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Zulash:
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Remember the first time you kissed a guy?

You obviously had a hard time trying to work the right way to do it in your head.

But as soon as you approached that inevitable moment, you realized that it’s as natural, easy and simple as breathing.

All you need to do is take things slow and easy, and wait for both your lips to start moving against each other’s until they reach the perfect synchrony.

As complicated as it may seem at first, it’s just as easy once you lock your lips.

[Read: 6 tips to get any guy to kiss you when you want him to]

How to kiss a guy for the first time

When you have to kiss a guy for the first time, the first few seconds is always tricky.

You may have kissed a lot of guys.

But you’ve never really kissed this guy before.

Both of you have your own kissing styles and approaches, and it’s easy to turn a perfect opportunity into a confusion of sorts.

Tips to kiss a guy and turn him on

If you want to kiss a guy, turn him on and part your lips from his with a memorable impression after the kiss, just use these ten tips on how to kiss a guy to do just that. [Read: How to talk to a guy and make him like you more]

#1 Come close to him. Yes, this is easy. All you need to do is come close. Don’t crane your neck out to kiss him from some distance. It’s not comfortable and you really can’t enjoy a perfect first kiss. The closer you are to him, the more both of you will enjoy the kiss and the more the chances are of you getting to arouse him discreetly.

#2 Let him take the lead. Kiss him, but let the guy take the lead. Unless you’re dating a first time kisser, touch your lips to his softly and wait while he applies some pressure on your lips with his.

Don’t purse your lips or pucker up, it’ll stiffen your lips which will make him feel like he’s kissing a wall. Keep your lips soft and slightly parted. It’ll feel softer, delicate and easily accessible. [Read: 25 tips to look cute and sweet when you’re with your boyfriend]

#3 Keep it short, silly. The first kiss is the ice breaker, but it’s never more than that unless both of you are Hot or extremely turned on. If it’s a romantic moment where there’s a lot of love or infatuation in the air, take it slow. If you want to create a memorable kiss, the first kiss should preferably be a small soft graze of both your lips that lasts for a second or two. Part your lips after this first kiss, look into his eyes and follow this first little kiss with a few more soft kisses.

#4 Each kissing style is unique. Don’t force the kiss or jump right into it even if you’re worried that the kiss won’t last long. It might turn out to be a bad experience. Take it slow and learn from each other. As both of you softly kiss each other a few times, both of you can slowly see how either of you move while kissing and follow each other’s cues to create a perfect new kissing style.

#5 Part your lips. After a few soft grazes of your lips with his, linger your lips on his for a few more seconds each time. And along the way, part your upper and lower lips just a bit so you let him know it’s alright to use a bit of tongue when he’s ready.

#6 Placing your hands. When you start kissing him, slowly move your hand and place it on the sides of his shoulder, or just under his arm. It’s an intimate move that’ll bring both of you closer. And by doing this, you’re getting closer and letting him know that it’s alright for him to touch you back. By placing your hand on his shoulder or under his arm, you’ll give him enough space to comfortably move his hands against your face while kissing you. [Read: 10 tips to seduce a man easily]

#7 Gentle body contact. Body contact between both of you can be really se.xy and intimate at the same time. And the best part is that you’d be able to turn him on without ever making it seem like you’re easy to get.

As you kiss him, move closer and slide your hand to his back. Come close to him, and he’ll instinctively come closer to you. If you’ve planned this move right, his chest would be perfectly positioned to graze your chest every time both of you move while kissing each other. And this will be something he’ll always remember as part of his first kiss experience with you.

#8 Move your face. As you kiss him, lift your chin up and turn sideways slightly, so he can instinctively kiss your chin and neck. This move is always more intimate than a plain kiss on the lips with no other moves. It’ll turn him on a lot more too, just like it’ll turn you on and have you gasping in seconds.

#9 Spend a while kissing. A first kiss isn’t really a first kiss. It’s a series of several kisses that help both of you understand each other’s kissing styles and increase the intimacy. If you want to have a perfect kiss with the guy you like, spend several minutes kissing each other the first time. And somewhere along the way, both of you would feel more connected and in tune with each other’s moves. A kiss that doesn’t feel right will always leave you in doubt about whether the chemistry’s missing. Instead of worrying about it, just take it slow and easy and learn along the way. [Read: An embarrassing first kiss story]

#10 Move your hands. Enjoy the kisses, but don’t stop there. If you want to know how to kiss a guy for the first time and leave him wanting more, you need to do more than just kiss him. Move your hands away from his back and gently move them along the contours of his shoulders and chest. It’ll bring both of you closer and give him the confidence to do the same to you. Enjoy the kiss and enjoy each other’s sensual touches as both your hands move along each other’s bodies for the first time.

