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Preetiex:
for a year or a month,bikoo where are u staying

An ancient town in osun state. One can still get an old house 1k per room here. As a family guy, a modest rm/palour here is 2500. Agent fees & other charges are mostly inexistent. So if i earn 15k here, i'll save however little.

prejulsuc:
What of if you are not a salary earner and you have a small shop.For the time been, your hubby is not financial stable.You have two kids .This is what am experiencing.I really want to save to boost the shop, but I cannot. The money am suppose to put back into the business is been used to run the home.How I wish I can get a small job along with it to be able to save at the end of every month.Baba God this is a new year answer me and blessed my hubby unmerited favour so I will labour less and be able to save for future purpose.

He'll surely pick your calls soon. God bless your hustle & reward your faithfulness. May your labor over your home not go unrewarded.

Preetiex:
for inside 15,000 salary, u go enter motor,chop food,buy recharge card & other little tins,how u wan safe for dis buhari change hardship

Nah my villa u dey ni? Because that's one of d highest they can pay a graduate here. Nah big money here though. It's equivalent to 50k in Lagos. DT 15k can get a decent one-room apartment here. Lol

Happy new year to u all. Looking forward to a wonderful time in d misdt of financial gurus on this thread

Any well-meaning President must be ready to bury more in DT Aso rock. All d cabals & d old politicians who are old & retired of good ideas but not tired of looting d country dry; must suffer d same fate.

Rule of Law is undermining our recovery. See our Judicial system, a shadow of what a good system shld be.

Any Well-meaning President or Head of state must start out as a dictator with all sincerity for this country to improve.

@Kense88,

Chance ke. All I got after sufferin & immeasurable sacrifice is "you are not my taste...". Lol

I don suffer on top lady matter, I swear.

Only a well-meaning dictator, like military authoritarian can sanitize this country. It's beyond democracy & rule of law. To fix this land, u must trample on lots of toes, even int'l toes like countries & other int'l organization.


Can a Democratic president just wake up & say all political offices salaries be slashed by 80% Rule of law, due process & human rights are our problems.


If I av my way there, first thing is to become a dictator.

pocohantas:
Some will chase, some will be chased.

Not too many guys are in that category where they are chased by women, with money, body, influence...anything.
The rest are not so lucky, they do the chasing with the aforementioned. Such is life...

U summarized it wella, dear. Even there are still comfortable & good looking guys DT will still do d chasing if he's not naturally a lady guy. Also, they are broke & less attractive guys DT will almost run outta d country away from ladies flocking around him.


Myself as I'm, I no get choice, I must do d chasing. Over chase sef due to many reasons such as look, pocket size, non sofisticated, choosy, etc

So with all these & more, tell me how I won't over chase b4 a lady gv me a chance?

My first FP since about five years of being on Nairaland...the beginning of better things this new year. Looking forward to my first FTC this year & many other high end, productive & rewarding achievements ahead

This one very easy. I used DT of short bamboo trunk. One didn't need to strike it against a hard surface & its sounded deeper than this one. It made use of Motorcycle spoke as well.

I don over old sef. I'm looking for a mature & god fearing wife o.

Killing oneself to show love won't make uninterested lady stay...and beat her cum spend all her money finish, if she loves u, she won't leave u.

My over caring heart & d fact DT I aren't so attractive and comely make me single now.

tiffanyfan:
U na no dey forget something

Your profile is a good reminder. #femaleprofileclickaddict

I didn't and never. #oldvirgin

Mine are a lil bit weird.

1) I never shave my public hair

2) I often go 60hrs without taking bath( Interestingly, I don't av body odour. Lol)

3) I once invited a lady over. Initiate intimacy, unclothed her myself, made her wet. On my way in, I changed my mind not interested again. Our friendship never remain d same since in fact, no friendship again sef.


God Forgive me

Also, I'm planning to link a girl's nude online. She's been playing me since; spend on her & cheat on me without remorse. Yet 3yrs together, I never see her panties.

