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ladies can avoid this kind of Topic! No comments. But funny enuf this is so obvious. A lady on my street is always making my sister feel less of herself becos of an iphone11, dressing, gadget use, trips etc and I stepped into the matter one day asked my sister to get the hell u and stop trying to compete with a prostitute. Where is the girl working i asked her, who is her father or mother becos they all live with their parents down d street. Y do u want to compete with someone who sleeps with men to pay her bills .

god punish your mouth there, na them!

olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.

Nairaobserver:
What I ordered and paid for and what I got, angry Nigerian lady laments after she was scammed online.

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This lady most likely have been scammed as a result of an unreasonable price tag attached to this TV. This is what happens when you see a 2019 G-wagon on line for sale and the price is N2m Only. U will hear things like make an advance payment of N1.5m and we get the balance on delivery.
Run away from cheap things.................

why is no one screaming about disrespecting the dead by posting his corpse on social media like it was in the case of late film actor?

like seriously, so not even one person in this forum can defend this from the christian point of view. Every body speaking one mind, this is so absurd and unfortunate! What happens to those of us who have watched the film ''WAR ROOM'' or ''FACING THE GIANT''? were we not all brought up in churches and christian homes? where are all our christian values? '' leave her alone to live her life....., she should divorce him........, let her date who ever she feels like......., she is free to remarry......., she should date only one person......... MEHN! what happens to all the churches we have attended and our values? are those the only ways out of that poor woman's predicament? why do we exalt the devil and make him seem he has won? Has Jesus failed us ? Does He not answer prayers anymore? is the situation too bad for Him to reclaim? Must evil be returned for evil for those of you who have advice her to do worse and bring in another man to her matrimonial home. who commanded her to love and submit? is it her husband or God? who rewards obedience? was the obedience suppose to be conditional on anything? lets rethink!!! I mean no insult please

DIVORCE HIM!!!. Where are all the feminist in the house who cannot take shit from men. Where are our emancipated, liberated and learnered women in the hose please i need ur support on this .

Czechrep: Hi Nairalanders, my hubby is emotionally mean

We had an issue 2 days to my birthday, i apologised, but he ignored me, my birthday came, from beginning to end, he never uttered " Happy birthday"

You can imagine how i felt, people all over were calling me to wish me, but he didnt, even cancelled the dinner we were supposed to have, i feel so heart broken!!!

One would think i did something so atrocious , meanwhile i didnt,marriage is so difficult

dayuuummm !!!

crackhaus: Here is my post from a thread related to this one, edited in very few places but the same in totality.

I'm a lover of women, don't get it twisted...these are just observations, so feel free to crush my self-esteem if you don't like what you see

crackhaus:
It is not always the fault of the woman/girl, but it's a lot more so than it is the fault of the man.Here are a few points;

- women are creatures of emotion. Only about 3% of the decisions y'all make is logical, the remain 97% is mainly sentiments based on how you feel you should be treated.

- I hardly ever hear a man say,
"I want to be treated like a king"... But women churn out the phrase,
"I should be treated like a queen" a lot more so.
This is why I think y'all over-rate yourselves too much, cos truthfully, a good man can tell when a woman deserves to be treated like a queen and unfortunately, these 'queen' nominees are quite few.

- attitude! Yes attitude!
The moment a woman doesn't get what she wants or have her way, she resorts to calling men all sort of derogatory names.
For example, during an argument between a man and his spouse...a time comes when the woman in an attempt at gaining the upper hand, begins to refer to her spouse as acting like a child, or being immature.
She does this for no reason, other than the fact that her man has a stronger argument but her 'pride' won't let her admit it.

- now it's a known fact that women don't like being taken for granted. Y'all feel that just for the reason of having a va.gi.na, men are supposed to kiss your as.ses whether you deserve it or not. This is a delusion from the pit of hell!
Yea, men have egos but what the nazi-feminists and pro-feminists don't understand is that trying to create equality is a lost battle. The world has being made to accomodate a man while the woman remains a companion or helper, this is the way God designed it.
IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH EGO!

