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Romance › Re: Married British Mum & Gambian Toyboy Enjoy Life In Gambia,says She Must Marry by enemyofprogress: 11:25pm On Dec 03, 2017
Why did Buhari approve visa for the woman to visit the stupid boy
Romance › Re: How I Found Out I Am Not The Father Of My Four Children by enemyofprogress(op): 11:18pm On Dec 03, 2017
Abbey2sam:
I can category tell you that this your story is a lie
It wasn't me that wroted it now
Celebrities › Re: Did Jaywon Steal Victor Uwaifo Song? Watch As He Addresses The Issue On Sisilizz by enemyofprogress: 10:01pm On Dec 03, 2017
Tizzytayo:
Yes he didn't stoled it, he stolededing it. Lol... Shift lemme faint
your English is bad
Celebrities › Re: Did Jaywon Steal Victor Uwaifo Song? Watch As He Addresses The Issue On Sisilizz by enemyofprogress: 9:53pm On Dec 03, 2017
He didn't stoled it
Culture › Re: Virgins Initiated Into Womanhood At Okrika Market Yesterday by enemyofprogress: 9:49pm On Dec 03, 2017
Time for seun and lala to settle down
Sports › Re: Uche Kalu Buys Range Rover For Wife, Ada Uche-Kalu As Christmas Gift (photos) by enemyofprogress: 9:47pm On Dec 03, 2017
nothernstar:
na bad belle dey worry you so oooo. Which one can you afford. Your type can't even buy the wheel cover let alone the car itself.
I Rock private jet
Sports › Re: Uche Kalu Buys Range Rover For Wife, Ada Uche-Kalu As Christmas Gift (photos) by enemyofprogress: 9:47pm On Dec 03, 2017
osazsky:
which one u don' buy for ur wife, keke ba
I boughted a private jet for her
Sports › Re: Uche Kalu Buys Range Rover For Wife, Ada Uche-Kalu As Christmas Gift (photos) by enemyofprogress: 9:29pm On Dec 03, 2017
Chukwuemekankem:
which one you Don buy? enemy of progress without label. I know your type can't afford wheelbarrow.
I rock private jet
NYSC › Re: Two Kogi Corpers Die (Photos) by enemyofprogress: 9:13pm On Dec 03, 2017
See English and the op calls himself a graduate
Sports › Re: Uche Kalu Buys Range Rover For Wife, Ada Uche-Kalu As Christmas Gift (photos) by enemyofprogress: 9:11pm On Dec 03, 2017
NoFavors:
congratulations
thank you but no come steal am o
Sports › Re: Uche Kalu Buys Range Rover For Wife, Ada Uche-Kalu As Christmas Gift (photos) by enemyofprogress: 9:10pm On Dec 03, 2017
olawamide042:
Wey your own.............enemyof progress
No matter how ugly you might be,if you are rich you must surely be handsome.....Like if true.. share if false.
I use private jet
Crime › Re: Woman Caught Repackaging Poor Quality Rice Into Stallion Rice Sacks (Photos) by enemyofprogress: 9:09pm On Dec 03, 2017
Dis ibo people no go kill us
Politics › Re: Governor Fayose Gives Children Christmas Gifts (Photos) by enemyofprogress: 9:04pm On Dec 03, 2017
Another avenue to steal money
Sports › Re: Uche Kalu Buys Range Rover For Wife, Ada Uche-Kalu As Christmas Gift (photos) by enemyofprogress: 9:02pm On Dec 03, 2017
NoFavors:
which one you don buy for yourself?
I have a private jet
Crime › Re: Man Kills Late Brother’s Widow He Inherited (photo) by enemyofprogress: 9:01pm On Dec 03, 2017
Stupid tradition, wicked man
Celebrities › Re: Thin Tall Tony Rocks Blond Hair by enemyofprogress: 8:50pm On Dec 03, 2017
What the fok is this?
Celebrities › Re: Shatta Wale Slaps His Bodyguard For Allowing Fans To Touch Him On Stage (Video) by enemyofprogress: 8:48pm On Dec 03, 2017
Na wa o, somebody's father, somebody's husband, somebody's son
Celebrities › Re: Davido Does The "Shaku Shaku" Dance (Video) by enemyofprogress: 8:44pm On Dec 03, 2017
Kai dis guy sabi dance the one corner dance o,see as him dey dance am
Sports › Re: Uche Kalu Buys Range Rover For Wife, Ada Uche-Kalu As Christmas Gift (photos) by enemyofprogress: 8:42pm On Dec 03, 2017
Na tokunbo car self, Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew
Politics › Re: Buhari Holds Meeting With King Of Jordon, King Abdullah II by enemyofprogress: 8:38pm On Dec 03, 2017
Azam101:
Mental slavery attitude.
85% of everything in your life you borrowed from Europe and America, so tell me who is the real slave here. You be mumu, stop following that man upon and down like a zombie
Romance › How I Found Out I Am Not The Father Of My Four Children by enemyofprogress(op): 8:35pm On Dec 03, 2017
He’s a 52 year old civil engineer. And his wife, a pharmacist, 50, both raised four children – 21, 19, 16 and 13.

