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sassysure:
Hi babe
How are u and family?

Longest time


I'm actually permanently in your hood for sometime now
D cold is hitting me left, right and centre
Aside that, all is well.

I don't know/recall/remember/recognise this username.

But we're all fine, thanks...

armyofone:
Merry Christmas / Happy Holiday to you KanwuliaExtra, Jenny, Sagamite, EfemenaXY, Ifyalways and everyone!

Season's greetings to you too love!

And to KanwuliaExtra, Jenny, Sagamite (my run-away-husband), IfyAlways, Mindfulness, and BabeOsisis too


Love you guys!

Sagamite:
GBAM!

I dey kampe.

A shame I missed this thread sha.

https://www.nairaland.com/4474379/siena-gbudje-exposed..ladies-careful-members/15#67265985

I got shitloads of mentions there that I had nice responses to.

Who locked the thread?

@ujuJoan2 @ifyalways @sassysure @dyt @Gboliwe @Jarus @JoannaSedley @armyofone

That’s because you’ve got a life outside Nland.

Howdy? Long time

oweniwe:
One wife lepa... One is orobo

EfemenaXY, ahnie.... come and see your village people o

Lol! Your people too

mgtow:
If you truly sent this to your father then I'm not sorry to say you are very stupìd. Are you aware that you threatened to kill him from all that you sent? At 28 years of age you are still blaming him for your woes. Why didn't you finish school? Did you drop out or not, yes or no?

Even if he is the worst father in the world (which he is not), he deserves some respect and more importantly, he has his own life to leave.

Idiot!

Not much point in trying to reason with a thug.

If @op really is the 28 year old son in question, it’s amazing he didn’t feel a shred of embarrassment posting that trash.

Isoko Wadoo oh!

Unfortunately I can’t find even one Isoko movie online.

This is so depressing for those of us in diaspora.

Osila2:
what's your opinion?

I see an unbelievably shameless, over dependant leech who believes that at the ripe old age of 28, his father owes him.

Fōōlish son.

Mindfulness:
I am good darling. I am healthy and have peace of mind. What more would a girl want?
What about you babes?

Same here too love.

Just had a little over a week off. Very relaxing

Missed you though.

Mindfulness:

Been a long while.

Howdy?

Anthonystark:

Thunder go fire anybody wey like dis post

Lol! Don’t mind them jor

Wicked people everywhere

@op: no one’s liked my post so I win.

Pls send the cheque in the post. Thank you.

cococandy:
Simple breakfast. Oatmeal, hard boiled egg and blueberries . I tire to cook these days.

I need a chef. Can you guys contribute money and hire one for me? Bless your kind hearts

Lol @ chef! Funny you

Alvin007:
Ask no more...Alex Zitto

Yes!

Alvin007:
Turntables...I inherited an amplifier, a turntable player, tuner,(all SONY) and some huge Kenwood speakers...from my dad.
He claimed to have been a ‘dj’ during his high school days. Rest In Peace Dad.

Cc egunmogaji
Sir, I’m sure you still have these plates.

About this time were the early 80’s VHS JVC video cassette recorders. Remembering how much we recorded latest hit movies on those like BreakDance....The 007 James Bond series like Live and Let Die, GoldFinger, etc

sonnie10:
Jide obi, Bright Chimezie, Alex O, Oriz Wiliki, Prince Nico, Mandators, Victor Uwaifo,

Ah yes, the Mandators! Victor and his lovely wife Peggy (RIP)

What’s the name of the guy who sang “Baby Walakolmbo”?

# Baby Walakolombo, baby walakolombo...
You come wahla my day, and you tell me say you love me...
You come wahla my life, and you tell me say you need me...
You come chop my money...
How can I catch, catch you?
Your mama’s gonna catch, catch you...

Lol! I don old

cococandy:
I know for a fact that some guys when they don’t get the sex they expected, they get very mean and evil. I completely under her fear of him saying lies to hurt her.

Really, what’s surprising about expecting lies from a guy who insists on getting sex as his payment from a married women. I would bet he’d totally lie like crazy so please y’all cut the judgment.

Sounds like he’s got a terrible crush on her.

Would be interesting to read his side of the story though.

UKmigrant:
Some things are beginning to come to light to me in my few months of being here. As a Nigerian, most people (other immigrants) think they are better than you. Ghanaians, Zimbabweans, Asians all think they are better than you. You only need to have deep interaction with people around for you to know how condescending they could be. Some Nigerians who were born here or who have been here longer also sort of think they are better people, you are even more likely to have problems with these ones than other immigrants. This thing weak me o

Depends on where you work, the sort of people you work with, and how you present yourself to them.

One thing I know for sure is that in the highly professional work place, respect is earned. You get it even more if you demonstrate (without an attitude) that you know your stuff and are willing to help out.

Been here for just over 20 years and with time you learn a lot....through making your own mistakes, observing what happens around you, etc. But that’s life isn’t it?

How’s your savings plan coming along? And how’ve you found the heatwave over the last few weeks?

els0nm0rali:
Bloggers and lies.

I'm ready to bet that that man in the pic never married a woman from Mombasa which I believe is in Kenya.

Thank you.

Idle wife. Idle blogger.

@op: kindly clarify - are you male?

Is this about gay love?

How is this thread relevant to the family section?

@op: why not try the Sports Section?

