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Only this week , I decided to flirt with Nigerian girls online because it's been a while since I did that. I noticed the first girl I messaged was acting weird and then I just ignored her and left. I later remessaged her only for her to say I should apologize for leaving the chat with money and just dropped her account details? Like wtf

The other one I met on Instagram a while back. We were cool till I lost her contact, I recently retrieved my line and saw her contact. Messaged her on WhatsApp, she was acting like I was a stranger till I got offended and said some mean things to her. She immediately blocked me. Now yesterday she called me asking me to send her money for sub to apologize for being mean? Like wtf? U acted like u didnt know me, and then blocked me and all of a sudden u have my number and asking me for sub? Are u possessed?

The other one on twitter, i messaged her and cuz I said I like femdom which means the act of being verbally abused and degraded by women for pleasure she started playing along and next thing dropped her paypal account and said she would only continue after I send her money.

Wtf is this? Cant u talk to a girl without her account details dropping unsolicitedly? What kind of desperate behavior is this? Are u people saying every Nigerian girl is a slut now cuz last I checked only a slut demands money for pleasure and I'm not even asking for pleasure...just hello and next thing is account details. Wtf?

I really want to carry out my fantasies but most of these fantasies involve the police and jail time. Nigerian girls are so dull, slow, uninteresting. They are very sexy but that's their only quality. I'm thinking of picking up some of them for my fantasy in the days to come, but are ones even worthy of jail time?

CAPSLOCKED:
YOU WILL BE ALL OVER THE INTERNET AS A RAPIST. YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS WILL BE INVOLVED. YOU WILL GO TO PRISON. THE CONSEQUENCES WILL BE WORSE IF YOUR VICTIM DIES.

DO YOU FEAR THESE THINGS? ALLOW THAT FEAR HELP YOU DECIDE NOT TO DRUG AND ABUSE OTHER PEOPLE.
BUT YOU CAN DRUG YOURSELF THOUGH.. THE MORE TIME YOU SPEND PASSED OUT THE LESS TIME YOU'LL HAVE TO PLOT AND COMMIT EVIL.

People always judge crazy people like they just woke up and became crazy. I need help please, I'm so depressed

gracile:
You’re not cursed. Get a church or a counselor or someone you can confide in to talk to and pray along side with. It’s important you change your mindset about the whole thing. You’re experiencing the trauma that comes with sexual abuse, so many have been there and are healed. You too can be healed. It’s well with you!

Most churches today are scam. I'm thinking of going to a psychiatric hospital but something is telling me it's a waste of time. Especially the fact Nigerian physicians mostly are very ignorant

I was molested at 14 by a girl who was older than me and that led me to also molest our house help while she was asleep. I think she cursed me as I cannot control my urges anymore, I cant have normal sexx except the girl is unconscious. For everytime I see an asss or a big breast all I want to do is say hi, get her to my house, drug her....molest her sexually and then make her leave. The next day I want to do same again, like forever. Its all I want, I have only done it a few times. Please help, I think I'm cursed

It's impossible to convince people you're broke in Nigeria once you dress nicely. I am one of those people with very poor eye sight, if I expose my eyes to the sun..it gets teary as water starts coming out and I cant see properly. So I wear a face cap and sunglasses just so I can SEE! but guess what, everyone in my area hates me for "forming big boy" because they think I wear sunglasses to impress them. Wtf!!!!! I literally am going through hell and barely alive because I'm very suicidal from been depressed my whole adult life. I dont even dress fancy, I only wear a face cap and sunglasses everyday but everyone either loves me too much cuz they think I'm rich or they hate me for showing off...meanwhile I'm broke, sucidal and have a bad eyesight. When are we going to stop judging others based on things we dont understand?

They cannot relate to what they dont understand but are always quick to judge.

IceColdVeins:
Easy easy easy nigga!! Quit barking on here like a rabbied neopolitan mastiff, romanceland is not a remedial forum for psychosis specimens

You had to requote me cuz u no get words. Bleep off gorilla

IceColdVeins:
This moniker reeks of the uakari monkey also known as badboibipo

You little smelly shit, always trying to portray your ugliness to others. U hate people who look good cuz u wonder why you're so ugly. Ogun kill u , your father and mother will die miserably you bastard. Dey troll me, I will let u know I be omo edo....our badmouth is no 1 in naija. I live to insult people, I will so finish ur life u go Bleep ur mama smelly toto. Bastard

Prism:
This is why depression and suicide is on the increase. See the harsh comments people are making here instead of trying to help his matter.
Guy, just take it easy with yourself okay? Accept yourself, nobody was made perfect. We all have our flaws. We are made wonderfully by God,
he didn't make any mistake when he made you. Okay? Sometimes inorder to find the meaning of life, I think u have to look beyond yourself and make people smile around you, look for someone who needs help and help the person the way you can, that way, you will find more meaning to life when you show love to people around you. Take care and cheer up

I really dont rely on people to make me feel better because I know these same people burnt a 11 year old boy alive in lagos who stole indomie from starving for days. U can Google it if u doubt me. Mothers and kids were watching him die while laughing. The boy was crying like a baby with fire burning him all over. So trust me I am aware of how wicked they are, most of them here will kill anyone if they can guarantee them that they wont be jailed. I have understood life so much, I am my ONLY source of joy. It's just I cant get past my shit, that's my only pain.

