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Christianity EtcRe: When They Tell You That Konji Can Kill You by elinaxy(m): 9:58am On Feb 11, 2024
You have done too much is now affecting you, you've killed your sexual libido
SPAMBOX7:
Self-discipline and staying busy solves it. With time you will realize it wasn't even that hard to control konji. You didn't just try. And you will be glad you made that move by staying busy and disciplining. Konji go be your boy by then.

One of the tactics I used by conquering it was facing my fears. The things that triggered I would watch them be it porn, sex videos I made with my girls. Aftrr a busy day I come home then I would watch over and over till it gets in my brains and I'm so in the mood then I just lie down and sleep off. By the time I wake up the feeling is gone.
The tiredness from the busy day contributed alot cos even when I'm in the mood I would be so tired to even say let me call one of my girls to come through.

Long story short I kept that pattern on till I got used to it. Watch what triggers me, get high on it go to bed no matter how Hot I got. Wake up and it's cleared..repeat another day till I became used to it. This is what worked for me. Facing my fears and conquering it. Might be different for another person but you could also try. But like every other thing it's very hard at the beginning. If you can endure the first 2 weeks and not succumb then you already 60% closer to success. The first 2 weeks is the hardest.

As a man the moment you have mastered to control your urges you have solved 80% of your problems. At this point of my life now I don't even have any sex urges. When I'm with my girls they always be wondering what's wrong cos to me having sex is just me doing them a favour. That's why they can't manipulate me. They don't even try. Cos this man not even going to touch you. If you don't make a move na so we go dey. I see sex as me doing the lady a favour now cos even when I Bleep I don't get excited like when konji was my master. I don't even have the motivation no matter how hot they are. I guess i went too far with conquering and I dunno if it has affected my psyche in some way. Cos most times the girl has to suck me before I get an erection. Mf doesn't get up by kissing and romance like it used to prior.
SportsRe: AFCON Final: Ivory Coast Will Go Home With Cup In Error – Prophet Ebube Muonso by elinaxy(m): 7:52pm On Feb 10, 2024
Forget about prophecies, let the SE play well and win the trophy
FamilyRe: How Are You Surviving In This Economy? by elinaxy(m): 7:24am On Feb 08, 2024
treatise:
You can maintain varied levels; huge funds available on dashboards don't just translate to huge margins. Skills/strategies are quite fundamental.
don't even know how to do that, seriously
FamilyRe: How Are You Surviving In This Economy? by elinaxy(m): 5:29pm On Feb 07, 2024
treatise:
Trading in forex with small small margins.
Forex needs large capital, I just burnt my small 30kdolls I deposited to the forex market
SportsRe: Senegal Vs Ivory Coast: AFCON 2023 Round-Of-16 (4 - 5)pens On 29th January 2024 by elinaxy(m): 3:07am On Jan 30, 2024
Onyeigbo10000:
It's will never be well with gotv
Never, I may not know what they did to you but I say amen to that prayer.
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs.Cameroon: AFCON Round Of 16. (2 - 0) On 27th January 2024 by elinaxy(m): 11:32pm On Jan 27, 2024
post=128158956:
A kid goat huh
probably a kid she goat
SportsRe: 16 Qualifiers For Round Of 16 AFCON 2023 by elinaxy(m): 9:28am On Jan 25, 2024
dominique:
They picked the final best loser slot last night when Zambia and Tanzania could not win their final matches. 4 3rd place teams out of the six groups get to qualify to the next round based on their performance on the table. You need to see the way their fans were rejoicing at the stadium when the last 2 group stage matches ended with a loss and a draw to the teams that were biggest threats to them
wow! thanks for the enlightenment. Senegal will still see them out, they're no match to this current senegal squad. They don't even have a coach presently.
SportsRe: 16 Qualifiers For Round Of 16 AFCON 2023 by elinaxy(m): 9:14am On Jan 25, 2024
iwaeda:
Ivory Coast survived, but now Coachless, meet Senegal, Nlfpmod. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
I thought there are out already
SportsRe: 16 Qualifiers For Round Of 16 AFCON 2023 by elinaxy(m): 9:10am On Jan 25, 2024
I thought ivory coast are out of the competition? somebody enlighten me biko
Christianity EtcRe: "Your Colleagues Will Come To You For Food" - Adeboye's Prophecy Sparks Outrage by elinaxy(m): 2:10pm On Jan 21, 2024
tishbite43:
Na wa o
How about RCCG members who are colleagues at work?
imagine
CrimeRe: Your Time Is Up,’ Wike Tells Kidnappers Terrorising FCT by elinaxy(m): 8:14am On Jan 20, 2024
ENDTIMEISNEAR:
See this Rivers state Agbero man wan form Action man for Abj grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy let's see
one kidnapper spotted
PoliticsRe: How The Federal Capital OF Nigeria Was Moved From Lagos To Abuja. by elinaxy(m): 8:38pm On Jan 09, 2024
richiemcgold:
... and many many years later, Abuja is yet to be among the top 5 capital cities in Africa. I will always rate Johannesburg, Cairo, Dakar, Accra, Algiers, Rabat, Tripoli and couple of others ahead of Abuja.

