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LilMissFavvy:
So you have not seen ladies in their 40s, 50s who can get a side guy? You think some women can't get a side guy at whatever ages? If she doesn't do it, it means she doesn't want to.

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I agree with you. A 50 year old man without money can not pull nada, but a 50year old woman with lots of cash can even pull an sss3 student. Have seen this happen lots of times.

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Richandsimple:
She's not enjoying it pure and simple!

Upgrade ur skills and create a very relaxed atmosphere in ur home.

When u want sex don't ask for sex; Instead ask her to shower with u,it will lead to sex.
At times remove all ur clothes and tell her to massage ur back,then ask her if she also needs one,u will end up banging her.
Smack her backside whenever u guys are alone,send naughty chats to her even when both of u are 2geda.
And in all these do ur research and discover her point of not return,trust me all ladies have one.

Nwanne, my thoughts exactly. Even when I am not in the mood, before you know it I'm all over him and making demands. It's obvious OP does not know much about his wife's erogenous zones.

ersonleads:
Thank you so much. And thanks for everyone that has contributed 1 advice or other. I've come to a final realization that there is nothing in this life & what will be will be. There is already a connection in a positive light between us. According to an Advice from someone, he said take a risk cos life is risk itself.

Hope tomorrow you won't be like my sister's husband that will use age difference to shut her up or think she dies not have an opinion because of their wide age difference.

AfroKnight:
Veiled threat.

It depends on the kind of wife you marry. If you marry a much younger self-centred woman you will be alone in your old age and she will decide how much of your own wealth you would have access to. It wouldn’t matter how well you treated her.

Your children are your best bet. You have the opportunity to mould them into caring individuals who would have compassion on you when your time on earth approaches an end.

The road to having caring and compassionate children starts with loving and caring for their mother.

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Jeezuzpick:
The way to a real man's heart?

Leave me alone when I really need to be left alone.

Learn to handle sh*t yourself and don't load me with trivial stuff.

Lemme concentrate on the stuff I am supposed to concentrate on.

I will love you forever.

Out

Oga you Neva ready to marry...

Unrated900:
A lesson to all even especially me
Cos he get one side chick wey dey always act like say I don marry her.
All times na I love you
I love you
So teee my head self don Dey burst.
As I come see say this side chick Dey kill men ups and down.
Make I give
My self sense, before she kill me
Cos person Pikin still small.
Make I stick to my wife hence forth jare.
Thank God na pretty lady like
Rihana be my woman
Only be say as person go bleep side chick person no fit bleep him wife like that.

Why can't you bleep your wife like you do your side chick??

Michelle55:
Honestly, I try as much as possible to avoid your post because it reeks of bitterness and frustration. Where is it stipulated that the man should bear the brunt alone just because he married you?

Don't you know the meaning of helpmate? You had better change this disgusting mentality before marriage if truly you want to settle down.

Walai, I'm not sure the knots in your head is complete, please check well.
Aaarrghh!

If you like be the best helpmate in world for your Nigerian husband, if you don't have children especially male children for him forget the marriage. Love no dey for Nigerian marriage. OP would have tried working out his issues with his wife if she did not have fertility issues. simple.

Folorunsho15:
I feel you bro, currently in this kind of relationship but whenever I think about marriage omo I'm just sacred and I've been looking for a way to step out man. The OP has finished it, it's like they are wired to take the revenge for their fathers actions on you when you haven't done anything wrong but to love and care for them. Ladies raised by toxic single moms or from a toxic family with an abusive father is a risk not worth taking imo. I just hope this one will not go and commit suicide cuz she always threatens that

Loveeeee your comment. It is now our duty as future father's to make conscious efforts not to be abusive to our wife's to prevent damaging our children.

ubola:
Op, did the Doctor tell you that her weak womb is as a result of the abortion she had in school? Or you are just assuming because she told you about her past. Men like you are the reason some women will take some secrets to the grave. She doesn't deserve this banter, if you've divorced her, go your way and get madam perfect. Stop using damaging words on her. Another man will do very well with that lady and appreciate her more. The fact is that you went into marriage not realizing that you are the man. Just two years and you started burrowing from her, meaning you also had alterior motives b4 marrying. Av always adviced men to be financially independent b4 marriage. That same lady who ask for refund after burrowing from her can still pay for your and children fees if you know how to manage her well,as the going says "every mad woman get lover". Be matured and independent b4 you get involved in the next one, else it won't get better. Men goes into marriage not boys, okay!

