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ifyalways:
Godspower , where are you?
Three ladies are currently flashing teeth, showing Pata and sending you strong signals, please why are you not connected already?

Just pick one of 'em. Nld elders will handle delivery.


EfemenaXY, hi babes

Lol Ify. Allegation DENIED. I-yam-not-looking oh!

Kedu?

Just catching my fun this fine Sunday afternoon...

LuckyLadolce:
I'm sorry, with what I can deduce from your write ups, you simply can't be a good judge because your ability to comprehend simple explanation is at its lowest. It's very possible for you to give your opinion or criticism without being abusive or throwing any insult. That one seeks for opinion doesn't reduce the person to an object of ridicule and unwarranted insults. People with good sense of judgement won't take side, they will simply advice and wish the opinion seeker the best. In your mind, you're an activist. Yeye dey smell.

Pls don’t get sentimental on me. I can’t handle emotional men.

Re: your comments - my responses have got nothing to do with insults but telling it like it is.

Maybe YOU should take your own advice by dropping your opinion to your brother and MOVING ON.

Your interference is wrecking your brother’s union. The wife has resorted to physical blows and name shaming. And yet you see nothing wrong with your meddling??

justwise:
Investing in Nigeria by proxy is always a problem because of trust issues.

Investing here is a good idea if you see the opportunity.

Keeping money in savings account here is waste of money as interest is close to nothing.

Stocks and shares.

Buy low sell high. You only lose if you sell low.

PhilipGallagher:
How will the person prove it. The husband would not believe sef, cause even him has confirmed that she was a V

What if she’s got a birthmark at an intimate spot?

Say under her bòòbs or between her bùtt cheeks?

sisisioge:
Ose...you got it! Mrs Godspower Jacobus

Behave

sisisioge:
Alright, you didn't follow at all...let me explain.

I gave him a quick tip on how to quickly attract a girl. The first thing that jumped out to me was his name. The name is ehmm , only a certain demographical strata name their kids such names. Hmmm, I'm sorry I might sound vain but I wouldn't want to date a godspower. The name reminds me of people who saddle their children with silly names and adults who aren't insightful enough to understand the power of names. Why won't you stop at Paul, why add lyus? Why won't you stop at Donald, why add "us". Why not stop at Clement...why the suffix "us"? So you see, godspower reminds me of those name . I'm so sorry...will this OP forgive me like this ?

Sheet, you just put me in trouble o

Okay...

So what’s wrong with Paulinus. Donatus. And Clementus??

#trying hard not to laugh!#

Ishilove:
It's an igbotic corruption of Paul, a Hebrew name

I still don’t get it

LuckyLadolce:
Yes IT IS, it is called family bond and love! If you have brother who's having trouble in his marriage, I advise you not to ignore and say it is not your business. If you do, it means there's no bond and love between you guys. Thanks.

Is homewrecking an act of love?

Is that how you bond with your family by sowing discord between husband and wife? Only witches and wizards do such.

sisisioge:
No o! I meant the name is skenky . It's like Ugochukwu calling himself godsway

I wouldn’t know sis. I don’t keep tabs on the plethora of ever-changing fickle monikers that grace this section. Na to read and move on.

sisisioge:
do you know the meaning of paulynus?

No. What does it mean?

LuckyLadolce:
I work in a corporate environment where you work your ass out late in the office . But the married ladies with kids tidy their tables on time to leave for their various home in order to cater for the kids. If a banker can be in a hurry to cater for her kids, who's an hairdresser. An hairdresser with a more flexible work life. Who can decide when to open and when to close on her own. My brother is an assistant manager in small company, so he doesn't much time as such. More reason why my parents allow them to drop the kids in the morning and pick them in the evening around 8pm. We know of hairdressers who are always busy from morning till evening, but closes before nine for the sake of their kids. If you can't cater for your kids as a woman, then who are you really working for ?

You asked if their marriage is my business, yes it is depending on circumstances. In this type of circumstance, it is my business. Thank you.

No, it is NOT your business. And it certainly isn’t your place to pokenose and instruct him on how to run his home. Or is she your wife??

HIS life. HIS marriage. HIS business.

Ishilove:
Ahn ahn, are you a member of Oputa panel?

Useful information though...

sisisioge:
I doubt if anyone wants to know this, his name is godspower .

Forgive me OP.

!!

You mean the resident scammer??

chuksey1:
I will be listing some things you should do when visiting so that the host will be more receptive to your future visits

1. Always Go with your own towel, combs, tooth brush, toothpaste, soap, creams and perfumes. Don't go there feeling you can use your host own because the way you use them maybe different from the way he uses it and it may turn him off.

2. Assist with house chores. Do not sit idle and expect your host to sweep the room, wash the dishes, fetch water and cook for you while you relax like a boss.