- the availability of a woman is by far outweighed by the availability of a man, forget them damn statistics.
A woman's biological/reproductive clock starts ticking the moment puberty sets in. A medical study I once read states that,
"A woman is born with all the eggs she'll ever have in her life, and these eggs die off yearly. A man on the other hand doesn't stop producing sperm eggs until he's well into the late 60's."
Now going by that info, it's safe to say that y'all are needed to start a family as soon as possible (and try to stick with it), probably more so than men.

- the men vs. women factor is entirely orchestrated by women, this is a known truth.
For every time a man gets antagonistic towards a woman, a woman is being antagonistic 5x already elsewhere.
This is also related to the 'emotional nature' of women.

- this final point, which is not a point really but just a summary of everything above, deals with the ego-trips of both men and women.
Men are smart, women are smarter!
Men don't like to admit it, and women don't know that most men actually prefer they think this way.

This is why there will always be a battle of the sexes, which I personally find amusing anyway.
Faults can come from both sides, but most of the time when it comes from a woman...she goes on an all out emotional tussle for supremacy because y'all know that physically you don't stand a chance.

Note - All points and assumptions above are valid for but not restricted only to people in a 'healthy' relationship.
Cases of physical abuse, ra.pe, criminal attitude towards women, etc, is/are exempted

GUY, I VE NEVA FOUND SUCH TRUTH. 1,000,000 LIKES

God mother, alwyas put up more post of sort to your women folks more regularly. Thank u

Nice post. people will not comment. if its about a woman, Hmmm

gunners160: Honestly ur excuses or shld i kall it ur reasons r wack.y is it dat nl encourage premarital sex.sum even give lame excuses dat wuld u marry wat u hv nt tested?.is d ladi a machine or a toy?d last time i checked weither u test a lady 250times a day does nt guarantee a nyce marriage.watsoever u do wen u r single is dsame thng u r required 2 do wen u r married if u r wit dis kind of malicious opinion wen u r still single dis wuld still b dsame way u wuld reason wen u r married.understandin nd frndshp build a hm nd nt SEX.d highest u kan do wen it comes 2 sex wit ur partner is 1hr d rest 23 hrs wat do u intend using it 4? Ladies NoTe Pls.dnt fall a victim 2 dis kind of men any man dat wuld pressurize u 4 sex wen u r single wuld 1day beat u up just 2 hv sex wit u in marriage e kan even go ahead sleepin wit ur sister or ur house maid. it shows dey hv no self control dnt say e is carin e is rich e is dis e is dat quit jor ur body is nt meant 2 b tested but 2 b valued.

ALL THE GIRLS GO PRESS "LIKË" FOR THIS ONE. E SUPPOSE REACH 100 LIKES NOW FROM ALL FEMALES IN THE HOUSE.
But most frankly speaking from my heart, some things are just worth it. Dont transfer problems i didnt initiate or know any thing of to me for marrying you. At this juncture, i want to give a true life story.
There is this lady i dated during university days and during our 3 years long on and off relationship during that time, she did 6 abotions for me no jokes. She later got married to one gentle man in 2009 and uptill this moment as i speak, no single issue.We usually encounter serious issues during some of those abortions like partial evacuation when she attents to take drugs to terminate d pregnancy herself, other times etopic pregnancy and so on.
Now I am cant help but feel guilty for her misfortune which in any case might not even be the cause of her issue but to a very large extent YES.
Now what crime has that christian gentle man who married her comitted to to be going through such penury he know nothing of?
IF you want to go by christian standards as some people posted, trying to discourage sex befor marriage which IS RIGHT i support, then the girl is suppose to be a virgin.
Let it be God who has closed her womb for other reasons like sarah, hannah etc then so be it not to begin enless and fruitless fastings to no avail for crimes i m not guity of.
This is one of the very strong point the poster should have raised other than wide pussy bla bla.
quincy jones can tighten it, a smelly pussy can be taken k of etc.
No girl can ever be sincere abt the number of D&C committed or abortions or artons of postinor taken through out her dating period. There are always like I have done it once. once indeed. My wife got pregnant I was sure then i proceeded to do other things and today I m hapilly maried with 2 kids. LOL! A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE. ITS WISDOM

