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A means to waste otherwise useful time.

Nigerians are fond of letting themselves go when in a relationship/marriage. Now that he’s single, he can return to looking his best to attract mates. No magic here, just science.

She’s pretty. I’ll give her that. She also has height.

One or two of these have already made front page this year. I’m here once again. See you in the front page. When Seun’s spambot learns to move topics to the front page, these will be a weekly discussion. Of course AI will learn the habits of whoever tuned it.

ifinger:
[color=#000099][/color] This lady I just started dating . She uses waist bead and leg chain ⛓️‍💥 I have had about many fetish thing about girls who wear them should I be concerned?

The propaganda becomes more unbelievable as weeks pass. Sha, oyibos will surely believe this. Their lives are sheltered.

Let’s hope it’s not the one that winners will fill our ears in six months about how they weren’t given the prizes promised.

Why is it news? Didn’t they say anything good for the goose…

WiseBizInvestor:
"We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"- Nigerian Woman Opens Up About Shocking Dating Struggles Abroad

Her emotional confession has gone viral, raising questions about loneliness, modern relationships, and changing social norms. Alot of people won’t agree with this, Watch What Happened.

In a video shared widely on social media, she explained, “We never imagined things would get to this point. Some women are so desperate for connection that they have to pay men to visit them.” She described the challenges of forming meaningful relationships in a country where men rarely approach women, leaving many single women feeling isolated despite living in crowded, connected societies.

Experts say this trend reflects broader demographic and social changes . Declining birth rates, migration patterns, career priorities, and the rise of online dating have all made finding committed partners more difficult in parts of Europe. Sociologists note that while technology allows access to more potential matches, it also encourages selectiveness and reduces long-term commitment.

Her confession has sparked mixed reactions online. Some sympathize, sharing their own struggles with loneliness and modern dating. Others warn against reducing companionship to financial arrangements, emphasizing the importance of emotional connection, respect, and genuine intimacy.

What do you think about this shocking reality? Could loneliness push women to extremes, or is this just a sign of cultural differences abroad? Drop your opinion in the comment section, and share this with someone who needs to see how dating has changed in other countries —the truth is eye-opening!

— ThisDay Nigeria

I wish them a happy life. I remember in 2001 when homosexuals were hated in South Africa. I’m sure it continued into 2010 if not 2013. What I heavily remember was the most vocal of the lot lived in townships, far from where those in the lifestyle populated. Ignorance really fuels hatred. It’s like here where Sango-Ota children who will never live outside their town for some reason hate easterners. Nobody will ever know them even if they litter this forum with their pictures for years on end.

His heart could power through the act of raping a minor but gave up during the punishment? Lol. Weak sauce. I thought he was beaten to death.

Millennials again. US has raised conscription age to 42. Go and apply for a visa instead of disturbing us with your analogue ways of life.

God forbid I ever use my money or anyone else’s to stake a bet.

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Nigerians are always one step, one look, one misplaced word, and a misunderstanding away from inflicting violence. Children on Nairaland always claim it’s a lie. They then jump into a fracas hours later in order to maim a thief.

I sleep all day now because everyone you speak to is ready to dump their problems on you. E go come be like say na only me content for this life.

1. Did not read.

2. Do it. Na una way for this forum. This is where I routinely read stories of boys hiding to peep at their cousins bathing.

SultanOfAbia:
Make I give una small family history

My grandpa marry 3 wives in total
First wive born
He marry 2nd wive

Now in the ancient days that 2nd go cheat come catch gonorrhea.
Word on the street is that She was a Hoee
She dey knack scatter everywhere. As she catch that disease.
My grandpa reject am and left her to die away from that disease. Very cold man.
Now the woman born 2 girls and 1 boy the boy died. Leaving only 2 girls

These 2 girls don marry and born my cousins.
One of them a girl Ada is always been rumored to be a hoe just like her grandma
Even her brother told me Ada is a dog
I shock she dey knack like mad.

Now she dey give me greenlight for room when I went to visit her brother and her brother was not around. Only her and me as I dey bed dey wait for her bro she come wear some reveling dress come siddon next to me come play wrestling video make we watch. A lot was running thru my mind

Also she came very close to my face one time like say she wan kiss me.

Omo e be like say Genetics dey truly pass down to 3rd generation of children.

If your grandma was a Hoe in ancient times that means that trait fit come back hunt you when you born daughter

She is almost acting the same way her grandmother was acting as recorded by our village historian.

Check history of family before you marry any woman.

I swear, the internet is populated with incels.

“Woman says…”

Front page!

“Chick reveals…”

Front page!

“Girl admits…”

Front page!

Woman posts random picture.

Incels: Hermosa! Be my wife! I need you in my life. Hope you didn’t get injured when you fell from heaven.

Let men try the same. Highest na nine views them go receive.

I can’t taste the difference.

Then give me your number, let me toast you.

“Waaah, Waaah, Waaaaaaah. Nairaland is no longer posting my news to the front page. I will leave with immediate effect.”



He’s back. Highly motivated. Welcome to Nairaland.

Even on the streets, social interaction has declined. There is a growing “stranger-danger” culture.

A double edge knife. On one hand, it keeps the oblivious safe. On another, it kills any form of natural interaction which could take place. People pick the aforementioned as opposed to the latter.

When I first moved to the UK, I noticed how unusual it seemed to some people when I stopped them to ask for directions.

An obvious lie. Asking for directions in the UK is as innate as scratching one’s head when confused. That place is hard to navigate. Everywhere looks the same.

Many walk with headphones on, absorbed in their own world.

True. They’re hyper stimulated from their phones that outside appears boring. Using headphones shortens the time taken to perform outside activities before running home for their dopamine fixes.

