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ZarZar:
Ooh & the plot thickens *twirls thumbs*

Oh, poor you! See me crying into my tea cup. Grow a fucking spine, you big baby! You said nothing about him gossiping about you with your mom in your initial post. I'm not a fucking mind reader, I gave my input based on the story you painted in your 1st post. Quite frankly, now I think you're just a paranoid nut. Because it doesn't make sense for everyone to be trying to bring you down as you claim. I'm starting to doubt the whole thing. I wouldn't put past you that you imagined everything. You sound delusional.

Na u sabi, all i know is nigga should mind his fvcking business and stop trying to bring me down. And yeah the part where people are obsessed with me isnt delusion my dear even my sister keeps asking me why do people stare at me and always disturb me so maybe im cursed or something. I have even tot of suicide cuz my life is the most creepy life anybody chould hv, even strangers notice it that people creep around me too much. So chill im not enjoying it i bought sniper once thats how much pain i type everything i type with. Google sniper and what it does.

ZarZar:
I sense jealousy You're talking about someone else being fake & yet in the same breath you admit that you PRETEND to be a fool. What for? A fake calling another fake a fake, is all there is to this story. Oh & envy... disguised as something else. How about you stop pretending & be yourself, perhaps you'll attract genuine interest not based on whatever fake persona you put out there.

About Bob Marley, if you truly admire him,then you'd know he was about individuality. That's something you should focus on, your own individuality, instead of stalking & eavesdropping on the guy's conversations because he's more popular or whatever.

PS: not all girls like liars. Some of us can sense it & are put off by it. Perhaps the girls who fall for your neighbour's "expensive" lies, are simply gullible fools or golddiggers on a mission. Either way, you're better off because you sure don't want someone who you have to pretend to be someone else before they reciprocate.

Shut the Bleep up on things u know nothing about. Yeah i may have sounded abit rude but the guy met my mum rubbishing my name just cuz i refuse to indulge with him in his fake lifestyle. They all trying to bring me down. A goodlooking guy who minds his own business in a street filled with jobless and fake people? You should know how that would turn out. I have never gone to any outing that i dont notice at least one girl stalking me with her eyes so dont talk to me about popularity or jealousy, im just angry hes tryna tarnish my image to my mom. U tell me what bizness does he have gossiping me to my mom, does that make sesnse to u? Whos jealous of who now? All i do is mind my bizness and its killing them.

I dont understand why you girls love fake guys so much. Why is it that you people always fall for guys who tell very obvious lies about themselves? With all the admiration i get from girls for being very goodlooking i never brag about it to the girls i meet in real life, instead i pretend to be a fool cuz i dont like living a fake life. Theres this ordinary looking guy in my street that has only met iceprince once in his life but brags to all the girls and women and children that hes a king and they believe him. This nigga still lives with his mom at 26 and yet manages to fool girls that hes a big time guy in abuja. Nigga disnt even use a good phone yet he jerry curls his hair and tell obvious lies. I use an iphone 6 and i dont ever woo any girl in my street i just mind my business , respect my elders and serve my God. Im in a perfect position to be a fake with all my natural endownments but i chose to follow the ways of my mentor bob nesta marley, the realest man that ever lived. So ladies why do you like fake guys who tell u sweet lies

funmisticqueen:
Such a silly question, just like asking why guys follow beautiful girls like flies. As if we no like fine thing. Jamb question

Boys know when to quit and wont spit at a girl cuz she didnt like him back. Did u read my post where i said a girl spits at me regularly just cuz im not feeling her the way shes feeling me? Why do yall get so emotional about everything? Thats my point smh

Why do almost all girls and even women desperately want ur friendship by force if ur a very fine man? And if you dont feel the same way u will automatically have girls spitting at u and i meant that literally. Wtf?? Why are girls so thirsty please? Dont females have any pride anymore like in the olden days

Cleopatra4:
U killed it bae...

U look so fuuckable, i cant wait to Bleep ur throat first bae

shaiba:
Its not easy but you can start with one little positive step. You have a bright future ahead of you, a destiny to fulfill and you are full of life.
Start with mediation, talk with someone, please.

Thanks alot

shaiba:
You sound very sad and depressed. I may be wrong.

I'd like to ask a few questions cause I think this is triggered by a thought or something you are yet to get over. I took time off to go thru some of your write ups and its all in same trend.

