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troublemakea:Your comment got my shoulders going upandown ![]() But op, you didn't have appointment with him now. You would be seen as a suspect ![]()
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Sissie:This is the problem. She wants everything in lump sum This is punishing the girl back. She be like "waiting a min. I am still trying to manage you as my mother but you pushing too hard". She needs to work around it and stop worrying about their communication.Media is crazy. They portray the girl as "all happy" like she finally back to her biological parents. But in the background, it stinks and dirty. |
Sissie:Most definitely. I remember watching 2 hrs long trial when biological father was asked about possible sentence for the kidnapper, he decisively said "Death Penalty". Biological mother sad the same. They wasted time on kidnapper rather than getting close with their daughter. They thought the system was going to help them all the way. I sensed at the beginning when they pictured the girl and biological mother together laughing and looking happy as if everything was fine. But in reality is it disgusting. The girl is calling her kidnapper's sons brothers and other family members of her "mom" nephews and cousins. She simple sees them as family for good 18yrs. Lord, that relationship aint going away anytime soon. I think she may receive sense when she starts having kids of her own. Perhaps she will feel the pain her biological mother goes through. There is this other story. A man divorced his wife when the daughter was few months old and court gave the man custody, the Wife kidnapped the baby and later relocated to Australia, married a man and started a new life.Chai, it is really painful. There is no blame on the child at all. There is simply no attachment. Her biological father is a complete and total stranger to her. What a life. This one thing still good about Africa even though we are now losing it. Family members may still try to hold them but not in the West. This is why perseverance is very important bcus of the children involved. The father will suffer the pain until he dies. Only God can restore his daughter to his life. She probably see her step father as her biological father. Lord have mercy. This is why even if one adopts a child, Islam insists on calling the child by her father's name. |
Sissie:Lol, i know. |
^^^ Then there is no need to get hadith involved since writer himself acknowledged hadith is not to be blamed. What happened btw Noura and her husband is not uncommon in any given society. Since islam zeros out forced marriage and writer acknowledges this, case closed. And finally, i don't believe in rape in marriage. Not all women even agree to this. Once you are married, you are entitled to each other. Society, and especially non-muslim societies can very hypocritical. Go on Youtube and watch experiment in modern society where a guy "sexually assaulted" his "girlfriend" in public. Reactions from people is different when reverse is the case. They pulled the guy and almost beat him up for harassing his girl. The next episode portrayed "his girlfriend" sexually assaulted her boyfriend (same people) but the society failed. No one gave a damn about the guy when the lady sexually assaulted him. Instead, what they say is "guy, you must be stupid. A lady is asking for sex and you refused". Why not say the same to the lady when she was the 'victim'?. See society's double standards?. So mr, you still have no case against hadith in general. |
LivingFree:This is silly comment. Can you keep public restroom open while you are using it?. Charity begins at home. Sounds like you and her got the same attitude ![]() |
Abuheekmat:Is there anything you can learn from this Hadith? Hadith on Funerals: The Prophet respects a Jewish funeral Qays ibn Sa’d reported: A funeral passed by the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and he stood up. It was said to him, “It is a Jew.” The Prophet said, "Was he not a soul?” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1250, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 961 Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim |
Na only in Nigeria it is celebrated? This is old argument. You can't force anyone to do your bidding. There are many topics on mawlid here and it is irrelevant to keep arguing over it every yr. No one forces you do join them. No muslim has the right to tell another muslim not to be happy at the birth of the prophet (saw). Sahaba have demonstrated a simple innocent gathering of joyous day at nabi indicating there is absolutely nothing wrong with coming together and be happy at the birth anniversary of of Muhammad (saw). If you are not invited simply ignore. If you go uninvited, and you are shouting bidah, honestly they need bundle you out. There is nothing wrong with baba manhaj. They knew Islam far better than you. |
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This is short prayer by Sheikh Imran Eleha for past Islamic scholars in Nigeria. He said Alfa mi agba Sheikh Adam, Sheikh Kamaldeen, Sheikh Nda Solaty, Sheikh Belgoure, Sheikh Alaya, Sheikh Alfa Agba Tajudeen Adabi (olohun ba wa ke gbo gbo won) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcUoPmxcZqo |
