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PoliticsRe: Only 11 States Can Generate Enough Money To Pay Workers In 2024 by Emmanuel900(m): 10:35pm On Feb 05, 2024
You guys should let omo ibo to have peace of mind.

Any thread talking about IGR or tax states by state, give them anxiety and HBP
PoliticsRe: Abu Abel Cries Out After His Land Is About To Be Grabbed By Seyi Tinubu(video) by Emmanuel900(m): 11:47am On Feb 05, 2024
If you have any legitimate claim, we would only be hearing about how you have sue Seyi or Lagos government to court for trying to take back the land you legally acquired.

But since you are running to the media first you must be the villain playing victim and trying to spread misinformation knowing there are lot of people especially from that side that will believe anything as long as it is against Tinubu lol
CrimeRe: Ifeoluwa Adekunle, AAUA Student Found Dead In Her Room by Emmanuel900(m): 11:20am On Feb 05, 2024
Angrigowt:
I know her type. My sisters are not rude.ive lived amogbst her type before. I repeat..she must have been rude and insultive to a couple of persons.
So being rude and insultive mean she deserve death ?

So you have never been rude and insultive to anyone all your life ? so if you are rude and insultive to anyone in the future and they come to slaughter you in your room, they are justify and we should wish you a safe journey to hell?

As you preach so shall you and your household become.
PoliticsRe: United States Confirms Sale Of 12 Attack Helicopters, Others To Nigeria For $1bn by Emmanuel900(m): 8:17am On Feb 05, 2024
adecz:
Only an ignorant, half educated fellow
like you will assume that every attack
helicopter that comes from the US must
be an Apache❗️❗️❗️😡😡😡

Where was Apache mentioned in this
article that you are now quoting the price❓❓

Simple read and comprehension of a
story you can't do. I'm sure a person of
low intellect like you must have written
WASCE several times because you couldn't
get a credit in English Language.


In the first place, America only sells the
top secret Apache to very trusted allies. And again if my memory serves me right, only
Britain, Israel & Germany and a few
other traditional US defense allies get the top
models, while smaller allies get the lower
end versions.

Therefore you should understand
that getting an Apache is not a matter
of just going to give them money, dem no
go even answer you.


The AH-1Z Viper is not a major top
secret chopper in the US defense arsenal,
so they can afford to sell them to third
World countries like your own, who are
just battling ragtag herdsmen and religious
fanatics.


This one we are buying is quoted in the
range of 💲27m to 💲35m when it went
into production. After so many years, the
price should even be lower & America may
even be selling US refurbished ones.

By the time you put in all the accessories
and training, there is no way the package
should cost more than 💲500m❌❌❗️❗️❗️


Go and do your research before coming
to social media to disgrace your family
for not educating you well. Mumu❗️❗️😡😡😡
Still close minded jon know

I'm not saying it was an apache but just saying how expensive an attack helicopter can be.

That 1 billion will also cover ammunition and weapons, servicing, repair and training etc for many years to come. You are just empty if you think they are cheap to operate.

You must know better than top Nigeria military and American Military that's why you are behind your phone typing all angry. Sorry me cheesy
PoliticsRe: United States Confirms Sale Of 12 Attack Helicopters, Others To Nigeria For $1bn by Emmanuel900(m): 7:58am On Feb 05, 2024
onuman:
grin


https://www.state.gov/u-s-security-cooperation-with-nigeria/


U.S. Security Cooperation with Nigeria
FACT SHEET

BUREAU OF POLITICAL-MILITARY AFFAIRS

JANUARY 23, 2024

[For more than 50 years, the United States and Nigeria have enjoyed a strong security partnership and friendship. The U.S.-Nigeria relationship is among the most important in sub-Saharan Africa, given Nigeria’s status as Africa’s most populous country, largest economy, and our shared democratic values. The United States works closely with Nigeria, both bilaterally and through regional and multilateral fora like the Economic Community of West African States (ECOWAS), the Multinational Joint Task Force (MNJTF), the Global Coalition to Defeat Daesh/ISIS, and the African Union. Our joint efforts are focused on increasing cooperation on maritime and border security, military professionalization, counterterrorism efforts against Boko Haram and ISIS-West Africa, defense trade, and strengthening governance of the security sector.]

