₦airaland Forum

Liliyann:
Op the lady likes you and simply want more!!
Why not give her what she wants or are you waiting for her to make the first move?
You can be the man in her life and be supplying all her needs!!
That's how real men roll

Guess what? She has a boyfriend that keeps coming every week!!! The guy barely greets me now cuz he noticed she’s always trying to be close with me. She’s not my type, she’s all those over religious and oversabi type of girls..those I know better than u type. I was friendly at first, making her laugh and all but she started pushing it. Would bang on my door and comman me to come outside, then complain that I’m inside my own fucking house? Like WTF

So first, I am very polite and mind my business a lot. I grew up to realize like every adult do, that life is no fairytale and that you must work hard by yourself to succeed. Even Davido with his fathers wealth is always doing his best to be somebody because ur fathers money can only get u so far in life. Now everyday I’m always hustling trying to be relevant without support from anyone but God, I don’t have time to play or womanize cuz I’m trying not to end up as a cup in hand beggar. But I noticed I have a very charming demeanor, im one of those people u just see and instantly try to be friends with, u may think I’m delusional but for all I can remember people always try to be my friend wherever I go. The thing is I’m always polite, the type to greet u , smile and leave but I noticed people around me always want more. They start giving me unnecessary attitudes when I don’t give them space to “visit me” , “sit with them for hours chatting” “stroll out together and waste time” (the same time I’m trying to use to build a life for myself) they become bitter and make me their enemy. I have experienced this my whole adult life. Recently I moved to a new place and the same thing happed, a particular girl there always knocked on my door everyday asking me why I don’t sit down outside playing, (can u fucking believe that, a man of 29 should sit outside playing) that I’m always inside. (Funny part is no one ever sits outside since I moved here) and Guess what, we are only four in the house. The first guy upstairs never sits outside, barely talks to anyone and she doesn’t bother him. The other lady upstairs , always indoors writing articles cuz she’s a freelancer..the amenities Neigbour never bothers her, they never talk even. Then there’s the amebor Neigbour who always disturbs me, I couldn’t take it anymore and I had to warn her never to knock on my door again! I tried not being mean, I did everything possible..told her my family story and that I’m alone in the world struggling so she would know why I’m always busy but no she kept bothering me. Moral of the story, some people don’t deserve friendliness and why am I always targeted. Is it now bad to be charming, that’s if I’m even charming cuz I keep attracting psychopaths.

Standardcosting:
I see number 7 winning!!!

I see so many anti-Buhari wailling

I see myself in a better and God's ordained postion.

You didn’t bother to vet the rest but no u want the Daura man to win, Nigerians are Nigeria biggest problem

Davido that has announced his New York shows in a few days will now be teaching in one primary school? If u believe this propaganda then you’re more lifeless like the man from Daura

ChiefAzubuike:
How can a sane country have a senile youth like this serve her? Well if you believe David will indulge in this NYSC then you must be dreaming. All this is just for show off. A few settlements here and there will allow him ghost the outdated scheme.

You will only see him twice.
#1 During registration which you're currently seeing.

#2 During certificate collection.

Sense will not kill u, post your details baby

Tamarapetty:
Num 4 is soo true, fools

Dem don press ur breast tire

Y’all really believe this nigga will teach Person wey no go class one day? Baba already announced his show in New York

I am yet to see a mad man with a small dickkk o, when they are walking naked their dickss are so big and fat and I wonder why? Is it a criteria to have big dickkk before u craze?

classc25:
Confidence( not arrogance), looks and smartness (intelligence)

Me I’m arrogant and unapologetic

Even Davido can not afford a million dollar wrist watch, Yen Yen Yen

muibi1:
I have pes 2018 and it's the best mobile soccer game I've ever played. I would love to try the FIFA since it's number one on your list.

Don’t u require internet connection to play this game?

Afamed:
When has it become the traditions of the Potus to be discussing his interaction of a visiting President with his aides? Only the Gullible ones from the other side will believe the cook up.

You clearly don’t know Donald trump, man can invite the cook to the oval and command him to seat in the presidential seat. He doesn’t care abouut nothing

panafrican:
Fake News.
President Trump was very impressed by the inspiring personality, the dignity and respect president Buhari displayed.

