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I had this particular guy, nah my close gee shaa he has being dating dis particular gal fr more 6 month
The galz mom is ok with the relationship, the galz dad Is dead so all his properties was given to her uncle
So wen the gal introduce my guy to her family members they ask her which religion affinity Is he under and he said he is a Christian
The gal uncle told her not to marry the guy or any other Christian if she wants to collect her own father's property from the uncle
And my guy is really confused, he has already even bought the engagement ring and other stuff fr proposal
I don't know if anyone of you have passed Tru anything similar
So pls I need ur advice
Similar story if possible

If nah herdsmen nah buhsri and aoc go shook eye fr dere
But fr pipu life dey dey misbehave
Mtchewee

Brooh abeg no dey slander anyhow
Pray bout it first

Mikester:
From my perspective, I will say it depends on the parents raising the child and not necessarily the environment, though the environment is also an undisputed factor in a child's upbringing, but the parental factor determines the outcome of the child more.

Speaking of environment, Nigeria was once a good ground for a child's moral upbringing as it unapologetically shunned deviant behaviours till it imitated the negative lifestyle of the west which I dare say is decadent (showing more interest in pleasure and enjoyment than moral standards).

This singular act brought about a proliferation of decadence and debauchery amongst the multitudes including the teenagers and children alike.

Children and teens alike learn more by imitation. Teens are dealing with a huge amount of social, emotional and cognitive flux and have underdeveloped abilities to cope. They need their parents, those people with the more stable adult brain to help them by staying calm, listening and being good role models but due to the decadence in the land and nonchalance of most parents, we have the defective children we have now.

These are things we know deep down within us.

Environment before parent abeg
You don't understand
Environment defined the effective of parental training

tommy589:
Most of those Indians and asians have religions that are indigenous to them. And much emphasis is on sacredness of family, culture and respect in those religion.
Respect starts with good morning greetings with stooping. If this basic foundation is lost mostly we won't get a child upbringing right, irrespective of our location. At least there are reasons we bend sometimes when we shake hands

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WoundedLamb:
Hhmm... is this really a factor? Islam may not be originally African but I don't think a Nigerian child born into Islam and and an Indian Child born into Hinduism are any different in terms of how they perceive their religion. I mean, the muslim child doesn't get less indoctrinated because the religion didn't originate from his place. Just thinking

Religion is not important
Whatever the child values are is more important

Sent home from a job interview because of the interviewer does not like my tribe after seeing my surname
So I came on this platform to ask if you ever lost your job or be turn away from an interview because of some strange reason such as because of the way you dressed, the way you spoke or let say your tribe

If everything is willed by God do we really need to pray
What if our prayer is against his will
Is it then fair to say that ones prayer is ineffective

visijo:
lol new year saga.. baba go be like "I go leave that aye for you o" ..

meanwhile Endeavor to have sox as early as possible in 2021 so your child would be among the September batch.

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Ever8090:
Very beautiful ..but will definitely be filled with images,..that is my problem.

I am a born Catholic but stop attending when I got tired of battling with my conscience wether prostrating Infront of those images is right or wrong, and praying to Mary was one other doctrine I could not understand...but I am still in love with Catholic hymns so much..in fact I listen to hymns almost every night while I sleep off...

God bless the Pope and give him the wisdom to reduce those images and also abolish the prayer to Mary and other saints so that I can return back to my Catholic..

Did u stop going to school because your friends said u ain't intelligent enough
Stop making excuses
You just never understood the Catholic Church period

I no no say coro still dey naija oooh

We dey your back
Carry on
D entire Nigeria nah shit
We d youth must restructure am

Toast galz as u see am ooo no b to set read tips
As per say I no b one of does men way dey fear to Bleep nyash check am nah kpakulukpa

Nigerian youth are more stupid Dan sars

Chaiii
Nt South Korea���

Nah so dey dey talk abeg jare���

Ninejaywon:
The way people reason in this country can be very backwards. Because one "traditionalist" somewhere is attributing your transport mishaps to one voodoo in your place of work, you then want to quit??

pls stop being stupid forget voodoo
When u start working somewhere and u are falling down from okada
because of d salary abi me
Fool
U tink it about voodoo
Ntin happen without a reason

May his wild soul rest in perfect peace

Nah d situation fr the country dey cause dis kyn shit ���

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Hello fellow nairalander
I have a friend who is 17 years old and who has never had sex before and really wants to
But being his best friend I am.kimda against it
I jux really want to know if losing ones virginity is worth

Hello fellow nairalander a
Am an introvert aged 17 quite religious with lot of morals
I really want to know if kissing is morally or religiously wrong

Nah so d tin b everywhere my broda
Naj only God go help pesin
Naija police go even arrest u if u use Nokia battery for Android phone talk say nah breach of contract

Hello fellow nairalander
Have being a nairalander for the past two years now and have seen many people ask for advice based on a different problem such as family,social and relationship
I am really fascinated by the response and advice received
But I really think the person who asked for advise should tell us if the response from my fellow nairalander was effective

Prefer separation because you can still come back to b together and u can still keep your property n moni intact without losing half of ur property

OgundeleTeju:
l still can’t phantom what you are saying because your English is terribly bad

I tink u are a big fool
Can't u interprete it

When we tell people not every girl u see u knack
Una tink say nah play��

Think about it properly
Is it because of her or some of it bad decisions
Better still is your decision influenced by an external person or factor
Abeg just go to pastor or imam oooh
Dat lady may no be in any witch cult or something

God reward u

And some Muslims would say pastors are the worst sinners

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