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wonlasewonimi:
How do you manage to chat shyte and sometimes sense at the same time...

What’s shytty about my posts?

This thread is a joke anyway

oyetpel:
You want her to come back to the hell she was avoiding before? lol

She certainly isn’t in paradise right now.

RoyalRoy I know you haven’t been online since 27th April (after the creation of this thread), but when you do see it, kindly erase the contents of this thread and lock it up.

This is character defamation and it breaks Nairaland rules 8 and 10.

Dyt:
At least the kids are going to school
They have medical insurance

Not sure how it works there
But there's no life for her here

From the write upside
She doesn't have anything to fall back on

The kids will suffer

There are no free government schools back in Nigeria?

You say she has nothing. What does she have in the uk? Apart from the threat of social services taking the kids into foster care? You think that beats life in Naija?

She should go back to Naija. She went to school. She has a trade. Let her put those skill to good use back in Nigeria.

Ralphlauren:
it is obvious he just 'used' Esther for procreation purposes. this is the time for her to fight back. emotional abuse exists in marriage and it is just as bad as domestic violence. he played on her vulnerability and will i say her desperation to escape 'poverty' in naija. she needs to be open up to the authorities with the truth regarding his treatment towards her so that she can sort out her legal status asap.

I see.

He ‘used’ her to procreate...because she didn’t want to have kids?

Did she ‘use’ him for papers?

Dyt:
You advice she moves back to naija with those kids when she doesn't have anything back home?

Mehn
I fear you ooo

What does she have over here?

Chubhie:
What's the catch? what's your interest? to see truth subverted?

And what is the truth??

That Mr Sienna woke up one morning and decided: I’m going to be horrible to my wife of 10 years. I will kick her and my kids out of the house, steal the kids benefits, etc.

I presume the wife is absolved of any guilt in this because she had no part in her marriage breakdown?

Chubhie:
Bia,respect yourself! I'm opposed to all forms of injustices. Justice for Mrs Siena and kids.

I'm watching all the mods.

Rules are rules.

Gloating over a couple’s marital misfortune just to get cheap entertainment is low.

Osama10:
We have 3 sides to this story.

More like a dozen sides based on the countless monikers claiming to know the couple inside out.

shaybebaby:
What I find alarming at your tone is your concern for the man and none at the possibility that if it indeed true, there are three little children out there who are suffering.

Where is your concern for them, to atleast make sure they are okay?

Are you part of the "cover his unclothedness crew"?

And what I find alarming is how anyone who claims to be neutral would swallow a story hook-line-and-sinker based on hearsay and no substantial facts. Hardcore facts.

So, IF truly the wife:

- has no legal rights to remain in the UK

- is so hardup for cash that she needs the children’s Child Benefits and Tax credits to survive

Why doesn’t she return back to Nigeria and live a better quality of life for less? Why insist on merely existing in penury and trying to eke out a living?

IAmMercedes:
This is a man who happily told me he had Esther agree to tie her tubes after their son was born, then he’d also get a vasectomy.

After the delivery of their last born, she had her tubes tied. When she later asked about the vasectomy, he said he had changed his mind.

EfemenaXY or whatever, get your facts straight. We weren’t pals, Esther and I. Even the man you’re defending can confirm that

Wish I had all those chats. Deleted them years ago cos all that was past.

It’s just pathetic that Siena is this kind of deadbeat low life. I’m glad I didn’t fall for his sh*t back then.

I even spoke with Rukky too... according to Esther, that one also has history with Siena.

Wonders shall never cease!

You weren’t pals yet his wife gave you all of this information? Why? Because she had your best interests at heart?

IAmMercedes:
When I opened a thread about our affair, people said I was bitter. He had the thread closed down.

Esther and I spoke at length about how he mistreated her. And She warned me that I would suffer if I end up with him. Do you know this guy had her detained on her 40th birthday. I kept asking, aren’t you gonna tell them to release her? What are your kids saying?

shaybebaby:
Looks like the niccur to me. Besides, there are older monickers on here (to address your point about the Mercedes lady) who have chipped in their two cents e.g the person who dropped the link to the gofund me page.

Also a quick search on the Internet does show clues that agree with assertations on here. Eg it was claimed he is barred from being a company director, and yup a search revealed that he founded a Ltd company which is now defunct. I am sure I can dig out evidence of this easily with a quick search on company's house.

Fact is, it is easier to fabricate lies in naij than here. If he has ever been to court for any proceedings against him, it will be available on the Internet.

His marriage has indeed broken down, his ex missus lists herself on IG as a single mum of three. So far, nothing has been tendered which does not fit the narrative.

I agree information on registered Ltd companies can be found on the net - in compliance with the Companies Act.

Any company can be declared insolvent. Happens all the time but that doesn’t prove he’s / was a scammer, nor does it prove anything about his character as a person.

Companies declaring bankruptcy/insolvent indicates they had serious financial issues and were unable to finance their debts.

No if this was really the case, it shows that his family was under immense financial strain and that alone is enough to rock the foundation of any marriage.

I do not for one second believe the stories and claims on here. Sienna is no teenager wet behind the ears. He came across as a decent man trying to do well for his young family. People do not change overnight from near perfect to absolute monsters.

No one ever truly knows what happens in a marriage apart from the husband and wife. There is a lot more going on than what is shown on the surface and I think people should be wise when playing the role of judge and jury without having the facts.

Sienna isn’t here to defend himself.

The contents of this thread should be deleted and the thread closed down as it breaks rules 8 and 10.

RoyalRoy, pls do the needful.

shaybebaby:
Yes it doesn't prove it that he is in anyway behind the go-fund me campaign but what about the picture with him on his knees proposing to a woman that is definitely not the mother of his kids?

