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iramure:
While I don't support the action of the woman, I can honestly feel her pain. Only those who do not have the type of the baby would not understand her predicaments. My first boy is like that and those kind of children's abnormal behaviour can make one develop several mental disorders. I pass through a lot of mental stress living with him everyday for the past 10 years. I even once contemplated killing him as well.

I have a relatives whose daughter was suffering from spastic hemiplegia,this child is crippled and going to 6 yrs
At a point she was considering the option of killing her,but it was just some words of encouragement that keep her mind off from such an act.
I pray we should never found ourselves in such a situation because you don't know the emotional stress,the stigma it suck out from someone life,

Stephen2324:
One wrong sex fit steal your peace for life

100 percent facts

Bluearrow:
I don't think driving is really that profitable anymore since fuel subsidy removal.

exactly my friend,despite the increments in transport fare,is not Profitable like before

GanagiBitrus:
Most times, people who overspeed are not really in a hurry. They just want to form James Bond or to show off that their cars can move fast.
But it's all foolishness & a sign of immaturity.

Exactly

Try and have saving from your earning, because it might develop fault at anytime,and regular changing of oil and servicing Will help ur bike, and do not loose guards ur bike,because it is very easy to steal

[quote author=EM123 post=118820442]I will advice you to buy second hand bike(motor cycle) , okada men make up to 5k-6k everyday.[/quote
You nail it, that is what I did when I managed save 200k, to God be the glory am getting my steady daily income

jasper83:
This is a very tricky and sensitive issue. Firstly I most commend you for your sincerity analysing your financial problem, which led to a soul searching for you.

That's a right step in the right direction, unlike some people who are not objective but rather keep hoping till thy kingdom come for manna to fall from heaven to double their earnings, but you took the bull by the horn by asking great minds around you on how to turn things around hence the advice of the mini bus, weldone, nah responsible man you be.

Now to the crux of the matter, I have been in this situation before like 8 years ago, apart from the objection raised by your wife which I believe it's bore out of being myopic of her side other factors need to be considered, like:

1. Lagos government frowns at commercial buses operation and that's the truth, forget the money the drivers claim they make, LASTMA penalty can wipe your 3 weeks savings in a day. Lagos is hostile to small businesses, the hawks are too much picking on chicks without mercy. You may Park in set back on the high way and taskforce will still tow your vehicle to Alausa without offending them just because they are empowered by laws. This brings back sad memories for me, but God took me out of Lagos to another region through corporate job, when these same enforcement agencies frustrated my life to the point of depression, I had to dust my university certificate again applied and miraculously a multinational dusted me and gave my life a turnaround and sent me to the South east region. It's almost 7 years I left Lagos.

During our time then, it's Vanagon buses that was in vogue and not this mini buses, I thought transportation isn't my destiny because that's what people say when the wahala is too much. Bros as a stranger here I tried it again because my job is an upward and mobile type and voila I bought two mini buses and I'm doing well on them as a side hustle with drivers managing it effectively, bought two Daihatsu turbo in 2020 for 950k each and the drivers are almost through with their payments.

I heard the.buses are like 1.4 million now, so what I'm saying is the business i can't do in Lagos due to hostility is thriving for me here in the East even as a yoruba man. My drivers dey deliver 20k weekly, I heard Lagos own nah 25k but who that one help with agbero and LASTMA with taskforce wahala. But here it's cool and simple, no incursion from external forces. Here you can predict your cash flow of the business.

When wahala start you will so cherish that your 70k job.


Now what me I did before quitting mine then because I was earning this same amount around 2013/2014, I didn't just leave like that because surely that money won't make you balance, its living hell from hand to mouth.

What I did was I tested the waters for close to a year, every weekend me and a friend will go to Obalende in a place they call 'Mayor' around Igbosere to go meet some contacts we know to give us vehicle for half a day, sometimes I do conductor my friend will do driver or we switch roles so with that, we dey make 5k each daily if we are lucky we may be giving the bus again on Sunday buy that's very rare because other groups too will solicitate for it. So by Monday I dey get roughly 7k to 8k to augment my family spend.

So go and try that angle first of doing part time on your weekend first to test the water which is very necessary, not all bus stops you see in that Lagos be real bus stop ooo, forget say passengers dey there, if you stop bro, LASTMA or taskforce go base your motor for impounding, your enemy go cry. Go and learn the rope, either conductor or driver for weekend try do am that's when you will know if it's something worth doing full time or not. It's deeper than what you think, what about if motor spoil nko, how do you repair when no other sources they again and commercial drivers hardly help themselves very funny set of people always broke because of their wasteful lifestyle. I'm just reminiscing on my past life and feel like crying but we thank God we didn't look like what we have been through. Find a means and do part time first and you will appreciate my advice. Don't be in a rush.

