shymexx:

Nice siggy and I had to sign in to endorse your post, fam. You said it all. Salient points with supreme wisdom.

I'm not into prostitutes/female-escorts/call-girls, but I love strippers. I love strippers so much, I used to eat breakfast in strip clubs, back in day. We live in the materialistic age in which most girls are somewhat quasi-prostitutes in a way (I said most not all because they're still a few decent ones out here). However, most of them won't accept the obvious. They would rather live in denial, like people can't see through the whole facade.

I'd say the only difference between the ones who do it professionally and the pretentious materialistic ones is that, the professional ones have got a "store"/"office"/"stall" where they sell their "wares"/"services". However, the pretentious ones are hustlers, who just prey on suitors that meet their desired criteria. Also, the funniest thing is that some of these "decent"/"normal" chics have a higher mileage than the so-called, prostitutes.

People need to stop hating on other people's hustle especially when they're no different from those they're hating on.

You dey crase

martronilla: eeewww.... what do u gain from that kindda grave yard?

see who is talking,as if your own is not as deep as borehole

[quote author=lorretta u]I don't intend to go on a back and forth arguement with you.
My stand remains
1: I cannot be with a man that is not wealthy.
2: that doesn't make me a prostitute
3: personally Everything is monetized I don't see why I should settle for less
4:I still maintain that a prostitute is a woman who has sexzual relations with different men for financial gain. That in no way makes your girlfriend a prostitute for doing the same thing in the name of love.
5: this generation of women are becoming fast unproductive, lazy and mediocre hence they are always on the defensive when a man doesn't want to monetize the relationship.using words like he is suppose to be financially responsible
You call him lazy and unproductive because he cannot meet up with your financial demands, and u quickly jump to d next guy that can meet up with your financial demands and claim he is more aspiring but the day he runs out financially then he becomes lazy and unproductive .
6:it doesn't change the fact that we know that it is all about the money.
7:if you are truthful to yourself,you'll accept that these women claiming to be angels and criticizing or condemning prostitutes are only trying to make themselves feel good. To try and make it look like sleeping with more than one guy In the name of love and getting financial benefits is not the same thing as prostitution.

Keep decieving yourselves.

diz iz bulshit

tochimas: Op abeg leave these guys alone, you should have checked out sexuality section and read their comments on ash awl joints before opening this thread. It's obvious they enjoy them, some out of out of wanting a taste of the bad side of life, some cos they could not get a girlfriend. No be me put them there abeg, but I do enjoy the entitlement they provide. Back in the days, my favourite past time is driving out around Ellen with my boyfriend to watch prostitutes, yes, he likes it too , he usually drive very slowly when we get to those spots so We could watch them very well disgracing their families. It use to be very fun but not anymore. In fact I dey shame for them now, I can't imagine how one will chose that kind of life. Don't be deceived , some of the actually likes what they do.
For those defending them. Why do you push them out in the wee our of the morning, why don't you treat them like ordinary woman,
Why don't you take them out in the day light when others can see you . I am a girl but I can't walk down the street with a known ashawo. Yes, I happen to know one and believe me every girl avoids her. She lives in the street close to my work place at Ikeja and we exchange greetings too but that where it ends. She wanted my asoebi during my trad and I tactfully refused selling to her, she was ready to travel to my place. I was planning a birthday and she heard when she came around and friends were giving me the eyes not to invite her right there. She is simply an outcast . And she doesn't even know it. A friend once said, how can we avoid having a pix with her, we might not be able to get her at the extreme so we can cut her off later, what if one of her customers sees the photos and recognizes her, it means we all will be tainted by her reputation.

