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First things first.

Your parents and brother need to know that they might have a grandson and son out there.

Then a DNA test needs to be arranged to confirm whether the child is your brother’s or not. If it turns out that he is, then your family - especially your brother has to do right by his son.

He should then lay his cards on the table and be forthrightly honest by mentioning this to his bride and let her decide whether or not she still wants to marry him. It’s only fair that she knows now because something like this can’t be hidden forever. The truth will eventually come out.

Place yourself in his fiancée’s shoes. Wouldn’t you want to know about something like this prior to tying the knot NOW rather than later?

Ishilove:
Bb is married to someone else. A Nlander known to everyone.

Ishi, Ishi, Ishi

Long time. D’you still flex your literary muscles??

Miss those days ...

Jarus:
Someone should summarize the circumstances that made osisi quit too abeg

She left on her own accord and not because of any scandal. She even created a thread to tell everyone that she’ll be leaving. A sort of question and answer session which she let run for about a week before she deactivated.

One of the reasons she cited was that nland was becoming too addictive and wasn’t adding any value to her life.

I miss her, debrief, and Jennykadry like crazy

KanwuliaExtra:
Until she lost her marbles on the end and started acting like one possessed.

That was tpia abeg. With a thousand and one handles and counting...

Abeg I dey go watch Netflix. Una goodnight oh

baby124:
I was always afraid to quote or respond to her because sometimes I am just tired and just one to post one meaningless comment and the response will be like thesis that I cannot comprehend . So I just maintain my lane around her abeg.

Lolzzz!!!

You mean it’s kind of like don’t start what you can’t finish eh? Eg picking up a fight with KanwuliaExtra ... one’ll need training in PAIN ENDURANCE

baby124:
For me it’s just Chaircover...Osisi had one scandal too, i think after that she disappeared into thin air too. Kobojunkie could write epistle for Nigeria.

Lol @ epistle for Nigeria. I never quite figured her out though. Methinks she was a complicated character though

KanwuliaExtra:
You can only stick to a subject matter for so long.

Unless Siena or Esther visits this thread, nothing more to discuss. We have reached the zenith of this discussion.

We are just going down memory lane.
Sweeeeeet memories of 2006-2010.

No better after 2010 except the FALL OF COUGAR!

My sister, re:Sienna...let’s just say there are two sides to every story jor.

Anyway how’s work? Bank holiday weekend coming up for us here

baby124:
Abi how else can we explain the thread that they said was posted with people being threatened and then deactivating their accounts.

Not really.

I think some deactivated for personal/health reasons.

Anyway, speaking of oldies, I do miss Babyosisi, Debrief, Jenny, etc

Kobojunkie had interesting posts too

ifyalways:
Y'ello. Migwo sister

Nne nothing do you. Make una carry on oh.

I remember this thread.

Been a long while. I think I need to bookmark this page.

Well done @op. Pls post more pictures of your travels

Chronic derailers everywhere. Chief culprits:

Ifyalways
Ujujoan2
KanwuliaExtra
Baby124
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Howdy ladies

Mindfulness:
PLEASE, there were no Ferraris in this game. The game had no class whatsoever.
Drops mic. Exits thread forever.

You’re terrible

Mindfulness:
@bold
True! Very true!

But it is still risky to expose people online. I just wanted to say it. No need for her to get herself into more trouble.

@op should be sued for libel, defamation of character and consequent loss of business.

Rather than hide behind a fake moniker.

sassyangel1:
If u can't decipher and see how ur posts gat no conscience, then, I just feel so sorry for you.

Nothing substantial from you.

Next.

IAmMercedes:
EfemenaXY, shut the f*ck up already!

Siena was jobless for over 3 years. In those years, his wife was supporting the family with her makeup business. He never even helped out around the house. How do I know? SHE TOLD ME!

Siena even confirmed it.

We were on the phone once and I heard his first daughter say "dad, Sachi got stung by a bee". Know what Almighty Siena said? "Can't you see I'm on the phone? What do you want me to do about it?" I snapped at him to get off the phone, attend to her, then call me back.

Gosh, I wish I still had our chat history. Nigga's full of sh*t though.

I pity this new lady. Hope she doesn't fall for his scam.

There are so many evidences against him right here, and some narrowminded mor*ns can't see beyond their noses.

Tsk!

How do you as an ex side chick sleep well at night knowing you helped ruin a sister’s marriage?

Did you spare a thought for his kids back then?

And why are you still interested in Sienna’s business?

sassyangel1:
Like seriously?! If u r a mother and you are spewing this, I really pity your daughter in laws to be. Imagine Esther to be your sister or daughter, is this what you will be telling her? Even if I'm a woman, I fear women, tufiakwa!!!

What’s wrong with my post?

Kindly point out what irks you - assuming you have the intellectual capability to do so.

naijagypsy:
drop dead siena...

So now you want him dead. The father of your children. Yes?

You do know such women are called witches, yes?

keepingmum:
Really? Are you dickmatized or are you sienna or are you a Buhari? Alot of us know the ins of our friends and relatives marriages as they share some of their challenges with us so ur question madam is invalid.
Finally, spreading stories doesnt make u a home wrecker.
Mr sienna wrecked his home with his actions over 5years ago when he started his love affair with mercedes.....atleast thats when i became aware of his philandering cos he actually kicked his wife out of the home they lived at the time.

So says the woman who saw nothing wrong with the Nigerian lady who came over here to birth quadruplets like a rabbit and ran off without paying for her healthcare.

I know your type. You see nothing wrong with your fellow women out to fleece a system.