I wish you all the very best.

Cheers!

best advice so far

Czario:
You see this guy knows how the movie will end he just wants to watch it in slow motion.. doesn't want it to end GBAM !!! Just like that.

I respect the guy, he get liver mixed with patience

Infact u are a wiseman

This is a welcome development, ASUU are only fighting for their pocket and not for the interest of the students

Make up artist will not make heaven

DemMannaScam:
Your boss?
Commot for him house, he is not ur boss anymore...

E be like say u be jonsing man.

how do you think you can be making from the okada that will cater for all your expenses,I think you are making a great mistake

The government should please find a solution to this

Oga stop lying,i stay opposite 7up,no soldiers run away from them,and work is still fully going on at 7up, the day of the incident the soldiers reinforced to 7up Incase of any reprisal attack,so all those guy that were killed die for nothing.

UDOKABESTLUV:
Bro, Start Blogging Business Now And Thank Me Later, that's My advice for you, In 2020 you are making less than 100k as monthly salary, Bro You need another source of income, Get In touch with me.

Bro please a interested

Madmazel:
The only problem you have is how to manage your finances. Learn how to save, learn how to keep money for dry days. Also, learn how to say NO to some expenses that won't benefit you on the long run. Stop saying yes to every request from people to get money from you.

What you are yet to grasp is that, sir you are indirectly married now though you haven't done the rites. The way you spend money now and how to use it matters now to when she wasn't living with you or have a child for you. There are two more lives involved now.

Most women are like this in marriages. Most marriages experience this.The sole responsibility to take care of the house is solely on the man. Though wives are there to assist, but always remember it's your sole responsibility.

Wisdom is profitable to direct. Most women won't be comfortable with a dry spell from their husbands for too long. I guess this might be the only bad side about her. I'm sure they are other good qualities from her which you decide to stick with her before getting her pregnant.

They will tell you to leave her etc, They will tell you talk to her bla bla bla. No matter the talk, she won't change. You should learn how to manage the home better. And try and invest in her too like a business or something so something can be coming in from her side and less complains from her when things are tight from your own end.

I wish you all the best in your marriage, Shalom.

I love your reply the best thing to do for her is to set up a business for her,because even though they still legally marry tomorrow,the house will be so tense up if there is no money in to take care of bills,the best thing to do now is to establish her,i know this girl will still have some other good quality

zed7:
The question should be is the husband going to take the right decision? Your sister has made her choice. Is the man going to be smart enough to let her go without begging her?

You can't love me and not love my family, there's no point. It's not like they are going to stay there forever, probably to save up some money first. No man who doesn't like his independence, it circumstances that makes people take some decisions.

I'm not saying your sister doesn't have a right to her decisions, the man just has to be wise enough to let her go to avoid future problems.

What are you saying,dont you know what the Bible say that a man shall leave his father house,if he is not ready to be a man,he should bother himself of getting marry

Jim Reeves,the world is not my own

Abuja is overrated,you better stay where you are

Please admin help me to push this to the front page because it is an important issue.
I have a friend whose wife gave birth to a baby at 28weeks,although my friend told me that his wife attend antenatal during the pregnancy period.
Cutting long story short they were transferred from where she gave birth to a teaching hospital and they were attended to by the doctor on duty.
After several test been conducted on this baby she was diagnosed with sepsis and was place on admission at NICU,where the baby spent some weeks,they were later discharge to go home following different treatments giving to this baby,and they visit always during the next appointment.
But why my friend is bother is that this baby is one year and 3month but can sit on her own without support.which mean this baby is having developmental delay.
They took the child back to the hospital to run another different tests to ascertain the condition of this baby but because of financial constraints my friend is not able to run the test for his baby.
Please doctors in the house and other health practitioners can this baby still live a normal life

Can't they employ night guard

frankyskyboi:
Thanks for your opinions.. I'm sorry I can't move ahead with such relationship until I know my woman and where she's coming from in totality. We may underrate this but it's very vital especially in my family. I can't take a one sided story and even if she pops up an answer tomorrow, I'll still do my background investigation. Before presenting her to my parents, they'll ask her same questions I'm asking her so to save the headache, it's better she does the needful.

My brother home that someone came from when choosing a spouse really matter,i have seen a lot of situation like this and only few of such end well,my brother really matters a lots

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