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RomanceRe: How Can I Help Her? by ePoster:
Fratello:
Thanks jare. Mr Don Start. I appreciate your ogbonge sense.
Ignore the slowpoke. I hate using harsh words but most often they deserve it.
His kind doesnt understand the meaning of 'platonic relationship'. And every thing regarding a man and a woman borders around mgtow.
He couldnt even offer an advice ralating to the topic at hand..

Cc. Fratello
Explaing more about her reserved peronality.
RomanceRe: How Can I Help Her? by ePoster: 3:25pm On Jan 26, 2020
donstan18:
Sense you no been get, you never get and you no ever get.

Did your family raise you up to develop and help any non-virgin lady you see?

Don't you have common sense?
Are you developed, yourself?
Don't you have sisters who'll be needing your acclaimed helps and developing skills?

Next thing after una don mumu for girl finish na to create thread with topics like..


- OH! She left me after I developed her
- Mad oooo! I'm heartbroken as my girlfriend dumped me

Make una dey get sense!!
emotional devolopment as a friend. Your twisted sense of reasoning. Must you fvck every lady you help? Your bitterness is oozing.
Typical nigerian who would see another suffer because he has nothing to gain.
Pathetic.
RomanceRe: Why Cheating Is Different Between A Man And A Woman. by ePoster: 2:54pm On Jan 26, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
Like I said, I have answered that already.
just wanted to confirm. Like i stated, thats the entitlement mentality our women have. The one you all encourage.
Be with a man for the financial benefit.
Well you have the right to accept gender roles with men as the sole protectors and financial providers. Dont complain though about the priviledges women get. Dont complain about their materialism either. Since you are against feminism which believes that women should be able to provide for their extravagant lifestyles, and since you have taken it upon yourself to do that, then do it.
Also when ever you see a thread where a man complains that he was abadoned by his gf or wife because he lost his source of income, comment and explain to him how he deserved his condition because he (in your term) cheated.
RomanceRe: Why Cheating Is Different Between A Man And A Woman. by ePoster: 1:39pm On Jan 26, 2020
Kennedyiheme:
i suggest you leave her alone.. feminists are unrepentant arrogant pricks... its a waste of time indulging them..
You create a controversial thread.
You insult those who state their opinion or who do not agree with you by tagging them as unrepentant, arrogant pricks
You took a passive discussion as a war and you are advising another who is simply trying to let us see things from his point of view to not waste time indulging us.

Obviously you dont want an interactive thread. Or you just want us to massage your ego.
Typical african man.
RomanceRe: Why Cheating Is Different Between A Man And A Woman. by ePoster: 1:30pm On Jan 26, 2020
Risenpheonix
Thats your definition of cheating. Nearly every woman, from the poorest wallowing in acute poverty to odedola's daughter, dj cuppy would react in an unpleasant way to their man cheating and to his side chick. To them infidelity doesnt matter? You know little about women then.
But lets use your statement
The man protects and supports the family financially and he can only cheat when he fails to do the above.
The woman cheats when she has sex with another man.

Now my question....
If a man doesnt have a degree. Or recently lost his job, and his wife who is working takes over the finance, does she have the 'priviledge' to cheat? Or leave him? Because has you put it a man can only cheat when who doesnt take care of his woman financially. So if i cant do that, then...?
Isnt this the 'entitlement mentality' you all complain about?
RomanceRe: Why Cheating Is Different Between A Man And A Woman. by ePoster: 1:19pm On Jan 26, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
That is a distortion of gender roles started off ironically, by feminists. It was feminists who insisted on women entering the workplace and sharing the finances. I do not personally subscribe to feminist blurring of gender roles, hence these should not be used to debate my stand.

