yemi16:
I courted her for about 1yr..before we got married 6months ago..
Meanwhile while courting, she had told me she left her former relationship because the guy she dated then was like the breadwinner to his family catering for all his siblings and she felt quite uncomfortable with it....

I didnt read much to it coz in my mind it happended to my favour and i already have a well to-do siblings...as at my courtship period though...

Shortly before we got married, my elder brother who also just had a baby lost his job....and i had to support him and his family on a need basis especially with their little cute baby boy growing but i noticed my my then fiancee didnt just like it at all....

After we got married....i got a great job with this good pay and was very comfortable....meanwhile my brother search for job was to no avail....and his wife was on maternity leave.

To cut long story short, each time my brother comes to me for help....and i send him money, my wife complains that i larvish my money on my brother...that he should go and get a job and not rely on me always...we would quarrel seriously for days/weeks before time eventually settles things...

Just last few days ago....we were relocating to a new area within town and i called my brother to pick up a few stuffs (electronics, household items) i know i wouldnt or i planned replacing with a new one......He came and picked them up as i had informed him....After he left, my wife let hell loose....she went completely mad and we had a big quareel...she even called my brother to return a few stuffs he took even when i already bought the replacements...

I am used to going back to her to apologize just to let peace reign ...but this time i have had it upto my neck..!!!!...
I dont intend apologizing one bit as i am sure i did her no wrong......

Now i am thinking deeply.....did i really overlooked the signs...?...did i really marry the wrong lady??....

Please i need your advise on how best to manage this...

Admin..pls help to update this on fp..i really need lots of advice at the moment.

Thanks.

your wife is not only greedy but she's insane. Am sorry about my words but I don't see any normal person behaving that way. I would never be with any lady that won't accommodate my family(extended) I nor go let any woman come in between me and my brothers oOh

freecocoa:
Hello ladies,say you met this great guy and started dating him,two weeks into the relationship you find out he knows your ex and was even on very good terms with him and work in the same company till you came into the picture.(They met after it ended with your ex)

Your ex realizes you are dating his new friend and automatically changes his attitude towards your boyfriend,being very hostile and stuff,on one of such occasions your ex threatens to deal with your boyfriend and assaults him in the process.(A push)

Now your boyfriend reports your ex to the cops for threatening his life and assault,he believes the change in attitude of your ex is due to the fact that you are with him(boyfriend),your ex is now in police custody.

You vowed never to talk to this ex again but the silent feud between them(ex & boyfriend) worries you because you fear it may get out of hand,meanwhile your ex is also in a relationship. You are begging your boyfriend to drop charges before its gets ugly but he says he wants to teach your ex a lesson.

Ladies please what would you do to salvage this situation?

Gentlemen why do you think the ex behaved the way he did? What do you advise her to do? Do you think its okay to let her boyfriend deal with ex?cos he sure can pull strings.

P:S You left this ex cos he was a cheat and it didn't end on a good note.

una ex too many sef, shuoo...

Guru9ja:
As most government owned universities begin this year with full resumption for the 2015/2016 academic session and some universities still crawling behind, we bring to you the Government owned University with the fastest academic calendar for the year 2016.

1. Kwara State University: Kwara state University (kwasu) still stand as the number one university with the fastest academic calendar. It was number one in 2015 and still remains number one still date. Her resumption for 2015/2016 (1st semester to be precise) started in August 2015 and presently they are in their 2nd semester which is ending in April 2016. April marks the end of 2015/2016 session for Kwara State University.

2. Nasarawa State University: The competition is becoming interesting as Nsuk came all the way from the 4th position in 2015 to be the 2rd government owned university with the fastest academic calender for 2016. Resumption for the 2015/2016 session kicked Off on the 5th of October 2015 and Nasarawa State University 1st semester examination is in progress.

3. Ekiti State University: It’s a big surprise as we see Ekiti State University in 3rd position. Eksu Resumption date for 2015/2016 was on the 19th of October and 1st semester examination is presently in progress.

