Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 1:09pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Good day everyone, pls how much can I pay for workmanship alone for fixing about 12 HDF doors in a new house. I have already fixed solid wood door frames and will buy all materials for the HDF doors. |
Politics › Re: Owerri Residents Clap As Nigeria Policemen Neutralize IPOB Terrorists by ehay(f): 12:17pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
These are not IPOB terrorists. They are armed robbers that stole from a gold shop opposite kilimanjaro on that street in broad day. I was there and ran into one of the shops when the robbers started shooting. This one I witnessed life. Chineke, guys should take it easy with the hate and fake news |
Health › Re: Pls Help A Brother. by ehay(f): 8:14pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] up webincomeplus: Weight loss!
Weakness!
Recurrent constipation!
Belching
Forceful passage of stools
These are not signs you should be calm with, bro. I'm seriously hoping this isn't colon cancer. I'm sincerely hoping it's not!
I'll advise you to get the heck out of NL now and find a good hospital where reliable diagnosis can be made.
There's more to what you're having than just peptic ulcer. That's all I can tell you as a medical doctor!
Nairaland is not a hospital. Go get your diagnosis now preferably in a specialist hospital before things get worse.
An abdominal ultrasound scan would be a good starting point.
PS. I deliberately opened up on the worst possible diagnosis, so you can rise up and act fast. Whatever it turns out to be can be deadly if not treated on time. Colon or stomach cancer was the first thing that came to my mind, especially with the weight loss. But he did not say anything about blood in stool thus ruling out colon cancer. Stomach cancer is usually misdiagnosed as ulcer until it becomes invasive. He needs to see a general surgeon, to do a colonoscopy and endoscopy immediately. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 4:39pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] rotecch77: Come closer and bring your ears It’s possible BUT let’s good hand handle the job for you We did this last year. Thank you very much. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 4:38pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 3:06pm On Jul 08, 2023 |
God day everyone, please can a bathroom wall niche /shelve be created on a 6 inches hollow wall? Below is a sample of what I want to do.
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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 3:45pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] erico2k2: ok Thanks a million. It's not bad at all. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 8:30pm On Jun 23, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] erico2k2: I think I got somethng like this but 60x60 Please does it look nice in the space you used it. Can you also upload a pics if you have any.thanks alot. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 4:43pm On Jun 23, 2023 |
Please, has anyone used / seenthe attached virony floor tile in a house before. Please how nice does it look on the floor and the entire room? Thanks
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Family › Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by ehay(f): 3:59pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] Mindlog: Then in their later years when their children are grown and left the house, those people outside are long gone, same men would accuse the wives they ignored in their youth of now ignoring them in their old age as their wives have divested emotionally. Nwannem iji okwu...were aka. |
Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by ehay(f): 1:21pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
yMcy56: Well done sir... 
UBA : Full bid @11.95..... ACCESS: 15.70...
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TRANSCORP: 3.46! |
Family › Re: Why The Rate Of Divorce Is High & Why Families Break Up by ehay(f): 12:42pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
[/color]MrBrownJay1: yes i certainly believe that the majority of divorces today are because of women... WOMEN who entered these marriages for the wrong reasons and thereafter not wanting any longer. WOMEN today not accepting to be treated like slaves and decide to walk away; WOMEN not wanting to accept what women in the past were accepting; WOMEN who are disrespected/abused and walk away.
only a very small percentage of divorces in Nigeria/Africa are instigated by men. the reality is that these men would rather cheat and/or be miserable than divorce [color=#990000]BECAUSE NIGERIAN/AFRICAN MEN HAVE THE MOST TO LOSE IN TODAY'S DIVORCE So your saying women and your daughters should accept domestic violence and being treated like a slave,and cheating. Why not ask men to treat their wives right so they don't walk away. And please men in Nigeria do not lose anything in today's divorce only the women do. |
Family › Re: Why The Rate Of Divorce Is High & Why Families Break Up by ehay(f): 11:49am On Jun 13, 2023 |
[/color]MrBrownJay1: ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!!
