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PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 12:47am On Apr 17, 2023
Please what is the current cost of Royal tiles.
PoliticsRe: Imo: Athan Nneji Achonu (one-arm General) Emerges LP Guber Candidate by ehay(f): 9:48am On Apr 16, 2023
ChristianMuslim:
Imo people have suffered, with all the whole shakara and gra gra.. no more able body in igbo land can rule, what happened now? You all left your state to come and sell okrika in Lagos.. handicap has taken over your state. Shame. No wonder they wanted to install chinedu in lagos
Roosevelt won the 1932 presidential election in a landslide and became the first (and, as of 2023, only) physically disabled person to be President of the United States. Before he moved into the White House, ramps were added to make it wheelchair-friendly.
PoliticsRe: Imo: Athan Nneji Achonu (one-arm General) Emerges LP Guber Candidate by ehay(f): 9:47am On Apr 16, 2023
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MilitantAtheist:
It has never happened before that physically challenged person held governance office be it governorship or presidency in Nigeria not even a local govt position. Because the Constitution stated it clear that apart from being a Nigerian without any criminal records the person to be elected into offices of President and governor must be declared to be physically healthy. By the Constitution he is not physically healthy and not qualified so what is going on in Nigeria? The Constitution no longer valid? I'm not being bad but only saying what I know about the laws of the land. Somebody clarify for me
I don't know why your reply got to me..... Anyways, do you remember the below guy in USA history

Roosevelt won the 1932 presidential election in a landslide and became the first (and, as of 2023, only) physically disabled person to be President of the United States. Before he moved into the White House, ramps were added to make it wheelchair-friendly.
PoliticsRe: This Is A New Nigeria, An Alliance Of North And South-West - Femi Fani-Kayode by ehay(f): 8:31am On Mar 31, 2023
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Shokoloko:
Hello there,
Please repost this message with your original moniker (there is nothing to be ashamed of in trying to save your mother's life), tag me and also mention the account number of the pharmacy for the e-transfer. (you need to find a pharmacy willing to do a cashless transaction even if the cost will be a little more).
May God bless you and replenish your purse in hundred folds.
PoliticsRe: Presidential Election: Peter Obi Disputes INEC Results In 21 States by ehay(f): 10:18am On Mar 23, 2023
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buharitill2023:
hahahaha,
Bornu state we were expecting 700k vote, and bornu was 276k,
Same with yobe, we were expecting 500k, turn out to be less than 200k vote and the worst part of it atiku won yobe,
But obi get almost 500k vote from small anambra, almost 500k from small Enugu and almost 500k vote from small abia,
You people are so wicked,
You beat person and you're the one still crying,
That is oppression and evil
That's where you are getting it wrong. Eastern states have population, just that we do not come out to vote. Even with that number, many people sti did not come out to vote because of distrust in the election process. INEC proved them right.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Will Win 2023 Presidential Election But by ehay(f): 10:09am On Mar 21, 2023
OGA YOU HAVE A GIFT.everything you saw is unfolding have you seen more?
PoliticsNo Election Result Sheets In Most Polling Units In Imo State by ehay(op): 12:00pm On Feb 25, 2023
INEC gave out materials without result sheets in most areas in Imo State. The INEC staff in my Polling booth said the were asked to conduct the election without result sheet. And the result sheets will be brought to them when voting is over. Pls who /which group can I report this to.
RomanceRe: Zukiswa Joyi: I Made It Out Of Valentine's Day Still A Virgin & I'm 33 by ehay(f): 3:06pm On Feb 18, 2023
I'm okay with virginity if one is keeping herself for peace of mind and not for her future husband to love her. Because your virginity won't stop your husband from having a side chic. The most painful part is when they forget you were a virgin and kick you out for not having a male child. There is nothing wrong with having one or two boy friends, and experiencing a couple of heart breaks before marriage. In my opinion it prepares you emotionally for the ups and downs in marriage. My elder sister married a virgin so.....
PoliticsRe: Suggest A Running Mate For Datti Baba Ahmed After Obi 8 Years by ehay(f): 6:54pm On Feb 17, 2023
Ngozi okonjo iweala
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 11:45pm On Feb 12, 2023
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sethtsadopp:
Please is the cubicle quote reasonable or on the high side?
Good day, please what is the measurement of your master bathroom shower cubicle. Ie in length and width.
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 11:38pm On Feb 10, 2023
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Blessedsunny2:
Blessed sunny global investment home of building materials & blessed Sam building materials enterprise
Please how much did it cost to install the shower screen in the second picture.
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 9:12pm On Feb 10, 2023
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FamilyRe: Why Are Some Men Abandoned By Their Wives and Children At The Old Age? by ehay(f): 11:58pm On Jan 24, 2023
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onatisi:
the more reason why you should marry more than one wife , no matter how bad there will be one of the wives who will want you to stay alive and truly love you . that was the wisdom of our forefathers and it really helped them and made life very very easy but the blind adoption of the white man religion and culture has blinded many africans