Abuja can't even boast of any functional rail system till today. Very shameful! Pls don't rate Accra with abuja



Obviously you don't travel. You're just a local champ.. grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Gunmen Kill Four In Nasarawa Supermarket, CP Orders Probe by elinaxy(m): 9:11pm On Jan 03, 2024
Flows001:
My babe just sent me the pictures and videos of the attack. She told me that one of the deceased was a friend to her female friend, and that he had invited her female friend to accompany him to this SAME SUPERMARKET, but strangely the lady who ordinarily likes going out, politely turned him down, and told him she wasn't feeling like going out that night and he went out alone, little did she know that God just saved her from becoming a victim of circumstance, no how she would have escaped it since the guy she was supposed to go out with was fatally shot dead..

May God continue to protect us oo.

Attached is the said guy before and after the attack, may his soul and the souls of the other customers Rest in Peace, and may the perpetrators never know peace until they die.
Kai, this guy's pictures looks familiar, I must have seen him around nyanya gwandara where I base
PoliticsRe: Gunmen Kill Four In Nasarawa Supermarket, CP Orders Probe by elinaxy(m): 9:08pm On Jan 03, 2024
temmyyem:
Is this how the government plan to reduce population by killing people through sponsored hoodlums.
too bad
PoliticsRe: Gunmen Kill Four In Nasarawa Supermarket, CP Orders Probe by elinaxy(m): 9:04pm On Jan 03, 2024
Godfullsam:
Chai!

That supper market along the road just before adehi filling station embarassed

People can be wicked o undecided
by shopping center
FamilyRe: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by elinaxy(m): 8:01pm On Jan 02, 2024
Wow! your story is pathetic, thank God you had achievement after all. She may be crying had I known where ever she is. Life is indeed full of ups and downs.
Aaaaarghmed:
From experience,people change.Maturity is important and people should love genuinely not fake.Everyone is giving out limited emotions nowadays.Many fake people than real people.I had someone years back who we were assisting and helping ourselves with good mind,but as usual,if woman dey assist you,you no go hear word again,as a man if you are broke and dating,dont be broke for long.she will gbaga.I was broke for long,but I kept reassuring her to be patient ,because i had visions,i had plans,i was striving very hard,she saw it and she knew i am not lazy.But women must listen to outsiders,who will want to crash any good thing,she listened at the end.As God will have it ,all the big plans we usually discuss even as money no dey,I don achieve dem.sometimes,e dey pain me say she no trust me upon all the re assurances.Now,I would have given her all she asked for.This is a lady that follow me to trek in wuse 2 to be submitting my cv for job,we trek from afternoon till evening.She really tried,but people no allow us rest.Dem poison her mind.To see a strong and matured lady who will build with you no easy.Am not blaming ladies, I know some guys after having money,abandon ladies too.i just wrote a snippet of my experience with the only lady who would have had access to everthing I have in this life,only if she believed in me till the end.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Aston Villa (3 - 2) On 26th December 2023 by elinaxy(m): 7:43pm On Dec 26, 2023
Man u might surprise us
RomanceRe: Best Decision You Made That Changed Your Life by elinaxy(m): 5:44pm On Dec 18, 2023
occfx:
It will sound like scam but you will pay and I will show you the way. However, I am not there yet, but I know the way. Patience is needed any ways but highest 4yrs
boss pls I'm interested too, I don't know how much you may charge but I will be glad to know, see my whatsapp number 08160744681
RomanceRe: Best Decision You Made That Changed Your Life by elinaxy(m): 5:21pm On Dec 18, 2023
Workch:
Lagos, if you are interested you can drop your number I will chat you up
I'm also interested too, this is my WhatsApp number, 08160744681.
CelebritiesRe: "Why I Can’t Date Or Marry Man That Can Cook" – Former GWR Holder Hilda Baci by elinaxy(m): 5:17pm On Dec 14, 2023
My ex, knowing fully well I can cook whenever I ask her to come and cook for me she will ask me to boil beans, buy all the ingredients parboil rice, blend pepper, slice onion and keep everything ready so whenever she comes she will just come and turn everything in the pot. I will now be wondering what's remaining for her again. Whenever I do all that I will just go ahead and finish up the cooking myself. Thank God she's now an ex.
HealthRe: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by elinaxy(m): 11:56am On Dec 08, 2023
Chat me up on whatsapp, I have solution for you.
08160744681, WhatsApp only pls.
Shakespeare100:
I've been addicted to masturbation since 16, how I discovered it is a story for another day. I became a chronic masturbator. Sometimes I do it 5 times in a day. My highest record was 8 times in a day. It was so bad that x videos became my most visited site.

