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djon78:
That's the fear many women are entertaining

Yul has set a precedence

Many men in unhappy marriages will begin to take second wives

It will make women sit up

It will only resurrect the love portion's used by the wifes in our forefathers time, disloyalty and individuality in wife's.

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killmods:
From now on husbands shuld just Yul Edochie any wife when dey mess up. No need to dey talk too much again

And no woman should show loyalty to any man. Love and care for yourself first, don't build your world around any man or marriage. Let your happiness come from within you and not be dependent on someone else.

You don't want to honour your father in-laws scheduled meeting but you want your wife to respect you.

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MarryWhiteasap:
If you are married man here and you cheated on her ,she saw ur msg or call or even caught u banging that side chick; tell her two things
1: Do u need a gift/trip.
2: If we break up, I will keep her.
If she was the promiscuous woman tell her two things
1: I won't give you my inheritance.
2: You can't live under same roof with me.

This will only work if the woman is financially dependent on you. Some of us will carry our bags and go. And probably kill you before the divorce papers come out. Heheheheheeee. Don't underestimate the greed for our share of the property.

Marry her, if she does not change in marriage, you marry a 2nd wife. Polygamy is back on the table. No need to hunt for a good women when you can marry as many as you want.

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Jaqenhghar:
Niggerian men: women please go and make your money. Dont depend on men for anything

Still Niggerian men: She is always working and doesn't have time for her husband... she is not submissive enough


Naija women don suffer

I prefer to always work and not be submissive and push him to marry another wife than for me to be a submissive homemaker, only for him to.marry another wife when he makes it. At least I will know I did not kill myself for him when he was my solo husband.

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Mrkumareze:
The Oba that just died lived with several wives for years.. please let leave Yul alone, he has his life to live.

Oba is a Yoruba man, Yul is an Igbo man. Even Igbo chief's marry one wife. Their is a reason most Igbo men run away from polygamy. They can have side chicks, but you see polygamy when you have sons from first wife in igboland ...heheheheh

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EdwardRandy:
My guy, say e no work for una no mean say e no go work for other people. Did you also join your mother to abandon your father at anytime he was sick?

Why are you even sounding like the man is the only one here obligated to fall sick while the wives are made of iron steels who can't die or fall sick too? Like I asked, where is it written that a man must die before his wife?

Did Alaafin's wives and kids abandon him when he was old and sick? What about Ned Nwoko and the alhajis up North? How many their wives abandon at old age?

Lollllll, do not compare the hausa's and yourobas with the Igbos. Polygamy is very well accepted in those lands while it's dying off in igboland. Our ways of life are not the same as theirs. There's a saying in igboland that nku akpara na okochi ka ana anya n'udumiri. Theirs a limit to what children can do for their fathers, others are left for his wife. So wife your wife properly. If your wife dies before you, the most your not too happy
with you children can do is get you a maid. If you decide to convert maid to wife, then totally OYO. The easiest way to gain the undying love of your children is to love, regard and not betray their mothers love for you..simple.

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djon78:
Actually there are people in polygamous homes that idolise there father's

It's those that don't understand what fatherhood means that will look down on a father

Father's are the source of life

Without them, there will be no human
Because it's the man that carries the seed


It's only a fool that will turn his back on his father

I didnt have a very good and smooth relationship with my father while growing up

But today as a man

I idolise my father

Thank God he is alive and strong at 77 he looks 60.

Today I don't play with my father at all

It's only fools that will play with the relationship they have with there father's

And most times
Bitter Women are the cause of it

Was your father a polygamist? We are talking about igboland father's in polygamy here, not father's in monogamy

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EdwardRandy:
Mumu talk. On what grounds will the two wives leave the man to suffer if he treated them well? Will the kids who got minds of their own also ignore their father just because he married two wives even when he never treated their mums wrongly?

And what is the guarantee the two wives will not die before the man? Na mumu dey worry you bitter women, we are African men and there's nothing you women can do to equal us. If e too pain una, make una go jump 3rd mainland bridge.

Oga no be by social media commenting. Make money, become a polygamist, live a very long long live, then you go experience first hand what some of us wey done swim polygamy water are talking about. In polygamy, it's each set if children to their mother. I will keep saying this,polygamy favours women more than men, you have no obligations to the man in sickness and old age. Even the favoured wife will surprise you, all she will be after is gathering as much property as she can, while your waiting for her to take you to the hospital. Lollll, chai, who never see, no go know.

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maasoap:
Lol. Like play like play, you guys just want to turn polygamy to taboo in Nigeria. Hope you guys just realise that the rate at which men and boys are dying in Nigeria can never let every woman has one man to herself. The scarcity of men no be here, and the question of responsible men at that!

Men are not the only ones dying, women are also dying as much as they are. There are lots of men, just that most of them are not financially ok to marry and becos of this kind of yul and may's wahala, women prefer marrying already made to building with a struggling guy. Are you trying to say their are no single guys in nollywood looking to get married? Judi went for the money, nothing else.

