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Family › Re: What Is That Thing Your Neighbour Does You Don't Like? by Efenaira(m): 9:03pm On May 17, 2021

chatinent:
Mine: Being in good terms with one's neighbour is good.

Sometimes, people will only change when you show them you have principles.

Man'll be the last to come back late and leave the gate unlocked, only to lock his door. Mehn.

Coming to take my blend , to blend his weed and
I'll always have to go and lock it..even when he knows my apartment has its separate gate from the main. It began to make me feel if man taught I was being paid to lock the gate.

Irritating mehn.

Wanted to talk to him but had to let it slide. It's a trivial issue though.

How about you?

Coming to take my manual blend to blend his wed and giving it back to me unwashed.

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Properties › Re: What Is The Worst Experience You've Ever Had With A Bad Room-Mate? by Efenaira(m): 12:59pm On May 15, 2021

Omo as a fresh in acade life , I enter one hostel when my Guy they stay , I like the hostel very big girls plenty, I ask my guy if room still they my guy say no , I ask am anybody they when I fit per with , he say w get some of my town Guys , I meet them reason with them I pay them 3 of us now roommates, hostel manager they disturb me say I be illegal occupate I they my roommates say make una align with the hostel manager, say the guy they embarrass me them nor align anything meaningful so one Saturday morning I they sleep police come boost me say I be illegal occupate carry me go police workshop, I reach police workshop I align say me don pay to my roommates them call them come police workshop, those men begin they align rubbish say the money when me give them self I chop for I side me when be say I pay half of wetin them pay the room , the alignment come be like say them they help me I para for the men but , I just gat use my 6 I ask the hostel manager say how far how e go be he say make I sort 5k I say no wam , I tell them say me go 2k make their 2 do 3k this men nor shake body the manager they embarrass me anytime he come around I just sort out the money myself that was ND1, ND 2 I move leave the men go another room they package, I cut them off because them men betray me , roommates matter nor clear at all

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Properties › Re: What Is Your Worst Experience With A Landlord Or Landlady? by Efenaira(m): 5:47pm On Jun 09, 2020

I can still remember very well, It was my first year I was living with a friend in a hostel, I so much admire the hostel, but he have 2 roommates already, I ask him if theresyany vacancy is said no , I told me is there anyone in the hostel I can be his roommate, he said yes some guys from my town , I met with them we discussed I paid , so I ask them to go and sort out things with the hostel manager, but they refuse and in the hostel you have to fill a form before moving Incase anything that happened, and attached your passport, to cut the all stories short hostel manager told me to come and sort him out that I’m an illegal occupate, wow I thought it’s was joke one Saturday morning i was sleeping the hostel manager came in with police men , he pointed at me as an illegal occupate , I thought It’s was a joke before I could know what’s happening already I’m inside the police cell already, when we’re driving down to the police station I told him sir I have paid to my roommates , he said I should told him earlier, they call both of them and ask them did I paid them money , they twist the the story around I was smiling, I leave the station the hostel manager ask me to pay up i ask both of them to bring their part but they refuse the manager keep embarrassing in the hostel in front other students, I have to pay that money myself again.Tha was a very bad experience in my school days

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Romance › Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Efenaira(m): 2:34am On May 18, 2020

[quote author=funkmrflexx post=89653044]We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does Oshare you fit get sense oh now big river you won enter so

Politics › Re: Sydney Ogudoro: NSCDC Official Who Shot Ndubuisi Emenike Dead by Efenaira(m): 10:50am On Jan 28, 2020

Who can die can do , who can do can die

Romance › Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by Efenaira(m): 4:50pm On Sep 23, 2019

Christopherrrr:
Hello Nairalanders, greetings. My name is Christopher (pseudonym) from the Eastern part of the country, Imo State to be precise. I'm a man in his early 30's. I have an active account here but I had to sign-up for another account for this thread.
Please pardon my grammatical errors and blunders. MOD please help move to FP.

Few months back, I fell in love with a pretty lady with a beautiful soul. She is 28. Though we are running a long distance relationship but the current in the communication link can power Kanji Dam. Lol!! We can be on calls for hours since the very day I met her. There is a fair share of the feelings, affections, respect and regard for each other. It's not one-sided. Though we have been opportune to be together thrice since the past 10months we met. I have had plans to go about engagement and marriage arrangements this coming festive period though I haven't made this known to her.

