:37am On Aug 21, 2022
symbianDON:
there salaries were never stopped...only ASUU's.
Nigerians sha

who told you their salary was never stopped? lol

fg stopped salaries of ALL workers


thou ASUU and naat first
then ssanu and nasu afterward
EducationRe: Pay Rise: FG Excludes State Universities, ASUU Kicks by eeewise(m): 12:01pm On Aug 04, 2022
Nigerians have started thinking.

most of this union leaders are unreasonable


They hold the govt ransom and force their demands despite the realities
AutosRe: Cheap Honda Accord by eeewise(m): 7:35am On Jun 18, 2022
1.5m for a used eod lol

Nigerians never cease to amaze me
PoliticsRe: Moment Tinubu Was Declared Winner Of APC Presidential Primary Election (Video) by eeewise(m): 7:22pm On Jun 08, 2022
[quowte author=PrincessofDSS post=113604580]Congratulations Tinubu. Good lucku timpsumo you at the general elections [/qusimsumpomte]
Christianity EtcRe: Church Member Becomes Mentally Deranged After Burning Her Village Shrine by eeewise(m): 1:27pm On Jun 02, 2022
as many are lead by the spirit of God are thr sons of God. christainity is an active partnership with the holy spirit.
you dont take some steps without the leading of tje spiirt
PropertiesRe: Urgent Help Needed To Evict Stubborn Tenant!!!!!!!! by eeewise(m): 9:25pm On Apr 21, 2022
Anonymous11:
It took us more than five years to finally kick a stubborn tenant out of the property last week. It took that long because of some silly circumstances beyond our control, among which are hesitation from our side and delayed court processes, one of which you have mentioned. Such as almost falling into the trap of using illegal means to evict the stubborn tenant. My advice is to seek the advice of a lawyer who specialises in evicting tenants and pursuing that process only. If you do something illegal rather than court proceedings, you will be surprised how you will find yourself in court for illegal house eviction. As this will slow down the court eviction process and gives the tenant legitimate reasons to attack your eviction processes in court. You need to be patient and follow the court guidance only. I repeat only!

Sincerely, the COVID lockdown allows the court proceeding to drag for too long. Ours was long because the stubborn tenant keep appealing the court verdict for no apparent reason. Give and take, if you follow the lawyer's guidance the process should be less than four years. The court eventually gave the eviction notice and the stubborn tenant was kicked out by the court bailiff and policemen. All his stuff was dumped outside the house and even got rained on, later that day. He was thoroughly shamed out of the property.
But you lost rent arrears

That's loosing
FamilyRe: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by eeewise(m): 8:51am On Apr 16, 2022
otomatic:
Involve your maternal family. I'm Sure your grandparents will have given the property to you instead of your mother if they were alive till this moment.
Those properties are not your father's own. They are meant for your mother's children.
This mindset is the reasons many see marriage as a sham

By marriage all that belongs to the wife is the husband's and all the belongs to the husband's his wife

This are hard truths but we can do nothing against the truth but for the truth
FamilyRe: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by eeewise(m): 8:43am On Apr 16, 2022
pocohantas:
I would have thought same too. I am surprised to know inheritance is for kids. Does this apply to widows too?
Order of inheritance is first the surviving spouse
Before the kids

The spouse comes before the kids
FamilyRe: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by eeewise(m): 8:42am On Apr 16, 2022
KingOfAllIgbos:
Both father and son are useless.

Both should go and work hard like the industrious mother who worked for the same things you leeches are quarrelling over.

I am not sorry to say this... Both of you are very revolting and shameless.

Don't you have any principles at all ?

" I took my son to court over my wife's properties " or

" I took my dad to court over my mother's properties"
I just tire

I want to throw up reading his post


The dynamics of a father /son relationship is honour

A son honours a father.

A father protects his son putting his future interests above all

Shameless family....*spits*
FamilyRe: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by eeewise(m): 8:37am On Apr 16, 2022
Heart breaking to see a father and son rival over mere material things .

What's most troubling is the length the son is willing to go to drag his father


Pls oga son settle your issues within the family

They are people you can reach out to prevail on him to close ranks with you as a family unit


Your mum died without a will so by law he has more rights to the property of his wife than you just the way your mum would have had rights if he was the one late

Talk to his spiritual leaders or people you think he respects
Foreign AffairsRe: Russia Positions Missiles, Heavy Military Equipment On Finland Border (Pics) by eeewise(m): 5:11pm On Apr 12, 2022
WATCHOVER:
You are free to associate with who ever you want, NATO and Warsaw pact had an agreement.
The Warsaw pact obeyed the agreement but NATO did a U-turn.
Do a research you will see reasons why Most Asian, Middle East nations like Israel, decide to go neutral
Why not upload the agreement?

Russia was paid billions to give up east Germany.

There was no agreement btw Russia and the Soviet union on expansion.

The agreement said Warsaw pact countries have the right to protect themselves how they feel is adequate for them

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