Loll,this did not work for my dad. They both abandoned him. The Key is being a loving husband to your wife. And let the children see it. The way the will be around you in old age eehh, and even quarrel with their mother because of you.....
FamilyRe: Why Are Some Men Abandoned By Their Wives and Children At The Old Age? by ehay(f): 11:34pm On Jan 24, 2023
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Ariketolu:
THIS HAS BEEN BOTH A COMMON CONCERN OF EVERY RESPONSIBLE MAN AS WELL AS A FAMILIAR TOPIC AMONG MEN THROUGH AGES, But unfortunately, it is a lost battle

Not long ago, I stumbled on a discussion in relation to how some women abandon their husbands at advanced ages and pitch their tents with their children under the guise of helping them to nurse their (children's) children. In some other cases, the men have been abandoned at old age by their wives because they felt it was 'pay back time' for unforgivable sins allegedly committed by the old man when he was younger. Such sins don't necessarily have anything to do with infidelity or taking a younger wife, but it's enough if the wife and the children all concluded he was too harsh with (or to) them when the marriage was younger or the children were growing up. They carefully elect to wait until the old man has retired and needs the company of his wife and the affection of the children most before they embark on a revenge mission!

In most, if not all, cases, the man must have worked day and night towards the physical, economic, and educational advancement of the family, most especially the children when they were growing up. Ironically, but for what the children now label as 'high-handedness', most, if not all, of them would have ended up as wayward children and unable to make anything worthwhile out of their lives. But they don't appreciate that!

The most painful part of it is that, the wife it was who used to obtain the children's submission to her 'dictations' by mentioning their Daddy's name each time they tended towards obstinacy! 'Your daddy is coming', 'your daddy will soon come', 'if you don't listen to me, I will report you to your daddy when he comes back', and so on. Expectedly, the children would not like to incur the wrath of their daddy, hence, they will 'maintain'! Where the children refused to listen to the mother and she was constrained to report them to the father, the father's reaction by way of punishment is what is now being used against the man as being too high-handed.

Another reason for the children's resentment towards their father is the mistaken impression that the father never contributed towards their education. While this can be true in some extreme cases where the father is irredeemably irresponsible, the truth is that in most other cases, because the father had to pursue money most of the time, he would give money for school fees and upkeep to the wife to go and settle whilst he goes 'hustling'. These facts are usually unknown to the children and the mother never told them it was their father who provided the money. Such children would later grow up and rebel against the father for his 'irresponsible' behaviours when they were growing up!

It will amount to over-generalisation to conclude that all women and children do this. Far from it! Recently, I was discussing with a former colleague in one of the banks where I previously worked. She told me that she was outside the country with Daddy. What for? One of their children just gave birth and both of them had travelled abroad to 'baby sit'! I think that's how it should be unless the old man elects not to travel!

Even in very extreme cases where the man had been beastly during the 'sinning' period, why should the woman wait until the husband's old age to 'pay him back'? Why not call it a day with the relationship when the man could still have been able to find someone with compatible behavioural patterns?

What Shall Men Do?

In the first place, a man must learn to be responsible and responsive in matrimonial homes! He must be actively involved in the children's affairs! Where some roles have been delegated to the mother, he should let the children be aware!

Second, no father must allow the woman to surreptitiously turn him into a masquerade in the estimation of the children. That you went out and you're returning home should be something that your children are looking forward to. If you continue to allow yourself to be portrayed as the family masquerade, in your old age you will definitely pay for it.

Furthermore, as a father, learn to correct your children in and with love. Let them know the reason a particular course of punishment was administered. Whatever level of punishment to be administered must be commensurate to the act of misdemeanour! Just like the Yorubas would say: 'Abéré ò gbudò sonù, ká lo gbé Ṣàngó síta'! Let the punishment fit the offence!

Finally, fathers must learn to provide for any 'incasity' at old age! In other words, learn not to eat with both hands. If you haven't been doing that before, start saving for the rainy day (old age) today. If your spouse and children decide to be supportive at old age, all well and good, but if it turns out to be otherwise, there will be no regrets. Times are changing fast too! The children also have their own lives to live. If anything comes from them to the parents at old age, fine, otherwise try and be prepared! Whatever you have as savings would eventually go to them upon your inevitable departure anyway. No parent knows the art of raising or bringing up children. Only God does!

