Jobs/Vacancies › Re: United Nations International Children's Emergency Fund (UNICEF) Job Recruitment by emzynuel1: 3:28pm On Jul 17 |
Incase any of you guys are looking for video editor
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: United Nations International Children's Emergency Fund (UNICEF) Job Recruitment by emzynuel1: 3:21pm On Jul 17 |
Any remote job , make una connect me oo |
Romance › Re: I Thought They Truly Loved Me But The Truth Was Exposed Eight Different Times by emzynuel1: 12:55am On Jul 12 |
AngelSlay: I'm sorry those experiences happened, but I don't think they're enough to conclude that most women love men only for what they provide. Eight relationships over ten years can teach valuable personal lessons, but they don't necessarily prove a universal truth about women.
It's also worth asking some difficult questions. Were there any patterns in the type of women you consistently chose? Did you sometimes confuse generosity with compatibility? Did financial support become the foundation of the relationship instead of emotional connection?
The reality is that many women have stories that sound remarkably similar—supporting a man through school, helping him financially, standing by him during hard times, only to be abandoned when he became successful. Does that mean all men are transactional? Of course not.
Healthy relationships aren't built on endless giving from one person. They're built on reciprocity, communication, shared values, and mutual respect. If you're always the rescuer, provider, or fixer, you may unintentionally attract people who are looking to be rescued rather than true partners.
The final question shouldn't only be, "Would she stay if I lost everything?" It should also be, "Would I choose someone who has consistently shown loyalty, empathy, and generosity, even when there's nothing to gain?"
Character matters more than gender. There are opportunistic men and opportunistic women. There are loyal men and loyal women. The challenge isn't proving that one sex is worse than the other—it's learning how to identify emotionally mature people before becoming deeply invested.
The lesson isn't "women are transactional." The lesson is that compatibility, boundaries, and discernment matter just as much as love. Choosing the right partner is often more important than proving the wrong ones exist. 8 experience is not enough😂 do you listen to yourself |
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Nairaland General › Re: Some Common Sense Things You Should Know As An Adult by emzynuel1: 8:49pm On Jul 08 |
The way majority of Nigerians are losing manners and etiquettes this days mehnn, e dey pepper me for body.
Common greeting people no fy greet back |
Christianity Etc › Re: Court Orders Prophet Tamarauebi Elisha Owan to Pay ₦200M For Destroying Shrine by emzynuel1: 3:29pm On Jul 06 |
You are not a christsian Afriifa: I am a Christian, and I frown at desecrating other people's house of Worship |
Travel › Re: My Candid Advice To Young Nigerians Who Want To Japa by emzynuel1: 9:18pm On Feb 28 |
To each his own
If you feel Nigeria would favor you stay, if you feel it won't leave....... |
Food › Re: Which Amongst These Soups Is The Sweetest When Getting Old by emzynuel1: 10:29pm On Jul 25, 2025 |
Omo na ogbonoo oo |
Family › Re: Married Men With Children, How Much Do You Spend On Running Your Home Weekly? by emzynuel1: 1:36pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
At this point I don begin dey pity my papa |
Sports › Re: World Athletics Ratifies Tobi Amusan's Hurdles World Record by emzynuel1: 1:56pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Na thus kyn thing we want dey see from the other gender Not chomzzy twerks for ebuka mtchwww |
Sports › Re: World Athletics Ratifies Tobi Amusan's Hurdles World Record by emzynuel1: 1:55pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Na this kyn thing we want the see from the other gender Not chomzzy twerks for ebuka mtchwwww |
Family › Re: When Marriage Becomes Toxic. by emzynuel1: 8:58pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
I feel like marriages after x amount of years loses maybe it spark But what those two people have is mutual respect for each other and respect for the things we they both cherish Getting to a certain point it the unexpected that makes ones marriage interesting not really what we see in Indian movies |
Crime › Re: How Ariku, Mile 12 NURTW Chairman, Was Killed (Video, Graphic Pic) by emzynuel1: 1:41pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
He who lives by the sword dies by the sword |
Sports › Re: UEFA Champions League Draw 2022/2023 On 25th August 2022 by emzynuel1: 6:01pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
Liverpool has the hardest group |
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Suspected Kidnappers Of Ondo Traditional Ruler, 4 Others by emzynuel1: 2:39pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
Everyday for the thief........ |
TV/Movies › Re: Groovy And Phyna Settle Their Fight With A Passionate Kiss Inside The Pool by emzynuel1: 2:37pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
Una no de rest People way de watch dis stuff are the most jobless set of pipu I have seen E even beta make pesin watch porn than to watch this shit |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Inspects Campaign Office In Abuja by emzynuel1: 5:37pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Old man |
Events › Re: Sierra Leonean Runs As Wife's Family Storm Church Where He Was Marrying New Wife by emzynuel1: 11:35pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
Mumu man One man one woman No cheating |
Sports › Re: Real Madrid Unveil Anthony Rudiger - Photos by emzynuel1: 4:05pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
Chelsea's loss D guy na Chelsea best player |
Sports › Re: Top 20 Most Valuable Football Clubs In Europe (photos) by emzynuel1: 3:56pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
Samunique: Yes, wayo people dem !!!
It's only a fool that will be dying for English football !!!
Some times, their Referees singlehandedly decide the outcome of matches . Very dubious and inconsistent set of people! 
Carry the English football on your head at your own peril, and die of heart attack early. What does refereeing has to do with a club value How many teams in the world can equal the quality that is in man city or Liverpool Bro rest abeg |
Christianity Etc › Re: Catholic Diocese Of Enugu Shuts Down Father Mbaka's Adoration Ministry by emzynuel1: 3:28pm On Jun 18, 2022 |
Uteghe:
..you entrust him to the "care of the blessed virgin Mary,Queen of the Apostles". If this Mary is the mother of the incarnate Christ,then whoever crafted the letter is offending her. Mary has no business here. Catholics should stop this idolatry. Omo try they close ur mouth sometimes |
Romance › Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by emzynuel1: 10:38pm On Jun 17, 2022 |
Omo tell oo If na u koor |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Entertainers: Stoking The Flame Of Immorality by emzynuel1: 10:26pm On Jun 17, 2022 |
Most especially content creators Only sabinus and lasisi ddy different |
Celebrities › Re: Between Sabinus And Bobrisky On Facebook (Photo) by emzynuel1: 8:16pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Omo make this bobrisky rest joor D guy jus wan dey use mumu tin trend |
Romance › Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by emzynuel1: 9:27pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Imagining spending thousand of naira and multiple hours sometimes month sef to get something u think is valuable only for u to realize that someone who has spent Less time and energy dey enjoy that thing sef Sometimes for free sef Na so e b oo |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels Nwoko Hosts Lavish Party For Kids On Children’s Day by emzynuel1: 10:05pm On May 27, 2022 |
Wetin concern us Give us peter obi abeg |
Crime › Re: Forgive Me - Akwa Ibom State University Student In Viral Sex Tape Apologizes by emzynuel1: 10:02pm On May 27, 2022 |
You are forgiven Next time do better |
Romance › Re: Help - I'm About To Start Dating Two Sisters (accidentally) At The Same Time. by emzynuel1: 6:46pm On May 21, 2022 |
You go they tell babe your occupation Mumu man Y dey no go pursue u U no get sense Mtcheww |
Romance › Re: What Is The Difference Between Love And Lust by emzynuel1: 4:50pm On May 12, 2022 |
Love and lust to me are almost the same It just depends on the amount of value you place on that person That what makes the difference |