IF YOUR HUSBAND HAD INSISTED YOU BOTH HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, YOU WOULD HAVE TOLD HIM NOOOO!
ITS NOT DECENT BLA BLA BLA, DON T WORRY WHEN WE ARE MARRIED , I WILL GIVE IT TO YOU ANYTIME , ANYWHERE AND AS MANY TIMES TIMES AS YOU WANT IT AND JUST MAY BE YOU SAID IT IF YOU WANT TO BE SINCERE TO YOUR SELF ND NOW LOOK WHAT IS HAPPENING.
THAT MIGHT MAN MIGHT BE REGRETING NOW. BUT TOO LATE. i HAVE HAD A SIMILAR ISSUE HENCE MY COMMENT AND I M SO THANKFUL THAT I ENDED THE RELATIONSHIP AND DATED ANOTHER WHOM I FINALY MARRIED AND HAPPILY MARRIED TILL DATE.
BABES ALLOW PERSON TEST HIM SHOE SIZE B4 HIM BUY AM PLSSSS.

BodyKiss:

Please shu.t.up. with this your Nigerian mentality.

dick hardener: Oga correcting your father in private is more dignified as opposed to raining insults like "you are mad" to your father...common now. You dont feel comfortable with whatever he does then leave him the f*ck alone damn it!!!

LET that bitch open a trend and start writting about all ya father has done to you since you were born. all his offences he has committed against you if at all you are still living with him at the moment. You are from a broken home i bet you a million dollars. you folks always do that. Mum is good , dad is bad.
Iyabo cannot write her history without her father. He gave her the life she is living. i dont concone evil, let goodluck settle his score with OBJ

BodyKiss: Please shu.t.up. with this your Nigerian mentality.

You are a very stupid fellow and no appoligies for that. I ll love to know your age and how you wer brought up.

When i m less busy , i ll come back for you all you support that iyabo crap.
Anything that sounds or feels sympathetic, n guys dont wanna analyse anything, U just begin to sympathise. pls apply ur discretion sometimes.

Satisfaction directly inversly proportionall to WOMEN!
You no fit get pass mark where a woman is concerned. Insatiable they are!

Even if you just bought a brand new for her on monday, on tuesday you bought her a jewery worth N1,000,000 and on wednesday surprised her with a trip to the white house for a dinner with the president, On thurday, u fly her with a private jet to see Oprah and on friday you buy her the the private jet and on saturday, she makes a simple request for money to make her hair or change or phone or purchase toileteries and for any reason or delay, you couldnt make that provision, Hmmmm..
I tell you the truth my brethren, A WOMEN WILL FORGET WHAT TRANSPIRED BETWEEN MONDAY AND THURSDAY. It will be a fairy tell before her. She look into your eyes and ask you to tell her what you have ever done for her since she met you.

worst still, if she has ever contributed one thing to your life out of the countless one you have contributed to hers, may be say she once bought you a pair of shoe on your birthday, damn, she will so hammer on that and all her friends and relatives will know at that point thar she bought you a shoe.

Women are species to be studied and handled with a God given patience. You need to be filled with the Spirit Of God to cope with a woman, NEVER CONTENTED

lorretta u: Check this out:

One day a long time ago. When I was still a very very good girl , I was on my back from choir practice with a christain brother and we were talking about how mean our choir master was. I kept ranting cos I was so pissed at him for punishing me( didn't get my cadences right and he made me stay behind to practice after others left) anyway I was just going on and on about how mean he was. Out of the blues,this christain brother picked a sweet-smelling white rose from the church flower hedge and put it in my hair

Ooohh my. I blushed to my feet
And I shut up immediately. I don't forget that incident even tho I'm sure he has forgotten it.