Hkana:you can see how their "justice system" works I was going to say just that. But the thing is, the girl is of legal age. They believe she can't make decision now. Really pathetic Isn't the girl supposed to be in a kind of rehab facility?Exactly. That's partially her mother's fault by the way. She should have invested her time on rehab for her daughter rather than wishing death penalty for the kidnapper. This is pure Stockholm syndrome at play...indeed, she gets hit hard now. You should read some comments. They really crazy. I can't stop laughing. On a serious note authority should help her but constitution won't let them. You know in America, they don't join people together. They break up people That's why divorce is rampant. |
Hkana Watch Shanara Mobley, mother of kidnapped 18yr old Kimaya Mobley at birth said she wished her daughter was never found or that she never returned. They have no close relation. Quite frankly this is terrible for her. It is understandable how the girl feels. She simply does not see her mother as her mother bcus there is no emotion there. Her love and all emotions are with her kidnapper 'mother'. I am afraid her biological mother will lose her for good ![]() This is latest 1 min video from yesterday. This is extremely Heart wrenching situation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GT1OeVZlUJk |
Media is primary problem of religion and political tension in Nigeria. Read this misleading headline and read the short article. https://naijagists.com/muslim-man-sues-christian-girlfriend-for-refusing-to-convert-islam-and-marry-him/comment-page-1/#comment-671181 |
FriendNG:that's their problem not me and definitely, not the essence of sufism. If they are causing nuisance in town, they are goofy |
FriendNG:I don't know who Hakika folks are and I am not obliged to. They are irrelevant to me as a group. If the guy on fb replies, fine. If he doesn't fine. I don't go about finding out what people do. And I am sure there are many groups out there you don't know about. So why is Hakika relevant?. |
FriendNG:you really have no genuine argument. You guys have criticized many valid practices. You can tell us which dhikr Angels brought down that they do?. I have captured idea of you people long ago. You just like formenting your fellow muslims. This is how your trick works: If you see a Muslim doing something you say it is not Quran and sunnah. If you see a Muslim reading a chapter of the Qur'an for whatever their needs are, you say this is not how the prophet did it. If you see a Muslim try to do it the way of the prophet, you say they need to do it the way sohaba did it. If you see muslim following sohaba you say this is not how kulafah roshidun understood it. If muslim provides you with evidence, you say the salaf and those who followed them didn't do it that way. So I ask what exactly you people want?. Anyways, just point out specific things you consider wrong that they are doing and let's see. Simple. |
FriendNG:I don't even understand which language you are speaking ![]() |
It Is A Win Win Situation
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FriendNG:Because this is public forum not your bedroom forum . And no, I defend Islam. Whichever ideology it is so long it is in harmony with Sharia.The reason we always clash however is because you guys have taken it upon yourselves to criticize anything that is not rational to you even if it has dalil. Example, group dhikr. |
Sounds like you are confused altogether in the name of trying to rationalize your argument. Both Hadith and Quran are actually protecting women in this case. Forget about individual men's approach to this issue for a moment. It may be easy for man to get another woman whether his wife comply or not. It is in her best interest. If she refuses most often it is a lose lose situation for her at least in our religious environment. I'm not taking about Western world. A woman can easily go out and cheat too even she's married. But sincerely we know the consequences of that all the time. It is manifest today in their environment. But if your are vouching for equality for both genders i would argue that by default, men always have certain degree of rights over women. Take it or leave it. However, I don't support husband forcing his wife to comply when it is obvious she's not physically fit at the moment or exhausted. But when it comes to mood, bro, spice it up she can't keep telling me she's not in the mood but in reality She's giving it to another man outside. So no, forget the mood. We spice it up and mood will be activated really quickly.Listen bro, I have been in women's business before. I see pros and cons. There are women out there who will not respect you if you are not dominant. They want you to force sex on them. They are crazy and unpredictable. Excuse my language. So I have no reason to fault explaination in the Hadith and its tafsir. Eleven years ago I was talking to a Canadian base Nigerian lady and I asked her if she believes rape in relationship?. She said no. So don't let your irrational schism for Hadith cloud your judgement. And ofc, explanation of Hadith, just like Quran is not static. |
FriendNG:so why did you bother me in the first place?. Because you thought I would comment on it?. I only defend what Islamically sound in any practices an especially if there is dalil for them. Let's just say you are playing mind game |