If una like make una defend them, no brother of mine is bringing home any pro, a woman that sleeps with different men everyday, everybody's woman, sorry there are better jobs abeg. Make una no dey justify evil oh.

you and you boyfriend are jobless, staring at girls with a steady income job.....smh

plus your BF is mos def a customer, checking out girls so he can go back and finish the transaction

there is a name for what your BF is suffering, its called the nicodemus effect

born2fuck: no beefing tinz but honesty is the best policy, armrobber and thief are families. Ashawo and a woman that Bleep prick before marriage in the name of boyfriend thing and eventually not marrying is ashawo,because such a woman will end up fucking many dick, why ccant they wait before marriage, all these women claims holiness but their pussy is widen than that of olosho, bush women full nairaland

You know we don talk about this in the directory thread, I no holy pass but e no just gree me. I didn't diss you nor hate like mobush just dey wonder how you begin attack me

@ op, what's your business. " GO AND DIE"

Hmmmmm,
It still seems most people do not still literaly know who a prostitute is. It bothers me that they could just miss some few millions if there were to be on the who wants to be a millionaire hot seat..
It starts from the writter of this trend. She saw girls standing on Obalende road bla bla.
PLEASE go back to ur dictionary, prostitution is a sex in lieu of money or favour of any kind period. You dont need to be on ALLEN AVENUE, or in front of NICON hilton to be termed a prostitute.
Going by this english definition i did not create, There is hardly any WOMAN who can escape this whether at one point of her life or the other.

Some girls make it look better or tushed this days by saying its my sugar daddy - A man, married to anoher woman and you know it not that you are decieved, there is no future in that relationship you also know that. It all about you gratifying him sexually and hs pays your bills and that same you will look at another girl on Obalende and call her a prostitute! is there really any difference btw you and her, pls i need to know here.

Back then in school, i used to have number of female some student who would want to be hooked with big boys who come into town when i organise a big show so they could give a night stand a get an envelop- whatare you? u fine tune it to run girl. U are a prostitute. (sex and money exchanges hand)
most girls lobby to attend big event if they could just be lucky to be taken home by one senator or the other-- PROSTITUTION.

i want to finally add here that I critically made an obervation and came to a conclution that it is cheaper, safer and more cost effective to get sexual gratification and pay for it straight on that to keep on glorified hooker in the name of a girlfriend who do not contribute NADA to ur body or spririt, emotionally or psychological, mentally or otherwise. They just feel since THEY have sex with you as a girlfriend, they have done what mary magdalene could not do for Jesus and as a result, you just have to assume the position of their financial benefactor. Now tell me, is there any other thing the girl on Obalende does differntly other than that? tHEN WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERNT/SPECIAL?

martronilla: eeewww.... what do u gain from that kindda grave yard?

Do u have a shallow v**ina??

wen i c some mature men n women supporting prostitution i weep 4 d type of world we r living...wat type of family can such people produce? And incidentally bad family=bad country,govt.,edu.,etc. God have mercy on ur children...peace!

francababy: I cannot believe that guys will sleep with those rough looking, unkempt girls you find in brothels. Seriously what fun is it to sleep with a girl that has had sex with like 10 guys before you that day? I created this topic because I was driving home now and passed Obalende. Come and see them.. Chai

Guys do you even enjoy sleeping with any of these girls?

I wonder the same thing over and over again.

fresh_dude: I don't know how they can't comprehend this simple concept.

truth is bitter...lol

My gees,the argument has been long overdue to sum it up,all guys should know that no matter how buoyant a lady is financially that she still need u to spend on her that nature for you and i belive that it shouldent be a criteria to call them bitch but girls should understand the angle where guys are coming from ie the rat at which girls collect money to much upon say the girl will have about 3 or 4 boyfriend she is milkingwhich will qualify her as a bitch

Ceejayo: I read through these response originating from guys and I'm kinda disappointed, see how support for prostitution dey come from us guys, anyways the OP called them unkept girls but FYI most of those girls are actually retards, socially withdrawn and sick. interacted with many of them and I felt sorry for some guys. its really a pathetic situation.

Guess U interacted with the wrong ones. Prostitution is an all age bracket thing. I know a 50year old granny involved in Prostitution. I swear to God,I lie,I die... same as 40year old doing it. These are people who enjoy what they do tho they keep it on the low but it still doesnt change the fact they are love peddlers. ...
My own opinion is there is nothing wrong in having a night stand with ds folks but DO NOT TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THEIR SITUATION. Only a few of them take it as profession,some are into it cos life gave them no choice.
I do it and I wouldnt condemn it

