Well I don't. Blame you guys saying all sort of rubish about girls but I blame those pretty girls who ended sleeping or dating premature guys who are trying so hard to see them self as men rubbish low life he goats

Wendy80:


Pls share

when I got robbed while coming from a biz trip I wanted to know who robbed me so I went to this so called woman of god whom my ex introduce me to than believing she will be able to expose the people she couldn't when my ex went to her too she ask my ex to give her time to pray about it but later told him that I was not rob that am only looking for away to collect money frm him while if I got to see her she keeps telling me those people are already reciving their punishment ans I keep dashing her money each time I go to visit untile out of pity and likness my ex house help had to open up to me what the woman came to the house to tell my ex

rockstarB:

I dnt get you

I never understand what she meant til I saw with my own eyes.I think you should keep your self first befor any body beacuse most times those you care for will not be there when you need them most espeicaly those we cal bf speaking from personal exprince

My frieand will always say when your foolish u say love is blind I never understand what she meant till I was with my own eye how stupied I was

Because jesus christ who created us is a handsome man

Ehinmowblessing@gmail.com

Quit painful forget about him u don't need him its his lost

No longer attracted to him

From personal experience its not advisable I can't forget my experince in a hurry

I regretted do biz with him and also trusted him with my money he is made now while am still struggling I curse the day I accepted dating him.

Rapmoney:
@ehin...get a life! I can't and won't date you!

water side hungry militant

Rapmoney:
@ehin...get a life! I can't and won't date you!

rapmoney I already hv a sweet and a smooth life unlik u i wil rather date a handson chimpanazee that to date a fustrating stock fish like you,who is looking for a girl to dupe all in d name of independent lady.ugly and hungry Gigolo

Cutehector4u:
so is ur boyfrnd dah wil tell u?

yes knows me better

Cutehector4u:
Yall know that song right? What's your selling point... I believe most of us, if not all of us have that unique feature or character dat when we exude, exerts great pheromones to admirers out there that makes them feel your aura. So I want to ask you, What's your selling point

wait let enquire frm my bf

Rapmoney:


U must be a very cheap girl! If all girls are like u, I wuld never date a girl! Nonsense girl!
Ashawo 10 kobo!

even if I go as low as 1kobo ur type can come near me because will only infect me with more of ur poverty hungry boy

Rapmoney:

T
U see ur life? U are broke and u had the gut to type that rubbish u typed?

that because I hv hope when it comes to u

yemicoal:
You sound so pained about this write-up. The question is are you broke or an independent lady??

yes am broke

delesule:
Helo nairalanders,
Am Bamidele Sulaimon Alaba,
I reside in lagos Nigeria.I have been doing well before,I have made a lot of money through importation and other online business.But i have eating the money up and end up in debt.Most of my debt is from people that trusted me with their hard earned money.I cant face most of them because of shame.
Now am very angry with myself.The anger have made me to be ruining myself.I have taking up drinking in order to console myself,but i have been constituting nuisance .I have lost the respect that people around me had for me,Including my wife and children.Am not myself any more.
I need help to get going again.I want to be myself again.I want to redeem my image again.
I want you guys to multivate me.Give me advice on how i can get going again.
Please help me save my life.Your advice may be the key to restore my life back.
Note am not asking for financial help,just an advice and inspirations words.Inspire me with your words.
Thanks in advance.

I have been there and I know how u feel but one thing u need to know is that God mercy is greater than any mistake one will ever make your greates victory is in ur future not ur past God is a god or restortion so look up to him.

Oahray:
Hmmm... Very thoughtful op... Any idea why your mum was 'loose and nothing to write home about' before she got married?

correct

Rapmoney:
It is a pity when I see some dudes involving themselves in parasitic relationship where the lady offers nothing other than s*x!!! These guys take care of the babe as if na dia sperm na e form the babe Providing her airtime, taking responsibility for making her hair, meals, clothes (including undies!!!), etc. Na u be her papa, abi? Orue Engaging yourself with such people will only end up pulling you down, financially and mentally. Below are some salient differences between an independent lady and a cheap one who adds no value to your entire life:

1. The Value of Money: An independent lady knows the value of money and she works very hard to succeed. She doesn't need to sit her ass down and wait for a man to come and uplift her to the height she would want, but the cheap ones do. I over-heard two babes discussing recently. One asked the other if 'that guy' has called her and she told her friend that the guy was irrelevant and that she didn't feel 'that 'guy' would be able to take care of her. When I observed them closely, I discovered that they would be in their early twenties and probably, still living with their parents. After what I heard, the value I had for them died and my blood went cold for them! At that age, they expect men to take of those things that are supposed to be provided for by their parents. My sympathy...if you fall for such women.