FriendNG:Do it already and stop talking ![]() It's not necessary. But then I mentioned you because you're also nosy.How am I nosy oo |
FriendNG:I honestly don't understand you anymore. What's vexdacool gotta do with this?. And must I know the group?. I am absolutely not obligated. The group can do whatever they want. Who cares?. You could save all these back to back talks by simply posting their activities and we scale it on shariah of Islam. If it is against Islam we will condemn it. If it's commendable we will appreciate them. Simple isn't?. It doesn't have to be Sufi this or that. |
FriendNG:where did you say @ highlighted?. You didn't. I did. Quote where you said that. The way you started didn't suggest anything other than pictures and you enquired about them from me which I see no reason why you asked me in the first place. Now that you have elaborated your concern, we just have to wait until those people reply me but I don't know when. But if your intention is to condemn entire people based on what a faction is doing, which I suspect is what you are trying to do, that's OBVIOUSLY unjust. |
56 FriendNG:That's what profiling means. When you asked me to inquire about them. That's profiling. Why do you think i am obliged to know about them?. Muslims are not homogeneous people. If they are doing something wrong other, groups are not responsible for thier actions. I have watched many brothers of Tijaniyya group who condemn fake people amongst them who claimed to be sufi but in reality they are goofy. When the plumber guy who claimed to be salafi came here with his bogus ideology we all condemned him. Despite claiming to be salafy (till now), did i force it down your throat that he is?. No, bcus i know he is fake. The same thing applies here. If some people claim they are sufi you gotta be sincere enough and weigh their ideology with essence of sufism and islam. |
FriendNG:Now you are coming out of your crib. What belief is mentioned about them?. I belief they are muslim. Issues we have here are just political. So i don't know where you are driving at. What Hakika are doing is wrong. To me almost all what they are doing are wrong.Now you are talking. You need to tell us what they're doing because i don't know them. Nope. My question is very simple even a primary school student can understand it. Do you know Hakika? you said No. Ask your friend for explanation you won't.I had no reason to ask about them bcus it is irrelevant to me. But now that you indicate they are doing something wrong, and i believe you mean religiously. Then, i can look into that to see what who they are and what they are doing. I cant just profile a group like that. I want to know your stands on the Hakika ideology first before I posted what I considered anti-Islam, but then you don't know them.You should have just posted it. This would have saved us long talks. If you study them and consider their ideology wrong then we are on the same page otherwise the ground is set.So far you are yet to give info about them. So when I posted you won't start defending without knowledge. If you don't want to fine and good.I only defend what is islamically sound |
FriendNG:why are you nosy bro?. I have no reason to ask because there is no information, nothing to prompt me to do that base on what your are saying here. If they are doing specific things that you believe is wrong, then, I might consider that. I can always research what Hakika is about. That's not a problem for me. I don't know them. Nobody says you should ask the question about picture. What is so hard to understand in what I read? You jump to the picture rather than the text.Even your text doesn't have information that prompts my curiosity. You should ask him with open mind who are the Hakika faction of Tijjaniyya because I am interested in knowing his own view on Hakika.I can always ask but I'm just wondering if there is anything in particular that bothers you about Hakika?. I don't even belong to Tijjaniya. I only respond to certain practices deem inappropriate or not in harmony with Islam. As for the picture, for postng it shows that you have something in mind to say about it. Neither the pictures nor your text gives info. |
FriendNG:hummm, there is nothing to ask here. I think you basing your critisms in these pictures you ordered. This is nothing because, I can simply deduce that this is boy friend and girl friend situation or better still husband and wife. Whatever the case, this is nothing to do with Tijjaniya. Anyone could kiss over another. I'm just trying to figure out what you are trying to derive from the picture?. I can't ask them question on Facebook based on the picture because there is nothing to ask. |
FriendNG:I have no idea. Learning the name for the first time. I don't belong to any faction at all. Where are they located? |
MEGA4BILLION:maybe this time Queen of England is kicking the bucket soon as England gets the CUP She's on her deathbed |
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This is punishing the girl back. She be like "waiting a min. I am still trying to manage you as my mother but you pushing too hard". She needs to work around it and stop worrying about their communication.