DO YOU KNOW A LADY FRETS OR IS THREATHENED to loose her guy to some other lady. The answer is very simple. The ONLY thing you HAVE TO OFFER HIM, the other girl equally has it. Might be even bigger or firmer. The point I"m trying to make here is that ladies, develop ur self other than you sexuality alone, even a mad woman on the street has a va*i*na for crying out load. GET something more than a Va*i*na to have an edge over the other. give more than s*x. everybody can offer sex but not every body can offer evry other VIRTUE.
if NNPC call for an interview and mamothe croud rolls in with all first degree B.sc. and and just about 10 guys have in an addition to thier first degree, a proffessional qualification and a masters degree, definately , they can neva be threaten by be Bsc holders alone. The Bsc holders will shake knowing they ve lost d jobs already.

WOMEN MAKE IT SO OBVIOUS S*X IS ALL AND ALL THEY ACN GIVE IN TO a relationship. the next thing they will say, afterall , im i not giving u sex? then so ? privatise it then !

lol @thread

Left with me. They would have ban prostitution. Guys in their right senses will nt encourage those nonsense. I just hate seeing prostitutes on the roadside waiting to be picked by men for sex. It is so disgusting. Most of the guys here need jesus in their life to be able to think straight. To me the op is correct. I cant even think of patronising a prostitute in the first place. I totally condemn prostitution. There should be at least 2years jail term 4 any prostitute caught. We need to sanitize this country and rid it of those nonsense.

~Bluetooth:


You dey crase

True story, bruddah.

Before you put a ring on it, you better check the mileage, service history and make sure the previous owners aren't too many.

Else you might end up with a 1982 volkswagen scirocco - when what you thought you had was a 2012 bentley continental GT.

These chicken heads just spread their legs wide open to everyone and their pops, as long as they can sell them a dream and throw some baits at them.

Better watch-out before you become a victim.

chimerase2: u too u no dey sleep!! Kai
Hv been monitoring ur post here since 12:01 till 5:00 am
U be winch huh?
Abi u be adi-abani

Many men, and majority of Nigerian men can sleep with anything that has a va-gina.
Have you not seen pregnant mad women on the streets in Nigeria?
Who got them pregnant?

I have seen top Nigerian men who are even executives in big companies sleeping with dirty and filthy street girls and then returning to sleep with their well bred wives without any compulsion.

Only few men and very few Nigerian men have scruples and wouldn't descend so low.

loswhite: [quote author=lorretta u]I don't intend to go on a back and forth arguement with you.
My stand remains
1: I cannot be with a man that is not wealthy.
2: that doesn't make me a prostitute
3: personally Everything is monetized I don't see why I should settle for less
4:I still maintain that a prostitute is a woman who has sexzual relations with different men for financial gain. That in no way makes your girlfriend a prostitute for doing the same thing in the name of love.
5: this generation of women are becoming fast unproductive, lazy and mediocre hence they are always on the defensive when a man doesn't want to monetize the relationship.using words like he is suppose to be financially responsible
You call him lazy and unproductive because he cannot meet up with your financial demands, and u quickly jump to d next guy that can meet up with your financial demands and claim he is more aspiring but the day he runs out financially then he becomes lazy and unproductive .
6:it doesn't change the fact that we know that it is all about the money.
7:if you are truthful to yourself,you'll accept that these women claiming to be angels and criticizing or condemning prostitutes are only trying to make themselves feel good. To try and make it look like sleeping with more than one guy In the name of love and getting financial benefits is not the same thing as prostitution.

Keep decieving yourselves.

you can make ur points without twisting my words.
I think we all agree that sleeping with different men for financial gain is prostitution. Maybe the person you need to sort out the problem with is yourself.
Ps I have a man,he's not wealthy. I hope that makes you realize your folly
Many guys out there are struggling to survive doing meaningful albeit low pay work. Are they all single? Nope they have women who love them too.
Many women help men out financially every second and every minute everywhere in the world even as we speak. Why you people chose to overlook such glaring facts and lump all women into a category called 'prostitute' is beyond me. But it reeks of dishonesty and maliciousness on the part of the men who are sharing this same view.
Now the question is, are you a rich man/wealthy man?
If no. But you have a woman or have had a woman who loved/loves you, I hope you can see how despicable you're for lumping her in with prostitutes even when she was/is with u despite your lack of wealth.
I do not know anyman who's single because he's poor.like I said many of you have even multiple women despite your poverty. You included.
Coming here to disregard that/those woman/women just to feel among these ill-bred low lifers that call themselves real MEN on nairaland is nothing short of wickedness. And I wish that the ladies involved with these type of men would come to know what the men really think of them.it's so disheartening. Really.
If a woman has ever spent a penny on you,I hope you know you're a gigolo?