there are more divorces today simply because... A) its easy to get divorced today, compared to back in the days. in the past most of these women were jobless and couldnt divorce their husbands, but today, most women are gainfully employed and can manage to be on their own. B) people marry for the wrong reasons, thanks to African culture/society....aka marriage because of [color=#990000]RELIGIOUS/SOCIAL/FAMILY/PEER PRESSURE! C) because lots of people have NO CLUE how hard it is to stay happily married. marriage aint a game and sadly, many only figure that out when its too late D) because people are lazy!!!! so many were pretending to be who they were not (before marriage), in order to catch the right partner....and now that they are married, they dont need to pretend any longer,thats when their partner will discover the real character of their spouse. and sometimes it aint that great E) what do you expect when you have so many women out there that are so FAKE (fake hair, fake foundation, fake eyelashes, fake nails, fake push up bras, fake padded underwear, fake accent, fake education, fake background etc)? some men only discover the true face of their partner after marriage, and it aint that great F) so many women enter marriage as slim sexy princesses, and within 2/3 years (or kids) they end up looking like a baby whale version of shrek, and you wonder why so many men aint repulse by their wives?! G) many people today marry SOLELY for money, and when a man with MORE money comes along and/or their spouse loses their money, then the marriage will rightfully be over.Okayyooo, nothing about men cheating on their wife's and topping the act with an STI/STD ? It's alright. |
Politics › Re: My Honest Prediction Of Tinubu’s Presidency. by ehay(f): 11:16am On Jun 12, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] LegendHero: Let me tell you this, no politician need to appease to the Igbos because the Igbos only play one-directional politics. They face one way, no matter the circumstances, their votes will always be one way. So why do you need to appease them?
I’m not saying it’s a bad thing. It’s very good and I hope the Yorubas can think like that too in our voting pattern but it just seems we and the Igbos are totally different people and both method have their advantage and disadvantages.
The Yoruba way of having a distinct mind and ability to vote differently is one of the greatest advantage because it makes politicians appease the Yorubas. You will have a mind that, this people might vote me and they might not. I can appease to 35% of them to vote me and leave the 65% to do what they will do either ways. Jonathan did it in 2011 and did it again in 2015. Atiku did it in 2019 and Atiku/Obi did it in 2023.
Like you said, Tinubu told his comrades that they don’t need to invest too much in campaigning in the SE because he knows there is nothing on earth he can do that will make them vote him. So to him, the SE is useless to his success and when he eventually won, he is not bounded by any fears of SE voting against him in the next election like he would towards the North. Infact he may choose to not construct one single runway in the SE and still win the next election. That is the danger of one-directional voting as a bloc. When you do that, you better succeed coz if not, politicians will see that the voting bloc is useless to them.
The strongest enemy is the one you can’t predict his moves. SE is not a strong enemy to any opposition politician, if not for the SS that always align in some brotherhood to the SE, you guys would have understood some things already about power games. Remove corruption from the system, bringing free and fair election s and you will see the opposite of what you just wrote happening.. |
Family › Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by ehay(f): 10:13am On Jun 10, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] SaLongs1: You dey lie Abeg. Ok, just so you know, HPV causes anal cancer, throat cancer, cervical cancer, prostrate cancer,neck cancer, mouth cancer, nail cancer, anal cancer. You do not need to engage in anal sex to have it. Only cervical cancer can be prevented through leep surgical excision, ie if the lady goes for her pap smear yearly and it is detected at the precancer stage known as CIN1, 2 and 3. HPV test always comes back nill for men, only ladies can be tested. The two vaccines used in Nigeria only cover two strains that are responsible for 70% of cancers. The high resolution anoscopy for treating anal precancer or AIN1, 2,and 3, is not done in Nigeria. |
Family › Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by ehay(f): 5:36pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] NAC1666: Bear in mind that all men are cheat. Don't enter the marriage and start complaining that he cheated. Pretend you didn't see anything. That's how our mothers managed our fathers. Your marriage will last long and fruitful Keep deceiving yourself. Most of our mothers complained about cheating, but when the man refused to change the restrategised and waited for pay back in our fathers old Age. Never keep quiet when he is cheating, make sure he knows you know,so that when the day reckoning comes he won't deny it. |
Properties › Re: My 3 Bedroom Building Updates.. by ehay(f): 6:38am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Plse how much were you charged for tiling? |
Family › Re: Are Women From Divorced Homes More Likely To Divorce? by ehay(f): 1:14pm On May 30, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] AlphaHakimi: Divorce is a very bad thing to occur in a family. Divorce has both physical and mental effects on the children. You have to understand that the motive for Divorce is different between Man and woman.