Anyway, the bottom line is this: No one likes leeches. Based on the comments on this thread, it was a symbiotic relationship gone bad. I do not support unbiased victim mentality. Most of what has been posted on here is based on hearsay from a lot of questionable characters hiding behind a plethora of fake monikers.

The man isn’t interested. Na by force? She came over to obodo oyinbo to find out that life over here isn’t a walk in the park.

Her husband’s business folded up (insolvency) and I haven’t read a single comment on here to say what she did to support him. He probably found the financial demands too stressful and decided to leave to keep his sanity intact. Who knows.

Bottom line is she needs to get her act together instead of idly creating vengeful posts on every available blog and forum.

Childish stuff.

naijagypsy:
Efemena.. you are really messed up. I am sorry for you .. your path will even be worse

Now don’t get all emotional on me.

Your thread is messed up.

@RoyalRoy & Seun: pls erase all the posts on here and lock the thread.

Rules 8 and 10 have been broken.

naijagypsy:
To those of you saying I should not have posted this.. I understand but you know what by posting this.. the truth came out.

You may want to insult me or say I am trying to destroy a marriage and I understand. You don't know me personally. So that's ok.

However most of you claiming all these accounts are faked. You can see there is a clear picture of him kneeling down to propose and I have an email showing how he travelled when he dumped the kids.. he lied he was going to Uganda for a project.

So please spare me! She is Ugandan and I have contacted the people I know to advise her of this foolish man who is an irresponsible Arrow. It's up to her to marry him... That's not my problem

But for the ones that worship sienna and think he can do no wrong I feel really concerned for you. Those of you asking to get the post down .. keep asking. Siena is going on alot of Nigerian blogs soon so it's not a problem for me at all . If the mods want to take it down then they should. Whoever posted the new evidence of his marriage I want to say THANK YOU so much ..

And yes I know the system and yes many of you said I should go to social services but it's not as direct as you seem. The legal matters are in progress.. but this man keeps going with lies.. he actually tells everyone he was abandoned...

Till date he hasn't sent a penny or spoken to his kids. So how is that a responsible human being. Sienna I know you will read this.. you are a foolish man.. you are shameless and you are a disgrace. You know who I am.. why don't you come on here and call me out if you have the nerve.. you are capitalising on people doubting that the story is true...

All the debts the lies.. the insurance fraud where you lie your car was stolen and you take the money will come out today

Okay, now this really begs the question:

How come you know all this? And more importantly, how is any of this your business?

Only a home wrecker would create such a thread and post all this.

If on the other hand you’re the wife in question (which I suspect you are), then why hide your identity?? How can you or your claims be taken seriously if you’re hiding under a fake moniker?

I get you feel hard done by, with him not “supporting his kids” as you claim, but even then you’re taking the pîss here aren’t you?

Your husband runs a business which is based on customer confidence. If you go about tarnishing his name and business online just to score cheap points, where do you expect him to get the money from to support your monetary demands on him??

It’s obvious he’s moved on and you haven’t, hence your chasing all the women he’s interested in forming a relationship with. How is the Ugandan fiancée any of your business?? There are millions of women out there in the world. Are you going to chase them off too??

You need to get your priorities right. Focus on legalising your stay if you can’t handle hustling in Nigeria. Then go train up and get yourself a decent job to support yourself and your kids, rather than wait hand and foot for a man to do it for you.

wonlasewonimi:
Not in this life... With 3 British kids? I have seen so many cases that it is the new normal.

BTW the sienna you are rooting for must have seen this thread and he sure knows how to defend himself. So, something is not right.

British only as per their dad.

Is Mr Sienna’s name on their birth certificate? If yes, has she applied for their passports?

If not, why not?

Chubhie:
I'm not here on a question and answer sessions with you.

My one cent to you is to self examine and reposture yourself properly. don't be an obstruction to truth.

Our people say that as goat take posture, na him dem dey take price am.

No substance. I knew it.

Next!

Dyt:
Go ahead
Do it on his behalf

Is this same man promising you marriage in Greece?

I remember you came on this thread and that gofund page disappeared

Dyt.

Go away.

wonlasewonimi:
I can bet you if she reports herself, they will provide accommodation and feeding for her despite the fact that she doesn't have papers. They just don't take kids away like that here... Are you in the UK?

She will be deported.

She knows it

Her husband knows it

The Conservatives are on a warpath to bring illegal immigrantion numbers down.

She’s just a statistic.

Chubhie:
Do running out like a headless chicken calling the mods to delete this thread posture as someone ready for truth?

It seems there's something you're not saying.

Answer the questions.

wonlasewonimi:
You want her to take 3kids born in the UK to live in shithole... That's shyte talk sister.. If she gets a good solicitor, she will get get her papers before year end. At worst, she will wait till her eldest is 10..abd she will get regularised.

If she can’t feed herself and kids, can’t get government support, hasn’t unskilled her self in the last 10 years to get a half decent job to sustain herself and kids, how will they survive?

Will you continue sending her donations for how long?

What do you think will happen if social services gets involved??

And you think it’s better for her to risk losing her kids to foster care than go back to Nigeria?

She’s lucky Mr Sienna hasn’t reported her yet for illegally living in the UK

Dyt:
Madam
Go and sleep
Go Take care of your imaginary family

#Ignored#

oyetpel:
Seems you know the woman well, can you tell us some of the things she did to wrong the man.

Now you’re thinking! No one knows what really happened between the man and his wife.

So rather than than make assumptions and pass judgement based on the testimony of a few questionable characters, the right thing to do is not get involved and let the couple settle their differences without outside interference.