3. Please respect his privacy don't think that because you know where the house is you can always go there without a precall. This can turn him off greatly

4. Respect his house do not step on the bed sheets and duvet even if you do so to yours in your house

6. When visiting always go with something even if it is bread and whenever he wants to go shopping please contribute to the expenses

7.always keep your things arranged and orderly in the room

8. Abeg even if you are older than your host don't be bossy to the extent that you will be sending him on errands

Feel free to add yours

This is basic common sense. Even a child would know all of this. It goes without saying abeg.

LuckyLadolce:
well, you're entitled to your opinion. After all, I asked for it. Hustling kwa? My brother is not so rich but he is responsible for all his children's up keep to the best of his capacity so don't even bring that one that she's hustling to keep her family afloat. Which family afloat? We are not interfering family, we won't just open our eyes and allow one woman to destroy our brother. Read in between the lines carefully. No one is fighting with her over her waywardness. We are simply saying don't put the lives of the innocent kids at risk. Come home on time and stay with your kids. What kind of hairdressing work are you doing from 8am to 10pm. Even the shop, she's not always there. I don't have a job? Well, thank you. But if you're as jobless as I am, you will give testimony in the church/mosque.

So why can’t your brother stay at home in the evenings to look after HIS kids while she’s at work?? Or if that’s such an abomination, get a nanny?? Or are you against her working??

Re: the bolded - what does that mean? Your brother can’t think for himself? How is his marriage any of your business??

bebe2:
Morning sis ,

Long time? How family ?

All good dear. You and yours??

bebe2:
Primark saved me wen my kids were babies, lol

U know how they poo and the poo will escape from diapers to the clothes eh? I will just wrap all the clothes with the shirt oo, trouser oo , inner wear ooo, all to bin, shebi na primark

Lol!!

The early years are the toughest but na disposable nappies we use na. From Netto (not my choice oh!) Me I wanted Pampers brand but oga say nappy na nappy. No be to poo inside and throw away??

Re: Primark, spot on. You can’t go wrong there. Although I did do Mothercare when I started working, I quickly learnt that kids outgrow their clothes so fast, it’s just not worth it. But the baby stretch suits are cute sha

LuckyLadolce:
Hi guys,

An argument ensued yesterday between me, my immediately elder brother and our first son's wife. She took it very far by raining curses on me and my brother in the presence of our parents. She said they shall not reap the fruits of their labour on me. But that's not possible because their already reaping it.

The argument came as a result of her lackadaisical attitude towards her children such as abandoning them for the whole day, coming back in the late night leaving only those little kids of age 6, 3 in the house, having concubines which we have talked to her about several times to desist from but would never heed to our advice. Her husband is nothing to her anymore, on two different occasions, fetish stuffs have been found in her cupboard where my mother and brother's name were written on them. In fact, this woman once said, is it my brother one will have as husband and not have other lovers for support just because things were rough for my brother at that time. I personally has caught her with one of her numerous lovers before which I didn't tell my brother but sent her a text to desist from such act. All that have long gone and we have forgiven her.

So on Friday, she went out as usual and she never came back until pass 10pm leaving only those kids in the house. We called her, her line was switched off, I got angry and said those kids should not come to our place the next day because they usually stay with us in the day and go back home in the evening due to the proximity From their house to ours. She doesn't go to any office oo. She's only an hairdresser. But because her in-laws' place is closed by, she feels it's an opportunity for her to drop them with us and have more time for her waywardness lying that she's always busy in her shop.

We were advising her as usual that, her children are growing up already, this is the best time for her to drop all these attitudes and focus on her children. Because she does not like the truth, she flare up and turned it into serious fight by hitting my immediate elder brother first because that one told her the bitter truth by saying "stop having concubines don't kill our brother!" Hitting him continuously and tore his clothes, my brother went inside to put on another cloth, she tore it. If not because of me and our tenant holding my brother, he almost beat her up. Before then, while we were advising her with calm voice and utmost respect because she's our brother's wife, she was already easing her voice.

Even people who witnessed the incident blamed her. Before you say one thing, she has said 10. All we were doing is to make peace but she was prepared for fight yesterday. That is just it. There's nothing like disrespect here, we don't joke too much, no one collects money from her among us even though we all know she's making good cash these days. I have my own work. I work with a bank where I earn quite decent salary. I have helped them to pay the school fees of their first child on several occasions, I paid for her operations when she wanted to deliver her twins . We always support her, so I can't remember anytime we stoop so low to deserve what she did to us last night. Don't forget that once woman start having concubines, they have more guts.

If you were in my brother's shoe , what would you have done if your brother's wife raise her hand on you?

This question also goes to the lady.

Please I need your candid opinion.

Thank you all.

@op you sound like a confused trouble maker from an interfering family.

What do you mean by ...an argument ensued between me, my elder brother, and our first son’s wife?

You must be an elderly person then with no self respect descending to argue with your daughter-in-law.