Perhaps you are waiting for newspaper or television with news of American soldiers who died combating Boko Haram, before you believe that America cooperated on ground, and still cooperates with Nigeria, in the fight against Boko Haram.
You are most likely to be in sympathy with Boko Haram and the sharia states of northern Nigeria in their openly stated desire for a country to be governed with Islamic Sharia criminal laws. The desire of Boko Haram and the political/religious leaders of the far north Nigeria sharia states remains the reason why the fight against Islamic extremists in Nigeria is an unwinnable fight. Your saviourhuh Muhammadu Buhari in 2001 pledged before a large crowd of Muslims in Kaduna that he would not relent until Islamic sharia criminal laws are applied in all the states of Nigeria. One of the earliest demands of Tanko Mohammed, the CJN of Nigeria appointed by then President Muhammadu Buhari was for Islamic sharia criminal laws be included in Nigeria's Constitution.
You are just a delusional clown

US army and Nigeria army have been in cooperation for a long time even before bokoharam.

I told you and stated it that all what they provide is just training and support but they will never deploy their troops on the front line just like that in fact it would be all over the news if they did.

You are the one that said they deployed forces to fight and engage on the front line bokoharam and have also left when they discover the level of sabotage lol But you are now changing your tones to exactly what I stated.


When Americans special forces came to Nigeria during Trump government to rescued American kidnapped in Nigeria it was all over the news. In fact they personally killed 6 kidnapper in the operation.

Provide a source like this that says USA deployed their soldiers to fight bokoharam on the front line, US forces have not personally engage with Bokoharam but they may provide intelligence, training and information and they are still doing it unlike you that stated that US personally engaged bokoharam ,how many terrorists killed etc ? and there is no way it wouldn't be all over the news.

I'm more than happy if US forces personally help to fight Bokoharam on the front line but there is no where US have personally deployed their forces to engaged them, it just happened in your head.

PoliticsRe: United States Confirms Sale Of 12 Attack Helicopters, Others To Nigeria For $1bn by Emmanuel900(m): 3:48am On Feb 05, 2024
onuman:
You have obviously not been following the genesis and progress of Boko Haram uprising in Nigeria. Ask senior army officers in Nigeria about what Americans did at the onset of Boko haram uprising.
Americans also sent their troops to Afghanistan to combat extremist Islamists. You may also ask what is Afghanistan to Americans for America to send troops to combat the Afghan Taliban.
Your introduction of East to the discuss is not unexpected, as your lot is the most sophistiWretched ethnic bigots in Nigeria; you manifested your usual ethnic bigotry. Anyhow, your soul mate APC with its Buhari rejected by Easterners at the onset, is now the saviorhuh of Nigeria. You must be writing from the darkness of lack of electricity into which your saviour Buhari, and APC threw Nigeria.
You just proved you are very ignorant.

Americans entered Afghanistan after the 911 attack on world trade center in New York by Osama Bin Laden and his gang that killed almost 3000 people.

If not for that Americans wouldn't enter Afghanistan.

Provide one source to corroborate your claim not some wishful story you heard somewhere.
if it really happened it would be all over the news even with video.
PoliticsRe: United States Confirms Sale Of 12 Attack Helicopters, Others To Nigeria For $1bn by Emmanuel900(m): 12:27am On Feb 05, 2024
apalasedo:
exactly my thought.

Buying weapons for 1billion dollar at a time like this is pure cluelessness and complete misplaced priority.

People are starving and Nigeria is buying Jets... for what exactly? To fight kidnappers? Or to fight thesame terrorists that will be reinvented to the society.

Nigeria is broke but President get $1 billion to spend on Jet. This is pure madness. So they can't use the ones Buhari bought?

I don tire for this country



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I WILL MAKE ALL YOUR ONLINE PAYMENT USING CBN EXCHANGE RATE. A trial will convince you.

