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Baby montana: i watch foreign movies nd as in eh 'to be in love go dy hungry u'...

mayapop: oh please! one dorky ass thinks my moniker ain't sexy do i give a f-uck? No!!!!!!

mayapop: sleep on me

writers4hire: *yawns* jobless youths. Products of a failed society.

shokayz: What Is Sexy? – Sexy is defined differently depending on who you
are, what your cultural background is, and even
which country you live in. But often we’re
bombarded by images and messages of what we
should find sexy and how we should be to be
sexy. This week, we’re chatting about what sexy is and how to stop defining yourself by how the world sees youIf you’ve watched TV or picked up a magazine
recently, you know there are pictures of what sexy
is ‘supposed’ to be all around you. However, we’re
all different and find different things more and less
sexy than anyone else, which is good, other wise
we’d all be attracted to exactly the same things – and that would be both problematic and dull! Sexy,
more than anything else, is an attitude. Its not how
we look, what we wear or how fat, thin, short or tall
we are. If you are feeling good about yourself and
can strut your stuff, others will find that attractive.
Even if you are the most ‘gorgeous’ person, if you haven’t got the confidence to be yourself, its just
not going to be all that sexy. Believe it or not, all
models and celebrities have insecurities about their
looks from time to time. The pressure is on these
public figures even more because the world judges
and defines them only by the way they look. It’s true that sometimes we need to wear that drop-
dead gorgeous dress to feel good about ourselves,
or we need to wear a certain kind of make up or
brand of clothing to feel good. This isn’t necessarily
a bad thing as its good to look after yourself
physically and mentally and wearing nice clothes or making an effort for a special person or occasion
can makes us feel that we are looking ourselves.
But be careful not to just rely on fashion and your
outward appearance. There is a huge global multi-
million rand industry built around selling the notion
of what is sexy and making people feel they have to look a certain way or have particular accessories
in order to be taken seriously by their peers. This
leads to a lot of unhappiness all over the world. So,
don’t worry if you haven’t got the money to buy all
the latest gear. Develop confidence in yourself and
be brave enough to do your own thing. What defines ‘sexy’ is not the same from continent
to continent and culture to culture. Women from the
Kayan tribe in Thailand start wearing brass rings
around their necks from the age of five, adding
more and more as they get older and elongating
their necks, because a super long neck is considered elegant and sexy! tretched ear lobes.
lips and body scarring are other practices denoting
beauty in different communities, while Mauritanian
women are seen as more sexy the more
overweight they are, to the point that young girls
are sent by their parents to camps where they may be forced to eat up to 15,000 calories a day, in an
effort to “fatten them up”. Research show that both
men and women form ideas of what they find
“sexy”, according to media and fashion
stereotypes about sexiness. They notice people
around them who fit these stereotypes because that is what they have been told or shown means
“sexy”. This also differs very much from person to
person. Keep in mind that the media you consume
(the magazines you read, for instance, or the TV
shows you watch) will influence what you think is
sexy and attractive. Crossing many different cultures and peoples, the
following qualities appear to be rated as elements
of “sexiness” by many: a look of “mischief”-
laughter/naughtiness in the eyes, sophisticated
mysteriousness – elegant but edgy, relaxed
vulnerability – a childlike carefree attitude, being at ease in their own skin, wit and humour, lavish
sensuousness, signs of good health, heartfelt
sincerity, vitality and human warmth/empathy. Sex
appeal is all about attitude, the aura you give off
and making the most of what you’ve got. It’s the
way you walk or move or smile that tends to draw people’s attention to you in the first place and then
your ability to get into a conversation, seem friendly
and interested but not too intense, is what they see
next. Being fairly relaxed about your body is
generally much sexier than being uptight about it.
Constant self -monitoring and self commentary on whether you are too fat, thin, clever, stupid, etc. is
very off-putting to partners. Most people, male and female, when asked what
they find sexy in a partner, tend to focus more on
personality than physicality. It’s true that we tend to
have favourite bits of bodies, particular physical
attributes that we go for, but it is often much more
important that someone is intelligent, funny or sympathetic than that they look a certain way. We
are aware anyway that looks change over time and
with fashion. Most of the time, the pictures you see on billboards
and on magazines are not how people actually
look, in real life. Magazines and advertisements use
photoshop and other image enhancing tools to
instantly make models look slimmer, have a smaller
nose, look taller, or have perfect cheekbones. So chances are, the model you’re comparing yourself
to looks very different in real life! Don’t be so distracted by everything that’s sold to
you as sexy. Work it out for yourself and make up
your own mind. It’s much more interesting that
way and you are likely to focus on things that last
better for you and help you make relationships that
give you more. Try not to judge yourself by media images or other people’s comments, it can really
knock your sexual confidence which can then lead
to further difficulties. If a partner you like and trust
tells you they find you sexy, believe it and enjoy it!
Don’t spend your time discounting what they say
(“You’re only saying that to be kind to me….”). Tell others you find them sexy when you do, life is too
short not to and most people love a compliment. Of
course you can make changes to things like your
weight or your look if you want to, but concentrate
for the main part on thinking “This is what I’ve got,
I might as well make the most of it”. Remember, apology is a seriously unsexy thing and avoid
apologising for yourself and how you look at all
times!

ogeoflyf: Hian!!!

