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^Alright. Nothing wrong being by oneself. But sounds like you will eventually need relationship therapy lol |
dolphinheart:Ok, listen bro. There are some differences in their obligatory practices and it's all called "As-salat" i:e obligatory prayer binding on them and their people. It was prophet muhammad(SAW) that perfected everything. Let me give you example. Fasting was mandatory on Moses(AS) but he fasted for 40days. But at the time of Muhammad it was 30days. Point is Fasting was obligatory but manners are different. What are the manners?. At the time of Moses(AS) they would fast from tonight until the following night without break. But at the time of Muhammad it was from dawn until sunset (same day). So Muhammad(SAW) was sent as ar-rahman (mercy) for mankind. Bottom line however is ALL prophets and messangers came with one and same message i:e La illah ila Allah (There is no deities besides Allah(God). This is the message Jesus(AS) came with. "And We sent not before you any messenger except that We revealed to him that, "There is no deity except Me, so worship Me." (21:25) Quran confirms that Jesus(AS) came with same message: (Qur'an 3:51) Surely, Allah is my Lord and your Lord; so serve Him alone. This is the straight way.' The thread you directed me to does not address my views .Well, we add more as we deem fit. I am sure you are yet to review the whole threads. A lots said there. Titles may deceive you because we derailed there back n fourth just like this one. Ask malvis, he knows we discused a lot there Do those who follow islam follow the mosaic law and Jewish practices as stipulated by moses?.Message of all prophets and messagers is one and the same which is God Is One. There may be differences in Laws due to places and time. For instance, in Mosaic law, adulterers are to be stoned to death. This is still there in your bible even though it has been interpolated in New Testament. The fact that Jesus(AS) said he did not come to let go Moses's Law defeat Christians argument. So Sharia Law is more magnanimous. And pls dnt come up with the usual story that the original law giving to moses has been lost or changed, and the real law giving to moses was now re introduced by a foreigner thousands of years later.^ Prophets Laws dont have to be the same. Laws changed overtime until the time of last and final messanger, Muhammad(SAW). I can give more examples like not eating pork, drink alcohol etc |
basilico:Well, very simple. Every prophet was sent to their people or certain community. But prophet Muhammad's mission was to the whole world. By the whole we mean everything: Mankind, Jinnkind, Animals, living and non living things. They all recognize prophet Muhammad(SAW). Not only that, all the previous revealed Holy Books for prophets before Muhammad(SAW), are all in the Quran. Quran summed them all. This means Muhammad(SAW) is universal prophet. No other prophet claim to be sent to the whole world, none. “And We have sent you (O Muhammad ) not but as a mercy for the Alameen (mankind, jinns and all that exists)” [al-Anbiya’ 21:107] This is while he receives more blessings from worldwide Muslims. "SAW" denotes Sallah Allahu Alaiy Wasalam i:e Allah's Blessings and Peace Be Upon him. In Arabic it's specifically used for Muhammad. Its English meaning is literally translated and really the same as other prophets. "AS" denotes Alaiy Salam i:e Peace Be upon him. The former is a more depth and cryptic than the later (in Arabic form). |
dolphinheart:Were you not here some months back?. Definitely you were around. Malvis knows too well what i am talking about. And if you are so curious, then feed yourself (below). In order for Muslims to avoid repetitions, we have put together threads to avoid situation like this. https://www.nairaland.com/2291292/rebutals-library-solution-recycled-topics |
daretodiffer:No, you didnt err. It's only view. Thats all. You not making me feel 'somehow'. I am fine. You should respect other people and do not try to force your beliefs on them especially when they neither committing a sin or crimeLol, you gone far now. Its not about force |
daretodiffer: I know them veeeeery well.I am not talking about having disagreement or argument before divorce.I am not talking about this either. It's irrelevant It is getting a divorce based on diminished interest or because I got bored. People bore meOf-course, this can happen. And divorce is an option?. You dont even care you have kids for him and struggle with him like our mothers used to do solely because of their children?. You cant take a break like visit other family members or go on vacation with him and fun lovely time together instead of divorce?. You cannot tell me anything about polygamy. I know all there si to it both theory and practical.Alright. It's your life. Live it. I am afraid you gonna have bunch of baby fathers killing themselves over you. Geez |
