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UnknownQueen:
I'm presently going thru this...

We are married.... Registry, church traditional..

He wants me to pack and leave his house before or on March ending...

He said I can always come to check the kids, girl 5 years, boy 1 year 3 months.

He didn't talk about assets sharing.

He has a landed property and started work on it but not yet completed yet.
I invested almost 500k into the laundry business he has.... Bought Gen, geepee tank washing machine.... Irons, shop rent etc.

But he is asking me to leave just like that... If not he will cause a scene....

How do I go about this?

sylve11:
Something is not right. Look deeper.

Euegene100001:
Love,respect and honor from a wife will humble any man .That woman’s marriage can never crash.This particular kind of ladies are rare if you find one you are lucky and blessed

franchasng:
men must be men, you cannot take it away from men.


Maybe I will attach a mild drama that happened between President Obama and his wife Michelle during Nelson Mandella's burial in SA some years back.


Obama even though he was the number one person at that occasion with all media attention on him couldn't resist flirting with Danish Prime Minister, a very beautiful woman, to the extent Obama forgot his wife was sitting beside him


I was watching it live that day.


The wife couldn't take it, she had to tell Obama to switch seat with her so that she will be the one close to the lady lol


Many world leaders and celebrity men married to hottest women have been caught severally staring and even flirting with other women, it's how men are wired and women shouldn't force themselves to start doing same just to get at their men, if it's not natural don't force it.

franchasng:
see sis let me tell you something lol, I am around 5ft8, my wife like 6ft guys which I am aware from the get go lol....sometimes during our courtship days, she would taunt me with; if only you were 6ft like this guy, and I will jokingly fire back; if only the guy is as rich as me

Or I will taunt her back that you know you nearly escaped being albino and she will laugh out loud and we will turn it to jokes lol


I have seen life enough to go bothering myself about who my wife admires lol, when I know that every human have other humans they do fancy even if they are dating or married to the finest man or woman.


To tell u my kind of person again, my wife is a medic, I don't like doctors in the past, maybe till now lol, I do tell her that I hear that male doctors do fvck female doctors on duty, that make una de use protection oh, and my wife will laugh like this man you are not well at all, and we will laugh over it. ....so me don't really give a flying Bleep about those stuffs, if she want cheat, na she sabi oh, but sha make I no catch her

So you ladies should free your minds, life is not that hard na, allow your husbands to have some freedom, stop choking your men, men don't like being choked oh, hmmm

idonhammer:
Really? I want to ask you a question, are you married? If yes, did your husband married you as a virgin? If no,then bleeping pssy wey different dicks don dick Taya will never make me live long or make me rich.As a rich dude,the only sweet thing about marriage is testing different fresh yanshes.i can't come and kill myself for a scam called marriage.

franchasng:
see let me be blunt with you, this issue of men admiring other ladies seems to be a curse on all men honestly lol


I was thinking some men are different until I caught my elderly cousin I do look up to as chaste admiring a sexy lady, I weak


I am married, without mincing words, my wife can pass as one of the sexiest, hottest, classiest ladies in Nigeria with all the assets men dream of and just as I so desire but it has not stopped me from admiring some other ladies who are not even as fine as my wife

And she has caught me like many times even while courting and as a wonderful Lady she is, she will hit me and jokingly scold me that you and bombom, cos she know I love ladies with good shape

But u won't believe that I have never had the gut to cheat on her despite admiring some well shaped ladies once in a while.

To tell you how pretty my wife is, we have gone to malls severally and other ladies will playfully ask her for a snap even though she is not a celeb, and coupled with her skin complexion u would think she is a white.

So it has nothing to do with the look of a mans wife or partner, its just a curse on men that need God's grace to overcome

bekpo:
U r d cause of d crises in ur home. When u made up ur mind to snitching on his phone n privacy, u had made up ur mind never to allow peace n harmony in ur home.
Be a wife, apologize to ur hubby, change ur attitude of suspicion, over suspicion and over reacting to d suspicion. Allow him some freedom, marriage ain't slavery. Must he close his eyes and walk because he's married? U suspect every single thing he does. The implication will b that love dies in d marriage. Make ur marriage work and apologize to ur hubby, appear need and sexy and always seduce ur hubby. Goodluck.

idonhammer:
All na audio,man wey wan test fresh yansh outside go still do am.Make you check am nah,you fit eat beans three times a day for one whole year without gettin?g tayad

Snipper007:
Get a d*ick, in getting it also make money then leave men alone but if you can't get the two it means men add everything to a woman's life.

BiggyB242:
Quiet and calm men are the ones who fall victim of this, as for me I wouldn't take nonsense from any woman.

smellingpussy442:
I repeat to hell with women and men dating them. Women is d men biggest problem on earth. Those animals are not loyal.

victorian:
Very evil and terribly advice to women who's husband cheats.

Why can't she simply walk away from her marriage and end it with divorce? Can't you do the right thing and live? It doesn't cause a thing, does it?

If I were the husband? As soon as I get well, the marriage is over. Cause my life is at risk if I stay one minute in that house.

I'm gone! It's over!
What rubbish! That's just too far.

Hotzone:
Mbaise and Owerri people never saw it coming.
This one shock them!


Orlu zurumee!!!

TonyeBarcanista:
Cry me a lagoon

midnighter:
I have noticed that that guy is very irrational. He will always jump to extremes just for the sake of it which is exactly what he accuses the so-called "feminists" of doing

TonyeBarcanista:
Madam, everyone have duty in peace process, including WIVES! She should just play her own part


What do you mean interfere or have a say? This is one reason many wives will keep having problem!

A wife belongs to the family she is married into. You people always want to separate husbands from their families. Shame!

Teeboy230:
Wow redmi note 7 which is far better is still cheaper than galaxy a20