IFNOTGOD:
thank you sir, now go to the bank and deposit the English to increase ur account balance.

since u cant comprehend den let her be or were u forced to comment?

who ur grammar help?

abi grammar dey increase account balance?

if u no know wetyn to talk guy lock up n hide ur face

This is a public forum and I comment wherever I deem fit, thank you.

If the @op really needs help, the least she can do is put some effort into her write up.

And yes, the grammar is bad. Just when I thought it couldn’t get any worse, you come along with an even more atrocious write up!

Seriously, what is it with Nigerian youths like you defending the indefensible?? Don’t you feel embarrassed?

This is unforgivably disgraceful!

IFNOTGOD:
TALK UR OWN WHEN MAKE SENSE,

IF U CANT OFFER D ADVISE DAT WONT COST U DONT INSULT HER COS IT MAY COST HER

Where’s the insult?

It’s a statement of fact! The @op’s writeup is incomprehensible - and yours is just as bad.

Another fake story.

#Yawns#

Long, tiresome, and incomprehensible write up that makes little sense.

1StopRudeness:
You hit first, a woman for that matter...oga u don buy job oooo....

Swallow ur pride, go apologize on time and let it go. Fix ur car.

If they sue ur asss, u won't like the outcome ooo, the grammar they will use to qualify ur 10count crime will turn ur stomach...
assualt, battery, the woman can decide to add sexual harassment if she get ur time and there's no witness.

if the slap leave a physical mark on a face, ur matter don worse they will add inflicting body injury the fine u will pay go increase
They will now dig doctor report and say she has head trauma..and psycoligical damage...

If devil wan carry ur matter for head finally...make she she go dey pregnant...haaaa... One chance

Sounds like you’ve been there too

@op: stop whinging and accept what’s coming your way like a real man.

Rapmoney:
After traveling for a very long time, I paid my dad a visit recently and was surprised to still find these old records in his room. These stuffs really took me down memory lane.

Still remember back then in the late 70's and early 80's when we used to attend birthday parties as kids and to know that the songs we danced to actually came from these old records played from old stereo players.

I remember Oriental Brothers of Africa, Johnny Nash, Bongos Ikwe, I-Roy and U-Roy from Jamaica, Edna Evi Ogoli, The New Edition (can't forget 'Candy Girl' and 'Cool It Down'), The Mandators, Isaac Black and many more. Memories!!!

Abeg, anybody wen fit connect, fit connect

Felix liberty (Ifeoma), Onyeka Onwenu (African Woman, One Love), Majek Fashek (Send Down The Rain), Mike Okri (Omoge, Rhumba Dance), Sonny Okosun (African soldiers, Papa’s Land), etc

Yes, those were the good old days...

troublemakea:
what hv I said wrong now.... what if I'm just appreciating the finger

anyway happy Sunday God bless you

Too funny

Rapmoney:
RoyalRoy, were you born at this time?

He was. He’s a lot older than he looks

BarryX:
Grammar structure?? That is a bit of some serious studies right there ! Don't know if i know all those things well enough but i can help with the little knowledge at my disposal .

Please send mail to baronyconsult@gmail.com,
I cant seem to access this monikers email

It sure does.

I read somewhere that with proper linguistics investigation, a lot of history can be unearthed about a people’s tribe, migration, etc

Now this is something I definitely would be interested in

@ BabyfaceAfrica: do keep us updated on your research findings

@op.

Gambling is addictive and once you’ve formed the habit, like any addiction, is hard to break.

You obviously need counselling but can you even afford such services?

I think you’ve reached the stage where you do need some had knocks (not literally). You gamble the way you do because it’s not your money. It’s always been handed over to you on a plate.

Until you sweat (and I mean really sweat) and toil for every Kobo that comes your way, you’ll never appreciate the value of money.

You mentioned your mates have long graduated from university. So you must be 24 / 25 years old or more. You’re no longer a child but an adult, so you need to start taking some responsibility for yourself. Start by moving out of the family home. Look for your own place e.g. a face-me-I-face-you sort of accommodation. Forget about uni and go get yourself a job - and before you say there aren’t any jobs out there, there are. You can work as a labourer on building sites, be a market wheelbarrow pusher, be a pit latrine toilet cleaner, etc.

The point is you need hard grafting work where you scratch very hard for every Kobo to keep a roof over your head and food in your belly. You need to hit rock bottom in order to rise up.

Right now your family and friends are fuelling your addiction by providing your basic needs (food, clothing, shelter). You haven’t suffered. Not really.

As long as they keep giving you money, it’s all easy-come-easy-go for you.

Marriage.

It can be as beautiful or as hellish as one wants it to be. Either way, it’s hard work.

Having said that, it’s lovely seeing couples who’ve stayed the course and are still going strong despite the challenges. A real source of inspiration.

20 years and counting here

darol4real:
Is it adviceable to do DNA for your children to be sure you're their biological father since our women are hunting badly these days?

What are your women “hunting badly”?

@op nice write up especially for those intending to wed / new starters. Not many newly weds knew these in my time.

I don’t agree with your 2^nd point though because there are situations where the woman earns way more than the man e.g 90% more.

Does this mean that in order for the man to be a real man, he must spend 70-80% of his meagre pay footing the bills? I don’t think so.

KanwuliaExtra:
I don come back sef. . . go again.
I did not refuse o.
E easy to be 'feminist' wey fit pay 'groom's price'?

Haha!

Good girl