This feeling didn't just start, you fell in love at a point in time and when the relationship (which lasted for 3yrs) didn't work out you felt being treated as a cute bunny (your words) and your feelings were toyed with. You also feel you get too much of attention because of your looks and good nature.
You get frustrated when you don't have much money with you... I could go on and on from your articles.

Now what?

1. See a psychiatrist - you need to talk to a person rather than staying on the phone or computer.
2. Accept the fact that you did not create yourself and appreciate your gifts. You could use it for good.
3. Try meditation - it helps clear your mind and relax
4. Remove focus on yourself, you already got that from the girls. Get a pet and nurse it or do something creative like learning arts (drawing, photography etc.)
5. You don't talk much about friends or family so I guess you enjoy being alone, try going out, maybe travel to other places

There is more to life than the thought of hurting girls.

Ever thought about the pains you will bring to others who love you just the way you are?

I don't know you but I know you have more to give and people to help and love.

Please see a psychiatrist. I'll remember you in prayers.

I would love a distraction, something to keep my mind busy at all times. Sadly im in a very complicated place in life and getting something to distract myself with from where i stand doesnt sound as easy as it seems.

I just wish more people would contribute, i am learning so much from yall write ups.

ZarZar:
Then you know how it ended for him. If you're being honest here with this story, then you should seek psychiatric help immediately because your preoccupation with causing harm onto others is unhealthy. You could be a psychopath just like Bundy was.

Where will i find those this is naija we only have pastors or native doctors. To show u the gravity i have even tot of suicide, cuz i fear going to prison

ZarZar:
Lol, another Ted Bundy in the making.

Read his book too

Ever since i was little all i imagined was to cause girls harm. I was in primary school when i started fantasizing hurting them, physically emotionally and mentally. It makes me happy just thinking about it. I have even read several books on female serial killers. I am a very handsome young man, sorry i had to bring that up so people wont think its because of a deformity. I have no deformity i am a ladies man if i would say but i dont treat them like "their man". I have never met any girl who dont immediately like me but after a while they all turn out hating me with severe passion because of the way i treat them. I didnt chose to be like this, the feelings started so early i think when i was 4 or 5 years old. How chould i know what i was doing by that age? All i knew was i hated omoojugo, i wanted to make her cry. I think i was in primary one at the time, and why did i hate her? I have no idea. I even hate my own sisters for no reason. My brothers gf tried to be friendly to me cuz natually im a ladies man but after abusing her alot shes started to avoid me. I love it when females hate me cuz i hate them with severe passion. No im not gay i hate most guys too. I dont know what is worng with me but i know i need help before i commit a crime that may lead me to prison. Or maybe thats where i belong anyway. Pls can someone advice me Im dying inside

mikky4764:
I'm still trying hard to understand what this post is all about

Why do u girls act so creepy when u see a guy u like, if he doesnt like u people back cant yall respect urselves and mind ur businesses?

Well i will just state my own personal experience. I grew up very humble and unassuming. I just believed everyone should love and respect each other. As i grew older i noticed people started treating me like i was this special guy, like i was different from other guys. I started to feel so humble and lucky. After awhile i realized it wasnt real, they only liked me because of how i look, after awhile they get bored and start giving me attitude. So i stopped feeling cheerful and started to mind my business everywhere i go. Now most girls still give me attitude because i dont get excited with the fact that they "like" me, if it were u would u still keep feeling grateful to people who only like u for shallow reasons? Theres this one female selling card, when she first saw me she was staring at me like she saw a ghost, she greeted me with smile and i greeted her back, it continued till after a while she realized i "dont" love her back, sorry i said love cuz i dont know what these hoess want from me. Anyway anytime she sees me now she spits as if that will make me fall inlove with her. Im so tired of females, one day i will kill one of them maybe by then they will leave me alone. Bastards

Why is it that girls cant control their admiration for a guy when they like him? No matter how rude u are or arrogant its like it turns them on cuz they will even like u the more u resit them. Ladies why are you people like this

Im tired of seeing girls pulling their short dresses and short skirts down when in public. Why do u people wear short clothes if u know u didnt like attention and guys staring at ur ass? Or are u people pretending to pull in down to look decent?