She gives me joy, she gives me happiness, she prays for me, she blesses me. There is a part of me she unraveled that I never believed existed. Above all, she gives me peace of mind.

Fast forward to last month, I invited her to a family event. I introduced her to my family as my girlfriend. Instantly everyone fell in love with her. My mum was allover her and she was indeed up and doing. She didn't disappoint me. Not pretence, she has a good home training.

When she left same day after the event, my mum proclaimed her love for her. She said, "Olee ebe isi choota udi nwa nke a?" (Where did you find this kinda girl from?). This made me drop a tear of joy thereafter because I've always prayed for such from her any day I introduce a lady to her. This also happens to be my first time.

Fast forward again to 2weeks later, my dad requested I confirm her community and kindred properly because we happen to come from the same LGA. I didn't even know they have started making inquiries for me even before I asked them to. I confirmed from her and informed my dad. Only for them (my parents) to break the news to me days later that we can't marry from their kindred because they are regarded as Out-Casts (Osu-Cast System). Right now, I can't contend my heartbreak. I'm so devastated and confused.

This has been a long-term tradition that has been for centuries that I don't think it's in my capabilities to do away with it or do otherwise.

My problem now is how do I break the news to her for a breakup because we can't continue like this.

I have never ceased to love her less since the very day I learnt of this. In fact, she gives me reasons to love, cherish and adore her every single day. I still do that to the brim and don't have regrets. Quote me, her type is rare. I love this girl with every breath I take. I just cry myself to sleep every night after our long calls.

Please advise a brother because I'm in a deep state of dilemma. if you’re man enough face them, but if you’re not back out , don’t go and put peoples daughter in crying mood everyday.

Christianity Etc › Re: Lizzy, Transformed By Pastor Tony Rapu: Before And After Photos by Efenaira(m): 2:45pm On Sep 17, 2019

FuckDaMods:
This one look like fatoyinbo, abi na my eyes dey deceive me?

You’re not far from the truth ��

Travel › Re: Onyeama: Spent N280 Million To Evacuate Nigerians From South Africa – Air Peace by Efenaira(m): 9:49am On Sep 12, 2019

Kingpee2:
This one just lied ,I don’t own an airline though but I feel the price has been inflated ..

shut up your dirty mouth. Can you pay a bus ticket for someone you don’t know ? Try to be appreciative.

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Celebrities › Re: I Love How You Look At Me - Bambam Showers Praises On Her Husband Teddy A by Efenaira(m): 9:42am On Sep 12, 2019

asanwafo:
This marriage will not last beyond 2yrs.

why are you so negative?? Are you married?

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Travel › Re: More Photos Of South African Returnees After Evacuation By Air Peace by Efenaira(m): 9:35am On Sep 12, 2019

dorothybella:
PHOTOS: Arrival of Nigeria returnees from South Africa

See more here https://thickmatch.com/photos-south-african-returnee-evacuation-air-peace/

They don’t look hungry �. tongue

Travel › Re: Xenophobia: Nigerians Board A Bus To South African Airport, Set To Return Home by Efenaira(m): 4:16pm On Sep 11, 2019

silverkings:
Nigerians that have grown their businesses will find it very difficult to leave South Africa. So i think the ones leaving have little or no source of livelihood. This is a golden opportunity to come home be that

Shut up your mouth, stop talking like a teenage. They are talking about lives you’re talking about business and source of income. Now who get head they wear cap . Abi them tell you say the people when die they jobless?

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Travel › Re: Xenophobia: Nigerians Board A Bus To South African Airport, Set To Return Home by Efenaira(m): 4:11pm On Sep 11, 2019

DaddyGngeess:
After sometime they will go back again, so that one no be wahala

now so them tell you??��

Politics › Re: Adams Oshiomhole & Uche Secondus Hug At The Tribunal (Photos) by Efenaira(m): 1:42pm On Sep 11, 2019

AgencyReport:
Oshiomhole, Secondus, In Warm Embrace At Election Tribunal

Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.channelstv.com/2019/09/11/photos-oshiomhole-secondus-embrace-each-other-at-presidential-tribunal/amp/

Those are the real fraudsters in Nigeria �� Scamming the citizens sad

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Crime › Re: Man Kills His Stingy Brother In Ekiti, Steals His Bike (Photo) by Efenaira(m): 1:29pm On Sep 11, 2019

GistConnect:
A 24-year-old man, Ebenezer Olorunleke has been arrested by the Ekiti State police command for killing his brother and stealing his properties including a motorbike.