But if you’re not ready for where his hands are leading him, especially if he’s inching closer to your breasts or your zipper, clasp his hand gently and move them to a place on your body where you’re comfortable with him touching. He’ll get the point and wait for your approval the next time. [Read: 25 tips to make your boyfriend happy in little ways]

Things to remember while kissing a guy for the first time

# Seated kisses are best if you plan to spend a while kissing and making out, especially if you’re in the car. It’s more comfortable, relaxed and you don’t need to worry about weak knees after a while.

# Kissing a guy while standing face to face is perfect for romantic soft kisses, especially the first goodnight kisses after a date.

# Kissing while standing can be uncomfortable at times, especially if you want his hands to get under your shirt. He’ll have to lift your shirt all the way up which is definitely inappropriate for a sweet first date.

# You don’t need to talk at all through the entire kissing experience. Your expressions will do all the talking.

# If you know you’re going to end the date with a kiss, chew gum or have a mint so you can avoid bad breath. If there’s no gum around, have a few sips of water and lick your lips. It’ll moisten it and feel more supple during the kiss.

# Go with the flow. Once you have a vague idea of how to perfect a first kiss with a new guy, you’ll never go wrong. So start slowly with a few lip grazes and work your way with each other. [Read: Tips to make your boyfriend want you more than ever!]

# End the series of first kisses with a warm soft hug, or even a gentle smile and a last soft kiss on his lips. It’ll be the perfect way to end the date and leave a lasting impression on him.

# Make a move one last time. Making a move to kiss him one final time before saying goodbye after both of you back away lets him know that you enjoyed his kiss and would love to initiate it some other time. [Read: How guys really fall in love with a girl in seven stages]

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MrCork:
^^^ that moskito boy gots anger management issue...he tryin to derail the thread.. Anyways bak to the thread, women are to blame for fights

joywendy:
Kilokeys and africanapple you ppl don disappear abi?

Anyways who are the mods of this section? I want my thread moved

wizboi26:
There is this girl in my neighborhood, I asked her out she complied. But she told me dat she has a boyfriend but she agreed to date me. Most times I feel bad knowing dat she has someone else. She claims she loves me but I didn't ask her out early, knowing dat we ve always been close pals. I ve asked her to break up with the guy, but she said she can't cos the guy has not wronged her in anyway. And dat it has not been long they started dating. What should I do should I just forget about her and move on with my life or fight for her love, since she agreed to date me even though she has another guy? Could it be true dat she loves me? Am just confused cos most times I feel like doing things for her, when I remember dat she is not all mine, I wouldn't like to do it

excel111:
Please kindly help me to answer this critical and confusing question.In a certain Village,a Very Beautiful Lady want to get marry and four men,a Musician,a Doctor,a Fisherman and a Hunter all showed interest,she likes all of them equally.One day the Lady went to the river to fetch water and all the four men followed her,on getting to the river she was grabbed by a fierce Crocodile and dragged her into the river,the musician then began to sing a melodious song which attracted the attention of the crocodile and it began to dance to the song leaving the helpless Lady beside in the river and the Hunter used the opportunity to shoot the crocodile with his gun and it died while the Fishermen jumped into the river to get the Lady to the ground and the Doctor treated her and she was healthy again.She then went home to narrate what happened to her family members asking them that who should she marry among the four men that saved her life.If you are a member of her family,who will you adviced her to marry?

zick19:
read my signature and pass me that stuff...

AfricanApple:
no I love it

AfricanApple:
no wonder!!!

AfricanApple:
it looks like wrapped cocaine

EmmyMaestro:
Is it o.k to kiss and tell
By kiss and tell, I mean If you "kiss and tell" it means that you shamefully reveal private details about your personal liaisons with anyone you know. You tell everyone all the nitty, gritty details (even though they probably don't want to know).

Naijabams:
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Every man of God has certain qualities they find irresistible in a woman of God. Whether you are an unmarried man in need of discovering what you should look for in a wife, or a unmarried woman curious to know what qualities a man of God is searching for…this is for you!

1. A woman of God who values honor.
A woman who fearlessly honors others, values herself. To honor someone means to esteem them or show high respect. A woman who demonstrates this reveals her heart for people. Honoring up, down, and around is the rule to follow.

Honoring up means respecting those who are in authority over you, being able to accept their role and submit to their leadership. Honoring those below you includes those that look up to you, or work underneath you. Honoring those around you is respecting your friends, family, and colleagues. You know a woman who honors by the words she speaks to those closest to her. Finding the gold in someone is easy because they only desire to build that person up rather than tear them down. A woman who values honor adds value to everyone around her, which makes for an irresistible woman.