Harbosede02: *grabs hez head n slaps it*

Harbosede02: Xixixixixixixixxixixixixi,*laughs in chinese*

Harbosede02: Op,u mean sey a gurl saw u and fainted??d gurl no well 4rm aus ni,na malaria catch am!no be ur beauty.

Psalmuelh2o: Pls I nid an advice,I fink somefin is wrong wit me,I don't feel comfortable around gals,am always afraid of them,its nt d@ am shy,am very outspoken,I prefer having them as a neutral friends than dating,I just don't know how to start telling a chick what happened in 1960 juz bcoz I wanna date her,also the uneasy feeling d@ comes if she says NO is one major turnoff for me...please am I ok or u fink sumfn is wrong..ur advice pls.

Dominionng: Guess u attended KoKonbilo Community School. Difficult for you to pick up a 'figure of speech'?

mayten30: sometimes the senseless talk makes sense if you sit ur ass down and pour water on ur hot brain you would know that you should first of all try to understand what she is saying before u jump into conclusion and open that ur dust-bin u call mouth to call her post "senseless"

Harbosede02: Cos u guys think sey if u mari fair babe or date fair babe dem go av money!!

pendusky: SORRY BRO HERE IS THE SUMMRY

Nigeria became the most successful team in FIFA U-17 World Cup
history with a 3-0 win over holders Mexico at the Mohammad Bin Zayed
Stadium in Abu Dhabi. The final was a rematch of the 6-1 win Nigeria
inflicted on the Mexicans in Group F play and sees the Golden Eaglets
lay hands on the junior world trophy for the fourth time in their history,
one better than South American giants Brazil. When the final whistle
went in the UAE capital, fans and players alike rejoiced, fingers pointed
to the sky, with what has become the traditional Nigerian celebration of:
“yes, yes yes!”

Mexico kept the ball for a full two minutes at the start of the game,
moving it around well and making the Nigerians chase. El Tri even
managed the first chance on goal after six minutes. Osvaldo Rodriguez
crossed from the left, but Alejandro Diaz couldn’t keep his close-range
effort the right side of the post. Two minutes on and Ivan Ochoa – who
scored twice in the semi-final win over Argentina – saw his off-balance
header pushed over the bar by Dele Alampasu.

The corner came to nothing for the Mexicans, but Nigeria benefitted
greatly by bursting out on a classic counter-attack. Kelechi Iheanacho
went flying up the pitch. With just one Mexican defender in position, the
No10 Golden Eaglet laid the ball in for Taiwo Awoniyi who then fed it on
to Musa Yahaha, who had a little help from Erick Aguirre. The Mexican
midfielder mistakenly hit the ball into his own net in an attempt to
recover.

With the score 1-0, Musa Muhammed was giving the Mexicans fits with
his rampaging runs up the right side. He pinned the opponents back at
every opportunity. As the first half pushed toward the interval, the
Africans upped their tempo in search of a second goal. Yahaya rattled
the crossbar with a stunning effort from 20 yards out after 38 minutes.
Pressure was mounting and the fans in the stands were on their feet
when Awoniyi’s bicycle-kick from the penalty spot forced Raul Gudino
into a magnificent reaction save in the dying moments of the half.
The second period began with a frenzy of attacks at both ends of the
pitch, but it was Nigeria who made theirs count, making it 2-0 in the
56th minute. Captain Muhammed unleashed a wicked swirling shot that
Mexican keeper Gudino simply couldn’t hang on to. He spilled a
rebound directly to the feet of the most dangerous man on the pitch,
and Iheanacho made no mistake dispatching his sixth goal of the
tournament.

With a quarter-hour to go, Mexico managed to carve out a rare second-
half chance, but Ochoa’s header from close-range slipped wide of the
post as the holders began to wilt under the ceaseless pressure of the
buzzing Nigerians. Muhammed added a third with ten minutes to go,
curling a sublime free-kick into the top corner.
Anyone in UAE who had the pleasure to see them will tell you that this
Nigerian team were the best on offer. Even a few of the Mexican fans
were mumbling “yes, yes, yes” when the final whistle went on Nigeria’s
glorious campaign here in UAE.