A United States Bank to save your money in dollars is also available in your name


Check my Profile for my WhatsApp number or below
.Just wail and continue wailing
.You will also be the first to wail on how the military are not equipped very well when they get out gun by terrorists and bandits.

If Bokoharam and other terrorists take over every where, Food would be the last thing on your list, they are even kidnapping and attacking people in Abuja.
PoliticsRe: United States Confirms Sale Of 12 Attack Helicopters, Others To Nigeria For $1bn by Emmanuel900(m): 12:09am On Feb 05, 2024
adecz:
💲1bn for 12 attack helicopters❓❓❓


This looks like a fkcuing rip-off❗️❗️❗️😮😮😮


An average attack helicopters is in the
region of 💲20m to 💲35m. Top of the range
like the Apache are in the region of 💲50m.

So, how come they are selling 12 &
with whatever accompanying peripherals
and training costing close to💲80m per unit❓❓❗️❗️❗️
What do you know jon snow?

Arm chair expert, talking as if you have worked in an attack helicopters sale shop or something before.

The monitoring or guidance and precision system and computers that would come with it are even more useful than the helicopters and should not be underestimated because Nigeria currently don't have much capabilities to track terrorists and bandits. With better system they wouldn't be attacking civilians instead of terrorists like it happened last time.

You know a thing or two about something and think you have known it all and an expert. Typical black man, don't be so close minded

PoliticsRe: United States Confirms Sale Of 12 Attack Helicopters, Others To Nigeria For $1bn by Emmanuel900(m): 11:59pm On Feb 04, 2024
onuman:
Go school, you did midnight schooling and ended up in NL.
Do a little research if you have a head for doing that.
American troops landed in Nigeria at the onset of Boko Haram to lend hands to Nigeria's troops but quickly left when they understood the level of sabotage within members of Nigeria's armed forces.
You are the illiterate here lol

Quote a source from Google, Wikipedia , Or newspaper to corroborate your claim.

There must be something you guys drink in the East that makes you susceptible to believe anything and any propaganda, same way you believed Buhari was cloned and Nnamdi kanu and Samuel Ekpa continue to deceive you with so many lies.

US might have provided training and support but they don't care to the extent of personally sending troops to engage on the front line. Even in Ukraine that US have helped with billions of dollars they didn't send any troops. What's Nigeria to US that would now make them risk the lives of their soldiers lol ?
PoliticsRe: A Closer Look At Ogbunigwe The Weapon That Wiped Off 4,000 Soldiers In 1 Strike by Emmanuel900(m): 11:03pm On Feb 04, 2024
BiasedNairaland:
Most of the design prototypes and molds were destroyed by the Nigerian government. That's why UNN doesn't have a faculty for Chemical Engineering till date. In fact, I believe that the ingenuity of the Igbos is one of the reasons why the West doesn't want an Igbo country. One European diplomat told a Biafran diplomat that Europe will never permit another Japan in Africa.
You guys are very delusional lol. European diplomat that didn't have a name.

Europeans also recorded how uncivilized you were when they first came in contact with you.

So it is now the Europeans marginalizing Igbo grin grin

What have you achieved as a whole to even think you can threaten the west ? Name a successful Igbo business man outside Nigeria ?

How many nobel laureates have you won ? what about grammy ? An under achieving tribe like yours think themselves birds when you are just ants lol grin. I can't believe a generation can be this delusional.
PoliticsRe: United States Confirms Sale Of 12 Attack Helicopters, Others To Nigeria For $1bn by Emmanuel900(m): 10:51pm On Feb 04, 2024
onuman:
Americans troops landed in Nigeria to fight the Boko Haram group at the onset, but quickly went home when they discovered the insider sabotage of Nigeria's troops. They discovered it was a religious war involving a larger group in demand for Sharia criminal laws for all Nigeria fighting against rest of Nigeria.
The difference between the Boko Haram people and most of the Muslims in the sharia states of northern Nigeria, is like the difference between six and half a dozen.
That must have happened in your head

How people like you believe fairy tales like that baffle me.
PoliticsRe: Maybe It's Time For Nigerians To Start Calling Out Dangote. by Emmanuel900(m): 5:55pm On Feb 04, 2024
Bigkoko:
A frustrated, hungry miscreant with no corn 🌽 on his back pocket sighted...... Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Una go soon blame G-d for una foolishness and failure!!!!Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Na laugh and mocking we go dey do una until una return that mandate una tief!!!!
Keep laughing like a clown

You turned to a clown because you have nothing to make a rebuttal.