Instead of a woman helping out her husband financially, she should learn to be content with what he can comfortably provide. The main reason why double incomes families have become the norm is because the woman usually wants more than her husband can provide within his income, while the husband is often too weak to oppose that unsustainable lifestyle.
Gender roles dont suit everyone.
Again, you havent answered her.
Both the man and woman support the familiy. Do they have the freedom to cheat on eachother?
Since that is the case now. Forget the past where your grandmother wasnt allowed to go to school unlike her brothers. Reply based on what is NOW happening.
RomanceRe: Why Cheating Is Different Between A Man And A Woman. by ePoster: 1:08pm On Jan 26, 2020
Kennedyiheme:
you probably missed the point.. the point is men dont get emotional attachment from sex.. it is more disastrous when a woman cheats because of sex than when a man does.. yall find it hard comprehending things on here
A man wouldnt get emotionally attached to a woman he had a one night stand with
A woman wouldnt get emotionally attached to a man she had a one night stand with
A man would get attached to a woman he is having an extramarital affair with
A woman would get attached to a man she is having an extramarital affair with.
Be specific
RomanceRe: Why Cheating Is Different Between A Man And A Woman. by ePoster: 1:04pm On Jan 26, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
They are not all irredeemable. At least, she should understand that one party cheating does not justify the other retaliating; which was the general focus of the question she asked me earlier.
Your earlier statement
...cheating for a man is when he refuses to fully protect and support his woman financially...
...cheating for a woman is when she shares her body with others...
Which agrees with the ops post that cheating is defined differently.
Your comment now contradicts your initial statement.
A man cheats also by having an extramarital affair. Not just the woman
But i support that the best approach to a cheating partner isnt retaliation. It cheapens the person rather.

AGAIN THOUGH, THAT WASNT HER QUESTION. IF A WOMAN SUPPORTS THE FAMILY FINANCIALLY, EVEN IF THE MAN IS FAITHFUL, DOES SHE HAVE THE RIGHT/FREEDOM TO CHEAT?
RomanceRe: Why Cheating Is Different Between A Man And A Woman. by ePoster: 12:54pm On Jan 26, 2020
Mstick:
My dear it’s funny how this “men” think they can keep eating their cakes and having it because they have a different sex organ.