You see when u love ur baby and she's nagging u about something non-stop, pick a flower put it her hair and kiss her on the fore-head. She'll shut up forever

@ LORRETA
i TRIED THAT and it didnt work, I then got to slot, bought her a BB Z10, she jumped on me with a full option hug. Later that niight, she gave me BJ for the very first time.. its always about money.

lorretta u: They don't give us flowers

One's gotta admit that phones,hair extensions etc can be a little technical
Flowers are the bomb.
White/red roses(my favorites) can make a girl think of you forever. Yes

@ LORETTA.
Babe y u dey form like say you too good.
abi you dey headlines and boys wey you go put for another serious of aguement and controversy. Lorreta , stop making feel you a DIFFERENT BREED OF WOMAM PLEEEEASE!

i researve any further comment untill u speak again

rudedough: Exactly the response i'd expect from a typical Nigerian. How do you expect your ideal Doctor to look?

*Quiet

*Nerdy

*Wears Harry Porter's eye glasses

*Clean shaved head

*Dresses in corporate fashion

*Not interested in hip-hops or nightlife

*Always talks about Science or at the lab doing research

*Doesn't eat Chicken or drink alcohol.

*Calculates the amount of calories in his food before he eats it.

*Always have a bottle of hand sterilizer in his pocket which he uses after every handshake.

...talking about one with a shallow mind. You should leave that $hithole of a country, meet professionals and experience civilization.

Guy i too like ur flow . Thats watthe ladies want to see. Make believe, action movie, film tricks. Guy you know what, I so appreciate God for the way and manner He has design to folks called women to think. Have you ever imagine a goat who suddenly becomes as wise as aman, u no go dey chop then again na. God u too much. A smart guy studies a woman like chemisty, they all think alike so take advantage. saywhat they want to hear, act what their opinion of a Gentle guy is , give the impresseion theywant to see and just dey bleep them they go. If dangote puts on atee shirt and a pair of jean and walks up to a babe, she go shun am becasue he is suppose to ailight from a bombadier 550 aircraft for him to be a dangote . babe, I go use una till the end of time!

It is better for a girl to be known as a prosmicious lady ( enjoys donating sex just for the fun of it) than known as a prostitute ( getting paid for it.)

lorretta u: you can make ur points without twisting my words.
I think we all agree that sleeping with different men for financial gain is prostitution. Maybe the person you need to sort out the problem with is yourself.
Ps I have a man,he's not wealthy. I hope that makes you realize your folly
Many guys out there are struggling to survive doing meaningful albeit low pay work. Are they all single? Nope they have women who love them too.
Many women help men out financially every second and every minute everywhere in the world even as we speak. Why you people chose to overlook such glaring facts and lump all women into a category called 'prostitute' is beyond me. But it reeks of dishonesty and maliciousness on the part of the men who are sharing this same view.
Now the question is, are you a rich man/wealthy man?
If no. But you have a woman or have had a woman who loved/loves you, I hope you can see how despicable you're for lumping her in with prostitutes even when she was/is with u despite your lack of wealth.
I do not know anyman who's single because he's poor.like I said many of you have even multiple women despite your poverty. You included.
Coming here to disregard that/those woman/women just to feel among these ill-bred low lifers that call themselves real MEN on nairaland is nothing short of wickedness. And I wish that the ladies involved with these type of men would come to know what the men really think of them.it's so disheartening. Really.
If a woman has ever spent a penny on you,I hope you know you're a gigolo?

I used to have a measure of respect for some select dudes on NL. Sadly most of them have lost that respect on this thread and they don't even know it.those who even feel confident calling their moms and women prostitutes. I wonder how they feel doing that.
What a travesty

IF HE LOSSES HIS JOB WLL YOU STILL LOVE HIM?
CAN WE EVEN KNOW THIS GUY AND CONFIRM ALL YOUR TRUE LOVE ALLIEGATION?
because you too dey lie. No girl dey EVER gre say she like guy because of money , even my gf. Its an anthem but when d chips are down, ....
IF UR GUY DOSENT MAKE CASH AVAILIABLE TO U FOR SOME OBVIOUS REASON FOR OVER A PEROIOD OF SIX MONTHS IN A STRETCH, WOULD YOU HOARD IN ANNOYANCE OR HAVE THE TENDENCY TO? leave dat tin babe

shymexx:

Nice siggy and I had to sign in to endorse your post, fam. You said it all. Salient points with supreme wisdom.