I used to have a measure of respect for some select dudes on NL. Sadly most of them have lost that respect on this thread and they don't even know it.those who even feel confident calling their moms and women prostitutes. I wonder how they feel doing that.
What a travesty

I just feel sorry for some people even as I read this post.

I know that guys like to be respected so, we lie about what we've never done to be seen as a sharp guy.
Many do not know that their comments(replies/post) to write-ups influence another person.

Ask yourself a question? Why should I pay a woman/lady to have sex with?
After the act, how do I feel within me?

On every street you have churches and mosque(s), still evil is on the increase even without conscience.

Take it or leave it; YOU ARE NO LONGER IN CONTROL OF YOURSELF WHEN YOU VISIT BROTHEL FOR SEX. That is why you can't stop because there is a spirit behind it.

Repent of it. Go and marry.

so @44 tpia still works at Obalende; Now i see why she always talk that way!

Hmmmmm

girl too hard to get boyz go for quick one,

girl friend ask for too much money boyz prefer pay as you go

girlz am not in the mood, bpyz look for always available

girl now do dorrrrr ooooooo boyz shade market for no time

just funny

What a funny world we live in!!. At OP, you're a shallow minded human, its so evident that your upbringing is faulty and weak. First, you've just shown us the kind of defective human you are yourself. HOW DARE YOU JUDGE A HUMAN?? WHO ARE YOU,what have you done to better their lives before talking shit about prostitutes? or is because you're cursed to have parents who still feed of at 29?, i know of prostitutes that i've got good virtues than this birch(my people don't be deceived). Even if they are dirty looking birch, at least they are better off with those stretch mark and cellulite that have taken over your God forsaken body birch., pussy arse peeps like poster will commit sucide if they go through half of the tribulations these girls have faced(i'm not justifying prostitution what i bad is bad). As a former patronizer of prostitutes, i've dated some of these girls and what i've come to notice is "no girl ever wants to become a prostitute but situation makes them venture into it" even at that these girls are still responsible for their aged parents, siblings schooling, extended family members. Also, i know of former prostitutes who have better homes than this thrash poster

To start with,

Who is a prostitute?

One who solicits and accepts payment for sex acts. (Dictionary Definition)

If you're sound upstairs OP, what do you call a girl that goes into a relationship with a guy for monetary benefit at the expense of her body?. You're guilty asshole.

francababy:
That is what I mean in my original post when I said how do guys sleep with a girl that has slept with 10 guys that day before sleeping with them.

how do u knw she has slept with more than 10 guys?

Alikaxon: If not that she has an attitude issue, she would have realised that she needs to rest before creating frivolous thread. (common sence is not common)

bros i hail oh baddo obago(we done enter) I love how Charlie Sheen tweeted "Rebecca Black, we don't hate you 'cause you're famous, you're famous because we hate you In Naija people complain about their looks but no one complains about their brains
Keep my name outta ur mouth or put that shit on wax ..... Getmoney or killurself .. Bleep outta here.. #sarz╥┼†♣⊙♦♂♀♣⌂

All humans are H0es. Even men would be buttt-fvcked with the right price.

Shaanteel: including your sister

and mother

One of the most entertaining trend! Meanwhile, show some respect..we all came through this hole!

OP, what makes you better than those girls??. You said they are dirty looking, fine!!!. Are you happier than them?, are you patient than them?, how many of your family do you pay for their school fees on a regular basis?, are you forgiving than them?, are you merciful than them?, are you caring than them?. Is it even guaranteed you'll make heaven?, is it even guaranteed you're going to have a better home than these girls when the TIME comes?, is it guaranteed your kids and your generations will be better off than these girls?. WHO THE Bleep ARE YOU TO JUDGE