All this drama cuz of one smelly pussy

Ginaz:
I don't like short men, but that doesn't mean I might not marry one if I love him so much. Short but not a dawrf o, I go pick my shoe run if he short pass me.

Me that is very goodlooking but short nko? Im sure ur taller than me so i hv no chance or wha?

Why do people assume that because a person looks good on the outside then they are the ideal partner? Im not talking about money here, i mean for people who money isnt their problem, not oloshos or hungry people who would date anything cuz they hungry. Im talking about established people in the workplace and so forth. Why is it that it always comes down to goodlooks when a girl or even a guy wants to settle down? People cannot even imagine theirself with an ugly partner its like an insult to them. Why do people assume that because a person looks good then they should make a good husband/wife?

Why do girls search for older men when they want to marry but only settle for young guys like me when they want to play around. Most of the girls i dated are all getting married and not to my peer group, but to guys in their mid 30's. why do girls play around with young guys in their 20's but rush to over 30's men when they want to settle down? Is it that we younger guys are not mature enough or what? That why i grew up hating girls who treat a guy like hes a cute bunny because such girls will never take u serious they will just admire u but settle down with other older guys and even invite u to their wedding. Why is this always the case pls

NwamaziNwaAro:

His mother is watching him and smiling.

Tomorrow they will give us account number to contribute when he is down with kidney and liver failure

Lmaooooo

Tracyomo:
I've been scammed several times just because I like helping others.
I met a young boy on fb claiming he is an ophan and needed help from me to pay his school fees in Naija. The boy blocked me after sending him 80k. Na den I know say na scam.
I was lucky he blocked me because because if he had asked more money from me I would have continued helping him.

Aww this really touched me, God will bless u dear for helping others. Its his loss.

amakadihot87:
The fact is dat u havent met love.if u meet the gal you love naturally you will forget these stories

But i loved once and the girl really made me hate relationships

Thanks for ur contributions, the problem with yall theory is that most girls i tried being friends with always wanted more, what can i say they think im the love of their life. This made me hate them even more. I guess im really fvcked yh

I was hurt like extremely hurt as a teen by a girl i fell inlove with. I was only 17 and i fell in love with this extremely pretty black girl in my church. She was so beautiful all the guys in my church had a crush on her. We became friends and she was always leading me on till i eventually fell inlove with her. Being my first time i didnt know what love was i just knew i couldnt go a day without hearing her voice i chould die. I gathered courage to tell i i love her one sunday on phone and she was quite for a while before she ended the call. I called again and her elder sister picked the call and warned me to stay away from their sister. She started giving me bad attitude after that and told me to stop calling her which made me nearly run mad. I cried i called her with hidden numbers. I was so frustrated and i started to verbally insult her. After a while she told me she has forgiven me and we became close again but she was still lowkey giving me attitude. I was inlove with her for almost three years and she knew but just friendzoned me. After some years the feeling died and she became attracted to me more than usual, i just played with her for a bit and cut her off. I ignored her calls and snubbed her when we saw. Gradually we stopped being friends even till date.
The point is because of how she toyed with my feelings i am so broken that i treat girls like shit. Most girls wonder why im so mean to them. If ur a girl and u say hi to me u better pray im in a good mood or else the way i will ignore u, u will attempt suicide. Most girls are scared of me cuz of how i hurt their egos when they try to come close to me. That girl damaged me and made me the biggest douchebag of a guy u will ever meet. Pls how do i get past all the hurt and become a friendly guy to females

Dothraki:
A babe once told me she'll become a catholic sister if I was the only man left in the world!

Nigga how didnt u drink sniper?

Lol me that a certain celebrity sent 100k nko i didnt cry on social media

missnawty:
This geh too fine.. She resemble me

C d way banky is looking at her in d last 2pix... Like 'let this pple leave And lemme 'borack' you. Kaii she looks fragile tho .. Banky sofri oo

Rubbish dat one with wide toto

Iphone 6 gang #RichGang

Safiaa:
I just feel uncomfortable with people washing my things. I'd rather do it myself please.

Good girl, dont mind those bitchess

Caricature:
All these list of THIS and twenty ways of THAT, are just plain silly. Some of you who write these lists or ways have never seen the underwear of a woman much less talk about a relationship with one.

Ur dp is affecting my brain

2dugged:
the only problem is if you are short, black like charcoal and ugly ontop

no girl will ever marry such, most of them die virgins