I'm not into prostitutes/female-escorts/call-girls, but I love strippers. I love strippers so much, I used to eat breakfast in strip clubs, back in day. We live in the materialistic age in which most girls are somewhat quasi-prostitutes in a way (I said most not all because they're still a few decent ones out here). However, most of them won't accept the obvious. They would rather live in denial, like people can't see through the whole facade.

I'd say the only difference between the ones who do it professionally and the pretentious materialistic ones is that, the professional ones have got a "store"/"office"/"stall" where they sell their "wares"/"services". However, the pretentious ones are hustlers, who just prey on suitors that meet their desired criteria. Also, the funniest thing is that some of these "decent"/"normal" chics have a higher mileage than the so-called, prostitutes.

People need to stop hating on other people's hustle especially when they're no different from those they're hating on.

THIS IS JUST VERY PERFECT

YOUR ONLY CONTRIBUTION TO THE RELATIONSHIP BE SAY U DEY Bleep ME. THEN U HAVE NO VALUE BECAUSE THE LAST TIME I CHECKED, COMMERCIAL SEX WORKERS DO SAME.

if it is more expensive keeping a girlfrind over a commercial sex worker i call them ( not a prostitute) then u are not productive.

it just like using N1000 to eat in an eatery then actually goin to the market to buy food stuffs and cooking the food for the same qty u would buy frm d eatery.
If it costs more to prepare the food at home then ofcourse it is better to eat at the eatery and save ur time.

Ladies add more value. I am a vey rude guy in nature and ladies conplain I talk to them anyhow, what do u expect, i pick up all d bills.
--You come to my house, I pay your transport to and fro,
-- when ever you need to talk to me, u flash and i call you back( even when there is airtime on ur fone, you just believ it is my responsibility to call)
--- U get my house, u flash to let me know u r out side
---- u pick a cab u can ordinarily cannot affort when ever u want to came and see me even when you dont usually do same when you have to go about ur other business.
---UR bis is my prerogative
--- allowance
---- up keep money
---- toileteries
-- u want to take flight trips
---always begging
Damn, I effiwizzy, i have neva complained, i earn a six digit salary so folks dont think i m crying or protesting here, but i make u feel so used, bleeped. i talk to u carelessly, no regard, no respect! that the price.
IF i do like like almost evty thin fora lady, CANT YOU EVEN AFFORD TO PAY UR KEKE MY VISIT UR SO CALLED BOYFIRIEND (only N50) where is your pride, is it not the same thing a commercial sex worker would ask for, y cant you make a differnce and let me sya chai, had it been my babe dey!
YOU ALL ACT SAME. den y accuse another of standing on the road and as a matter of fact, little and upcoming whores stand on the road, professional have their client who have their contacts and the go aboit doin their other businesses.

U see in abuja, a lady lives in a posh house in maitama which cost N800,000 FOR A YEARLY rent, drive and infinity or a range and you ask her what she does, she takes you to one 12 by 12 shop she has rented in garki, stocked up money from her prostitution, she hires a sales girl and pays her 20k a month.
THE total outflow of income fromsales in that shop in a year cannot even service that car let alone pay her next year rent. what suppliments the balance ? coporate prostitution .
so stop castigating little girls on thje road. I m not condoning or encouraging comercializing sex but lets look at it from a broader spectrum.

DO YOU KNOW A LADY FRETS OR IS THREATHENED to loose her guy to some other lady. The answer is very simple. The ONLY thing you HAVE TO OFFER HIM, the other girl equally has it. Might be even bigger or firmer. The point I"m trying to make here is that ladies, develop ur self other than you sexuality alone, even a mad woman on the street has a va*i*na for crying out load. GET something more than a Va*i*na to have an edge over the other. give more than s*x. everybody can offer sex but not every body can offer evry other VIRTUE.
if NNPC call for an interview and mamothe croud rolls in with all first degree B.sc. and and just about 10 guys have in an addition to thier first degree, a proffessional qualification and a masters degree, definately , they can neva be threaten by be Bsc holders alone. The Bsc holders will shake knowing they ve lost d jobs already.

