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Ningen:
Do not bail on her for this.

Her “mood swings” aren't even exaggerated. It's very mild and subtle. With good communication and effort from both parties, it can be managed.

Guy, I can tell she's also sexually frustrated.
Vitamin D is important for her mental health.

Once you've seal it off, dominate that “swing”.

mbahdi:
U mean returned to your pocket.cause I avnt seen any.am among those affected. Ndi osi

Petyprincess:
The truth is your wife doesn't love you no more or never loved you!! Moreover why did you forced her into marriage with you? That's where the problem started.Nw the best way is to go your separate ways since the marriage is even early nd she's already gotten fed up with you,nw that you have no kids you still can still divorce nd let her continue her single life since that's what she always wanted!! If you dnt divorce she will keep on blaming you for forcing her into marriage when she wasn't ready.Its better divorcing that getting stalked in marriage that love isnt mutual!!

GoTV:
As a born again Christian who is meant to speak the truth at all times, i think this is wrong in all ramifications. Ondo has many natural resources that can be harnessed other than growing and selling weed. These are things you won't find up north and other Muslim nations yet Saudi Arabia is one of the richest countries on earth. We are not yet growing weed but our image outside the country has been battered by incessant cases of drug trafficking by our brothers from the east. I hope the Federal government kick against this abominable thought so as to preserve the dignity of we Christians

ibkayee:
It’s important not to lose your identity when you’re in a relationship so I won’t say change yourself for him, however a little compromising won’t hurt, this is part of what relationships are about. Sit him down and talk about your concerns, suggest meeting each other half way i.e. rather than a makeup artist, find a look that is neither overboard, nor too plain, same for your outfits. Tell him you don’t want to go to every single event, but don’t stay at home every single time, go every now and then.

Only serious thing you’ve mentioned is the fact that he brings people into your private business tbh, tell him it’s violating your trust and it isn’t healthy for your relationship. Only time any of you should be talking to others about your marital issues is if you’re in genuine danger.

If you don’t think you can compromise however and it makes you that uncomfortable maybe call it quits, some people just aren’t compatible

NwaAmaikpe:

It is this woman that pushed him to kidnapping..

My wise grandfather told us that it is very expensive to maintain a gapped-tooth woman.

Mekwen:
And the rich continues to get richer.Is there an ordinary man's name on the list? I mean a nobody.

mynd1:
Really? Chai see marginalisation o.

AccaPack:
The best thing for u is to end your relationship with your bf.
Reasons:
If u choose not to tell him, he will find out someday if he "truly" loves you. You can't lie to a faithful partner and get away with it. That's nature.
If you choose to tell him now, two things will happen;
1. He will never accept you back if he truly loves u because u betrayed his trust. All he would think is that, u guys had little misunderstanding, and u had sex with another guy, that means u will do more when married.
2.He might pretend not to feel hurt and turn u to sex partner, then discard u when he gets tired of u using the reason above as an excuse.

Bugatie:
It's never shattered and hope is not lost, she can remarry and still become first lady.

She can marry Wada sha since she's used to marrying her father's mate