4. University Of Ilorin: Unilorin was known as the 2nd University with a fast academic calendar in Nigeria in 2015. Unilorin’s 2015 slow admission exercise and lateness in releasing admission list as we believe might have hindered them from retaining the 2nd position. But unfortunately, Unilorin released both DE/UTME list and resumption date came a week after the release of the list which made them drop to the the 4th place. Resumption date was 28th of October and 1st semester exam is presently in progress.

5. Delta State University: Resumption was on the 9th of November and First semester examination is expected to begin on the 15th of February 2016.

6. Osun State University: Osun State University also dropped from 3rd to 6th due to many reasons known to the University management. The university 1st semester examination is expected to begin on 22nd of February 2016.

7. University of Nigeria: UNN Resumption for the 2015/2016 session was on the 7th of November. 1st semester examination is expected to begin on the 22nd of February 2016.

8. Federal University of Technology Akure : FUTA resumption date for the 2015/2016 session started on the 24th of November November . First semester examination is expected to begin on the 29th of February 2016.

9. Federal University Oye-Ekiti: FUOYE took up the 9th position as one of the University with a fast academic calendar. Its resumption date for the 2015/2016 was on the 23rd of November and First semester examination is expected to begin on the 14th of March 2016.

10. Nnamdi Azikwe University: UNIZIK took up the 10th position as her resumption date for 2015/2016 started on the 23rd of November 2015 and First semester examination is expected to begin on the 1st of March 2016

Source: http://www.guru9ja.com/2016/02/ten-10-university-with-fastest-academic.html

I know say DELSU must dey the list...

johnydon22:
A wise man once said ..

"I waka many village and we are in Africa..
Pastors house na im deh fine pass, while my people them deh stay for poor surroundings.

Pastors dress na im deh clean pass, e hard for my people for them to buy soap.

Pastors na him dem respect pass, but them go deh do bad bad bad bad bad bad things.

Through Jesus Christ our lord amen amen amen and **speaking in tongues**"

Fela Kuti never minced words when saying the truth..

Fela Kuti, a wise man indeed

sameer1212:
Keep quiet there. What do you know? Where have you been? The bitter truth is,Nigeria has a bad image in many western countries.

why are you so quick to criticise someone? All the guy said was that his family(himself included) are not criminals. Abi you be one??

EHMIR:
Jesus is not God,neither is he son of God,he is a slave of God,a miraculous being,shekena

FOOL!!! Please do yourself good, read John 3:16

ShakurM:
Rape me keh...I fvcked her brains out for 11 seconds

"I f*cked her brains out for 11 seconds" you got that line from Wolf Of Wall Street

Kastonkastroll:
what's wrong with this man? Is he the only senator that knows how to twitt in NA?

Buhari won't congratulate that thuggish governor, case closed..

Why you being mad?? The senator just dey yan he mind

benedictnsi:
[size=14pt] Hahaha Hahaha Hahaha Hahaha......


Buh bros eeh.... People de weh still d win, na greed na im worry you...

Just go work hard..... For your mind you been wan use 200 NAIRA get $2.1 billion (dollars). My brother, you no be Dasuki [/size]


anyway, thank God you came back to your senses

bro, the guy sense never come back fully oOh cos he still dey ask weda make him forget all the money wey he loose... he mind never dey made up

doyinisaac:
When did he turn to don jazzy's mouthpiece??Who is he??the only thing that made him famous is just because he is tiwa Savage's husband....aside from that ,what else do Nigerians know him for??

what do we(Nigerians) know you for?

jayriginal:


Aren't you worried about sinning?

to some extent, I am... but getting a tattoo, am not...

udmbat:
I sometimes imagine what advice a tattooed man/woman would give his/her grandchild when they grow old. Pathetic.

Hypocrites everywhere. What makes you think that someone with a tattoo is bad?? Or what makes you think you're better than someone with a tattoo? Huh??

jayriginal:
OP why would anyone need a revelation for something that is clearly stated in the Bible?

The Bible frowns against tattoos.

Meanwhile I'm trying to reconcile your signature with your ability to receive revelations (or even report them).