After I spent over eight years in school then someone will come and tell me how I should act and feel because they’re “men”.
its ironic that these set of individuals believe that they are in the position to tell another what they need or want. Thats a personal choice.
A lady can have an extra marital affair with a male she doesn't love and a man can cheat with a woman he adores more than his own wife and children.
I blame ignorance and their closed mentality. Its either black or white.
If a woman is financially supporting the family (perhaps the man lost his job) is she exempted?
Everyone has a different definition of cheating. Most agree that one cannot have sex with another without them forming emotional attachments.
And also, everyone has a degree to which they tolerate a cheating partner. Male or female
RomanceRe: Why Cheating Is Different Between A Man And A Woman. by ePoster: 12:33pm On Jan 26, 2020
Mstick:
So is it permissible for a woman to have an extra marital affair not cheating oh! If she’s the one taking care of the man financially?
Dont expect him to answer your question with a straightfoward reply free of bias.
Dont expect any of them.
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 3:20pm On Jan 25, 2020
ericsmith:
its time i point out that you are not so different from those 8 out of 10 mgtows afterall, you must b wondering how;
you easily made a generalization to save ursef frm "stress" abi without considering how the remaining two mgtow might feel.
Those mgtow guys also made easy generalization that d seizure must be a ploy gurls play without considering few gurls that are not faking .. guess what those guys also av an excuse nobody wants to be fooled again.
Now what is the difference between you & them, they av an excuse like you for been inconsiderate of the minority. its beta we drop these matter b4 you discredit the other thing i think u're tryin to correct.
The mgtows made an awful generalization that could have cost a life had they been in the same situation.
i generalized by calling out the mgtows who typed trash. Did i diss the ones who commented justly? I merely focused my attention on the wrong doers.
What dirty secret? grin
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 1:13pm On Jan 25, 2020
[quote author=ericsmith post=86095874][/quote]that was simply one of the numerous comments like it.
Eight out of ten of the nairaland mgtows post were similar. Should i have taken a pen to write down all the monikers who commented in a thread that made fp?
Please! We generalize to save ourselves the stress
wink
RomanceRe: Thanks by ePoster: 11:43am On Jan 25, 2020
Experiece is the best teacher. You'll learn.
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 11:26am On Jan 25, 2020
Cc: Ericsmith.
..op faking seizures, fainting, crying, breathlessness are all classical ploys by girls to turn the tables on you..
Thats a comment from an mgtow. How does one misinterpret that statement?
I lost my younger brother last year. His wife absconded immediately after leaving behind two children for me to take care of alone. I've suffered in the hands of women so i dont need you or any other twisted male to give me that 'asslicking' bullshit... Next time, comment with reason. Leave the throwing of shades to the women. The point of this is to tell the mgtows that its no matter your bad experiences dont take the risk of 'perhaps she could be faking it'. No amount of pride is worth it. Did i concern myself with whether the op should apologise or not? Did i bother with the aftermath of his relationship? I instead wrote, if you read, of how callous it is to tell another that he has been 'played' because from all indication the girl was 'faking it'. Again have an open mind when analysing others situation
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 9:38am On Jan 25, 2020
[quote author=ericsmith post=86090129]Stop bloating yoursef, what you spew might be ur own truth, buh its an absolute trash cos no man here share ur ideology asides the ladies, these particular thread is a confirmation. : ideologies?
That you choose to asslick women doesnt mean you love women more than some of us, : a thread calling out the mgtows who ignored a womans medical condition to suit their pre sided conclusion is asslicking?
experience is a teacher n no matter how liberal we chose to live, if will don't learn from d past then going round in cycles is almost inevitable. i av read most version of vbunja redpill articles n their is nowhere he asked men to be insensitive to a woman health issue. The message is men be sensible no one ordered anyone to be insensitive. google there meaning.
: did i call out ubunja? Read my reply to omar09.

TBH, ur post ain't worth it but we can't just let ur trash liter d land ...thats why we are always here to trash it: your buiz
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 7:55am On Jan 25, 2020
Omar09:
Ones experience shapes one. Ones past has a vital role in one's present and future. Only fools ignore the past thinking the past is the past.
The past is never the past. It shapes the future.
finally someone with enough sense to address the topic.
Our experiences make us different individuals. This teaches us lessons that would guide us in life. They shape our future.
If you read my post, i wrote:
When dealing with others, we must learn that painful virtue that is liberalism. Having an open view of things doesnt make an alpha less of the man he is.
The op outlined every details of his gf's condition. From the frequency to medication to her low self esteem and all that. Yet some mgtows could bear to accept the thought that a lady could be right and that the male brought about the problems.
Must the opposite gender always take the fall? Even if it could cost a life, these men would ignore anothers medical condition to suit their pre-sided conclusion.
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 7:47am On Jan 25, 2020
Samuelite:
it seems you are pained by their ideology.
It's their ideology to ignore someones medical condition because of ego?
Your gf pretended to be sick to throw you off guard cause she was cheating. Rather than analyse this situation, you just comment that the ops gf is faking it and that he has be played.
I didnt know that nairaland mgtow encouraged manslaughter.
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 7:41am On Jan 25, 2020
ericsmith:
Oga stop talkin like a pvssy, you open threads upon threads to attack the redpill movement, you get a reponse then you brag "they are in haste to open ur thread". what did you expect,
if i open a thread to attack muslims, do i nid a phd to know muslims wil definitely flood d thread. My challenge to you is write on other topics n lets see if these same guys will comment.
If i created threads passing false information, none of them would be here. They would simply ignore my threads has they have done others. But the truth stings. wink
If attack muslims with baseless theories continously, they would with time learn to leave me and my threads in peace.
But if the topic is criticizing their doctrines which are questionable as in this case, 'alphas claiming a ladies seizure is fake', then they would flood my thread throwing childish tantrums
None of mgtows have offered anything worth the read. If you wont either, then why are you here?
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 12:36am On Jan 25, 2020
Michellekabod2:
Seriously? Can you send me links to the thread? Didn't see it
https://www.nairaland.com/5648919/feel-really-dejected-just-lost/1
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 12:28am On Jan 25, 2020
Kingsteve:
So person no fit come romance section again in peace, without seeing different threads on redpill?










