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Emodeee:
You go lie for me?

Don't get you bro?

Gerrard59:
You have seen a lot

My brotherrrrrr!!!!

Hmmmmmmm

LARRYOBRAIN:
Not all women/ wives are senseless, wicked or unappreciative.

We know. We are just talking in majority.
A 8-9 out of 10 situation.
There will always be an exception

Axis313:
So long she is his legally married wife,no problem.
What I am against is a man sponsoring a so called girlfriend's education with the intention of marrying her after she finished her education with NYSC,many men are not lucky in that situation.

Even being married is worst.
You will be dying silently at home - she will be disrespecting you, give you timetable for sex, you will be irritating her because your sight reminds her of a failure that she deserves something better with her new status, some will even cheat recklessly with their bosses or well to do colleagues, meeting upon meeting at work, in Abuja and lodge in hotels for days.
If you talk, everyone including her family will say you are insecure and not giving their daughter rest because she is doing better than you.
It will likely highly lead to divorce anyway

jetguy:
This one want to labour in Vain....

pen 🖊️ his name down as a mumu Man

DonBenny77:
She'll meet her real husband in a plane

And she will leave this man claiming he is too insecure, lazy who doesn't want to buckle up and level up.

We have seen this play out over and over

zendi:
You're still a shareholder of Flourmills.
But you no longer have much rights enforceable by SEC and NGX.

I think you will have to visit the Registrar to sign a document to the effect that you have refused the buyout and wish to remain a shareholder.

Importantly, you're still entitled to dividends if any.
Please note well this bolded, since you're no longer entitled to any disclosures like quarterly results.
So when you don't see any dividends, then you take it there is nothing to share.
But grumbling will be allowed.

Mind you the company still has a board which holds periodic meetings.
But the 'G' in AGM, for example, will no longer be there.

I must be missing many things.

YaQsGaYa:
Ask my uncle this ❓ I even asked him to give me half of my coffin money make I use do business still he no gree, he say na full he wan pay. I tell am sey no wallaha....

relaxandsmile:
Pushing a motor that can not start is wasting of time. Before you see most people ignoring their relatives, you don't know the efforts they might have put up to help them.
But there should be no neglect at death, that is why people come around to pay their last respect.
If I tell you about my story in trying to help people to succeed, you will know the problems I have caused to myself.
May God Guide us.

Exactly bro

ruffhandu:
Hahahaha. Because it is cheaper than keeping him and giving him money. You give him 30k today, next month he asks for 50k, next 100k. He keeps coming back. And when you have given him so much, that man will forget he was starving and starts chasing other women. He may even go take a second wife, or chieftaincy title - on top other people money o. But if he dies, which will happen to all eventually, then you can spend for the burial just once.

Those people rejecting the contributions for burial, where were they when their father died of hunger? Is it not shameful? Are his brothers his parents? This entitlement mentality sef. They don't owe you or your father jack. If they have and are disposed, fine. Afterall, you didn't lost what your father did for the brothers when he had money. If they were wicked to have let your father die of hunger, then you are devil himself for not feeding your father. you think they don't have mouths to feed themselves. He works in an oil company in PH so? You have calculated his salary and assumed a percentage of that salary should be coming to your father every month. yeye people.

WriteerNg:
⚡🍁 Canada’s new Deputy PM

He looks like a monkey they poured hot water on.

WriteerNg:
⚡New bill has been proposed to ban all Chinese nationals from obtaining U.S. student visas.

Na WA ooo

Hmmmmmm

This is really serious

LifeofDream:
All the ceasefire plan was written by Steinmar and Macron, their aim is to make Putin look like an aggressor if he refuse or a little weak if he agree..

I trust Putin and Lavrov, they're already planning a counter.. A peace here only save Ukraine from total collapse...

At this point, nobody cares if Russia is the aggressor or not anymore.
We have seen how they used the ceasefire plan between Isreal and Hezbollah in Lebanon to rearm isreal to the teeth again. Despite isreal not adhering to the ceasefire and using the opportunity to keep encroaching Lebanon.
They are not in the right position to criticize who adheres or does not adhere to a ceasefire anymore because we have seen what they all did in Gaza and Lebanon

FXtrader2025:
Nope just Price Action.

Okay

Kingsnairaland:
It doesn't matter if they re arm Ukraine so long as Ukrainians accepts Russia now owns the land and they won't join nato then the war should end

They will accept but when they regrouped and get rearmed, they will attack furiously

Do you use copy trading ? And robots?

WriiterNg:
Lol. Were you really thinking the US will stop all of a sudden? They needed something from Ukraine. That's why they paused.

Putin always knew.

Moreover, they are not in the right position to be the mediator because they are the architect of the war.
You can't be the one who engineered a war, financing it, arming it yet still the mediator.

Hmmmmmmm....
This war is not stopping any time soon.
The US can't be trusted.