I have a tattoo & I don't mind committing such sin again...

donholy28:
It seems most people can't think for themselves these days.

bro, I tire oh. Any small ish, dem don create topic for Nairaland...

tobbie247:


you sure say you go fit buy the credit for that kind call?

bro, I go buy phone wey worth pass 400k, no need to buy airtime again oh, to call must be free oh. Besides, every good thing in life is free, even talking to God

tobbie247:


Right now, it can only flash God. Their upcoming version will be able to call properly

hehehehe, guy u nor well, be like say na dat version I go buy cos I gat talk wit God...

donfreshest6:
Please do not spoil this fun, Let see who your celebrity crush is

My own crush is Nadia Buar
She is always looking good, Always tempting.. Mehn I love the lady no be small..

Nicki Minaj

Decker:
It's a two way thing.

It's easier for a man to have an orgasm when he engages in sexual intercourse. Men always erupt their seminal fluid during or at the end of every sexual encounter, and the bulk of the sexual gratification they derive from sex, is contained in the eruption of this seminal fluid. That's their orgasm. And it happens all the time.

But with women, they don't always have an orgasm. But when they do, I personally think the pleasure they derive, exceeds that of guys, and not just that, they also could have multiple orgasms during one sexual intercourse.

So, for me, on the average, men tend to enjoy sex more due to the fact that they always get what they want, but when ladies do get what they want, the pleasure derived from the sex, outweighs that of a guy.

Prof, see as ur explanations make sense... you na badt guy

OlufemiOAP:
But its like she loves me too .Cos there was a day we had a fight and I ignored her for just two days..she had to beg her friend to talk to me ..when she couldnt contain it again..

and you think that's love? My friend leave her alone, she's still in love with her ex. Don't tryna push her into loving you

zico530:
Waiting for the final result. I see PDP burying APC in Bayelsa State.

Simple as that bro...

drdrei09:
Pray dat the phone spoils

or maybe get stolen... hehehe

ULSHERLAN:


You will do the same when your brother is robbed of what rightly belongs to him.

There is no small boy in this

Rightly belongs to what? Is Lil Kesh's name written on the award?? Abi na him private property?

irunooboo:
All of the mavin artist combined can never dethrone Or outshine Olamide. That boy is just too hot for don jazzy to mess with. They are both Don in their respective hoods. Olamide is just like psquare. Any song he drops will turn hit instantly. I blame dbanj and the mohits crew for giving don jazzy the undeserved don status he now enjoys. If not for the famous " it's don jazzy again" line dropped in every song then, he would have remained a normal producer like others and his hype won't be this high. He was wrong to mention Olamide even if Olamide acted like a kid. Olamide is a talented super star unlike Dbanj who relied on good beats from don jazzy to make hit songs. Olamide is the rave of the moment and not even don jazzy can mess with him nor ruin his career. Up badoo

mumu, abeg get sense, na new year be this.

kestolove95:
may Allah forgiv u

Amen, and you also...

kestolove95:


http://dailypost.ng/2016/01/01/there-are-plans-to-assassinate-president-buhari-fr-mbaka/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

the controversial Rev Mbaka, I nor go dey surprise if I hear say he don turn Iman... foolish man wey dey claim servant of God

lifeisabitch:
Toasters every where, some are talking marriage just that they are way beneath my level. I have my own target

Why do people still say husbands are scarce?

Boyfriends full the street but husbands scarce for the street...

Otenestbestyaho:
If prophesies coming from the spiritual leader of the Omega Fire Ministries are anything to go by, then the Nigerian political class is in for many tragedies in 2016.
According to the President of  Omega Fire Ministries, Apostle Johnson Suleiman, who spoke in a statement signed by his media adviser, Mr Phrank Shaibu, said the nation will witness many heart rending political developments this year.
The cleric said a sitting governor of one of the 36 states of the federation will not see the end of the new  year, declaring that, “we have to pray, if not a governor of one of the 36 states may not see the end of 2016, ” in a prediction which is one of his 30 Shocking Predictions for the Year 2016.