WOMEN MAKE IT SO OBVIOUS S*X IS ALL AND ALL THEY ACN GIVE IN TO a relationship. the next thing they will say, afterall , im i not giving u sex? then so ? privatise it then !

Hmmmmm,
It still seems most people do not still literaly know who a prostitute is. It bothers me that they could just miss some few millions if there were to be on the who wants to be a millionaire hot seat..
It starts from the writter of this trend. She saw girls standing on Obalende road bla bla.
PLEASE go back to ur dictionary, prostitution is a sex in lieu of money or favour of any kind period. You dont need to be on ALLEN AVENUE, or in front of NICON hilton to be termed a prostitute.
Going by this english definition i did not create, There is hardly any WOMAN who can escape this whether at one point of her life or the other.

Some girls make it look better or tushed this days by saying its my sugar daddy - A man, married to anoher woman and you know it not that you are decieved, there is no future in that relationship you also know that. It all about you gratifying him sexually and hs pays your bills and that same you will look at another girl on Obalende and call her a prostitute! is there really any difference btw you and her, pls i need to know here.

Back then in school, i used to have number of female some student who would want to be hooked with big boys who come into town when i organise a big show so they could give a night stand a get an envelop- whatare you? u fine tune it to run girl. U are a prostitute. (sex and money exchanges hand)
most girls lobby to attend big event if they could just be lucky to be taken home by one senator or the other-- PROSTITUTION.

i want to finally add here that I critically made an obervation and came to a conclution that it is cheaper, safer and more cost effective to get sexual gratification and pay for it straight on that to keep on glorified hooker in the name of a girlfriend who do not contribute NADA to ur body or spririt, emotionally or psychological, mentally or otherwise. They just feel since THEY have sex with you as a girlfriend, they have done what mary magdalene could not do for Jesus and as a result, you just have to assume the position of their financial benefactor. Now tell me, is there any other thing the girl on Obalende does differntly other than that? tHEN WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERNT/SPECIAL?

Wives is not qualified, and therefore applies to every Christian wife, regardless of her social standing, education, intelligence, spiritual maturity or giftedness, age, experience, or any other consideration. Nor is it qualified by her husband’s intelligence, character, attitude, spiritual condition, or any other consideration. Paul says categorically to all believing wives: be subject to your own husbands.

Your own husband suggests the intimacy and mutuality of the wife’s submission. She willingly makes herself subject to the one she possesses as her own husband (cf. 1 Cor. 7:3–4). Husbands and wives are to have a mutual possessiveness as well as a mutual submissiveness. They belong to each other in an absolute equality. The husband no more possesses his wife than she possesses him. He has no superiority and she no inferiority, any more than one who has the gift of teaching is superior to one with the gift of helps. A careful reading of 1 Corinthians 12:12–31 will show that God has designed every person for a unique role in the Body of Christ, and the pervasive attitude governing all those roles and blending them together is “the more excellent way” of love (ch. 13).



As with spiritual gifts, the distinctions of headship and submission are entirely functional and were ordained by God. As a consequence of Eve’s disobedience of God’s command and her failure to consult with Adam about the serpent’s temptation, God told her, “Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you” (Gen. 3:16). The desire spoken of here is not sexual or psychological, both of which Eve had for Adam before the Fall as his specially created helper. It is the same desire spoken Of in the next chapter, where the identical Hebrew word (t?shûqâ) is used. The term comes from an Arabic root that means to compel, impel, urge, or seek control over. The Lord warned Cain, “Sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you [that is, control you], but you must master it” (4:7, niv ; emphasis added). Sin wanted to master Cain, but God commanded Cain to master sin. In light of this close context meaning of t?shûqâ, therefore, the curse on Eve was that woman’s desire would henceforth be to usurp the place of man’s headship and that he would resist that desire and would rule over her. The Hebrew word here for “rule” is not the same as that used in 1:28. Rather it represented a new, despotic kind of authoritarianism that was not in God’s original plan for man’s headship.



