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She fine Sha...but to me this is just attention seeking

Same people will still be raped by the same kanu one day... You won't believe what a desperate man can do to earn respect

hahn:
And does nothing

What an incompetent Arrow

am sorry.. Whoever did this to you should be hanged

hahn:
Your picture reminds me of your god as it watches women get raped daily

same as it watches you yarn rubbish everyday.. ..

To me it is for SOME not for ALL...

ominilongest:
padi na lie...dis 1 na RISE OF THE TITAN

yes her boobs never fall

hahn:
You mean Jesus is that useful? I didn't know o

I don't even know what to say to you

Am confused about right now... Which is the wife's name Toni or Payne?

If nnamdi kanu say 9ja nah zoo again now some go say nah lie

We don't Ave police but thiefs just like Evans....police worst

I love it....Am laughing

I still do it

There are many ways to break up with a girlfriend.

And none of them are easy, well, except for the coward’s way.

But rather than put up with a relationship that only causes you pain, sometimes it’s better to end it and move on.

If you’re indeed convinced that you can’t ever be happy in the relationship, or if you find yourself fantasizing about ways to end it, this may be for you.

Break ups are never easy to handle, be it a man or a woman.

It’s painful, heart breaking and worst of all, anyone who’s dumped by their partner is consumed by shame and depression.

If you still care about your girlfriend, look for ways to bring the love back into your lives.

But if everything you try fails, or if you only end up feeling more frustrated each time you try to hold the relationship together, brace yourself and end it.

– Ways To Break Up With Your Girlfriend Nicely –

There are different ways to break up with a girlfriend, some are easy and some ways are difficult.

But if you do want to know how to break up with your girlfriend gracefully without hurting her a lot, here’s the man way’s to end a relationship.

To break up with her like a man, you need to keep her feelings in mind and try to end the relationship in the nicest way possible. After all, chivalry does exist even in the middle of a break up.

1. Talk to her about the relationship

If you find that both of you are constantly arguing with each other over the smallest of things, there’s obviously something unresolved in the air.

If either of you can’t wait to pick a fight for no reason at all, or find yourselves getting annoyed with each other every now and then, perhaps, it’s time to have a frank conversation and understand the real reason behind all the animosity.

2. Don’t throw in an unexpected break up

If breakups are bad, unexpected breakups can just be horrible to bear. Never surprise your girlfriend with an unexpected break up, it can hurt a lot especially if she’s completely in the dark about the news and never expected it in the first place.

3. Ask for her opinion

If you’re trying to break up with your girlfriend, talk about it with her. When you’re having a conversation about your relationship after one of those big fights, ask for her opinion on the relationship.

Stay calm and ask her if she thinks it would be better if both of you were friends instead of lovers.

“I’ve been thinking about this… do you think we’re better off being friends? We’re working so hard on holding this relationship together, and still find ourselves in arguments all the time. Staying in love really shouldn’t be so difficult. I wonder where we’re going wrong…”

Throwing in an open ended question in a subtle manner can actually help your girlfriend understand where you’re going with the conversation. By talking about it with her instead of making a statement, you’re making her feel involved in the decision. It’ll be easier to handle. Mutual decisions are always easier to handle.

4. Is she ready to break up?

If she thinks the relationship is going nowhere too, then it’s all smooth and easy. And the best part, you’re not breaking her heart in one blow because it’s a mutual decision.

But if she isn’t ready to end the relationship and tells you that she wants to work on it, what do you intend to do? If you do care about your girlfriend, give the relationship a few weeks to see if things get better. Relationships always have a great way of healing themselves just when there’s no hope for love.

But if you want to break up with your girlfriend because you like someone else or just don’t see any reason in holding on, tell her the truth that you don’t see it working out.

Never lose your cool, and always speak in a calm and composed manner, even if your girlfriend gets angry with your decision.

5. Let her know of your special place

If even a few weeks of prolonging hasn’t helped your relationship, then speak about it again and ask your girlfriend what she thinks about the relationship. Tell her that you’re not very happy and think that perhaps, being friends is still the best way forward. Love is almost effortless, and never a chore. If you have to work a lot on trying to find happiness together, perhaps both of you are just incompatible.

Tell your girlfriend that you think being happy friends with each other would be a better alternative than lovers who end up hating each other. Let her know that you’ll cherish all the memories both of you have shared, and there will always be a special place for her in your heart. By letting her know that she’ll always be remembered fondly, she’ll find it easier to handle it, and it’s a lot better than a painful breakup with harsh words.

6. End it with finality

If you’re certain that you don’t intend to get back together, make it clear without being too harsh.

“I really do think we’ll find it a lot easier to be friends. We’ve been through this before. We break up and end up falling back in love all the time. But we’ve never been happy… and I don’t see how things can change anymore… I wish it could be different, but I don’t see that happening anymore.”

By ending it with an explanation, you’re letting her know clearly that you don’t want to continue the relationship anymore. Don’t ever give her hope. It’ll only create a complicated relationship which will only cause both of you more pain.

7. Be willing to be friends

Exes never make good friends. So once you do break up, it’s probably the end of the relationship. But leave the option to her. Let her know that you’ll always be there for her as a friend. Tell her that she could call you if she wants, but it would be better to avoid each other for a while until the wounds heal. Remind her that you love her too, but seeing that there’s no happy ending in sight, you see no option but to end the relationship before it becomes too painful to handle for either of you.

8. Tell her what’s on your mind

Be frank, but don’t be hurtful. Tell her you’ll always be there for her as a friend, as long she needs you. Don’t walk away on her after telling her how you feel about the relationship.