daretodiffer: You too have no strong argument against me. Listen, Allah has laid foundation followed by sunnah of rosul(SAW). If we fail in them, we will do the negative and be misrable. We'd better submit to His will and accept whatever destiny has for us. This is ultimate ease.Sheikh Adam Abdullahi Al-ilory(RA) had a song widely known amongst muslims, goes like this: Ka gba fo'Loun ni isimi o (3x) Aigba fo'Loun ni yonu Kadara ki ko laigba ka gba fo'Loun ni Isimi |
malvisguy212:Joke! Where in your Bible Jesus(AS) did any of these "particular attitude" [i:e dancing, druming, jumping, screaming, dramatizing, speak in tongue] |
dolphinheart:You obviously not being honest with yourself. Wont waste my time with analysis. Everything you tainted up there are actually discussed at various threads months ago. |
daretodiffer:@underlined resembles typical western culture. You gonna end up having lots of baby daddies Congratulations!I think you have wrong notion of what polygamy is. Maybe you need revision on it. |
usermane:Yes, you hesitant because my point caught you off guard . You obviously said nothing. You have no counterclaim. hahaha i got you man. @bolded is pretty much your opinion. You know too well many tolerate side chick right there in Nigeria over marriage especially Christians. That's why marriage is getting more difficult. In America, a married man without side chick is like dinner without side dish. It a norm now. Yet they overwhelmingly object to polygamy. You have nothing to say my friend. THE AGONY OF MONOGAMY- BY TOLA ADENIYI http://folasophical.com/?p=1965 |
dolphinheart:bla bla bla. Patterns indeed. Goodluck man. You got problems. Way of worship brought by Jesus (AS) was the same one practiced by Moses(AS) and prophet before him. It is the same way of the prophet muhammad(SAW). We see this in your Bible but you people simply snubbed. malvisguy212:Whats that "particular attitude" i:e dancing, druming, jumping, screaming, dramatizing, speak in tongue etc which one? |
daretodiffer:Well, there are some men (few) out there who definitely fit your personality. You may just have hard time getting one. Humm, you going to be alone for a long time sister. |
malvisguy212:What patterns and which way contrary to the Bible?. If there are patterns i:e way of worship, then, what and how is it done?. And where is reference from you Bible cus your buddy malvis said Bible stipulates way to worship. How did disciples worship and who did they worship? dolphinheart: |
daretodiffer:Then you are deceiving yourself. Thats worst. If he sense you are not up to the task anymore and you know it, and he realize you not going to allow second choice, then he will marry sidechick outside or simply get a side-chick prego. That will pain you so much cus you will eventually know about it. Why are we deceiving ourselves when the Lord God who understands better than us already set things right?. Same thing western countries do. They reject polygamy but have no problem with side chicks. |
daretodiffer:Neither do I. It's in our nafs and it's halal. Period The problem with him is that he has had sex and he is finding it hard to stop. Getting married to a woman he cares about is the solution.Simple. Thats just it. There is no need for polygamy.Yes, not compulsory. But that as well is allowed if nature calls for it. Besides, when you said there is no need for poly, are you comfortable with your man having a side-chick? |
daretodiffer:Care to explain in what situation exactly?. |
usermane:Your view now and I respect it. But you wrong, sir. If specialists can cure such a thing, then Western world where sex addicts fluctuate would have been a thing of the past. But no, your very same trusted doc would rape you first. @underlined, do you even preview before posting? It easy to see why your creed is so patriarchal.You have problems with underlined?. Well, side-chicks okay with you? |
plappville:When you start thinking from your brain kindly let me know. Thanks
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plappville:Pele. You are pained. Well, Syria issue is another subject entirely. To understand that you need the study of ilm akhir zaman. Now, here is what prophet Muhammad said with respect to Syria in the Last Age. According to two narrations in Sahih Bukhari, Muhammad(SAW) asks Allah to bless the areas of Bilad al-Sham (Syria) and Yemen. When his companions said "Our Najd as well," he replied: "There will appear earthquakes and afflictions, and from there will come out the side of the head (e.g. horns) of Satan." In a similar narration, Muhammad(SAW) again asked Allah to bless the areas Medina, Mecca, Sham, and Yemen and, when asked specifically to bless Najd, repeated similar comments about there being earthquakes, trials, tribulations, and the horns of Satan. The hadith: "O Allaah bestow your blessings on our Shaam(Syria). O Allaah bestow your blessings on our Yemen." The people said, "O Messenger of Allaah, and our Najd." I think the third time the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, said, "There (in Najd) will occur earthquakes, trials and tribulations, and from there appears the Horn of Satan." So mrs plap, dont get frustrated. As pitiful and painful as it is, seeing innocent people caught up in this mess could mean blessings in disguise. So Muhammad(SAW) is a mercy for mankind. That's all. |