With the Fall and its curse came the distortion of woman’s proper submissiveness and of man’s proper authority. That is where the battle of the sexes began, where women’s liberation and male chauvinism came into existence. Women have a sinful inclination to usurp man’s authority and men have a sinful inclination to put women under their feet. The divine decree that man would rule over woman in this way was part of God’s curse on humanity, and it takes a manifestation of grace in Christ by the filling of the Holy Spirit to restore the created order and harmony of proper submission in a relationship that has become corrupted and disordered by sin.

SUBMISSION IN MARRIAGE MEANS:

As indicated by italics in most translations, be subject is not in the original text, but the meaning is carried over from verse 21. The idea is: “Be subject to one another in the fear of Christ [and, as a first example,] wives, … to your own husbands.” As explained in the previous chapter, hupotasso means to relinquish one’s rights, and the Greek middle voice (used in verse 21 and carried over by implication into verse 22) emphasizes the willing submitting of oneself God’s command is to those who are to submit. That is, the submission is to be a voluntary response to God’s will in giving up one’s independent rights to other believers in general and to ordained authority in particular—in this case the wife’s own husband.

ONE BEING THE HEAD DOESNT SUGGEST INFERIORITY TO THE OTHER.

No matter how expensive a car is, it requires a minimum of N97/L fuel to get the engine stated and taht dosnt make the better because without the fuel it dosent go nowhere.
Its supposed to be a symbiotic kind of relationship btw the man and wife.
Stop this feeling of inferiority because you are to submit. it is easy to lead either?

Dont try to function as what you wer not design to function as. That is where the failure comes in. opereate in your strenth as a women. A man can never beat you doin that.

@ LORRETTA
LORETTA , this is strictly directed at you. i ve carefully read ur points all thru this topic.
you seem to be A VERY DOMMINEERING kind of woman. it pricks you so hard to hear of the word submission., Then you can go fight the almighty God if u r so pained.
Secondly, you are a real femmist and for you information, no one is contesting with you.
I HAVE NEVE HEARD YOU CONTESTING THE ISSUE OF THE MAN PROVIDING FOR HIS FAMILY and y it should be so when the woman is equally getting a pay cheque at the end of the day.
You so much stress on equality btw the man and the woman and it all sorrounds on the rights of the woman.
1. providering for her
2. opening the door for her
3. loving her
4. paying the childrens fees
5. providing the shelter
e.t.c
Y dont you see any reasons y the woman shudnt do this things.
The bible learly states that there is NO EQUALITY and that the man is the head of the family and if u have any issues with that, you can jump into the lagoon.

submisivness dosnt mean control i would love to answer your question here.
I quote you saying men are threatened by womens success hence they crave for their submission. I will recommed "THE MYTH OF SINGLENESS" for you to read.

STop misinforming good women.In any case, a womans submission shouldnt be dependent on any factor and including His loving you. you do it because God commanded it and the blessing comes from Him and not the man. He issued the command. and same to the male folk.

joywendy: so funny i forgot to laugh.....most sensible thread i have seen since i came to NL....pls ASUU end the strike!

Iknow say u no go like hear such . una no like thuth. all of u d same.

Opytim: @op, dat number one and two are so true. I loved this guy because he met many of my expectations nd my friends alredy liked him cause of his cute looks but we split cause he believes in premarital sex which i don't.

he believes in premaritalsex but you dont but during the very short period it lasted, u made some few request like, money for hair do, recharge cards etc, do u know if he belived in that? If sex should wait till u marry. wait till he marries u before he also begins his financial duty babe. I think im very honest with that!

Hh, just getting to read this and think I should contribute because i know exactly what makes me mount pressure on the female folk especially almost immadiately after our first date.
ARE YOU ALREADY REQUESTING FOR HAIR AND BB SUBSCRIPTION MONEY TOO?
If his is too early, Your is damn to early too.
Honestly i always pray for the ladies i meet to be so bitchy and begin thier request too soon so i tke advantage of that ask for sex too. If she doesnt ask , i ll feel unconfortable an guilty to ask too so soon.
I LIKE IT WHEN i get to a polce check point and the policeman on duty is a corrupt type, i"ll just bribe him and move on especiall when i carry a contaband in my car or my papers are wrong. Same to a girls who request too soon or feels that sex should wait for whilewhile i begin my our payment