2. A woman of God who is interdependent.
A woman who is interdependent is not solely dependent on others, nor is she solely dependent on herself, but understands she needs others to thrive in life. When we come out of the womb, we are fully dependent on our parents, and the goal is learn how to do life

This quality is best seen in those that aren’t too prideful to ask for help or support, and are able to do the same for others. Every husband feels esteemed when their wives depend on them, but they treasure a woman they can depend on as well.

3. A woman of God who has identity.
A woman who knows who she is, and what her identity is in Christ will not be found falling into the traps set by the Enemy. When a woman’s identity is in Christ there are a myriad of things that will follow such as: confidence, consistency, resilience, humility, ability to change, and loving unconditionally.

When talking with my other male friends who are married and some still unmarried, they each said this was one of the most important qualities that drew them to their wives. This quality keeps you from competing, being jealous, or intimidated by others.

4. A woman of God who is a lover of God.
A woman who is a lover of God has not only found God, but has been found by God. She knows His heart, and He knows hers. This level of relationship requires grace, discipline, and sacrifice. When the bible says in John 14:23, “Anyone who loves me will obey my commands”, He is talking about lovers of God. A woman who loves God, bears the fruit of it by obeying Him. This quality is one that draws and keeps a genuine man of God. This was the quality I prayed for in my wife more than any other. I knew if she was a lover of God, then everything else would fall in line.

5. A woman of God who is holistically beautiful.
The term, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, is very true because everyone sees beauty differently. 1 Peter 3:3-5 eloquently states, “Don’t be concerned about the outward beauty that depends on fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should be known for the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God.”

Source:- http://www.naijabams.com/forum/5-Irresistible-Qualities-Of-A-Woman-Of-God_7201.html

Kath5kouture:
Maybe he has a great personality. Maybe he’s rich. Maybe he’s kind to her. Maybe he has a huge d*ck.

There’s a multitude of reasons why that hot girl is holding the hand of that less hot man. There are numerous psychological answers behind the quandary that perplexes insecure passersby and jealous men staring at these couples across the crosswalk.

Why the hell is she with him? How the hell did he pull that off? Are her standards dipping, or does he fulfill her in some way hot men can’t? Someone, please, give me an answer!

Unfortunately for the illiterate, the answer lies with the illustrious Jack Kerouac, who once wrote, “The world would never find peace until men fell at their women’s feet and asked for forgiveness.” You know what? Women do just want their feet kissed.

After years of broken hearts and deceit by the hot men we so yearned after, women are really just looking for someone to show a little worship, a little praise. As the Stone Roses so eloquently put it, “I wanna be adored!”

As much as love is a drug, worship is an even easier one to get addicted to.

As the divorce rate increases, boys continue to let us down, and sexual trysts with hot men only ever turn into one-night stands; maybe we no longer want to waste our time looking for the love our parents never found.

Maybe “true love” doesn’t exist. Maybe we’re wasting our time looking for the perfect romance when we should just be looking for the perfect pedestal.

1. Relationships are more likely to last

A study reported in Daily News revealed that women who marry uglier men have happier marriages than ones who marry attractive men.

It’s an evolutionary thing. Men are more concerned with the appearance of their mate, ensuring they will have good genes to pass on to their children. Women, on the other hand, are less obsessed with the genetic makeup of their children and are looking for stability in a man, not just strong genes.

Having a hotter wife is also the reason husbands are more attentive and motivated to make their marriage work. Men who are hotter than their wives, however, are more likely to take them for granted.

In a similar study reported in the Journal of Family Psychology, 82 newlyweds were evaluated, and the couples with a wife more attractive than her husband were more content than those couples with equal attractiveness.

It makes sense; women want to be appreciated, and men want to show off their prize. A good marriage is based on compromise: A hot woman can make her man proud, and a proud man can make his wife happy.

2. Women will choose worship over love

Your drunk mother, dying grandmother or overbearing neighbor may have once told you, “Marry a man who loves you more than you love him.” It’s scary advice when you’re 14, 18, or still grappling in your 20s. But at a certain point, this advice comes back, ringing truer than ever.

We’ve watched the evolution of our parents’ relationships and our favorite celebrity breakups; we’ve experienced the beginning of our own slow demise. Women finally came to the insightful conclusion that everyone grows old and ugly, so we may as well find a man who loves us when our junk goes bad, and we can’t remember what we looked like at 25.

Women, more than men, need to feel loved. Women need to hear it, see it and understand that we are appreciated. They don’t want to wonder where your affection lies and have to guess your true feelings.

Having a less attractive man means having someone who isn’t easily going to drop you for a hotter girl. It brings us back to the idea that less attractive men are more appreciative, and women just want to be adored.

3. Women are less shallow than men

Guys see through their eyes; women see through their ears.

According to Nigel Barber, Ph.D., evolutionary psychologist and author of “The Science Of Romance,” women’s looks are more important to their dating success than a man’s. This is nothing new, however.