You also mention that she has concubines. What does that even mean? Or her hairdressing customers are her concubines?

A lady hustling to keep her family afloat and all you can is sow seeds of discord in the union which incidentally is non of your business. Do you even have a job of your own?

You deserved that slap. And more.

.******

STOP EDITING YOUR STORY!!!

bebe2:
Oga justwise am sure u know wat u doing sha,

Before u invest £20k in Nigeria pls save on top and invest it in the west.

N10m won’t go far in Naija. You can’t even buy a decent plot of land with it.

bebe2:
Wat picture are u trying to paint sef?? The same Uk I have lived with a husband and 4 kids for 17yrs? Am beginning to wonder if I am I. The same country.

Plus one and three.

Morning sis

oweniwe:
She isn't a teenager .... Maybe 20s

My point is.... A lady doesn't really need all these hair and cream stuffs to look beautiful

And I’m certain she isn’t the same age as the woman in question, nor is she married with kids and living a stressful life.

That aside, you speak for yourself. Her husband may not want what you like in a woman.

Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.
When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days. I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied. The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?
cc. Lalasticlala

Oh pls!

What’s the big deal?? TELL HIM AND FREE YOUR SOUL. Put a stop to the needles lies before they get out of hand.

If he is worth his salt, he’ll stick with you, else good riddance.

You were 15 when it happened. A child. And it happened so many years ago. Is he (your fiancée) perfect??

python1:
Lol. Na Germany visa the guy dey apply for?

No.

But if he is serious about his request, answering those questions shouldn’t be a problem.

newsloaded:
Hello Everyone

I am searching for a wife i am tired of been single any interested single lady should be reach me via i have all what it take to care for her
facebook.com/godspowerjacob
godspowerjacob@gmail.com
09034012513

Are you gainfully employed? If yes, doing what?

Do you come from a nuclear or extended family? What position are you? 1st son?

Do you have a lot of financial responsibilities? Ie are you financially responsible for the upkeep of your parents and siblings?

How many siblings / cousins are you currently training in school?

sassysure:
Hoping to contact you by Feb. Hope all ur household are very fine. Missed u too a lot. What of edwife, I have forgotten most names.

Lol no worries. Household’s good. Hope you and yours are too?

UKmigrant:
If you want to set up a business and make huge returns in the shortest possible time, naija is the best place for you. You start your business with no stress. Naija is also the place where you can get very rich easily if you know what to do.

But if you care so much about orderliness and functionality, healthcare, quality education, security, etc maybe consider living abroad.

Me I want to have what both worlds offer, once I set myself up well here na to start to dey invest for naija o. No dulling at all!

The longer you stay here, the more your tolerance level for the Nigerian system diminishes to the point where home country becomes a “project intention” but never a “reality”. Mind you, it’ll take you a good couple of years and kids to get to that point.

Lexusgs430:
25 year mortgage ransom + credit card ransom + store card ransom + car finance ransom etc etc

Infact the ransom three much........ That's why when we ask for small change, then no dey gree pick our calls again....... After enticing us with lovely pictures of wealth.....

So why ask “ransom-ee’s” for small change in the first place?

Or get peeved when the request isn’t granted? And the requestee’s calls are avoided??

Nigerians and their entitlement mentality.

oyb:
only celebrities or very rich people are able to look youthful as they grow older.the rest of us will put on weight, worry lines, wrinkles, cellulite, love handles , stretch marks etal

and sex is not the same either. when you are 20-28 you can do four rounds straight. as you get older you have more concerns. boy toys and sugar chicks are always in the mood because they are not burdened by the worries of life

True....

In addition to that, a lot of women very high libido in their early 20’s. That dips with kids, responsibilities, and everything you mentioned.

But in their 40’s, there is a spike in their libidos again.

Anyway, we’re digressing from the original topic

oweniwe:
Cheating in relationship is a thing of the mind. ... Seldom has to do with looks or packaging

As married folks, no matter how much den package, na the same thing wey dey under the sheets over the years go still dey there

The girl below doesn't use make up or wear artificial hair and she still beautiful. (I know her personally)

Pics down in 10 minutes

Maybe. Maybe not. But you’re comparing apples with oranges.

A young girl barely into her teens with no make up is not the same as a married woman with Kids, an obviously struggling household with little or no money. You expect both to look the same?

@op.

You seem fascinated with evil curses and death. Why not take a legitimate job as an undertaker?

Mindfulness:
I do not remember when it didn't.

Lol!

That’s because finding a half decent thread is like looking for a needle in a haystack.

Best approach is to give up then try again ina couple of weeks.

oweniwe:
Two wrongs don't make a right... No doubt...

The woman's co must have full for the man to react that way...

Cos I don't think a man who has the money to buy a car, has a wife and has been taking care of both would get so angry over hair and cream money.

It's definitely not the wife's first time to misappropriate money

Re: the last sentence - quite possibly