You referred to general Buhari as "Nigeria's ailing 75-year-old". Sufficient enough to know where you stand.

Keep in mind the general is well and he will be reelected for a 2nd term.
Jonathan Goodluck will be invited and be given a seat
in the very first row , so he can watch the ceremony
from a close distance as a FORMER president.

It’s people like you that have successfully ruined this country, your lifeless leader is going back to Daura

madridguy:
I'm doing so to help my beloved country, Nigeria.

How? The same Nigeria your beloved Buhari is presently destroying?

madridguy:
Atiku is like Nani always trying to compete with his grandfather CR7.

If Atiku likes, let him trek from Adamawa to Lagos, no vacancy in Aso Rock.

Sai Baba till 2023.

Why are u supporting Buhari sir?

Where do these Nollywood people see the money they use in living lavish

This is obafemi martins house in Lekki, that’s a Benz, 2018 g wagon, Bentley bentayga and a BMW X6 2018 In is garage and the guy wearing the 17 jersey is @godson a good friend of wizkid and obafemi martins. Y’all are welcome

Daevid:
Martins Ain't as tall as that. He's more of stocky

That’s @godson a good friend of obaGoal In obaGoal’s crip, are y’all even on social media

VideoExpert:
lol

For 100k? One Hundred Thousand Naira. Spits

See mumu how much do u make yearly

edimolu:
Don't mind her, she litters many threads with her spiteful comments mostly targeted towards the male folks..

Won't take a soothsayer to figure out she is one frustrated ugly unbalanced biitch whose existence has been plagued with a penchant for being sexually unfufilled , so where else could she be hateful if not nairaland...

Lol she’s a frustrated being. What I feel towards her is pity tho, I just feel she has personal issues she needs to deal with but instead she’s turning it into hate and trying to rub it on random people.

Lol and the clown has disappeared, someone that has never met me is telling me about me. This Nigeria many are mad o, they just have access to internet and you start seeing people who are silently in need of mental evaluation. Eyaaa

MariaLavina:
The emboldened is your problem, You lack social skills and wit. You think the opposite of you is easier because your personality does not complement your looks. You wish for the easiest way out (ugliness). And you wonder why I called you a spineless coward? I should have added chicken livered!

How about you own up to who you are, develop your social skills, learn to handle the attention/ challenges life throws at you and stop opting for easy route. No one love being ugly! Money doesn't solve all problems like you believe. Stop being a chick

Lol it’s funny u say this because you think you know me and yet haven’t even met me. One, I’m one of the most funny persons u would ever meet. My humor is so real, like I cannot say three things without making a joke it’s just my subconscious way of talking. People are drawn to that aspect of me as well, and two..you really think I’m one of those people who changes their personality to please a two faced society? U really don’t know me! I would rather die than live a second being go I’m not. I’m introverted and I love my space why would I want to be like another person when biologically I’m more comfortable this way? That’s why most of u are so sad, u live your whole life trying to fit in. Aunty you’re the only one talking off point, trying to analyze me when u clearly don’t know jack about the real me so stay on track and stop assuming shit u know nothing about. How come ur the only one who has a problem with my write up? Don’t u think there’s something wrong with ur thinking pattern since that’s the case?

LuvU2:
Hve u tried glasses? dak shades; staying indoors, studying/working frm home? etc

In my experience there’s literally no solution, most people give others attention subconsciously so u thinking u can outsmart them by disguising doesn’t really work..they don’t even know they are giving u so much attention, it’s a subconscious reaction to what they are presently seeing..which is something u can do very little about.

abdeiz:
I was expecting a rant about the disadvantages an outburst about how life is unfair, about how your life is sad lonely and depressing but what i got was the opposite. You actually shed more light to this unspoken side of beauty, you made people realize that it aint all that bad and should embrace whom they are over sulking over vain frivolities.

I remain bemused why some people will hate on the op, like what point are you tryna make?

God bless you brother, like people don’t like raw unfiltered truth. It’s sad

franchasng:
White guys no well sha, who knows maybe they use these girls for ritual, cos I can't see why they would pay that big money for a virgin they can get easily with $500 around their city, something must be hidden or fishy about this whole virginity auctioning cos I am not buying it anymore. And when u see the girls auctioning their virginity for $$££€€, they are always very ugly like WTH

It’s all power play my guy, u can’t understand cuz ur broke. Get common 1million usd and see if you won’t automatically relate.