Very true, some men know how to bring out the worst in women.

Please what is your definition of single parent? A woman that left her marriage due to domestic violence or a lady that got pregnant out of wedlock. I have a married friend that was born out of wedlock, and her marriage is good, I can't even take some of the things she takes from her husband. And I have seen lots of ladies that were raised by both parents that are horrible wife's. The thing is their is nothing like marriage for love in Nigeria. The number one reason we marry in Nigeria is for continuation of our bloodline. I strongly believe if that ladies reproductive organs were still in tact, OP would have considered working out the issues in his marriage.

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GeneralPula:
How does a student offering sex equate lecturer threatening to deny you your actual score if you don't sleep with him?
Except in movies, I've never seen this happening in reality.

If you put a yam outside and a passing goat chop it, will it be realistic for you to go after the goat, knowing well enough goat didn't come into your apartment to chop the yam..?

These girls don't only fvck lecturers to pass... They'll fvck a doctor so as not to be paying for health services... They'll fvck a landlord so as not for them not to pay rent... They'll fvck a uber man so as not to be paying for transports...

Same girls, whenever they want to report to you.. They'll be like;'
Lecturer is demanding for sex or she'll fail
landlord is demanding for sex cuz she's owing rent
Uber man is demanding for sex cuz she wanted to transport somewhere and she has no cash

These girls, stories and forming victims are like 5&6..

You can't blame a man for accepting sex advances from any lady, just as you can't blame any lady for collecting free money from any man..

This is were we are getting it wrong.....it's wrong for you to accept sex for marks...the lecturer is expected to have self control and be principled, but if he lacks these, he should make it clear to the student that he can have sex with her if she wants but will not give her additional marks in his course and stick to it......and see how sex for marks from the ladies will end in our schools. It's so bad that the male gender in this country has accepted that self control does not exist...Soo sad.

GeneralPula:
Osho girls in schools hardly read..

Their best bet to pass is to fvck lecturers..

Nah dem dey go meet lecturers demselves..

And the lectures are expected to reject their advances.......but they don't.

Sfrom my experience as an Igbo, the male children are needed to continue the family name while the female children are the once that take care of their parents in old age. Once a male child marries he faces his new family and gives more to in-laws than his parents. If am allowed to choose the gender of only three kids, I will choose two females and one male.

Loverboy3333:
$31k resistance holding I hope it holds so we can see at least 15$ move this week

Yeaahh, could form a double bottom on the dailies..

NwaEzefuNaMba:
Why don't they have same heart attack during sex, with their wife; that's my question.

Because they don't do one third of the things they do with their side chicks with their wife's.......wife's get the boring sex while mistresses get the harder-harder kind of sex..lolllll

Babalola0920:
Fit possible the wife knows about the demise of his husband !

Trying to pinpoint the shit on the girl !

All this women are dead ass ! Kamal await your children if you WRONG your husband you shall lived to see it happening to your children without Help

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Same karma also awaits A man that WRINGS his wife...

MartinsD12:
It's not true, the man might not be like that when they got married, so your conclusion is wrong, even at that the woman has an unforgiving spirit even in death of the man which is very evil, you don't take unforgiving attitude even to death, am sure if the man was to be alive he has he own reasons why the marriage didn't work but that enmity was taken to far by the wife even to death, that's an evil character, shows the woman is evil, an unforgiving spirit is worst than guns

Lolllllll....I don't understand why men believe women can forgive and forget anything....if the reverse was the case will you also expect the man to forgive and mourn his wife...

Ebonygeek:
Life is unfair? The husband that was carrying women outside nko?

Not only that, the way they expect the woman to mourn a husband that was killed by his side chick is funnyyyy...