I did it everywhere; on my hospital bed when I was sick, in the church's toilet, in my granny's room, on my grandpa's grave, e.t.c. It was that bad. My own level of masturbation addiction was mental illness.

However, I decided to stop masturbation and I've been on the journey for 4 months. Also, I decided to get a girlfriend, and lose my viginity. I got a girlfriend, we had our first sex and it was beyond embarrassing. If I count my strokes well, it's not more than five.

We tried the second round, same thing, third round same thing, fourth round same thing! I'm in trouble! Is this how whack my sex life is going to be for the rest of my life? I can't last more than 10 seconds no matter the rounds. How can I redeem myself from the damage masturbation has done to me? I need help please!
CareerRe: Go Back To School At Age 40 by elinaxy(m): 6:09pm On Dec 05, 2023
femi4:
Never too old to learn. Go to NOUN
do they run a full time program they? Is it in abuja?
RomanceRe: Why Are You Not Married? by elinaxy(m): 6:53pm On Nov 24, 2023
1 and 2
PoliticsRe: Lack Of Electricity How I spend 160,000 naira a Month on fuel? by elinaxy(m): 1:20pm On Oct 16, 2023
Maybe not, but currently there's a change. Moreover there are some states and cities that can guarantee that. He should relocate to one.
Theunbothered:
Does 50% of Nigeria have 24/7 access to electricity for up to a calendar year?
PoliticsRe: Lack Of Electricity How I spend 160,000 naira a Month on fuel? by elinaxy(m): 12:25pm On Oct 16, 2023
Theunbothered:
One day you people will stop lying to yourselves
he's not lying
PoliticsRe: Lack Of Electricity How I spend 160,000 naira a Month on fuel? by elinaxy(m): 12:21pm On Oct 16, 2023
How many KVA inverter are you using?
How many tubular batteries?
How about solar panels? Before op can set a good solar system it will cost him over a million naira
Godwin4444:
don mind them

If we talk now them go say na because we support tinubu

Fixing solar that will work with AC is 430k n he can use d rest to buy system n have rest of mind

But people will decide to act stupid n later blame d government

The only thing u can’t use with a 430k solar is hot plate

Some people here just want to do stupid things n look for who to blame

Even ordinary sunking solar fan na 80k n u will use it for 12 hours comfortably

I spent less that 500k for my solar n I am good to go
PoliticsRe: Lack Of Electricity How I spend 160,000 naira a Month on fuel? by elinaxy(m): 12:05pm On Oct 16, 2023
Omihanifa:
But nowadays electricity supply has really been good in most city in nigeria.
you're right, I can testify we have 80percent stable electricity nowadays
PoliticsRe: Lack Of Electricity How I spend 160,000 naira a Month on fuel? by elinaxy(m): 12:04pm On Oct 16, 2023
A 10 to 15kva inverter better, quality and reliable product. 8 or 10 Tubular batteries solar panels install for your business and you're good to go
CareerRe: Please Avoid This Thing If You Want To Succeed In Life by elinaxy(m): 9:35pm On Oct 11, 2023
You still can't predict
BigDawsNet:
Let say dis one cut

The next 5 Mancity vs Wolverhampton games..who go win?
CareerRe: Please Avoid This Thing If You Want To Succeed In Life by elinaxy(m): 9:10pm On Oct 11, 2023
Even your prediction isn't correct, wolve beat city
BigDawsNet:
Betting should be for Rich people

Staking 1m on Mancity to win Wolverhampton and dey get around 1.5m

Not staking 100naira on 40 teams to win 2.5m wey go still cut like say no tommor
CrimeRe: Man Buries His Younger Brother Alive For Stealing N1000 In Kogi (Photos) by elinaxy(m): 8:49pm On Oct 11, 2023
Easy your pressure woman, as much as they are broke stinky evil men they are also broke stinky evil women. The world is filled with evil people. know this and know peace
Jennyclay:
Broke, poverty stricken men are the most dangerous people living on earth. They are ready to kill anybody including their own blood relatives just because of 1 kobo undecided.

I can’t even remember the last time I hold a conversation with a broke man. It will never happen!! Not in this life!!

Just take a look at this animal trying to kill his brother for just 1k!! 1k nitori olorun undecided!!

Biko!! The evil mother should be arrested too! I hate nonsense!!

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