God forgive me in addy

Dimples129:
I look and feel more attractive at 34 than I did at 24 so... to each their own. I look forward to my 40's

40 is the new 20 in my world

See my age mate. Lol

Your DP tells it all. Keep it up dear.

remedick:
You are wise and you seem to have an idea of whom I am dealing with.

She not a gutter girl but one that is strong willed with principles. Most of these guys commenting have not really moved past their environment. Some even think I am broke and that is why she is treating the issue like this lol.

Such actions is only possible with girls that are from homes where food is nonexistent, love is on indefinite strike, not one where you have well brought of child.

When you meet a girl with standards and principles, nobody will tell you to be careful around her if you really want her. I am not even the kind of guy that is moved by sex. I don't lose my senses over it like some guys do, if though I know how to handle it very well. Beauty might attract me and sex my have hang on a bit but if your mental reasoning and character are no in sync with a level I expect, I can't deal!

Some girls don't move no matter what you do. I learned this the hard when I was still in the bracket of some of the guys that have commented on this thread.

These kind of girls are not easily moved, they have standards and they KNOW what they want. I have met a girl that would rather end a relationship than give in to sexual demands. Yes, they still exist. Some of these guys think it is all girls that you can push around.

Personally, I don't really like girls who are easily moved by words or can't make decisions on their own. You stand a great risk with such girls. But when you see one that has principles that she abides by and is unshakable, you have to give them that respect.

I have also met girls who stuck with their boyfriend no matter the pressure from intruders. There are still girls who will even stay with you even though they are not benefiting anything from you or the relationship but how some most of the guys on here think you can fork any girl or buy her with money (i laugh at the lines that says go make money). If girl no want you, if you like come as dangote, you will be shock when gate man is respected over you. It happens and you haven't really moved out if you think otherwise.

I understood u quite well. However, there's an iota of truth in his suggestion. Intimacy helps build emotions. From now lace d time u guys will spend together with intimacy- driven moves.


If u can't be patient any longer, initiating sex to her is the best bet to make her go or stay for good.


This your "gentlemaness" makes me still an unenviable virgin in my 30s.


If u are not a strict religious celibate, do not look their face. Throw sex topic, if she want stay, she'll. If she doesn't let her go. Many ladies won't even take u proposal & dating serious if you are not flirty sef.

remedick:
that thing doesn't work. I have tried it before. Truth is if a girl will accept you, she would hardly stress you. I have been on this for 4 months.

Did it for good 3 years. Sacrifice my all for this bae. We even took things further to not only hug, holding hands & shoulder but we often laid together on bed half clad, squeeze boobs, massage her, eat & spoon fed ourselves, calling her all sweet names, as my gf; she often jokingly addressed me as her bf sef, and so on. Yet, all thru this period, she never agreed officially to date me but neither of us in other serious rlshps. Shortly after our graduation DT we were separating in distance, I reminded her my dating proposal, she simply told me I was her taste, DT myself showing love, even killing myself for her wasnt enough, that her taste is d chief determinant factor



Say no to time wasters!!!!!RUN FOR YOUR LIFE, or keep her as a very unlikely option while u search elsewhere.

Op, jump into other intimate rlshp soonest. When u meet some1 better than her, u won't remember her again. Meanwhile, your experience is similar to mine. I can't even describe her my ex. We were together everytime(except in d night) for 3yrs. Being very close like my fiancee made others keep distance frm me & never bothered, thinking she's all mine committedly. We practically shared evrytn; being alone in d room, lying on bed, wrapped her in my arms. I did d cooking of our joint meals, helped her in her study...... Shortly after our graduation, she told me i wasn't her taste. So painful given my sacrifice over her with nothing frm her in return

Her body...her money.

I do not pity her one bit. A lady for whow i almost killed myself for over 3yrs told me even if i kill myself showing her love, so far i'm not her taste, she can never date me. We were so close dt we laid down on same bed often, did sit on my laps, even when she had only bra & short on, eat together, put her thru in studies etc. Many times, i cooked & took food to her hostel for her. Even a blind would never believe, if told we r mere coursemates. In short, d greatest things most ladies consider in guys 4 rlshp is taste even ahead of money. My BUSAYO is not even greedy. She hardly demand or take anytn from guys. So are many other ladies dt if u arent their taste, offer them all your monetary worth, she won't burge. Conversely, beat her brutally, cart away all her money, if d guy is her taste, she'd love him more still. #typed with small java phone.