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CoronaVirusPro:
How did you arrive at the conclusion that the second wife won’t bring anything to the table?

Like I said, Yul is learned, exposed and a man with taste- this you can tell from his dressing and composure.

If he finds peace with his new wife, who are the masses to complain? He is not the first and won’t be the last polygamist.

If he births 10 children and can give them his best, what more is deserved. And no matter the count of kids he has, None can ever be hawking Gala in traffic.

May this befall your daughter's .

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TheWolfen:
The worst that can ever happen to her is leave her husband. She will regret it just like many other women that made same move..

Taking a second wife is not bad. It is part of the African culture. I will only fault the dude here because he should had let her know he is open to make that move..
A man can love more than one woman and share the love among them but a woman can't do that. That is the difference. If she listen to online bitter feminist she can as well kiss her true happiness goodbye. The new wife will smile to that.

Obviously you grew up in a monogamous home so you don'tknow. No man can love more than more wife equally. You must have a favorite and the one you are managing. The thing is that marriage ended the moment he took a second wife. All Yul is to her now is a source of school fees, upkeep money and shelter, nothing else. Yul grew up in a monogamous home he won't understand. Even his children will be bitter towards him. They won't show it now, but with time when they get older and he will see their resentment towards him.

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MadamVanessa:



YUL still love and respect his first wife , just that the first wife is just being jealous and bitter because someone else is coming to share that glorious dick with her. I don't blame her, by default that's how we women are . It's not easy seeing your husband you've to yourself alone now being shared .

But for this matter people were funny me pass, be people were their mama na second wife, third wife , fourth wife , still get mind choke mouth for this matter.. imagine? People get mind o. Even my friend that I know her mum is a second wife and it was because of her mum that the first wife painfully leave the marriage after giving birth to six children , get mind yap Yul yesterday, I laugh.


Another close friend of mine who we have been having series of threeesome with married men rushed to Yul page on Facebook to dropped her insults..I shocked


I will be so foolish and stupid to join the bandwagon of emotional women to dragged Yul. Who knows I might fall in love tomorrow with a married man, but God forbid! But who knows? Yul second wife never envisaged or believed that she will end up as a second wife today..If case is not taken she was one of those that swear that she can never be a second wife or look at a married man twice, but today what happen?

What I like about your comment is the 'God forbid' to you marrying a married man, because you know is a different level of wrong. Only children that grew up in polygamous homes know the wrongs in polygamy, and are the only ones qualified through their experience to condemn polygamy. My mum is a second wife, but she will never wish me polygamy. Until you experience it, especially the children you won't understand. Then the big regrets for the men in old age. I'm an Igbo, probably it's different for other ethnic groups.

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EdwardRandy:
Except the polygamist here in question is broke, I don't see how he's on his own in old age.

When your old you'll understand there's a limit to what money can do for you. That's when you'll understand the meaning of having loved ones. My dad was no where close to broke, all he lacked was love and care from his wives, even his favorite wife disappointed him. Only people that grew up in a monogamous home in igboland think polygamy is fun and a man's birth right.

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EdwardRandy:
Lol I tell you bro.. And come to think of it; most women misbehave in their marriages because they don't have anyone competing with them. But a situation whereby a man has two or more wives, before any of the wives will misbehave or nag she will advice herself because she knows the man has options. Infact all the wives will be competing for who will win more favors from the man.

Lollll your so misinformed. I grew up in a polygamous home so I have first class experience. The wives do not struggle to please any husband, instead the competition is for their children to do well and become successful. I feel polygamy favours women more than men, because the wifes concentrate on their children and their work/business. Then when old age comes, the wifes will feel no obligation towards the man. Polygamist is on his on in old age.

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Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

All the methods of family planning on women have side effects on them , the not to recently discovered is the higher chances of cervical cancer. I would suggest you use condoms in subsequent deeds with your wife. If the pregnancy is not advanced you can terminate it.

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mikehenrymp270:
I honestly want to hear the man side of story , I doubt the man will ask his children to beat their mother ,, I even doubt that he kicked her out of moving vehicle

Are you also doubting the domestic violence stories? The man will definitely tell a story that will make him look innocent since the the other party is dead.

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NybenSBF101:
This man might be innocent o, he was arrested based on social media pressure and he was thrown under the bus by Dunamis, his fucking church. The children are being played but their eyes go clear when they grow up

This same children that watched him always beating their mother are being played?. The same way the children need their father is the same way the need their mother. Children even need their mother more than their father. If mother dies, father concentrates on his girlfriend's and ignores the children,

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anonymous1759:

Some Men are Wicked no doubt like this one . But the issue of domestic violence should be traced to the Roots. Who are the cause of domestic violence? more comes from The women .