Since we’ve been old enough to date, women have understood that their looks always come before their man’s. Their looks were of the utmost importance in terms of their relationship status. They were supposed to be pretty, hot, cute or beautiful.

A man can carry his weight in the relationship based on any number of factors: athleticism, reputation, personality or social status.

Barber goes on to explain that women care more about their looks because looks are more “consequential” to them. The key word here, “consequential,” means that women’s looks are dependent on their ability to secure a man and a relationship.

4 Less attractive men are inherently more confident and outgoing

Women aren’t going after less attractive men, they are being pursued by them more often.

According to a study published in UK’s Telegraph, less attractive men are inherently more confident about their looks due to an evolutionary trait that keeps them from missing mating opportunities. It’s a false confidence, but confidence, nonetheless.

Unlike their attractive counterparts, less attractive men are more outgoing and optimistic when it comes to approaching women, explaining why hot guys are never hitting on hot women. This inflated ego gives unattractive men a leg up on attractive men because they are pursuing the women, rather than waiting for women to come onto them.

According to the study, published in the Psychological Science Journal, “Men who rated themselves high on attractiveness were more likely to over-perceive women’s interest. The more attractive they actually were to women, however, the more likely they were to under-perceive.”

It’s this eery catch-22 that makes women fall for the unattractive man because he acts like an attractive one. Either way, less attractive men are hitting on hot women as hot men stand around wondering where all the hot women have gone.

5. Women like security

We’ve come to an age where as much as we secretly yearn for big pecks, full hairlines and six-pack abs, we’ve also started to yearn for something else; something that will comfort us late at night more than big arms and perfect bone structure: security

We’ve all been screwed by the Hot Guy, felt insecure around the good-looking guy or experienced the constant anxiety that comes with dating a guy who thinks he’s better than us.

We’ve felt great taking him out, showing him off to our friends and taking Facebook photos with him. But at dinner, in bed or watching a movie in the darkness, when we saw his phone blinking and his distant stares, we didn’t feel so comforted.

Being with a less attractive man brings security, as shallow and insecure as that sounds.

If men can say they want a hot woman, why can’t women say they want a devoted man?
Now you know!

AfricanApple:
na this kain night u dey laugh like this? I no won get nightmares

AfricanApple:
you are one of the reasons Vaseline is difficult to get in the market

cirmuell:
Hian.
Consult Nairaland association of vaseline users na.

rubey:
Is there any law I am breaking here
Have I done anything which makes me look fake
Is it a crime I uploaded my picture on my profile
Is registering an account on nairaland a bad thing
Then why do you people keep bothering me? I am rubey and no one else so what is the problem with you people

Because I didn't reply your countless messages does that mean I am fake?

Please I have a very fragile heart, I easily get hurt that is why I avoid e-fights. I don't want to regret being a member of this forum. Let me just stay here and have fun I don't want any boy stalking me!

Please you all on my neck should just leave me alone!!!

major466:
Why the long face? Did you experience that from a girl before?

Emmydek:
That awkward moment when you are passing by and you see your 'crush' being toasted by another guy.

How do you feel about it??
Feel like sh*t. Tearssss,,,,sh*t again!

rattlesnake:
So now the trend is everyone is going to america to born...even those who preach that God is everywhere and Can prosper you anywhere also run to america to born pikin well i have decided to tell you the difference between Children born in Obodo Oyinbo and Obodo Naija

CHILDREN BORN OVERSEES

They have eyes
They have nose
They have 24 hours a day
they HAVE STOMACH
They fart
They Suck Breast
They Chew
They Grow
They learn to read
They Advance
They Die

CHILDREN BORN IN NAIJA

They have eyes
They have nose
They have 24 hours a day
Tthey HAVE STOMACH
They fart
They Suck Breast
They Chew
They Grow
They learn to read
They Advance
They Die

The only difference is that ehm ehm ehm ehm.......

PRISTINEMUSCLES:
For this you have just said, i am giving you three-quarter of my muscles.
Have you ever seen how gross an old-woman looks now, when she was quite bursty during her prime?
PENDULUM THINGS.

drlawizle:
There is a saying that if a guy talks to a girl staring at her eyes for long...its because she has no bosoms...

MyMentor:
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boy! U are a bad guy. Lol.

Midehi:
I want to just test my guy & tell him am no longer interested in our relationship.

I want to know if he will beg me not to leave him or he will just accept my breakup without him feeling heartbroken.

I want to know the weight of the love he claim he has for me.

But my fear now is, i hope it wont result to another thing(quarel)...cos i will later tell him i was only joking.

Pls should i test him or should i just leave the way things are...cos the relationship we are having now is perfect & sweet but i want to know if he will beg, cry for me to stay by him.