IceColdVeins:
This moniker reeks of the uakari monkey also known as badboibipo

Lol calling someone u have never seen a monkey, insecure gorilla.

stupidity:
Are you really all what you wrote about yourself or you are just catching cruise??

Can’t believe you are actually going through all this.

Not catching cruise. My sister calls me daily to ensure I haven't done something bad to myself

Since I was a kid everybody treats me literally the the way they treat wiz and davido. I never understood why. People complimented me for years, they would praise me for even shitying. I grew up with mad self esteem, I literally believed I was a perfect Male creature. Till today , anytime i turn left or right someone is just staring in lust till i wink or frown before they turn away. What people dont realise is that I'm a loner, loser, broke, no skill, no job, no money, impotent, psychopathic, bipolar, depressed, sucidal , no family or friend, no ambition useless creature. You see I have a very bigger than life look. My stature is very good, my face is appealing to them to stare at, but outside and when I talk my English is polished and I'm quite intelligent. But outside all that is a loser who just wished he was dead. Today I walked past a neighbor who kept praising me to his friends, telling me that i should gift him my sunglasses and then asked me how much it costs. I told him 1,000 naira but in reality I bought it for 400 naira. This guy almost got angry with me and kept saying I'm pretending that it's over 5k. When I was walking away I heard him hyping me to his friend, saying I'm such a boss and he admires me alot. I was just thinking to myself "does this guy know I'm actually sucidal" ? How could he since I look good without effort. The one gift that God cursed me with. He made me go through hell in my family and yet made me look like I'm a guy who goes to london weekly. Anyway, I know I will end up killing myself someday but for now this is me the loser guy who everyone admires.

mafiano1986:
You know? there are professional women who actually do this for a living, as in dominating guys and all that, im sure you can find them in all these sex apps and pay them to do these things to you, stuff like flogging you, burning you with candle wax, pissing in your mouth and all.

Im in to femdom too like you, only difference is, i dont like being treated badly, insulted or being mean to, i just like being dominated during role play. But im sure if you want these women to go beyond that, there are many of them who will.

Ever had a girl in Nigeria do your fantasies to you? How many times? Did u pay her to?

Alamala1:
Can relate to you, lately I've just been too focused on my career cos way this country dey go you gotta be hyperfocused, but cos of my looks girls just can't help themselves with me, was going to Abuja the other day I was sitting beside this girl nothing wey she no do finish, me just carry my straight face as a G didn't gave a bleep she turn, carry yansh dey shook me look I gave her her heart almost dropped, some people say it ain't normal fk dat I've always hated normalty

They think cuz u look good u should always be toasting every single girl u see. Like wtf

Geminita1:
You are a fool.

Yes goddess I am.

RedCreme21:
Nairaland has been bless with yet another troll.

Are u kidding me. I'm telling u what someone told me and you're calling me troll? Does she mean my dick is filled with sperm from no action for so long? That's all I'm trying to figure out

So there is this girl I wanted to go close to and she told me not to near her and said my dickk is filled with water. She specifically said "that your useless dickk wey water full". Note that I only admire her , we are not friends and shes very mean to me anytime I try to say hi. I have been trying to know what she means by that statement...what does that mean please?

Sabby1:
I wish girls spit on me everyday. Goddesses please, I'm your slave..spit on me and shit in my mouth if u want

Ahh!
This is definitely one out of a hand full of abnormal beings in Nigeria. You seriously need spiritual and physical assistance. Go for guidance and counseling asap

AAAAAhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!

You Nigerians have no idea what a fetish is, it's not a problem its actually a gift. Thank God before I died I knew the diversity in pleasures. Most of u are so regular its sad

RedCreme21:
Eglobalma, i think im more inclined towards sadism.

Explain. Is that your turn on?

Someone please tag those who could take this to the front page. I really need to get interactions on this issue, this is a serious issue that nobody is talking about. An I'm sure there are many guys like me out there

midnighter:
Mehn! It seems we should be as overprotective of boys as we are with girls.

So many of our boys have been messed up by paedophilic women and when they grow up more women will still suffer because of deep-seated resentment

People dont take boys seriously when they speak up, I have been scarred for life. If I tell u the things I want to do to girls trust me I will get banned here like I was on my other account. This fetish is the only thing making me a free man, cuz my urges are so bad I may have done something horrible and I would be in prison. So to me this fetish is a blessing cuz its the only thing keeping my evil urges together.

nlPoster:
Seems like hidden resentment to me.

Yes it is. But them treating me badly helps me manage the desire to hurt them deeply

nlPoster:
Sounds like multiple personality, how do you reconcile that with your normal male ego?

It's a personality disorder and shows a deep seated dislike of women, in addition you play at being powerless because of something in your past when you felt you actually were.

You'll probably harm those ladies if you're not careful because you dont like them and they usurp your authority.



My guess.

You're very smart. I'm currently banned on my second account cuz I shared my desire to harm ladies. But theres a fetish that helps me contain my urge to hurt them. And yes I was sexually dominated for years by a very attractive older girl as a 13 year old boy.

nlPoster:
Sounds like multiple personality, how do you reconcile with with your normal male ego ?

Somehow I am able to manage both. It's like two phases but I'm trying to make it just the girls spitting on me one. It's very hard cuz I really look appealing to girls , like they think I'm handsome. It's my only challenge thus far