daretodiffer:lol....true talk. He's right too but why deceiving himself? . I don't understand that. The best option is getting married. All these other remedies he put forward are correct as well, but at the end of the day, guy is going to be alone thinking over sex again and do what his nafs tells him. We need to stop deceiving ourselves. Even though fasting is recommended, I swear far less people can do that. The reason this will not work in most cases is bcus it's simply not mandatory unlike Ramadan which compels us to abstain. As a matter of fact, considering op's situation, fast is one of the last options. Marriage preceded everything else. Marrying to avoid Zina does not denotes woman marrying addict. No, sir usermane. And yes, if a woman isn't enough, take one more. It's halal As for psychologist doctor he recommended, throw that in the garbage. That's not gonna work. |
malvisguy212:How? there are many things in the quran he got wrong concerning the christians doctrine,for example he say the christians worship Mary Jesus and God and call it trinity,were did he got this idea from? yes muhammed mention trinity in the quran but the bible never mention it , the bible only indicate it.You getting confused again?. Now, you digressed after evidence of early christian grave worshipers was presented. Go on. I really dont feel like going back to this again. This was dealt with in rilwayne001's thread. So christians who believe in "trinity", dont they proved it from the Bible?. Or you forgot your mistress ifeann proving trinity from the Bible some months back?. From Isalmic point of view, it was only warning that you desist from trinity i:e the worship of "three gods "father son and holy spirit" from some christian perspectives. You may not be a trinitarian. That's okay. Yo may disagree with them. That's non of my biz Muhammed mistook two different women , Mary and Miriam, all this are evidence that muhammed was greatly misled by some christians sect.What is this bs @ bolded?. The only Miriam/Mariam/Maryam associated with Jesus(AS) is Maryam i:e mother of Jesus. What the nonsense you spew up there?. And who are those deviant christian sects? Muhammed was right to condemned the worship of prophet in their graveNow, you admit that he was right when he cursed Jews and Christians for building their house of worship over graves after I provided evidence to support my claim. So now you know. BUT he was wrong for accusing the christians and Jews of this acts.I honestly dont know how many times I have to say this. That it was possible not entire Christendom did that at the time. It could have been notable factions amongst them. It is like when other countries accuse Nigerians of drug smuggling. Does that means all Nigerians do drugs?. were did he got this idea from?The fact that some christians at that time did it was enough to categorise the hadith authentic. The article I provided concur. http://www.sacred-destinations.com/italy/rome-catacombs amazingly the muslims build mosque on his tomb.Seems like you dont read btw lines. This was already explained up there as well. Read it again http://islamqa.info/en/65944 Ziyarat is used to refer to a form of pilgrimage to sites associated with Muhammad:And whats your problem with ziyarat?. You sure have no clue what you really want. Nothing wrong visting graves and saying salaams. Christians don't have specific way of worship,any christians who worship contrary to what the bible say , he is not a christiansAnd how did Jesus order you to worship?. Can you please categorically tell?. Many christian churches worship differently and each sect or church dare not worship at another's. Protestant dare not worship with catholic, Deeper life dare not worship with Cele You all worship differently. |
plappville:"Sallam Allahu Alaiy Wasalaam" 'SAW' - peace be upon him). I DO NOT KNOW WHAT "SBUP" means to you. |
dolphinheart:Yea, right. Tell them. Besides, this might be historically connected. Mode of worship have changed overtime in christianity. As you guys can see, you Christians don't even worship synchronously and meticulously today unlike Muslims. Obligatory salat is the same everywhere. @malvisguy212 , I am not accusing you of worshiping grave. However, there are pieces of evidence to suggest the hadith of the prophet(SAW) was correct. I said earlier that it doesnt really have to be all christians prophet was referring to. It could have been faction(s) amongst them seemingly-notable enough for the Muhammad(SAW) to have condemned building House of worship over graves. Read below article gives a clue of possible early Christians built their churches over graves of saints and worship them. But with time, I believe, with emergence of "Protestant Christianity", the act faded away. http://www.sacred-destinations.com/italy/rome-catacombs |