The couple met in 1993, and married in 1995. And raised their four children to the best of their abilities with all the resources at their disposal… Until October 2017.
That’s when he discovered that all four are not his biological children! After DNA tests at HumGene Ltd in Lagos proved that he’s not in anyway related to the children that meant the world to him.
Here’s the distraught father’s narration of how his world collapsed…
This is my story:

On the 20th of September 2017, my 3rd child who happens to be a female was critically ill in the hospital and the doctor informed us that she needs an urgent blood transfusion.

My wife and I were in the hospital and we both decided to have our blood tested in other to know who has the same blood group with our daughter. But to our surprise when the result came out, we were informed that none of us has the same blood group with our daughter. We had to find a way out as soon as possible.

Fortunately for us, our first son came and he happened to be a match. I was innocent about the whole thing because I didn’t know the implication of a child not matching either of the parent’s blood group. After the whole thing was taken care of, the doctor called me in privately to ask if I was the real father of my own daughter. At first, I was furious but I calmed down and answered him by saying, “Of course, why would you be asking me such question?”

He went ahead to explain how a child can have either the mother’s or father’s blood group. I was confused and I asked him what he was trying to tell me. And he said it’s either I’m not the father of the child or my wife is not the mother because one of us is supposed to match. But since none is a match there is a problem. I didn’t take it seriously because it was sounding odd to me. When I informed my wife about it, her answer was, “Don’t mind that stupid doctor.”

After 3 days, our daughter was discharged from the hospital. My mind was no longer at rest because I didn’t know what to do. I went back to the doctor and asked for advice on what I should do. He told me that if I wanted to be sure of everything, I should have a paternity test done on my daughter. When he mentioned that to me, I almost collapsed because I know what that means. It was too much for me to handle. But I had to be a man and face whatever is about to happen. I asked him if I should do the same thing for the remaining 3. He told me that will be a good idea if I can afford it.

I decided to take the bold step even though it was not easy. I asked him if he has an idea of where I can carry out the test here in Lagos and the cost. He advised me of 2 places and their prices. Coincidentally, a friend of mine told me that he saw an advert on Facebook about a company known as HumGene Limited, that they offer the cheapest DNA Paternity test in Nigeria. I quickly called the number they put on the advert and I spoke with the CEO of the company just to confirm if it’s actually true. She was nice and helpful and booked an appointment for me to come in with my 4 children in order to take samples from us. I asked her how accurate the result can be, and she said 99.99% if am the father and 0% if am not the father.

When we all arrived at her office, she told me to come in alone. She asked me for my story and if I was ready for this because the result could be either way and especially 4 children involved, the eldest is 21 years old. At first, I was scared and she asked me if I wanted to take time to think about it before making the decision. I was surprised and asked her if she doesn’t want money. She smiled and answered me by saying: “ Sir, it’s not just all about the money, I think of my clients’ psychological well being first.”

I had to be a man and I told her I was ready. I asked her when the result will be ready and she said 5 working days because she is yet to start the analysis in Nigeria. So, for now, she sends the samples to her partner company in Canada.