Watcharena:
you want to give security guarantee when you too you need security guarantee from a third party

nairalanda1:
Syria wrecked itself

As much as I hate democracy, like I hate all systems of government, the good thing about democracy is that you don't end up with a large mass of bitter people ready to strike.

Syria was run as a hereditary dictatorship. Eventually people got tired. And since the same dictatorship removed sane opposition, even saner religious opposition, here we are

If I am to follow your comment, that means hereditary dictators like Saudi crows, UAE kings, Jordan, Qatar who are all sit tight leaders and also friends with US and Isreal should be ready to get their countries destabilized if they don't dance to their tunes.

Agbalowomeri:
Una carry heat map enter stocks

Groupoid:
Good afternoon. Do you mind if I ask you a question?

Please go ahead

Foodempire:
Very discouraging with the current inflation rate. I've got multiple tbs maturing in April and May i will rather invest in money market and watch how things unfold.

I think CBN believes that as niara strengthens against the dollar then rate should be cut,mind you dollar is going up again. When rates are not encouraging enough people will rather buy dollar to hold and inflation will skyrocket again then rate will go up but for those who have already invested in government securities at a ridiculous rate for longer tenor will then regret it because the meager earned won't be able to withstand the current inflation. I locked up huge funds in sukuk for ten years at 15.7%, as it stand now I'm at a loss. If you don't apply sense investing in naira, you gonna look back after 10 years and realize that you've been played all along.

You can always sell the bond before maturity to enter a new bond at a better rate

0neal:
Thank you boss

I have replied you

Have replied you bro

I want to use this medium to talk to men here today that please and please, do whatever you can in your capacity to add value to yourself in a positive way.
Never ever compromise that for Love or a woman or relationship...Pleaseeee i beg you in the name of God because if it will take you relocating from Oshogbo to Lagos or Abuja or Ph to empower yourself and be a better man, then do it.
If it will take japa for you to relocate and be better off financially, then please do it.
Yes, you will be scared of losing your woman despite all the promises and i love you.
Yes, it will pain you seeing your relationship you suffered to build start becoming cold due to distance and your woman misbehaving.
Yes, you will see her stop calling you regularly again and the few chats you people have ends up in quarrels and probably insults.
Yes, Yes, Yes, you will see her display her new booo on her status hailing him and showering his with praises.
You will be depressed, betrayed, cry, cry and cry, lonely and bored.
But i have a good news for you -
If you keep adding value to yourself and start putting your life in order,
Even though you will lose a woman (your girlfriend), Mother nature will Bless you with Women (plenty ladies admiring and willing to date you)
Are you a man scared of leaving your wife or woman in nigeria just to go hustle abroad? while you are there guys at home laughing you because they are bagging your woman?
I am here to tell you this morning that even though you are going to lose a woman, mother nature will bless you with women.
You are just only going to lose 1, a sacrifice to get many.
Don't lose foresight of getting many because you want to secure one ......SCARCITY mindset

Despite all the Lovey-Dovey, Love has very strong weaknesses that can't be ignored.
Distance and Time are 2 factors that influences Love alot.

Distance - most relationship breaks due to distance alot and it is the reason why a relationship going on smoothly in school will start having issues after graduation because someone close to the lady in her street or church is now disturbing her.
They say, out of sight is out of mind and it is true despite the regular calls ye distance will take it's toll in a relationship.
Reason why so many japa relationship breaks. Even Lagos-Ogun state relationship is prone to breaking compared to Egbeda-Ipaja own.
Love and relationship is too fragile to rely on..

Hardly will you see a secondary school relationship leads to marriage and even university relationship to marriage percentage is very very slim. Probably 1 out of 5.....Distance

2. Time - The longer the relationship, the higher the chances of it not leading to marriage. I don't know the percentage but higher percentage of those who are married today falls within less than 2 years relationship from my observation.
Ask your female friends or family members that got married how long they dated their husbands before marrying......Please note Dated not Known.
A lady could have know a man for years, even probably the man disturbing her for relationship but didn't date him because you may get a response like have known him since since 2017. The question is when did you guys officially started dating.
The problem with Time in a relationship is that the longer a relationship, the more you get to know each other and quarrel occasionally which creates a vaccum or an opportunity for a new guy to sneak into the relationship.
There is no better time and opportunity to get a lady that is faithful to our guy if not that short window of misunderstanding in their relationship and distance also.

While there has been a lot of discussion about the word "Love", the back and forths, honestly i have my reservation about it.
Simply because LOVE will fail you when you need it MOST.
The best time when we need love most is when we are at our lowest point in life - jobless, hopeless, futureless, everything LESS when we need a shoulder to lean on, someone to give us a reassurance and encouragement to keep moving on in life despite all the odds against us.
Moments when we don't even believe in ourselves anymore but someone is there giving us hope and encouragement.
It is at this wit-end, unfortunately that LOVE will fail you most. So i actually don't really believe in that Love ideology. This is my personal view and not imposed on anyone.
It is at this lowest point that your woman will start misbehaving, flirting with other men, even cheating, giving cold attitudes, insultive, confrontational and bold with it.