Fundamentalist:You dont address your fellow muslim like that. Thats very rude. This is scholarly discussion. Be reasonable brother. I dont usually agree with Albaqir but kindly present your view and he presents his. Thats all. |
plappville:Proof what? |
malvisguy212:Maybe you need to re-read my post. Anyways, here is the hadith again and its meaning: Aisha and Abdullah bin Abbas (Radhiyallahu Anhum) narrated that when the last moment of the life of Rasulullah (Sallalahu Alaihi Wasallam) came he started putting his Khasmisa on his face and when he felt hot and short of breath he took it off his face and said, “May Allah curse the Jews and Christians for they built the places of worship at the graves of their Prophets.” (The narrators says) Rasulullah was warning (the Muslims) of what those (Jews and Christians) had done. Meaning of the hadith: The word La’nat means to be far from the mercy of Allah. The Muhaditheen explain that the reason why Rasulullah (Sallalahu Alaihi Wasallam) said this was that the time for Rasulullah (Sallalahu Alaihi Wasallam) to leave this world was close at hand and he did not desire that his Ummah imitate the Jews and Christian by making his grave also into a place of worship. The reason why he disliked the grave becoming a place of worship is that sooner or later people start worshipping the grave itself. The whole mission of Rasulullah (Sallalahu Alaihi Wasallam) was to eliminate Shirk and turn people towards the oneness of Allah. How could he have approved that his grave becomes a means for people to do shirk? Therefore such stern words were used so that people refrain from coming close to Shirk. In another Hadith it comes: Abu Hurairah narrates that Nabi (Sallalahu Alaihi Wasallam) supplicated, “O Allah, do not make my grave into an idol. Allah’s curse be upon that nation who mad the graves of their Prophets into a place of worship. (Musnad Imam Ahmed) And there are many numerous ahadith that report this: He (PBUH) also said: “When a righteous man died among them, they would build a place of worship over his grave and put those images in it. They are the most evil of mankind before Allaah.” (Al-Bukhaari, 427; Muslim, 528) He(PBUH) said: “Those who came before you took the graves of their Prophets and righteous people as places of worship. Do not take graves as places of worship – I forbid you to do that.” (Narrated by Muslim in his Saheeh, 532, from Jundab ibn ‘Abd-Allaah al-Bajali). As for historical Jews and Christians whom the prophet(SAW) referred to could not have meant all Jews and all Christians. Most likely extremists amongst them at the time and it was obvious. For Muhammad(SAW) to utter such statement and warned us not to imitate Jews and Christians, as far as i am concern it means worshiping graves by Jews and Christians was prevalent at that time. Below article, question posed at a Jew. Historical account of Jewish worship via the graves of saints and Prophets Question: Are there any examples in the Jewish history of Jewish people falling into worshiping the dead saints and prophets in their tombs ? Also, does building Tomb and concrete structures over the graves of prophets and saints open a door to idol worship, Shituf, or Avodah Zarah? Have past or current Jewish people have fallen into this trap? There is a pointer to this fact in many Muslim narratives like this one: "Beware of those who preceded you(Jews and Christians) and used to take the graves of their prophets and righteous men as places of worship, but you must not take graves as mosques; I forbid you to do that." [Sahih Muslim 1:1083] Answer: Jews often pray at the graves of righteous people. One popular site, for example, is Me'aras HaMachpelah, the biblical grave of many of the forefathers. It seems that Muslims also pray there, though perhaps don't use the place as a mosque. However, praying to a person is absolutely forbidden as much as idolatry. If there are any historical accounts of a Jew doing so, they are of a transgressor. The Kitzur Shulchan Aruch (128:13) makes this clear: http://judaism.stackexchange.com/questions/26114/historical-account-of-jewish-worship-via-the-graves-of-saints-and-prophets |
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and I am sorry if it makes you feel somehow. It is my destiny to be aloof, easily bored and love my company unless of course you can excite me. Someone else might try it and regret it but I will not because it is who I am.
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