For instance, if the girls mother initiated the divorce, she has automatically shown her female children that once the marriage is uncomfortable, there is a way out. Furthermore, she has unintentionally shown her male children that women do not marry for love, rather marriage is transactional for women. It means that the day you stop "being a man" irrespective of the reason (poor health, job loss, bad business transaction etc) your wife will Divorce you.
Men hardly initiate Divorce. Women always think that there is something perfect outside their matrimonial home. Women from divorced families no matter how good their qualities are, know only two things; 1) SURVIVAL 2) DIVORCE IS THE WAY OUT FROM MARITAL PROBLEMS.
Please in all you do, avoid such girls.
N/B : The only reason I support Divorce is in the case of domestic violence. No union is worth your life. Why do I feel you just contradicted yourself. Is domestic violence the only act that threatens ones life in a marriage, what about killer STI's / STD'S ?. So from what you are saying, men can marry children who's parents divorced due to domestic violence? |
Family › Re: Are Women From Divorced Homes More Likely To Divorce? by ehay(f): 1:04pm On May 30, 2023 |
LOLLLL, some guys are very funny. There are lots of unbroken homes with severely broken and unloved children. It's because of this your hesitation that most women stay in unhealthy marriages, which later affect their children. Why not ask questions on how you can be a better husband to this girl that is a victim of a divorced home. Marrying a lady from a seemingly unbroken home does not guarantee happiness, You guys might divorce in future and your beloved daughters will also come under this same scrutiny. Try to be a caring husband and divorce will not be an issue. |
Family › Re: Are Women From Divorced Homes More Likely To Divorce? by ehay(f): 12:53pm On May 30, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] Letsmeet: Please everyone, what's your opinion on this? Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home? If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities. But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them. What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please? Be a good husband to her, and divorce will not be an issue. |
Family › Re: Are Women From Divorced Homes More Likely To Divorce? by ehay(f): 12:51pm On May 30, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] CondenseMilk: Divorce is very dangerous especially to the girl child.
Apart from the death of a partner, bringing up kids as a single parent should be highly discouraged Reason for the divorce should be more important..... |
Family › Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by ehay(f): 11:06pm On May 24, 2023 |
SaLongs1: You dey lie Abeg. Ok, just so you know, HPV causes anal cancer, throat cancer, cervical cancer, prostrate cancer,neck cancer, mouth cancer, nail cancer, anal cancer. You do not need to engage in anal sex to have it. Only cervical cancer can be prevented through leep surgical excision, ie if the lady goes for her pap smear yearly and it is detected at the precancer stage known as CIN1, 2 and 3. HPV test always comes back nill for men, only ladies can be tested with certainty. The two vaccines used in Nigeria only cover two strains that are responsible for 70% of cancers. The high resolution anoscopy for treating anal precancer or AIN1, 2,and 3, is not done in Nigeria. |
Family › Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by ehay(f): 11:05pm On May 24, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] OKOATA: He can just take injection like prep and he won't contact anything oga. Stop making it look like the disease is a big deal. Oga that one does not work on HPV ooohhh. Even the vaccine gardasil, and ceverex are not 100% effective. Do what you want. |
Family › Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by ehay(f): 6:59pm On May 24, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color][quote author=Nation1 post=123342978]Hello people, Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago,my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about. This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to. I need your advise guys [/quot
Do not engage in any extra marital affair. Cancer causing HPV is on the increase, Condom does not protect against it. |
Politics › Re: The Mystery Of The Altered Results In Nigeria's Disputed 2023 Election - BBC by ehay(f): 1:23pm On May 16, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] franchasofficia: It's not just in Rivers state alone, Peter Obi's actual votes were massively suppressed in Lagos. The margin was so wide that Tinubu, Sanwo-olu, MC Oluomo and the rest of Lagos APC stakeholders got mad and went on rampage to prepare for the Governorship election to avoid losing Lagos completely.