Always shouting competition as if you are that capable, there's no single successful Igbo business man outside Nigeria, in fact the only one that seem to be successful was nabbed by US for fraud recently, the CEO of tango or whatever was his name, i'm sure he would have gotten away with it like Allen Onyeama if it was in Nigeria, so where's the shout for equal playing field coming from as if you can run a successful business without illegality, drug trafficking and fraud that your kinsmen thrive in ?

The richest African immigrant in UK and US are both Yoruba men, UK and US government must be marginalizing Igbo too to help Yoruba.

You are just not capable, instead of accepting your weaknesses so your generation can be better. You start chest beating and start claiming illusional superiority.
PoliticsRe: Maybe It's Time For Nigerians To Start Calling Out Dangote. by Emmanuel900(m): 3:03pm On Feb 04, 2024
Bigkoko:
Before the era of govt fed, pseudo rich men like dangote, the naira was more valuable than the British Pound and American dollars. And this is despite Nigeria just came out of a three year civil war!

Do you know why? Businesses were run on equal measures..... Nobody gets anything from the government, until men in agbada wey just Sabi force their people into power came on board
You are just ignorant and naive, even God didn't create everyone equally. Some are more talented, luckier and intelligent than others, so what are you going to do ? blame God lol.

There is no business man on earth that is not benefitting from Government including in USA, China and even Russia.

If not for US government support Elon Musk wouldn't be the richest man on earth today.

Politics and getting government support for your business is also part of the game, blame your generation for not being able to compete. Always wailing and crying victims.

If your people can compete so much why don't you have several dollar billionaires in USA and UK instead of getting nab for fraud and drug trafficking across the world ?

PoliticsRe: Maybe It's Time For Nigerians To Start Calling Out Dangote. by Emmanuel900(m): 2:49pm On Feb 04, 2024
aguluobi:
What about the Orient Petroleum Refinery Peter Obi invested billions of Anambra fund on, 14 years after it is yet to produce a liter of
fuel. Are Nigerian n Igbo politician all in on it just like you claim with Dangote or Igbo politicians are saint that is why a refinery commissioned 14 year ago is yet to produce a liter of fuel till this hour ?

Is Peter Pandora. Obi protecting his criminal investment that is why Orient Petroleum Refinery is yet to produce fuel 14 years after commissioning ?!
They are just jealous Dangote is not an Igbo man

If Dangote was an Igbo man they would be the one singing his praises, chest beating and tauntingly with his achievements while also defending any criticism he get by calling those criticising him haters jealous of an Igbo man success.


Don't be fool of their fake patriotism they have always been the biggest haters of Dangote even long before he built the refinery spreading propaganda and accusing him of monopoly and government favour. They accused him of sabotaging Ibeto cement, same Ibeto cement that was importing cement and couldn't compete when governments banned cement importation.
PoliticsRe: Maybe It's Time For Nigerians To Start Calling Out Dangote. by Emmanuel900(m): 2:38pm On Feb 04, 2024
Bigkoko:
Onukwu.....have you heard of any Igbo man having unfettered access to import waiver, tax breaks and to the federal reserves?

How many times have you heard of Innosson going cap in hand to politicians and CBN gov for free loads of dollars, abi Innosson no Sabi buy more advanced technology for his car 🚗 business ni? No be banks like GTB dey even deduct criminally from Igbos like Innosson.

I Know scallywags like you will want to change the narrative because una brain dey one rustic altar like that.

Mumu no even know say Dangote is the singular most serious threat to a stable Nigeria!
You are the Onukwu here.

According to you delusional thing every Igbo business men is a saint while those from other tribe are corrupt lol, your generation that can't even set up a legal business outside Nigeria. Name a successful Igbo business man outside Nigeria, your generation are the one benefitting most from the corrupt system.