LuvU2:
Loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool cry me a river, no one will choose ugliness(on its own) over beauty(on its own).

Aunty I will. I’m the most introverted person ever, I will pay u one billion if u can assure me no one will ever notice me or talk to me, weird thing is I have the opposite reality.

Slexyangel:
I know this one guy in my street that all the girls wanted to date, he even did a month at yaba left just because they thought something was wrong with him, not knowing he is an introvert. Most time you see girls flocking around he but can't say anything and getting disappointed he didn't hit on him.

Ladies can be vain sometimes

Girls are too shallow and immature, they act like little children when they are not getting the required attention from someone they admire. We guys get turned down daily we don’t cry, but once a fine guy ignores a girl, she starts making noises once he walks past or do some weird shit I’m too irrateted to name.

MariaLavina:
I see a spineless coward consoling himself. Yes having good looks has it's advantage but its really not an achievement . There are some good looking nonentities straying the stress so being ugly isn't an excuse to "go through life unnoticed" that phrase is damn appalling.

Good looks isn't an instant key to success but an advantage to it's owner if he/she knows how to use it. God has place a talent into everyone , find yours and use it.

Wow so off point

samysmoothfresh:
My ugliness put me at an advantage in the society for years till i got tired of the "advantage" and did a plastic surgery

Lol different strokes for different folks

LuciferKristi:
I love this write-up.

I always felt this way. Its unfair what handsome guys go through. Everything is just harder to get.
Once girls see you, they overdo the "hard to get thing", guys see you as a threat instantly.
Married men despise you, their wives are very rude to you publicly in a bid to prove that they have nothing hidden with you.

Even employers/clients give jobs easily to ugly guys than fine boys.

It's hard mehn...

It’s so hard being handsome, like people don’t preach about the mental fuckery attached to it. The only time you don’t get to experience any drama is when you’re alone indoors, once you step out into the world it’s drama, drama and more drama. People will intentionally annoy you just to get your attention, like it literally will make u almost go crazy if you’re the sensitive type.

Well I’m very sure most of u will think I created this post cuz I’m ugly and I’m trying to comfort myself but believe it or not You’re very wrong. Most people take for granted the peace of mind that comes with being an ugly guy. You literally go through life unnoticed and no one expects anything from you. You’re left to do anything you like without being judged because most people are uninterested in the activities of an unacctrctive person, they will just ignore u. Take for example a very handsome guy pushing wheelbarrow , most people will see him and say “eyaa see this fine boy wey Dey push wheelbarrow, e no fit am I wish I fit help am” but consider an ugly Hausa guy pushing the same wheelbarrow, even if he’s naked most people will still ignore him cuz people don’t like to give attention to ugly people. My point is if you’re handsome you get to deal with so much bullshit daily, girls fight u for not liking them back, people expect too much from u, people think you’re a threat , people assume you’re proud, if ur rich then police will target u cuz they will assume ur a fraudster, everyone wants to know what you’re doing all the time, you cannot go anywhere low key cuz attention follows you like a plague, girls play harder to get cuz they think ur a player, the list is frightening endless. But when you’re ugly, all you need is money and you’re going to have anything you want without a single drama attached to it. You gain respect and that to me is more powerful than goodlooks that’s filled with drama. This is my opinion and if I had a choice I would never come into life and chose to be attractive. Let me know how you see it from your own perspective, no insults please..we are intellectually beings let’s discuss like one.

XhosaNostra:
You do it for your own peace of mind. Plus it doesn't cost a thing in some cases. If you walk around embittered, you're only harming yourself.

Personally, I'd rather extend my generosity & whatnot to strangers, rather than to people I know. The reason for that is, I have a few axes to grind with the ones closest to me for a myriad of reasons. Strangers on the other hand, have done nothing to me & will probably never get the chance to make me dislike them. They may even be victims of society themselves, hence when I can, I try to show them that not everyone in this world is out to get them.

Well said dear, very articulate and honest. Keep being nice , it has a way of coming all back to you tho that’s if you believe in karma but even if you don’t it would still all come back because life is just structured that way I guess �