Apology to all concerned. I observe our A-list MOG love flocking around politician nests. One sees them mostly in religious cum social events DT would be well attended by top politicians.

How many of them av they saved their souls so far

When will d like of Papa Adeboye , Papa Oyedepo, et all, visit Agberos in their various joints and motor parks? I'll be so happy if Our MOG can visit people like NURTW bosses, & acclaimed notorious cult gang leaders.


Are these set of people not lost souls to be discovered, especially d poor agberos??

Christianity is humility, service & sacrifice. Nothing else.


Just thinking along. My opinion though

Advice taken in good faith. Thanks to u all.

MatricNumber:
Op are you attracted to girls?

Yea. I'm attracted to ladies. I didn't get to know about sex fun while I was growing up. Now, I do wonder how I passed my teen years & my twenties getting so far away from Opposite sex.

I must confess, I was above 30s b4 my very first physical & intimate contact with a lady. It didn't just occur to me as something so necessary. All those years, I was so engrossed chasing after money due to my very humble background.


I appreciate all d bashers & insults too. It's part of one's life. I will never encourage DT lifestyle in my younger ones too, except d guys will marry b4 he turns 25.

A few days ago, I saw a thread about possible consequences of delayed virginity in ladies. This is not in any way to counter d previous thread but an extension to the thread.

I'm a guy of about 33 years old, a virgin. Few years ago I noticed my chest was popping out in form of a lemon-sized boobs. I'm a tall, very slim, lanky & with a bony face. I did a strenuous jobs while I was growing up that ordinarily I should be broad-chested had it be I'm naturally fleshy & muscular.

So my worry is medically, is my delayed virginity responsible for my growing boobs?? Are there other possible consequences of delayed virginity in guys?


Medical experts in d house, I really need help. I must confess d previous thread has sent fear down my spine.

My apology for posting & reposting d same comment thereby wasting space. I'm chatting from a remote town suffering from poor network reception. Bear with me sirs/mas. U all are doing a great job in here. In fact, this thread made me bite myself for lurking around not-so-profitable threads on platform. Of course, i av been on Nairaland as a guest & member since 2010 & 2013 respectvly; but my first click on buz and investment sections was only 2 weeks ago. I shld av known about TB much earlier; maybe 2012.

I was debited last wednesday @FBN @ 15.5% over 127day tenor. The guy directed me to come for d certifate d following day but i won't be chanced till next year as i'm out of Lag @ d moment. I hope my rate & investment won't be affected by all these uncertainties

I was debited last wednesday @FBN @ 15.5% over 127day tenor. The guy directed me to come for d certifate d following day but i won't be chanced till next year as i'm out of Lag @ d moment. I hope my rate & investment won't be affected by all these uncertainties?

If u reside in the same state WHR u serve & u will still continue d relationship strongly after service, then u may, with fear of God & morality, go ahead. But d distance from your state of residence and current state is like Lagos to either Edo , Akwa Ibom, Kogi, Niger, or Kaduna State, Pls & Pls leave d girl alone.

That Kind of rlshp can only thrive on close face to face contact. It'll never work out if u both are far apart, even if you av a good intention for her & her future. #mytake

With Prince Secondus, as Chairman, the party has completely turned to a regional party. They already lost most northern parts. Both SS & SE can't even outnumber SW during elections.


I felt they shld av allowed SW to produce d chairman in order to win them to their fold. Fayose's factor can't decide or determine anything in 2019.

How many are d entire Ekiti people in SW Population

I gat 127 days @ 15.5% on 950k investment. I opted for my interest to be paid upfront. I av dt exact amount on d acc to be debited for d investment and av been debited already but still expecting my interest. I hope d interest won't tarry for long?