Walking away from a bitter or hurt new ex-girlfriend may seem like the right thing to do. But you have to remember that she may not be ready for the news. The thought of the sudden loneliness and the pain of having to hear about the break up may hurt her a lot. Stay with her until she feels better. If she accepts, be willing to even drive her back to her place. It’ll help her deal with the pain just knowing that you’re still willing to be there by her side, as a friend.

But if she walks away from you after the break up, let her go. Call her best friend if you must and tell her about it. Ask her friend to speak with your girlfriend and help her feel better.

9. Breaking up with your girlfriend like a man

You may ask yourself if it’s really necessary to follow all these steps. You could skip them if you want to. But as a real man who cares about a girl he once loved, it’s still his responsibility to help her get back on her feet, however much it may hurt him in the process.

Notorious kidnap kingpin, Chukwudubem Onwuamadike, aka, Evans, who was arrested last Saturday at his Magodo Estate mansion, Lagos, has, amidst tears, cried out that he is being humiliated beyond limits, noting that he preferred dying than to continue living in pains. The 36-year-old suspect, who is a native of Akamili in Umudim Quarters, Nnewi, Anambra State,

stephleena:
afonjas sabi do marriage?? nonesense

beware before you jump into Afonja and NCAN next time

xvideos and co

A retiree, Taofeek Giwa, on Friday prayed an Idi-Ogungun Customary Court, Agodi-Ibadan, to dissolve the seven-year-old marriage with Abiodun Omotayo, on the ground that the respondent beats him at will.

Giwa who recently retired from the Nigerian Prisons Service, on June 9, filed a suit, seeking dissolution of the marriage.

In his testimony, the petitioner said Omotayo had turned him to a punching bag and that she constantly beats him.

According to Giwa, the defendant always used the advantage of her huge stature to oppress and treat him as inferior to her.

“She beats me on any slight provocation, I dare not correct her mistake, in fact she is in the habit of tearing my cloth.

“My lord, the worst she did recently was that she poisoned my meal in an attempt to kill me and I am not ready to die now.

“I plead with the court to separate us to avoid untimely death so that I can take care of my children and enjoy the fruits of my labour.

“This is because I just retired from active service to my country and I want to enjoy the fruit of my labour.’’ Giwa said.

Omotayo in her defence, denied all the allegations, but told the court that the petitioner was the one who used to pursue her with machete.

She agreed with the divorce request, saying she was tired of living with the plaintiff because of his adulterous life.

She, however, prayed the court to grant him custody of the only child of the marriage for proper upbringing.

President of the court, Mukaila Balogun, dissolved the marriage and gave the custody of the only child to the respondent.

Balogun further ordered the plaintiff to pay N3, 000 monthly allowance to the defendant for the maintenance of the child.

He appealed to both parties to maintain peace and jointly take care of the only child of the marriage.(NAN)

Question= am I surprised Ans=no

The Police in Ogun State has arrested a 52-year-old man, Isiaka Obadairo for allegedly raping a 6-year-old girl.

The suspect was arrested after the mother of the little girl reported the matter at the Sango – Ota Divisional Headquarters.

The state Police Public Relations Officer, PPRO, Abimbola Oyeyemi, told newsmen that the victim’s mother, Mrs. Comfort Ajayi, said the incident happened while she was at work.

Oyeyemi further explained that the suspect, who resides in the same compound with the victim’s family, called the girl under the pretence of sending her on an errand, only to lure her into his room and raped her.

The PPRO said upon the report, the Divisional Police Officer, Sango-Ota, Ogunwale Akinsola, dispatched a team of detectives to the scene on Ijamodo Estate, Osi Roundabout, Ota, and arrested the culprit.

He said the victim had been taken to a hospital for treatment.

Oyeyemi said Obadairo had been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department, Abeokuta, for further investigation‎.

dominique:
It's been long since I saw the St. Louis brand in the markets. Its better it remains banned. The last time I used it, its quality had reduced. I had to put up to four cubes in a mug of tea before I could taste it. Is that one a sugar?
When we develop our local products, foreign companies will come to realize that Nigeria is no longer a dumping ground for their inferior products.

trash...

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this lie weak me

Was I expecting something else?
Ans=No

if people wanted you dead...you would have already been dead...nah you be first?

if I hear say the mortuary do any autopsy.. nah money and date of burial them dey wait for...awon werey

Thugnificent:
My maximum is 35 for now, Nairalanders how many press ups can you do?

what's your body kg?

seoxpert:
Yes oh, we the best music, Naija has got the best flavour right now. When last did you expressly go out of your way to get a foreign music CD plate in last 5 years?

For me, I cant remember, we have evolved

yes we have evolve with less lyrics and much noise.. congrats

KidsNEXTdoor:
And who will they handover to?
The youths are not ready
Is it ipobexposed ... Who cannot pass jamb
Or Omenka .. Who ran away from benue with his wheel barrow to Yoruba land
Who is ready to carry the mantle from class of 66

if you are not ready...Believe me capable youths are ready just that class of 66 and their forces won't allow it

smartty68:
Firstly;
1. Location
2. Choose your preferred network
3. Compare Data bundles prices
4. Data charge rates online

From my location;
MTN, Airtel & Etisalat are cool

Data stats;
MTN is way more cheaper online. #1,000 for 1.5GB data worth of data

Airtel is way too expensive online. #1,000 for 1.5GB worth of data

Etisalat is very expensive online. #1,000 for 1GB worth of data

I'm using MTN currently; I get double of my data everytime I subscribe

how do you do it?

emeijeh:
As if we care

and why did you read the post?

vedaxcool:
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Hatred has melted the cerebrum of this one.

he just nailed it