₦airaland Forum

HaneefahRN:
I don't know how people reason o. You both are obviously earning well, yet to have your own house and all she is concerned about is getting more monthly allowance? She should even be the one trying to make sure your money is managed well.

People have given good advice, whatever you do, converse with her with love, discuss at length with her. You need to start planning your future, not spend money as you see it.

I wonder if the woman will stay if there's no money again

KnightMare7:
I will do it for my daughter too, it's the right thing to do, my son's wife is like my daughter, I should cook for her and my son, help in the kitchen, it's th proper thing.

no one is saying your mother-in-law can't help if she wants to but not that you make it mandatory on her even if she wants to help at least you should be modest enough not to let her do it. You said your daughter-in-law is like your daughter so that means as old as you are now your mom still cook for you, do your laundry and other things? , I don't think your husband will sit down and watch his mother going on and forth to the kitchen and round the house doing chores.... I don't even know what is wrong our ladies nowadays o the kind of orientation some of them have before going to their matrimonial home may God help us

KnightMare7:
why not, where is the love, where I come from if the woman's mother comes visiting, she washes her clothes, that of her daughter and her grand children, that's love, why should mother in law be different? If she cares for me, she would assist me not give me more work.

ehn ehn where you come from? Now I get it. Also if she comes she will wash her plates after eating too, she may even help you to clean the house no big deal there... So when your son grow up and marries don't be offended if his wife extends the gesture to you too

KnightMare7:
washing machine is the solution actually, but not everyone can afford it.

I cannot wash inlaw's clothes, what for?

So if your mother-in-law comes visiting you expect her to wash her clothes herself?

Aminat508:
i swear... So painful

yeah.. I didn't even know why he changed the name of my Alma Mata to Osogbo high school from Osogbo Grammar School

Aminat508:
Fakunle ke?

their school has gone into extinction, Aregbesola did a bad thing there

Osogbo Grammar School, founded 1950
We are proud of you our dear, Osogbo Grammar School Begun in 1950 by oba adenle First in osun division father of all other schools The pride of Osun State, keep on pushing our dear school May you live long our dear school Alma Mata of the great supported by men so wise Founded on the strength of tradition Keep on pushing dear you will not fall Up school OGS! Up school! Keep pushing

infolekan:
Funny dude. This is as ignorant as they come. Which section of the constitution empowers it?
You should check who has the power to decide if it should be done or not. The NUC or JAMB or Minister.

hope you know it's the same federal government that gave them autonomy

Fabians009:
Ok. I thought Post UTME is illegal. Okay nah!

post Utme is not illegal which section of the Constitution forbids it?

During the Last ASUU strike among the conditions signed by federal government to end the strike is granting autonomy to universities i.e they are their own government, they can do what they like... So I think that's why some of them will conduct post Utme this year despite the directive of the minister of education

I prefer osinbajo as the president

What about graduates of other courses?
This is not good enough, we all went to the University and we all got a degree. It shouldn't matter if it's medicine or pharmacy or engineering

Zzyzxt:
And who paddles the administration of the state? if there was a court injunction it must have been politically and religiously influenced.

you always think everything is politically inclined that has always been your problem and it clouded your sense of reasoning

bonechamberlain:
u people and 95% 5% dichotomy, govt can't provide jobs others are thinking of providing u are here saying this. No problem with the 5% ..

Be careful of hate it affect your judgement.

I don't even understand some people o they want to build the refinery with their money and investment that will belong to them, they will pay duties to the state and federal governments before they start operations and they will also be paying taxes o and yet you want to dictate how they run their business for them..of course they will employ Nigerians and it's not a must it should be above 90% Nigerians

Zzyzxt:
if not that this Aregbeshola man is clueless and wants to spare head a religious violence, how can you say they should be wearing hijab in a baptist school? schools built by Christian missionaries? where is it done? I think the man has lost touch with reality.

They can wear hijab in there exclusive Muslim school...that won't be a problem.

The school is not a religious centre.

Who said it was Aregbesola that gave the order?

candidbabe:
Protesting kwa
Is lagos not APC state.
Sai CHANJI.
PROUDLY 5%.

smh...were they employed by Lagos state government abi when did total oil become Lagos state investment?

If a man wants all this from a woman he can simply find clay and mould his own specific type of a wife with all these qualities

McBrooklyn:
Don't mind the OP jawe . . . He must be high on Osogbo Weed

lol... may God continue to protect us Jare

McBrooklyn:
OP, I wonder if you're damn OK at all! This happened in my school since last month and of course I knew some of them. As I saw this news just now, I was wondering if another accident actually happened but after reading the whole sh*t, I later learnt it was still the same accident he was referring to. And I could see some poster above me saying sh*t about the school already sef! So OP, can you just tell us the f**k you're trying to insinuate or gerrarahia


RIP to the dead and may their soul rest in perfect peace

I thought it was another accident too and I was scared to open the thread but I later found out it was the one that happened last month.. RIP to the deceased

Funny

Wow! Lovely ... I want something like this too oh lord and provide the means to take care of them

KingTom:
ok thanks for the clarification

you are welcome

KingTom:
A coffin? And two days later? I'm confused

a Muslim won't be buried with a coffin, the coffin can only be used to carry his corpse

Ishilove:
So Islamic tenets are selectively practiced? Different rules for the elites and hoi polloi?

In the light of recent happenings in the country, this hypocrisy is nauseating.

the tenets of Islam is not selectively practiced.. Ali don't have much say on how and when he should be buried anymore because he can no longer talk or air his opinion... Among his family he was the only practicing Muslim who understood the religion better if his family were like that too he would have been buried latest the second day after his death and because he was a celebrity you know all the fanfare that would come with it,

HaneefahRN:
If you like die. If he dies sef, I can't say RIP unless the P means (pieces)

you detest him that much?

His death pain me... RIP BIG BOSS

RIP Keshi... I find it hard to believe that you are dead