Even before the refinery was built your jealous and hateful generations have been attacking Dangote for being the richest man in Africa, you just hate him because he's not an Igbo man. Always wailing as if Dangote is the one collecting your monthly allocation in your respective states.

If not for federal government and government agencies patronage Innoson would have been out of business a long time ago.

You have a few guy in Oil business like Authur eze and co, what's stopping them from building a small refinery and buying Nigeria crude ? Wail forever your generation won't get a single rated dollar billionaire, you will forever be jealous of Dangote.
PoliticsRe: Maybe It's Time For Nigerians To Start Calling Out Dangote. by Emmanuel900(m): 12:54pm On Feb 04, 2024
Look at them hating on Dangote lol

Don't listen to all the hogwash they are parroting they just hate that he is not an Igbo man.

If Dangote was an Igbo man any criticism on him would be term jealousy of Igbo man success.
Foreign AffairsRe: Houthis Threaten To Cut Intercontinental Internet Cables Running Along Red Sea. by Emmanuel900(m): 9:52am On Feb 04, 2024
madridguy:
People killing babies and women are your heroes but am your enemy for supporting the people trying to stop genocide? Don't you think you need to see a doctor.
Shut up, you are just a brainwashed fanatic

It is war and civilians casualties will happen, especially when those that suppose to protect them are using them as meat shield.

Maybe hamass terrorists should have think twice before provoking a war they couldn't win.
Foreign AffairsRe: Houthis Threaten To Cut Intercontinental Internet Cables Running Along Red Sea. by Emmanuel900(m): 8:34am On Feb 04, 2024
madridguy:
You guys should stop commenting on international politics to save Nigeria from insult from outsiders.
You are the one that deserve to be arrested and locked up to save the world from a potential terrorist.
EducationRe: Nigerian Scholar, Igbalajobi Appointed As Canadian University’s Chancellor by Emmanuel900(m): 7:20am On Feb 04, 2024
congratulation
CrimeRe: Killers Planned Kwara Oba’s Murder In Beer Parlour by Emmanuel900(m): 8:19am On Feb 03, 2024
malcom1X:
First of all they said it was Fulani herdsmen. Now they're telling us that the Fulani herdsmen went to beer parlour to drink before carrying out their activities.

That they were discussing how they will kill the oba in the pub until the bar lady overheard them

😄😄😄

It's either the killer is dumb, or I am dumb for believing this news.
You are just dumb for not reading properly

Go and read again.
RomanceRe: Am I Too Strict? by Emmanuel900(m):
Rokiat:
Some of these small girls so dumb. If you want to keep a roster of guys do so without letting any of them know.

If you ain’t married to a guy you ain’t committed to any of them. You don’t owe no of em loyalty.

Being somebody girlfriend is nothing but a damn scam smart women knows to keep a roster and May best man wins.

But these small kids nowadays smh. Any never move in or give wife benefit to any of these niggas until they’ve put a ring on it.

Smh these women standards so low nowadays the bar is in hell.
That strategy is counterproductive

It will be the thing that will be destroying all your relationships with every valuable men you will get.

They are going to smell it and figure it out eventually because those men should be intelligent to some extent unless you are going after only the daft ones. When they figure out your half ass commitment they are going to put you at the back burner or dump you so you are never really going to get what you are looking for, but who knows you may be lucky to get a simp that don't know his value and will take any shits but even simps can still wake up if you feed them with too much shit.
RomanceRe: Am I Too Strict? by Emmanuel900(m):
Exceptional300:
I am a 34 year old male banker residing in Abuja. I also run a side hustle and I am doing very well for myself.
So I got into a new relationship lately after breaking up with my ex because she wasn’t invested enough in the relationship. This new relationship is going well, we are both intentional about what we want and I can feel the energy and the conscious efforts she is making already.
A couple of weeks ago she said she wanted to go hangout at a male’s friend place in Gwagwalada and she would be spending the night. I immediately lashed out on her and told her never to think of that again.
We were having a conversation few days back and I told her my dealbreakers is cheating . I told her even if I discovered she cheated on me after 10 years, I am going to act on it and I will call off whatever we have going on.
She started going back and forth with me telling me how my love is conditional and that I am unforgiving and she can’t be in a relationship with the thought that she will be sent packing anytime.
Is my standard for loyalty and transparency too high? or Am I unnecessarily being strict?
BTW, since I entered this relationship, I have cut off every female I would potentially cheat with because I think It would be hypocritical to expect what I can’t give from someone else and also because I respect her enough to not cheat on her.
You are not strict at all, It is just common sense.