Sanwo-olu after seeing the actual huge margin Obi used to win Lagos became humble overnight that he started doing all sorts of things to convince Lagosians that he was different from Tinubu while MC Oluomo charged his agberos to take the laws by their hands and do whatever it takes to win Lagos for Sanwo-olu to avoid extinction of their decadelong Agberoism extortion in Lagos.
Based on our inhouse collation, Peter Obi won the below states with very wide margin that will push his total votes to over 9million votes:
Lagos Rivers Plateau Bayelsa Akwa Ibom Cross River Benue
Obi got over and around 25% in:
Adamawa yes Adamawa Borno Kaduna Sokoto Bauchi Taraba Nasarawa Ekiti Ogun Ondo Kogi
Obi won the below states with no or insignificant vote suppression:
Anambra Abia Ebonyi Imo Enugu Delta Edo Abuja I live in Imo state, there was a great suppression of votes in Imo state. Only the governor and his gang would have voted APC here. |
Health › Re: Man Electrocuted While Reconnecting Electricity In Abia (Video) by ehay(f): 9:14am On May 16, 2023 |
What happened in FMC, was there delay in attending to him at their emergency room? |
Family › Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by ehay(f): 6:41pm On May 15, 2023 |
 erico2k2: MayB they should ru their own ship in Nigeria too ajjnd get used to it |
Family › Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by ehay(f): 12:47pm On May 15, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] Mindlog: Were they truly "happily married" while still in Nigeria?
The Nigerian environment tends to subsidize a lot of unhealthy marriages and then tagged a "happy marriage".
A lot of things need unlearning but some are stuck in their ways... one said it was emasculating doing the dishes.😆😆😆
That reminds me of a draft dissertation of a Nigerian Psychology postgraduate student, I read and it was really insightful as it focused on the breakdown in marital relationships of some Nigerian migrants to the UK as the focus.
The project detailed how the UK system hits hard on Nigerian husbands who are so high on control and submission as the UK system deflates these. The researcher also brought up the demystication of income which counters many threads here that advocates a man should not let his wife know how much his income is but here in the UK, the wife knows it before it even reaches the man's account and the system forces the couples to be more open about their finances and they are forced to make joint decisions as it forces accountable leadership on husbands as against the lordship status, they "enjoyed" in Nigeria ....d person write many, many for the dissertation.😆😆😆😆 thanks a million.. many 98% of married women in Nigeria are not happily married. We just the manage union with lots of bottled up anger and retaliation, the patch the marriage they go because of the way our society is configured. When we reach climes were we are not judged by broken marriages, one small mistake from the man, we will open up our bottle up anger, and over pressure from within the bottle will do the rest for us. |
Properties › Re: Isheri Construction - 4 Bedroom Luxury Duplex with 2 Bed BQ by ehay(f): 10:42am On Apr 29, 2023 |
Beautiful tiles. Please are they matte? And what brand of to are they? |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 11:45pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] kopell: Goodwill is better for floors, Royal for walls my opinion. I used them for couple of years back. No regrets till date even with heavy traffic area on the floor. Thank you very much. God bless you. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 7:39pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Goid day everyone,
Please, which tile should I choose for my floor between Royal tiles and Goodwill tiles. I plan using matte (Unpolished) tiles on the floor. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 10:46am On Apr 17, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] ehay: Please what is the current cost of Royal tiles. Please can any one help me with current cost of 60 by 60 unpolished (carara) royal tile |