Strangers are often treated with suspicion.

Stranger danger.

This contrasts sharply with parts of Africa, where people more easily form connections in everyday situations on public transport, in markets, or on the street. Friendships and even romantic relationships often begin in these spontaneous interactions. There is a natural openness that fosters connection.

The same happens in the white man’s land. Look attractive and everyone will fight for your attention. Life lesson: don’t appear average.

Photoshoot? Skit? I don’t trust anything this forum posts.

The funny thing is if you show some people proof that you gifted them 300 million Naira, they will either commit suicide, go insane or die of a heart attack. Somehow, this man stole God knows how much and is very much alive.

Our problem in this country is we as individuals. Anybody could’ve taken his place. They would steal regardless. It’s why Atiku swears that he will rule the country even if it’s his corpse which wins upcoming elections.

Sweet Bimpe, you never gave me your number.

1. https://www.nairaland.com/8601145/it-finished

2. Yoruba boy go always add fat woman to the list. One of life’s many mysteries.

KobolanderSegun:
First of all. There is No The Most Woman in the World because all Women are beautiful and no woman is more beautiful than others

This might come to some as a shock but if you look at trees no tree is more beautiful than the next tree, No two trees are alike and they grow into different shapes.

No skin color is the best skin color and all skin color is beautiful.

I saw this ridiculously cute girl who sells things in her madames shop, her face is just so cute if they turned her into a cartoon character it would be a world wide hit, the sad part is she has bleached so much her skin and she is now developing skin patches since it appears she cannot afford to continue the skin bleaching the original skin color is coming back.
When I saw her I thought she was cute.... Should I tell her she is cute to boost her self esteem ? The problem is I'm 45 and she is like 22, if I pay her a compliment she can take it to mean I am interested in her.

Women need to find the strength to be their own hype women and always see themselves as beautiful..

One way of gaining self confidence is by giving others self confidence. What women who lack confidence can do is become the cheerleaders of other women by genuinely seeing the beauty in their female friends and paying them compliments , by doing so they are learning how to say things that help others feel better or more confident.

By always praising their female friends they learn to be positive and be encouraging
When they look in the mirror they can repeat what they have said several times to other women and praise themselves.

Don't wait for people to tell you you are beautiful, tell others they are beautiful and since you have learnt how to appreciate beauty will know how to appreciate your own beauty

All Women Are Beautiful

You Are Very Beautiful.

Should I tell the young woman she is beautiful ? Or should I keep it to myself.


In the past I used to get my younger sister to tell other women they were beautiful in her own name but my younger sister has Japa.

After six minutes, the person is dead. What I believe happened was the friends were searching for twenty minutes.

Congratulations for saving a life. At least Nairaland don lose engagement small since we may have read about the sad news during the daytime.

Teach as many people as you know CPR. You saved a life yesterday. Tomorrow, any of your students may save many more.

Guy, go and find work to do. Chasing women is a waste of time and resources.

CaveAdullam:
The moment you approached a woman, she automatically becomes the PRIZE. There's no second thought about this.

How you decide to play the game and turn the table to make you the man become the prize is a tedious work of seduction that should either be saved or channelled to a woman that first like you.

The thing is that women have a particular men they love. This is aside financial and physical status. Meet any mature woman today, and she will tell you she loves this particular man. She will not wait for that man to approach her, rather she will get closer to the man and send greenlights. Another man chasing this kind of woman is mere wasting his time.

The humiliation ritual you'll face when cold approaching and the later rejection affects you psychologically no matter how much you all try to form Brocks Lesnar. "Oh, her lose, not mine". Bro shut the Bleep up! It is actually your lose because you were the one that approached her, she never cared about your existence not until you decide to jump into her radar.

This is where manipulative women are able to play their script, because they know that it's the man doing the chasing and as a hunter he will try all means to get her down to satiate his ego and increase his notch counts, and in this same process, alter these men into simps.

Not entirely disproving cold approaching women. But the ROI is extremely low and poor. Your only advantage is if you've good aesthetics in looks and good financial standing. You must be constantly showcasing your status to draw women's attention and as well understand how seduction works. And in most cases you end up being a simp. Because you're trying to force a relationship to happen where there should be none in the first place.

This doesn't means you can't seduce a stranger into your bed, but that's possible if you're doing it on a mutual ground, that's after creating some form of rapport rather than just jumping into her front and starts giving lines. She will definitely see you as a 🤡.

Fun fact: every man also has one or two women vying for their attention. The problem is that men don't know how to pick signals from women and/or these women making sexual advances are not sexually appealing to the men.

It's a dilemma: the woman you lust over don't love you; the woman who loves you, you don't lust over.

The thing here is that, in the intersexual dynamics, the relationship moves easier when it's the woman that likes you first. She'll do everything to make the relationship work. That's what is termed Genuine desire.
Reverse cannot be the case because women want to give reverence and adulation for their men and end up being protected by these men.

Stop shooting aimlessly.

Look for the few women that have genuine desire for you and you'll enjoy the game of seduction and the interplay of love and romance.

This will enter front page because of his peers on Nairaland. See you soon.

Don’t feed trolls. He posted the thread before and got engagement. He’s baiting once again.

Prinzton:
The way you self acclaimed wannabes come up with nonsense marvels me.

How on earth will you put out such claims when you've never been involved in any R& nor understand physics.

The concept of the buds is a replica and miniaturised version of gaming headset that have their microphones extended to the mouth but in the case of buds, the lowest part mostly the system contains the microphones so as to easily pick sounds from your mouth same way wired hands free have their microphones located at almost your mouth's position

Nairaland is a pigsty.