You deserve to be strip naked and wire koboko by 1000 men for thinking you are strict.

No sensible man will tolerate his girl sleeping at another man's house that is not her family member.

You suppose to break up with her for even having the gut to say something like that to you, she mustn't really rate you at all.
PoliticsRe: The Handover Of The Bororo To The Police In Ogbomosho by Emmanuel900(m): 1:43pm On Feb 02, 2024
babasolution:
If they can get to monarchs,it means your fight isn't working, they still have leverage
It still have leverage, There are a lot of bororo and fulani herdsmen in Oyo state but when last did you hear of fulani herdsmen killing someone in Oyo ? In fact the clashed OPC and Amotekun had with them last was because they attacked a farm. Some other South West states governor are also not taking it seriously enough and better prepare, you can see the effort makinde is making in Oyo by equiping Amotekun better and giving them better equipment and package

Another problem is you can not just start attacking every fulani man on sight it is like declaring total war on Fulani, it is just very
complicated and when they also retaliate it can quickly escalate to a very dangerous ethnic war. Most of their attacks are also like guerilla war fare, even professional army have trouble dealing with it not to even talk about just ordinary local security.
PoliticsRe: The Handover Of The Bororo To The Police In Ogbomosho by Emmanuel900(m): 12:53pm On Feb 02, 2024
babasolution:
This covert operations isn't working, another monarch was just killed in ekiti yesterday.
There is a current war going on.

They ambushed and attacked the monarchs because the monarchs were the one championing the fight against them in their domain, the attack were like revenge attack.

OPC and Amotekun have clashed with herdsmen several times in Oyo, you are naive if you think there were no Fulani herdsmen casualties. If a lot of Fulani herdsmen were killed they won't let it get in the news because of Nigeria politics.

If 50 fulani were killed and it get to the news with their graphics everywhere, Northerners would start crying genocide and some Northern group would start threatening boycott, Media would just cause another noise and headaches.

Some Northern group were threatening to boycott south west recently, you think they don't have a reason?

You guys like making noise in SE, It is not everything you let the media know or chest beat over.

PoliticsRe: The Handover Of The Bororo To The Police In Ogbomosho by Emmanuel900(m): 12:19pm On Feb 02, 2024
Waterysperm:
This your speech is full of fear and cowardice. Do you know how many Fulani Herdsmen that have been killed by ESN? Do you know how many of them killed in Anambra state alone in 2021? What of those massacred at Eha-Amufu just a year ago? The truth and nothing but the truth is that Yorubas are afraid of the Fulanis. Simple and short!
Yet fulani attack are still being recorded in the East, keep deceiving yourself.

Yoruba prefer to be covert than to be making noise and beating chest around even if Fulani were killed, it is better not to let the media know about it. You only heard about the one handed over to police and jumped to conclusion, you guys are so easy to deceive with the media.

Amotekun have confronted Fulani Herdsmen especially in Oyo and across south west and in fact some Amotekun members lost their lives, you are naive if you think there were no Fulani casualties in the clashes.

Agbekoya also clashed with Fulani Herdsmen in Oyo some years back that Buhari had to come to Oyo state to stop escalation, Alaafin of Oyo would never tolerate something like that. It is not everything you put on the news to chest beat, Ojukwu lost because of too much gra gra and noise.
RomanceRe: My Female Neighbor Wants Me To Stand As The Man In Her Life. Should I? by Emmanuel900(m): 11:53am On Feb 02, 2024
worldclass68:
Had similar events..... make I talk about the last one, lol she wanted relationship but I declined by all means cuz she isn't my type, her mom came with a ( about 5 yrs child) she claimed that's her mum last born even when I wasn't asking grin( waiting concern me lol) did everything by all means to get belle for me, hin no work, I no dey dull.....everything she ever talks about nah marriage, how her parents siblings and family keep asking her to bring man come home.....