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Rozcol:
But isn't it somehow ackward and shameful for a woman to boldly complain about it

Same awkwardness and shameful it is when a man boldly complains about it.......

Rozcol:
Is sex that important in marriage, I hate it when a lady outrightly complain of not getting enough sex or been satisfied by her man,some women are bold sha.

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Hmmmm, them stay away from women and marriage. Everyone has the right to ask for sex outrightly and to be satisfied sexually.....

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NwaAmaikpe:




You won't understand the husband's plight if you've never been at the financial mercy of your wife.

I can only imagine the frustration of the husband calling up his wife in front of a debtor with the phone on speaker to ask for a soft loan and then have her rain all the abuses in the world on him.

I won't be shocked too if it wasn't him who took her from obscurity to the financially comfortable level of having a 2k to spare.
That's exactly what these women brought from Nigeria to come study Nursing in the US do.

It doesn't justify him beating her to death but why did God tell us that wives are helpmates when 70% of them would never help out financially in the home even if they could?

This is a lesson to all gold-digging men. The only submissive wife is the broke wife.
Who born Mama Ramotu to talk to me anyhow when she knows that she can not buy Sanitary pad without me.

Never allow your wife get richer than you, because the shrewd treachery and bad mouth of a rich wife can make a broke husband do what this man has just done.

Neva allow your wife get richer than you,....how do intend doing that? By closing her business once you notice she is doing better than you? Hmmmmmmm.....best thing is for you to get a divorce once you notice your wife is getting richer than you, to prevent murder.....hmmmmmmmmm

Christistruth00:
Baba Buhari this is what we have been telling IPOB since 5 years

Biafra without the South South is like a Luxury Bus with no Wheels

It cannot move an Inch

But the runaway fugitive Nnamdi Kanu has been bombarding them with lies about a Biafran El Dorado

One look at Map and they would see that God has Given the South South a nearly Complete Stranglehold over the South East

In fact God gave the South South all the Joker Cards for Biafra’s independence

The Prayers the South South People Prayed must have been very powerful indeed because God answered them very Mightily

Looking at that map, they do not need all of South South, they only need one South South state, or one middle belt state. Look at that map wellll... That one South South state that will join them, will never regret it as they will become the center of Biafra activities....look at that mapp wellllllll.......and pray no South South state will see what am seeing and change there mind to join Biafra..... A very big politics I going to play out if Biafra is realized...

SenatePresdo:
So for your mind 7 inches big?

Where your girth could be below 5 inches sef

Lolllllllllll...don't get angry, but the measurements in your reply reminds me of a vibrating Love Machine...hehehehehe...pls don't get angry..

Wittyduchess:
Depending on the type of man.



A man like my sponsor, who sends money on errands,never misappropriates

Then there is my neighbor who his wife gave money to buy 30 bags of cement so they can start building, he used it to gamble, bought drinks for friends.


There are some type of men that even when you try to be their support ,they end up dragging you down.

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I agree 100% with you.... dragging you down and also insulting and threatening you on top of it...

Hardgun:
That's very bad telling your husband to wash plate

Oga dias nothing wrong with what she did. You want the woman to die of stress? I see lots of husbands help their wife's wash plates and serve customers in the womans restaurant.......what is wrong with some of you men? If he did not want to wash plates he could have taken over serving the customers, not slap the woman.

UCHEBENU:
I'll be as unbiased as possible. Now, sex isn't a show of affection for a man ( if not all those olosho wen we dey bleep for be our gf or wife). They just see sex as fun; (one that can be done with any female; unless you're g*y of course). Flipping the coin, a woman will barely get intimate with you unless they really like you. For them sex is a show of affection n that's why you'll often things like[b] "tell me you love me" [/b]during love making. To these folks, sex has to be meaningful.
The reason why I'll get scared or feel terrible because of a cheating wife is because I'll start thinking if my wife still loves me.
This is have female prostitute everywhere and not males.

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Loll, who says that? Heheheheeeeee..any lady that says that when your doing the deed is not enjoying the deedooooo,