Because they run their mouth too much abusing their men mentally.If women are humble enough and respect their husbands Domestic violence will reduce drastically. Most domestic violence can be avoided if there’s understanding between the couples . As for this man he’s plain stupid and wicked.

Please what is wrong in separating/ divorcing your wife if her mouth gets to you deeply instead of beating her?

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ofuonyebi:
Little wonder ladies and women llke Tiwa savage prefer to live a single mother life
Afteral, half-bread with peace is better than bread and butter laden with dead!

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Have always believed this. The way I stop my mother when she uses marriage and husband to correct my daughter's ehhh. I had to have a long talk with her, told her to correct them with right or wrong not referring to husband as if the won't be complete without one when they grow up. Yes marriage is good, but not everyone is cut out for it, and when we raise them with the believe that marriage completes them or is the ultimate goal, it becomes a very big issue especially if they unfortunately find themselves in one filled with domestic violence and adultery. And with the way things are happening, if extended family members come to beg or settle domestic violence issue...shot their legs.

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Valkrie:
The question we should be asking is what did the woman do to the husband to warrant such action?

No husband would just wake up and attack the wife he married for nothing...!!

If one investigate properly it could be the woman have been sleeping around and have even slept with some of the husnands friends....!!

Nothing brings out the beast in a man like such attitude...!!

If adultery is a good reason to kill someone then 1% of married men will still be alive. If you cannot live with your partners adultery leave the marriage. Their is no excuse or good reason for murder.

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squad03:
Normally,I wouldn't go crazy over cheating,in my mind there are certainly other deal breakers that rank higher but you see this one I will have a fit.Like, I've just had your child and you have no respect for me,it has to be the maid who I would otherwise have trusted with my child if this hadn't come to light.
Distasteful!
You will not see me and you will not see my baby.
Mo yonda e.

It's just wild out there.

Me I will not go, I will play along with you and make you believe everything is ok between us. Then sometime in the future when you will really need me to be there for you, the way I will so let you down eehhh...hmmmm

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NwaAmaikpe:




What type of nonsense talk is this? I can't tell if it is nosiness or just plain bitterness.
Isn't the job of a house help to help around in the house?

As long as he didn't rape her, I don't see anything wrong in a man seeking sexual comfort with a consenting adult at a time his wife is unable to provide the same to him.

Unlike women, a man does not shag a lady just because he is in love or has feelings for her but simply because akamu water must be discharged. So it is possible for a man to fvck 90 women and still be madly in love with his wife.

I never got to try this, but because of the sanitary sexual incapacitation of their wives at the time from birthing, a few of my friends got down with their mothers-in-law when they came around for omugwo and these women knew it was pure symbiosis.

His wife will understand this and not hold it against him, any woman who does does not have a conscience.

Ok after shagging 90 women and coming back with STI /STD the woman will understand. I don't know why you guys think women are stupid. We might keep mute or act all understanding, while we wait for pay back time in old age. Na so I go give you list of all your women to help you out when that time comes.

Only wife beaters will say no to divorce.
Because once the divorce the first one, the second one and spend time in jail for their offence, the won't need God to reset the brain.

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Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...

PLEASE MEN THAT CAN NOT STAND WOMEN AND THERE MOUTH SHOULD STAY AWAY FROM MARRIAGE, PERIOD.

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SmartPolician:
Any church that promotes divorce has their agenda because that's not the will of God. God doesn't support divorce; no church should. Separation is not divorce. The former doesn't lead to the latter automatically. People separate, miss each other and still make up after sorting out their issues. Let's not forget that.

Please tell me...what happens when they don't miss each other again and never want to come back together?

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Jennyclay:
Keep shut!!! Are the white girls any better??

The white girls will kill all you wannabe redpillers, just don't worry, it will soon get to your turn!!

Atleast she went ahead to drink beer after killing the guy... This time around she might Twerk on your casket.

Nonsense!!!

Hejehehehjerjhahahahahaheehehehe..
Twerk on your casket..heheheheheh hahahahaha..Chineke umunwanyi...hehehehehebhehe

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Kobojunkie:
Spiritually? LOL....

So, you expect to be paid in cash for your contribution to building what is your own marriage/family as well?

I really hope you come back in maybe a year or two to give us an update on how far this journey of yours takes you as it seems you are dead-set on living as if a human leech in marriage.

Nigerian men...this is why I no dey build anything with oga again oooo. Build yourself let me build myself. At the end of the day, after building together he will carry everything for himself and forget your sacrifices and contributions to his sucess.

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thesicilian:
Look for a way to set up an online business for yourself that you can operate from the comfort of your home. Do your research well before you start.

All I see is a man who is overly insecure, there's nothing spiritual about the issue that should make you be running from one pastor to the other.

Your husband thinks he's smart, find a way to outsmart him without being rebellious or disobedient.

Rebellious and disobedient.....hmmmm . please she is an adult not a teenager.

Looks like his checking his weight.