This battle of mother and children in relation to men, in most cases, is a lost battle for men. You cannot win it. The most deceptive belief a man can have is to think that he knows everything that goes on under his roof. This is because there's usually a lot of 'Má jé kí Daddy ẹ ó mò tàbí gbó o' in all homes! In other words, 'don't let your daddy know or hear that o'! This usually exists between the mother and the children to the exclusion of the father! They understandably spend more time together than men do, no matter how hard the fathers try! I think it's unconscionable for any woman to 'conspire' with the children to dub her husband a devil after using him as a tool to train the children to achieve greatness! God bless our homes, Amen!

Caleb Arogundade
You said nothing about loving your wife like you love yourself. Even if you do all you wrote and your children watch frequently maltreat your wife, they will have a soft spot for her, and makr her future happiness part of their life goals. The way to your children's heart is by loving their mother.

In old age, you realise that love and care especially from family supercedes money.
FamilyRe: Why Are Some Men Abandoned By Their Wives and Children At The Old Age? by ehay(f): 11:22pm On Jan 24, 2023
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onumadu:
It is happening because it is the natural course of things in life, and there are bio-social reasons for it.
If there is any FIRM strike against monogamy, this is it.
In my ancestral Igboland, a man married as he aged.
Example, at 20 year old, he married his first wife who may be 15/16 yrs old.
At his 30 birthday, he married another woman... and so on until he gets to about 60-70 yrs old when he married a woman that (in Igbo language we say) "ga ene ya nka" (that would take care of him in old age). Go and see in the Bible where king David did exactly the same thing.
But today, clueless men herd other clueless men into a clueless marriage system that is almost anti-men, only to get discarded and abused in their old age.
This is why I keep advocating for a return to the ancestral Igbo marriage system by the Igbo.
Euro-monogamy comes with things you cannot handle.
When my beloved uncle died alone after raising children but was abandoned in old age, the handwriting on the wall became bright red for us his male relatives.
Argue with yourself if you like! cool
This your story only works if you are rich ..ie have lots of farmlands etci n the ancestral igbo land.
FamilyRe: Why Are Some Men Abandoned By Their Wives and Children At The Old Age? by ehay(f): 11:19pm On Jan 24, 2023
ChybuzzDD:
Unreasonable response.
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Not unreasonable....that's how it works for us women. You treat us like shit when were young and expect us to be their for you in our old age. No it does not work that way.
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 1:55pm On Jan 15, 2023
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hamtabfawaz:
Do a permanent net, then have a sliding window behind it, for ventilation purpose. ✓

A sliding net, in the process of opening & closing, insects can get inside.
Thanks a lot.
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 10:57pm On Jan 14, 2023
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topsy23:
Go permanent net and let it be install at the external part
Thanks a million.
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 6:59pm On Jan 14, 2023
I want to fix a sliding window in my house; but I am confused about using a sliding net or a permanent net. Pls if money is not an issue, which of them does a better job of protecting against insects.
Christianity EtcRe: Maltreating Your Wife Hinders Your Prayer - Mike Bamiloye Tells Married Men by ehay(f): 5:03pm On Nov 23, 2022
FuckTheMod:
Will you ever come out honest and admit that you're a whóre who has slept with various guys including married men?
When the issue of bodycount is raised, you become angry and defensive. You say it doesn't and shouldn't matter. But a man's present and future matters? Or-deh grin
You people alw[color=#006600][/color]ays just think that you can eat your cake and have it. Nothing is hidden and your dirty and ugly past will always come back to bite you in the ass.
Say whatever you want, the decision to marry or not to marry a hoe lies in your hands. But who ever you finally decide to marry deserves to be treated like a wife. Simple.
Christianity EtcRe: Maltreating Your Wife Hinders Your Prayer - Mike Bamiloye Tells Married Men by ehay(f): 12:46pm On Nov 23, 2022
tiswell:
most women consciously or subconsciously manipulates their children against their fathers.
Men are usually 'lonely" in their old age,as their wives junkets from one visit(children's homes)to another.
Obviously you grew up in a peaceful home. I watched my father beat and maltreat my mother several times when I was a kid and that formed the bases of my non existing relationship with my father. My mother did not have to manipulate anyone of us.
Christianity EtcRe: Maltreating Your Wife Hinders Your Prayer - Mike Bamiloye Tells Married Men by ehay(f): 12:39pm On Nov 23, 2022
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FuckTheMod:
Does a whóre who spent her life and hoe-phase fucƙing around with various guy deserve love and good treatment?
You can't reap what you didn't sow, and you'll always reapp what you sow.
Was the hoe forced on you? You decided to make a hoe your wife, so you should treat her like a wife.
HealthWhere Can I Get An Anoscopy Done In The East by ehay(op): 2:50pm On Sep 21, 2022
I have this itching and pain in my anus. I have done a colonoscopy that came back normal. Please can anyone help with any hospital in the east where I can do an anoscopy or better still a High Resolution Anoscopy to diagnose my anal itching and pain.
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by ehay(f): 9:03am On Sep 19, 2022
Pls what is the meaning of -wrought pipes and rods with 14gg- for gate construction.