OP just be careful make door no jam u for finger.
Men should be very careful of any women that's desperate for marriage.

Majority of them have baggages you may not be able to shoulder.

Men that are also desperate for marriage also have issues.
RomanceRe: My Female Neighbor Wants Me To Stand As The Man In Her Life. Should I? by Emmanuel900(m): 11:47am On Feb 02, 2024
Keepamsafe:
My neighbor wants me to go along with her as the man in her life for their family get together on February 14th. Should I accept the offer? But I don’t want to be seen as her bf or fiancé by her family members and I don’t know how to turn down this her request judging on how nice she has been to me in the past. I need advice on what to do please.
help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please
it is just another way women manipulate men into relationship with them.

Shine your eyes very well, be ready to be the man in her life if you agree to go out with her but if you don't see yourself as the man in her life. Then don't play that role
RomanceRe: What Should A Married Man Do In Situations Like This by Emmanuel900(m): 11:12am On Feb 02, 2024
Westerhoffe:
Divorce is not an option yet until you have evidence she's been cheating with him.
Talk to the man in that chat and tell him to steer clear but don't make threats.
Your wife will confirm she didn't send the messages.

So, the man, if wise will obey.
She is already cheating emotionally it is not until they start having sex that is only cheating.

It is mostly emotional cheating that develop to sexual affairs

RomanceRe: What Should A Married Man Do In Situations Like This by Emmanuel900(m):
There are situation where you have to make your boundaries known and stand your ground as a man or else you will be a weakling forever.

This kind of situation is part of it and you can not just dismiss it because it would keep bothering you and you would never have peace of mind or trust your wife and when you have something like that in your head all the time it is just a matter of time before it develop and affect other aspects of your relationship and interaction and can potentially destroy everything.

Those people saying the wife is not cheating yet obviously don't know what is cheating in marriage, cheating is not only sexual affairs we also have emotional cheating, his wife is obviously cheating emotionally on him and it is usually emotional cheating that develop to sexual affairs.

It is also very disrespectful for your wife to have that kind of connection with a man other than you and her family members, when a woman start sharing connection like that outside her union and pulling away emotionally like that, it is the beginning of the end and it is going to lead to the end if you ignore it as a man.

You have to stand your ground and let your wife know you won't tolerate such disrespect or how would your wife feel if you also have a woman you call friend that you also share a connection like that with ? I bet she wouldn't be happy about it and would even throw tantrum and make your life a living hell because of it. So why the hell should you tolerate something like that as a man ? You have to stand your ground without moving an inch because your wife will only see you as a weakling and lose attraction and respect for you if you let it go on.

Women should be the one contributing most to a successful marriage by avoiding something like this but the moment you are the one ignoring something like this because you are afraid of losing her. You will lose respect and become a weakling in her eyes and eventually lose her but if you stand your ground without caving you will earn her respect and she will fall in love with you more and if she didn't it just mean you are no longer a priority to her and you have lost her a long time ago. If i was you i will quickly exit, some men prefer to live a miserable life with a toxic woman that will never give them a single peace of mind and respect them all in the name of keeping marriage and because they are just scare of being alone again, so they will find comfort in misery and continue to live miserable. It is part of the reasons why many men die young and can't live as long as women.

Unless you are not doing your responsibilities as an husband you shouldn't be the one actively fighting to make a marriage work. Imagine taking all those responsibilities and still not having any peace of mind and respect you deserve. The moment you are the one actively trying to make a marriage work while your wife just behave anyhow without putting your feelings in consideration and how her actions can affect her marriage, you have already failed already as a man because it mean your wife perceive you as a weak man that will tolerate every shit, it will just keep getting worse overtime. Give them an inch they take a mile.

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