Is that really his picture? And not some clever photoshop trick?

And even IF that’s his picture, it still doesn’t prove he opened that go fund page. For all we know, he may not even be aware it exists.

IAmMercedes:
So Siena hasn’t changed. I’m not surprised. Even while he was “with” me, I noticed how harshly he spoke to his kids whenever he was on the phone with me and he needed something.

When I opened a thread about our affair, people said I was bitter. He had the thread closed down.

Esther and I spoke at length about how he mistreated her. And She warned me that I would suffer if I end up with him. Do you know this guy had her detained on her 40th birthday. I kept asking, aren’t you gonna tell them to release her? What are your kids saying?

I can see he’s engaged. Again. Wedding in Greece? So familiar. He discussed that with me. In fact he wanted us to have a wedding at a beach in Greece. I dodged a bullet!

Because of me, he went to get a Nigerian passport. But when I read about all his scandals on nairaland and I confronted him, his stories were never consistent.

Siena Onoriode Gbudje. What a joke!

Since when does a Naija wife and her husband’s mistress / side chick become so pally to the point that the embittered wife actually dishes out advice to the woman she considers key player to her marriage breakup?

And you opened up a new moniker to make these claims?

Strange.

naijagypsy:
now see what i have been saying.. see it... finally!!!!


this is what i was telling all of you that spent time insulting me. i told you he was a bastard!! i told you

The link to that go-fund page doesn’t prove anything. That page was created a month ago by someone claiming to be his fiancée. Anyone can create a page and claim to be anything they chose.

This looks like some cheap ploy to smear his name.

That aside, how does any of this help his family and kids??

Animal cruelty

Despite the economic hardship, people still breed like rabbits.

Ignorant couple.

And how is this news?

Hoochie mama

Sagamite:
When an engagement is cancelled and the couple previously intending to marry decide to go their separate ways, what do you think should happen to the engagement ring?

Return it. It’s the decent thing to do.

HOWEVER...If the reason for the breakup is down to the guy i.e. him being:

~ An unscrupulous two-timing, double-dating love rat

~ An untrustworthy fellow who lied about having kids from previous relationships

~ Is/was a violent brute

~ A scammer

~ Hid his ex-con status from her

~ A tight-wad who’ll make even Scrooge blush

~ Deliberately let her biological clock tick away for years knowing fully well he had no intention of marrying her [SHOCK!]

AND

If the engagement ring is valuable - as in it’s worth 5+ figures in £££££...

Then yes, she should make a fake copy of the ring and return that to him whilst keeping the real deal

Howdy Saga baby?

The föölish actions of those in the midst of a raving lunatic.

No amount of juju-rised sweeping will cure him of his mental illness.

Fake news.

Too painful to read.

Rest in peace little one.

Beebee18:
Well, things were going well untill recently, I discovered I am pregnant in february when I missed my period. We already talked about family planning, but he said we should have two kids first. So when I told him about me being preggy, he said he wasnt ready blah blah, I was shocked. I reminded him that we talked about it, he said yes we did, but hes changed his mind. So I explained to him I cant go through abortion that I am scared. He brought local herb, said its gonna work. I gullibly used it, vomited for hours,but nothing happened.

I’m more interested (and you should be too) in what exactly was in that concoction you swallowed.

The first trimester is when the foetus is most vulnerable. You’ve probably caused irreparable damage without knowing it.

It’s probably for the best you go for an abortion than bring a severely disabled child into the world to suffer. In Nigeria of all places.

You can’t even afford to look after yourself and your eleven month old financially, how much more a special needs child?

This story doesn’t make much sense.

What’s the man’s interest in the girl’s daughter from a previous relationship? And why would she (the mother) let the violent man take her daughter shortly after being beaten up over a piece of meat?

Mentally rètàrdèd couple.

Mindfulness:
See see. Efemena in the politics section. Welcome my dear. How have you been?

Lol!

Season’s greetings dear.

I was looking for you and came across this topic of yours which I found too irresistible not to contribute to. I’m very good. You?

vatiqan:
Unkul o, this particular story, said Zimbabwe; not Nigeria! Me thinks, I have a serious problem with comprehension; pathetic.

Don’t despair. It happens.

armyofone:
Lmao at your replies.

Very funny how they get work up when Nigeria is called out for something many naijans are good at doing.

Precisely.

The “patriotism” is awe-inspiring, I daresay

miketayo:
I’m as dumb as expected

Thumbs up.

themonk:
Two reasons china cannot turn their back on North Korea.
1)About 80% of North Korean exports goes to china. This means they are economic allies dependent on each other for goods.
2) China wouldn't want US to occupy north korea in the event of the aftermath of a war. Nobody wants US in their backyard. Remember Iraq?

Correct.

In addition to that, China is already over populated and has been battling this for over four decades, despite their one child policy.

If America destabilises North Korea, the North Korean refugees would automatically migrate to China, their next door neighbour. China certainly wouldn’t want that and are known to extradite North Koreans (from China) trying to flee to South Korea.

Mindfulness:
https://www.vpnmentor.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/trump-tweet.png

Yesterday:

Caught RED HANDED - very disappointed that China is allowing oil to go into North Korea. There will never be a friendly solution to the North Korea problem if this continues to happen!




The Art of the Deal.

Shower Trump with praises so the i.diot feels important and he will swallow everything.

This isn’t the only instance of them playing Trump. They did this during his recent tour of Asia. They rolled out the red carpet, wined, dined, and subjected him to so much time consuming fanfare. They made so many promises with nothing in writing. No solid trade deal. Astute analysts who saw through China’s cunningness were embarrassed on behalf of America.

And what did Mr Trump do / say? He praised China and blamed the previous American government for China outsmarting them.

Smh