A boy cries out that he has been molested by a lady or raped and people start laughing and mocking him but immediately you change that boy to a girl, all of a sudden, they stop laughing and start cursing and raining hell for the man or boy to be court-marshalled.

A man cries out about how is wife is maltreating him, disrespecting him, not giving him sex and wants to pack out of the house and people start laughing him to be weak, simp and a sisi man who deserves all he is getting but immediately you change that to a woman, people stop laughing and start cursing. All of a sudden, they are wise enough to judge the case normally.

A man takes a lady/wife abroad and on getting there shortly, she starts misbehaving and kicks him out or divorce him. When the man comes to nairaland with tears to pour out his mind, they all mock him, laugh him, call him names etc but change the same man to a woman and all hell would be let loose. Curses would be rained on the man for being an ingrate and a confirmation of why women are justified for not helping men when they climb up.

A man and his woman starts hustling and then God answered the prayer of the man. Everyone and the society expects the man to pull up his woman but when she climbs first and dump him and he comes here to pour out his mind, they start laughing at him, calling him names, tell him to double his hustles and stop complaining, some call him lazy and believe the woman did the best by dumping his lazy ass etc.

It just looks as if there is a deliberate campaign to rubbish and useless the male child....May God help us

As a man, in whatever you do, please always constantly add value to yourself, try and make sure you are earning no matter what and please, improve your social life.
Working, earning, financially stable is not enough, please increase your social life i repeat because without increasing your social life, all what you have achieved will make you settle for less and be satisfied with it.

Join clubs be it Rotaract, 36 lioness, if you have the financial muscle golf club etc.
Register with a nice gym center, go swimming regularly etc.
Weekend movies, join tour/event groups that plans for weekend tours and beaches etc.
Mingle with friends that invites you to parties and events regularly etc.
With this, you will never be short of young beautiful women.
The problem with a low social life is that it makes you settle for less.
You will see your girlfriend as the best thing or woman you can get when in reality, your social status can afford you a far better lady.
Women will explore their femineity to the fullest to secure the best man they can get, while are we men not fully utilizing our masculinity and secure the best woman we can get also? we settle far too low

I will say relationship-wise, the average woman has a big edge over the average man.

If a relationship breaks today, how fast will a woman and man get over it and move on? The woman gets the edge

These are the metrics i will use to judge a broken relation -

- How fast to move on and enter a new relationship : Ask yourself, if you are in a relationship with a lady were both are faithful but at a point the relationship stopped, who will find it easy to enter another relationship at the shortest time? the woman.
While you may still be sucking or trying to convince another lady to date you, she already have a list of toasters disturbing her all these days.
All she had to do is to start picking the calls of any of them and start giving him attention then Boooom, she is already in another relationship within 2 weeks while you are still struggling to build a new relationship with another lady.

- The quality of the relationship: while you may be lucky to enter another relationship like the woman, the question is the quality?
Your Ex can easily replace you with a banker, young medical doctor or business owner quite doing fine. What is the quality of woman you are getting to replace her?
Are you leaving your 6.5/10 Ex just to getting a 5/10 lady as a stop-gap? how easy is it to get another 8/10 lady to quietly and easily replace her?
How easy is it for you to quietly get a lady working in Glo, Mtn, Dangote, LNG as mid to top staff to replace your Ex?
These are things that will make you to easily move on from a fresh broken relationship without looking back or stalking your Ex and been moody and depressed.
Remember, when you start dating your woman, she will try to cut you off from all other ladies all in the name of Love and relationship to avoid regular quarrels, knowing fully that if the relationship stops today, she can easily kick-start another one and move on compared to you.

- Quantity of sex: This is quiet different. Let me throw a challenge. How many ladies can you sleep with within a week excluding prostitutes or paid sex? compared to your woman? if a woman wants, she can sleep with up to 5 toasters or more in a week easily compared to a man that may still be wooing a woman within that period before convincing them to come to his house for sex. Even after coming, she may decide not to have sex with you thereby losing the 1 week challenge.
In other words, women gets sex far easily compared to men and that is why money is a game changer for men.
If i add money, the man automatically becomes the winner of the 1-week challenge because he can just order dozens of women to sleep with in a week.

Scarcity in men is a necessary evil in relationship to Balance nature.
For a moment, let us assume there is no scarcity for men in relationship.
That is - the welder, bricklayer, vulcanizer, jobless, lazy etc all have women on their necks begging to date or marry them.
What do we actually think will happen?1. Most men will become very very lazy and no enticement to improve one's self. Civilization will still be very very backward since it is not needed to get a mate and procreate.
No need to improve sef to become better to build better houses, cars etc
2. Most women will surfer since they will literarily be begging men to sleep with them, date them and marry them.

So, it is a necessary evil to sustain civilization even though men hate to be in such situation or position.