2 Coordination On A Date: An independent lady knows how to coordinate herself when she goes on a date. Since she knows the value of money, she wouldn't want to push a man too far to spend beyond his means. The pizza, ice-cream, chicken, point-and-kill, fiesta, burger, turkey laps may not impress her as it would impress the cheap ones. She can afford those things when ever it pleases her. What about the other one? She would eat as if that is her last day on earth! She would order and order, even things that she wouldn't be able to finish. Such type of ladies will tell you that they would like to carry 4 extra packs (take-away) home for her friends, Olawunmi, Aisha, Chinenye and Rukevwe She is cheap and can easily betray herself on this because she doesn't know the value of creating wealth. She might unknowingly cast a bad image on herself to a serious dude who could turn out to be one of the best husbands of our time!

3 Hard working: An independent woman is hard working but their opposites are lazy. They sit their lazy as.s and wait for a guy to come around with all sort of goodies, even those that their parents can't provide them. That's why some women get laid for as little as a plate of noodles and eggs from the local neighbourhood mishai!!! Go try am with an independent lady na! You go see shege!!!

4. Calling Guys 'Broke': An independent lady hardly refer to guys as 'broke' because she wouldn't even care! She makes her own money and spends it the way it pleases her. She is quick to notice a guy's character and attitude instead of his pocket. The cheap ones don't care about attitude or character! The first thing they notice is how fat your pockets are. She doesn't want to know whether you possess qualities such as humour, patience and fear of God...because she is lacking, she would want to cling to anyone who dishes out money to her; she is even ready to open her legs, with one in Warri and the other in Akure Such girls are quick to see the 'brokeness'(forgive me for this English) in a guy because all she needs is money and goodies. If you are giving her 3k regularly and she sees someone who is capable of giving her 5k, she would run away from you as fast as possible. No conscience sef! Instead of you calling guys 'broke', why don't you work hard to better your life? Having a boyfriend is not a job, neither is it an occupation or trade! I often wonder why most men don't see it that most women are broke too, even more than us

5. Care for Parents: An independent woman works and she earns income or profits. She has a greater probability of taking care of some of her parents' needs. She can help her parents financially with their trade or buy foodstuffs and electronic gadgets in the house. But the other type? She uses a phone worth 120k, but her father's phone is wearing a rubber-band, lest, it falls apart All her electronic gadgets total 350k but her father's zinc house has a leaking roof She carries a hair of 65k, yet the television in their parlor is a pregnant 14 inch 1980's colour Tv What a life?

6. Many Partners: The probability that an independent woman would keep many romantic or sexual partners is far lower than that of the cheap (broke) ones! If you are in a relationship with the opposite of the independent woman, then just know that 6 more guys you have never met might be bleeping the hell out of your 'girl'

7. Offers and Contribution: An independent woman is likely to contribute immensely to your life far more that the cheap ones. She can conveniently buy you gifts both on your birthdays and whenever. A broke cheap girl would not. She even wants you to take her out and buy her gifts on your own birthday! Chisos! What two people contribute in relationship matters a lot in giving the relationship a meaning and value. If you are dating a woman who can only offer s*x and nothing more, she is cheap!

Things are changing...some young men dor wise-up now. Soon, lazy women who do nothing but sit and wait for a dude for all their provisions will be left behind to rot with Old Nick in hell

Na me write this post and I get copyright licence

Peace!!!

you even look broke your self local pot calling gas pot black

aguiyi:
Can I have you friends contact, I need a borehole in Enugu

are u still intersted in the borehole thing

When I got dump by my ex just because I got broke and the other

My is sep 22

Can one run hse with school cert if yes what the probs of getting a job with it

[quote author=signor11 post=30231512]

unhmm
thats no excuse though
i know what guys do and am aware how well it goes
but you should learn from that past and let it shape the future[/quote hmm when your past keep reflecting on your. Present that not easy o

[quote author=opepo post=30242560] as nice as to make you forget your past bitter experiences. you can call me a heart mender. like a shoe mender...only that my own is mending hearts.[/quotelike serriously hw old is this heart mender

opepo:
sweets, you will have to learn to use your head o. But you are welcome to practice on me sha. So what do you say?

smiling how nice can you be

opepo:
that doesn't mean you shouldn't try again, only this time be careful with them guys.

just that I always use my heart when I know am to use my head

Would have love to try a blind date but its a pity I stay in port harcourt

Hmm don't trust any one because my heart is mess up long ago

clevvermind:
many girls today are just runs girls that wants to drain your pocket and dumb you. shine your eyes. don't think that it is only you they are dating, they have many other guys screwing them behind your back. many guys have complained to me about this. so i know what i'm talking about. runs girls are on the prowl, so use your brain. runs girls don't care whether you are handsome or not. all they are looking for is your money. so, beware of runs girls.

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