He also predicted that scores of President Muhammadu Buhari’s ministers may be absent from cabinet meetings for a good part of the year for health related issues.
According to him: “ I don’t see some Ministers in President Buhari’s Cabinet in office in 2016. They will be abroad for medicals”.
Apostle Suleman also warned the United States of America against possible terrorist attacks in the cities of Washington and New York.
He also predicted the possibility of an epic political upheaval in the United States, the outcome of which may be unimaginable. He said President Barack Obama may seek a third term in office, a move which will throw up  issues relating to marital laws.
Apostle Suleman also said the United States may go to war with Russia in in 2016

 Some of Apostle Suleiman’s predictions below:

 1. If Americans don’t pray, there will be no election in 2016 as Obama wants a THIRD TERM. He will throw up  issues relating  marital laws.

2. I see a Governor in Nigeria dying.

3. I don’t see some Ministers in President Buhari’s cabinet in office in 2016. They will be abroad for medicals.

4. I see another World War (Russia Vs America)

5. Washington and NewYork should pray against terrorist attacks in 2016

6. Boko Haram has devised new strategies. They will come to public places screaming for help and when people gathers to assist,they blow off the bomb.

7. I see Warri, Delta state being bombed.
Apostle Suleiman who is reputed for predicting the death of Prince Abubakar Audu, the All Progressives Congress governorship aspirant in Kogi state.


In an interview with a national newspaper last month, Apostle Suleiman said the President Muhammadu Buhari-led administration will fight Christians.



https://www.naij.com/683181-governor-will-die-2016-warri-will-bombed-popular-prophet-predicts.html

All these fake a** prophets & their guess work, I don't believe any of these Pastors/Prophets

slimzypink:
is Audu dead?? i thought they had election dis weekend

you dey live in the past

cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

you don't have to sleep with her or act rude towards her. Just tell her politely that she's not your type. No big deal...

bastien:
A good friend of mine will be spending another year at home because of federal university otuoke (fuotuoke). She scored 238 in jamb and 307 in pume yet they didn't consider her for admission, some one that scored 182 in jamb and 172 in pume was given admission on merit list..... Abi to score high na crime again?


Is there any way she can sue the school? Or any ministry responsible for such case?

She is dying, heart broken..... She needs your help guys.

Thanks

make she take heart... sometime ago, a friend of mine scored 386 in UNN(Nsukka) but he was not offered admission, my guy, you needed to have seen the list. Some guys scored 400. That my friend is in Delta State University, Abraka right now. Your own friend time go come soon, make she just chill...

Flashh:
I'm not in support of some casual people catching thieves and at that moment taking decisions by themselves.

They can just take him to the nearest police station and let the government do the justice. Killing people by the roadside is awful.

Governments needs to take stiffer legislation on this.

who be dis guy wey dey speak English for here? Robbers don deal with you before?? Na barbecue we dey barbecue dem here for Warri

ebukaddon:
top 20 songs
1. CDQ Ft. Olamide – Woss Wobi (Freestyle)
2. Dr. SID – Kabiyesi
3. Patoranking – Make Am
4. Tekno – Duro
5. Harrysong Ft. Kcee, Olamide, Iyanya & Orezi
– Reggae Blues
6. Qdot – Alhaji
7. Lil Kesh Ft. Viktoh – Efejoku
8. YCEE – Jagaban
9. Skales – Lo Le
10. Runtown Ft. Wizkid – Bend Down Pause
11. DJ Xclusive Ft. Davido – Wole
12. Oriste femi Ft. Harry song – Sukus
13. L.A.X – Morenike
14. Olamide – Lagos boys
15. Pepenazi Ft. Olamide – Illegal
16. Reekado Banks – Corner
17. Falz Ft. Reekado Banks – Celebrity
Girlfriend
18. Bamiji – Keu Keuu
19. Ola Dips – Body Body
20. Timaya – Some More
Enjoy!!

Nah... I don't listen to Nigerian sh*t except for Fela