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steve49ja:
God Saves People Outta Trouble

Your sentences are always perfect

og2711:
I have noted with saddening disgust how the romance section has become where certain people come, post the most unrealistic and frankly intelligence insulting stories ever. Seun, Can we please make a thread for them?

A few good examples are:

My boyfriend slept with my twin sister
My girlfriend caught me with her mom in bed
My girlfriend's friend slept in my house
I slept with my sister's husband(this one was just silly- "he was sucking my breast and it was so sweet." Puuhhllleaase!!!!
and so on and so forth.

a lot of nairalanders like all natural nigerian tatafoes, are always falling over themselves to either offer 'advice' or understand what the posters are talking about. Never noticing most have been posting for just a few weeks sometimes. Apparently, these are the most interesting stories to comment on, not those that you can either apply to your life,


I mean, this used to be my favorite section before but now I can't even bear to go through more than two posts before logging out. As to even replying, God forbid,

RichyBlacK:
Some of our Naija babes are very stupid indeed, sorry to say.

The poster is asking what is wrong in doing the laundry for his sweetheart while doing his own. Of course the babe's laundry includes her panties (in this scenario) and he launders the whole shebang!

And some of these insolent "Naija men are so insensitive bimbos" are abusing him and making fun of him. What is pragmatically wrong in doing your girlfriend's or wife's laundry? Why is it that some of our Naija babes interpret acts of kindness, humility and gentility to mean weakness or muguness? These are the same idiots that will later end up with a man that will be punching them in the face at the slightest provocation.

Yeah, the defense for these crazy Naija girls would be:

"Pooh hoo, who told you we want a weakling as man? Doing laundry for a woman is not manly. We don't want a crazy wife beater, neither do we want a weakling, blah, blah, blah!".

Nonsense! The recurring dilemma in every relationship hinges on finding some balance. That balance is the best to perfection any of us will get out of any relationship. However, the reality is that it is very difficult to achieve that balance on all parameters of interest. Given that reality, isn't it better for your partner to "err" on the positive side (kind, gentle, does laundry,loving tender, etc.) instead of the negative side (quick-tempered, prone to punching your powdered face at will, does nothing at home to help you, etc.)?

It is this disgraceful attitude of some of our women that has resulted in the "hardening" of many Naija guys - suppressing any indication of tenderness, being brash, unwilling to compromise on issues, eager to slap the woman if he so desires, quick to humiliate her in public, etc.

All these foolish Naija babes that do not know how to spot a clean decent man who respects and adores the women in his life must not come crying to us (Nairalanders) when the "gangster" they end up with break bottle for dem head!