Parading the suspect before newsmen on Tuesday September 10, the State's Commissioner of police, Mr Asuquo Amba said Olorunleke who is from Jege in Kogi State killed his brother on August 29 after he stormed his house at Abe Cocoa area of Okeila with three members of his gang now at large.

He reportedly stabbed his brother to death with a screwdriver and a knife, after which they stole his red coloured Bajaj motorbike with registration number ADK 100 UJ.

“They hit him in the stomach and pierced his intestine when his wife and children were not at home. He had confessed to have committed the offence, he said.

The suspect described his brother as "stingy" while narrating how he was killed. According to him, all they wanted was to take money from the deceased before their struggle led to his death.

“I did not follow them inside the room, but upon realising that my brother had been stabbed and was shouting, I rushed in and wanted to rescue him but he bit me and chopped off my finger.

“The guys later came to my house to attack me. They wanted to sell the machine, I resisted it. I was thinking of coming to the police to report when I was arrested with the machine”, he said.

Gist from Gistmore
http://gistmore.com/man-kills-his-brother-for-being-too-stingy-steals-his-bike

Because of ordinary bike � now woa , this country self .

Politics › Re: Presidential Tribunal Throws Out Inec’s Objection To Atiku’s Petition by Efenaira(m): 11:23am On Sep 11, 2019

MelesZenawi:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/09/breaking-presidential-tribunal-throws-out-inecs-objection-to-atikus-petition/

call the result abeg no time to waste

Romance › Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Efenaira(m): 3:07pm On Jun 07, 2019

GT07115:
Hi peeps, I am in love with an 18 years old lady who is from a very poor background as mine, I will be 30 this year and I intend settling down maritally this year or early next year, I would have loved her to gain admission before doing anything marriage with her.

I have discussed going back to school with her and getting a trade along, by her consent toit I have gave her money to enroll for jamb and NECO exam which will make her secure admission this year, the jamb result is out and OK pending NECO exam which will start next week.

My problem is the parent are financially handicapped to contribute a dime to her education and we are not married that means the whole stuff is on my head, I would have loved to marry this year if she was already in school or a graduate, I am the first son with responsibility of putting my younger ones through school. I feel I will be shouldering a lot of responsibility, the relationship is just one way sided and the parents don't give a breathing space whenever she spends some hours late in my house, like reminding me we are not married, the whole thing is that I love her, she is a lady I can talk to, and very young and beautiful.

You’re very wicked man .Do you know there’s not differences Bea you and Ned? OMG at 29 chasing 18 years girl calling it Love ❤️,men dem go check you , because you have some little peanuts call money , you want to take advantage of the little girl, Oga you better respect your old age .

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Politics › Re: #BiafraRemembranceDay: Enugu, Asaba, Anambra Completely Locked Down (Photos) by Efenaira(m): 12:41pm On May 30, 2019

Mandynews:
Here is popular Ogbogologo modern market Asaba Delta state. It is under lock and keys as at 9.20am.

i just pass Ogbogologo the market now , the market filled with people

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Politics › Re: Bags Of APC Campaign Rice Destroyed In Ekiti By Youths. Photos by Efenaira(m): 8:39am On Jan 14, 2019

naunasabi:
Me the souls of the departed rest in peace.

The youths should have shared the rice amongst themselves instead of wasting it.

You’re a big fool how much be rice compared to human lives?

Crime › Re: Woman Stabs Lagos Food Seller For Refusing To Sell To Her On Credit (photo) by Efenaira(m): 10:47am On Dec 11, 2018

dabrin:
A woman has been arrested for stabbing a food seller because she refused to sell food to her on credit in Lagos

When she went to ask Abiodun to sell food to her again, Abiodun refused and asked her to pay up her debts before she will get food. That did not go down well with Aminat and she attacked Abiodun and stabbed her close to the right eye.