Cc michlin
InvestmentRe: FGN Savings Bond by ehay(f): 10:42pm On Aug 12, 2022
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IHelp:
I have used them severally for the fgn savings bond. They are okay
Thanks a million.
InvestmentRe: FGN Savings Bond by ehay(f):
Pls has anyone subscribed for fgn savings bond through Morgan capital? How reliable are they? And also the best stockbroking firm to subscribe through without issues.

Thanksss...
AdvertsRe: Osinachiadima Global Enterprise , deal of kinds building materials by ehay(f): 11:03am On Jul 22, 2022
Pls how much do your 4ft security doors go for?
EventsRe: Blue Eyes Daughter Of A Nairalander Celebrates One Year Anniversary by ehay(f): 1:43pm On May 19, 2022
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Vikkoh:
Blue eyes bah?
Now you know of me, you're welcome angry
Lollll. Hehehehehe
Foreign AffairsRe: Sheikh Khalifa Bin Zayed Al Nahyan Is Dead! (UAE President Dies At 73) by ehay(f): 12:31pm On May 13, 2022
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Tissaia:
RIP.
Time to stop the demoralization of the UAE.
1) Start real sharia.
2) Stop giving visa to southern Nigerians
3) Stop issuing visa to non Muslim African Americans.
4) start sending more funds to northern Nigeria mosques and Islamic centers
Lolllll...Start finding northern Nigeria because UAE mines your gold and other minerals..heheheheheh
CelebritiesRe: Julius Agwu's Wife, Ibiere Shares Cryptic Post Amid Marriage Crash Rumours by ehay(f): 11:59am On May 02, 2022
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knowyaself2:
Whether from a poor or rich family, once her man stops making adequate money, trouble starts. Offences that would normally be overlooked or played down become exaggerated and made a big issue. I know this from experience. The role success or money plays in a marriage can never be over emphasized. A good man that's poor can never be appreciated or loved. To be poor or struggling is a curse.
Those offences you thought were overlooked because you were rich were stacked somewhere waiting to be brought out at the days of reckonings. Women do not forget or overlook, they patiently (even if takes 40 years) wait for when misfortune will visit you to pay back all the hurting you caused them when you where forming maximum ruler.
CelebritiesRe: Julius Agwu's Wife, Ibiere Shares Cryptic Post Amid Marriage Crash Rumours by ehay(f): 11:51am On May 02, 2022
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laudate:
Just say you don't know what you are talking about. undecided

The same Julius Agwu later recovered and chased this Ibiere lady out of his house, claiming she was the one spiritually responsible for his sickness.

He threw her things out and he was supported by his family to do so.

The poor woman left after nursing him through that sickness only to be rewarded with evi'l by Julius Agwu.

After he became well, he continued his partying and skirt chasing. Then he fell sick again. And he now expected the same wife he chased out to come and nurse him back to health?? Hehehehe.....she declined, of course.

But you are here conjuring fake stories as if you were part of their marital history. shocked

The truth is already out, o. Update yourself instead of blaming a poor woman who did all she could to take care of her husband, but was thrown out for her efforts. sad

The same Julius was seen partying at Rita Dominic's wedding, held in the Southeast recently. Abí, he is no longer sick again? huh
Every man wants a good and loyal woman, but when God blesses them with one, the take everything from the woman and reward her with evil.
CelebritiesRe: Julius Agwu's Wife, Ibiere Shares Cryptic Post Amid Marriage Crash Rumours by ehay(f): 11:46am On May 02, 2022
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greypencils:
Tell them! To all the ' get money first, I can marry any type of woman after I've gotten money' crew, any woman you marry after you've gotten money is marrying you for your money. Just pray that money stays, or else, you are a gonner. Me wey I marry when I still broke, e get why, I married someone who loved me in my struggling state and to God who made me, it's the best feeling ever. You are sure of that love, it humbles you and makes you wanna be better not just for yourself but because of her and your children.
Hmmmmmm... Same thing Yul edochie said before he started counting wife's.

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