The waiting period seemed like a hundred years to me. When the results came in, she called me to come in for them. I was scared but at the same time, I wanted to know the truth. When I got to her office, counselling began even before giving me the results, I just knew the worst has happened but I didn’t expect it to be all my children that I have laboured for all my life, giving them the best in life. But unfortunately for me when I opened the results all the 4 children were not mine. 3 sons and 1 daughter. I couldn’t hold it as a man, I broke down in tears.

At first, I taught I was dreaming and waiting to wake up from sleep. The trauma was too much for me.

When I got home, I called my wife to the bedroom immediately and gave her the results. She denied everything. I wanted to believe her to make myself happy. I went ahead to call the CEO of HumGene Limited to ask her if she was sure about the result. I spoke with her with an angry tone, but she was calm and told me she is very sure and referred me to other places I can try doing another test. She informed me that although the prices are higher.

I didn’t know what to do and I went to the doctor that advised me to go for the paternity test. When he saw the results, he told me this can’t be a mistake because DNA does not lie and that the 22 loci region is the highest in the Paternity test. I felt more convinced and went back home. I told my wife that if she does not tell me the truth I will go ahead to our church pastor and show them the result. After hearing me say that, she broke down into tears and confession started.

She had all my supposed to be children for the same man. That was why our son had same blood group with the sister. She has refused to tell me the man and the reason why she did what she did.

We are yet to tell the children and our family members. I’m in great shock and don’t know where to start from.

The CEO of HumGene Limited has been of great help taking her time to counsel me anytime I needed that. I need advise. Please, what should I do? Men out there you need to be vigilant.

http://encomium.ng/how-l-found-out-im-not-the-the-father-of-my-4-children-after-22-years-of-marriage/
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by enemyofprogress: 8:13pm On Dec 03, 2017
chidexxy007:
u no see ur moniker... gerrarahia Mehn..

Culture › Re: Oba Taofeek Fatusi Obawole Installs Young Man As Chief In Texas, USA by enemyofprogress: 5:16pm On Dec 03, 2017
Whose oba?oba my foot. Arant nonsense
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar Announces His Return To PDP by enemyofprogress: 5:03pm On Dec 03, 2017
He just nailed his own coffin. PDP won't give him their ticket quote me and thank me later
Business › Re: Abraham Otti Buys New G-class SUV Ahead Of Christmas (Photos) by enemyofprogress: 5:00pm On Dec 03, 2017
Drug money
Celebrities › Re: Seyi Law And Daughter, Tiwa Looking Good In New Photos by enemyofprogress: 4:59pm On Dec 03, 2017
Na wa o, now now now Banky W wife has burned a baby girl
Politics › Re: Saraki Conferred With Chieftaincy Title Of ‘Enyioma Ikeduru' In Imo (Photos) by enemyofprogress: 2:15pm On Dec 03, 2017
Dis biafran people just wan dey relevant for Nigeria by fire by force grin grin
Christianity Etc › Re: What Is Your Take On Harvest And Bazaar? by enemyofprogress: 1:49pm On Dec 03, 2017
Abeg we never finish that of tithe matter o
Romance › Re: I Found Her In Youth Service by enemyofprogress: 1:48pm On Dec 03, 2017
iamJ:
she is ugly, u said the truth, dont allow ugly people silence ur truth grin
moreover the babe will be very dull in bed
Romance › Re: I Found Her In Youth Service by enemyofprogress: 1:45pm On Dec 03, 2017
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew
Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze Reacts To Ashimolowo's Allegations: "I Didn't Beat My Ex-Wife" by enemyofprogress: 1:38pm On Dec 03, 2017
This tithe business go don dey reduce for church now o,people eye don dey open, even the economy no help matter. Daddy freeze don scatter this church business of some churches.

Lalasticlala go pay your tithes tongue tongue
Politics › Re: Buhari Holds Meeting With King Of Jordon, King Abdullah II by enemyofprogress: 1:25pm On Dec 03, 2017
blackaxe78:
shocked shocked shocked


You re dull!
like your president

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