Aminat was charged before the Ejigbo Magistrates Court for assault where she pleaded not guilty before the Court.

Aminat was granted bail in the sum of N50,000 with one surety in like sum. She was remanded in prison custody pending when she will perfect her bail condition.

The matter was adjourned till 9th January, 2018.

News from Gistmore - https://gistmore.com/woman-stabs-lagos-food-seller-for-refusing-to-sell-to-her-on-credit

Now by force to sell for you . I understand a hungry woman is a angry woman Lol

Celebrities › Re: Princess Shyngle Attempts Committing Suicide. Lands In Lagos Hospital by Efenaira(m): 10:44am On Dec 11, 2018

Slay queen take am easy

Health › Re: Adenike, Ibadan Polytechnic Student Whose Legs Were Cut Off (photos) by Efenaira(m): 10:01am On Nov 30, 2018

OgogoroFreak:
She still fit fvck so?

You won fvck her ? Ode

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Celebrities › Re: Most Awarded Artist In Nigeria: List Of Most Awarded Nigerian Musicians by Efenaira(m): 9:58am On Nov 30, 2018

OBO now men you be ride on bro.

Celebrities › Re: AY Buys Wife, Mabel Makun Lexus Lx 570 Luxury SUV For 10th Wedding Anniversary by Efenaira(m): 9:55am On Nov 30, 2018

That place they are showing the car isn’t Nigeria ��, I be the car never reach house? Lol

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Politics › Re: Don Chuks Abaga: 'Many Corpses Of Soldiers Are Still In The Bush' by Efenaira(m): 12:21pm On Nov 28, 2018

kestolove95:
Mr chuks, dix can cost u ur job

And so fucking what ? Coward like you is the reason this country is going this way .

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Romance › Re: If We Are Dating & I Find Out You Play Sports Betting, It’s Over - Nigerian Lady by Efenaira(m): 12:17pm On Nov 26, 2018

GistMore:
In Nigeria, sports betting has become a lucrative business among the youths due to it’s unpredictability and huge cash out sums — when lucky

A Nigerian lady has taken to twitter to reveal she can’t be with a guy who plays sports betting.

According to @Mz_okikiola on twitter, if she finds out her partner plays sports betting, she’s ending the relationship immediately. But if he’s yahoo boy , you will continue the relationship?

She tweeted;

One twitter user responded; “Hear say I win 27mill now u will be like baby come let’s go and watch match so you will know teams that are in form..”

Another twitter user said; “Na ur choice sha. But its a weird criteria for dating a guy. 7 out of ten guys r currently on that table. Esp in poverty capital”.

BY GISTMORE.COM >>> http://gistmore.com/dating-find-play-sports-betting-nigerian-lady

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Romance › Re: If We Are Dating & I Find Out You Play Sports Betting, It’s Over - Nigerian Lady by Efenaira(m): 12:16pm On Nov 26, 2018

GistMore:
In Nigeria, sports betting has become a lucrative business among the youths due to it’s unpredictability and huge cash out sums — when lucky

A Nigerian lady has taken to twitter to reveal she can’t be with a guy who plays sports betting.

According to @Mz_okikiola on twitter, if she finds out her partner plays sports betting, she’s ending the relationship immediately. But if he’s yahoo boy , you will continue the relationship? �‍♀️

She tweeted;

One twitter user responded; “Hear say I win 27mill now u will be like baby come let’s go and watch match so you will know teams that are in form..”

Another twitter user said; “Na ur choice sha. But its a weird criteria for dating a guy. 7 out of ten guys r currently on that table. Esp in poverty capital”.

BY GISTMORE.COM >>> http://gistmore.com/dating-find-play-sports-betting-nigerian-lady

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Romance › Re: If We Are Dating & I Find Out You Play Sports Betting, It’s Over - Nigerian Lady by Efenaira(m): 12:13pm On Nov 26, 2018

OdikwaRisky:
men that bet are highly irresponsible and foolish. They are usually broke and lazy too cuz you hardly see rich people who know the value of money engage in such foolishness, only riffraffs and never do wells crowd betting shops. The ones that want to hammer instead of working hard. I totally agree with the girl.

Who told you that ?

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