Redpill ndi mmuo!
a little piece of advice? Live with it by either ignoring or throwing shades as the mgtow here do.
The latter wouldnt help to fix anything and it would most likely make you 'lose it' than not.
Im not attached to my moniker as others are so the insults simply slide off as water does on glass.
I find it comical the the alphas feel they are getting to me when its the other way round.
Imagine the haste they took to open, read and comment on my thread. Thought none offered anything worth the read.
kiss
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 12:16am On Jan 25, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
That's horrible. The audacity of male depravity.

Apalling!!
no compassion, common reasoning or liberalism from our nairaland mgtows. They were rather busy hailing eachothers 'wisdom'.
If the op had asked the same question on MGTOW.com, the replies would have been different.
We here in Africa delibrately tie eachother down with our callousness.
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 12:11am On Jan 25, 2020
Michellekabod2:
I will never disprove or endorse a movement as the right /wrong way.
When we are young we play with ideologies, start/follow movements to give our lives a sense of purpose and direction. Its not bad until chauvinism sets it. Chauvinism destroys us,and bury our true selves,we become slaves to beliefs rather than beliefs becoming our slaves. Chauvinism will take away all our interests,passions et al and we are left bland.
The world is broad and complex we can't know everything,true wisdom is knowing the extent of our ignorance.


Let us let ourselves be vulnerable and live our lives like new born babies falling and rising and falling and rising again .
if by falling you mean to encourage another to believe that his gf with is faking her seizures because of some negative experiences i have had...
I smoke and drink alot. Thats the choices i've made in my crazy life. But i wont delibrately endanger another nor advise someone to do the same.
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 11:43pm On Jan 24, 2020
AfroKnight:
grin You know him well. He is always saying so much, but essentially nothing sensible.
He still dodges.
I wont bite. If you have anything 'sensible' the counter my claims with your 'logic'.
Its simple. No need to sneak around in 'my thread' whispering things that are irrelevant.
Make a contribution. I can imagine the speed you took to open this thread immediately you saw 'eposter'. It seems im living rent free in the heads of several folks.
Again, i dont bite. wink
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 11:38pm On Jan 24, 2020
khingTony:
why are you always busy all day thinking about what to say/write to hurt the people who have decided to live their various lives the way they want? don't you have any productive thing to do?

it's amazing you talk too much but manage to make extremely little or no sense at all
You have been acknoledged. smiley
Next time when a lady you're dating has a seizure, ignore her, laugh and scream at the top of your voice or whisper in her ears that she's faking it.
Since she be a woman, she be nothing more than a manipulative hoe. Then waik out feeling fly.

The corpse you would meet back would be the albatross around your fragile neck. wink
But know that you have been acknowledged
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op):
When i first read his thread, i was temped to comment that she was faking her seizures to cover up her misdeeds. Unlike the alphas i decided to wait before typing anything that i would later regret. After reading for a while, i began to see things from the ops p o v. For the frequency of her seizures to the trigger and medication, the op highlighted every detail that i started to feel sympathy for the lady.
A message to the Nairaland Mgtow Association.
Dont let your personal experiences so cloud your judgement that you would be left incapable of reasoning.
Dont be so blind that you would ignore anothers pitiful medical condition only to tag her unfaithful because of what you passed through
In life, while dealing with others pre-taking sides wont always be the best option. Whether all women be hoes to you, dont delibrately ignore the fact that in this situation the lady was blameless.
The mgtow believes in self preservation but not breeding folks who blame a paticular group of individuals for their mistakes.
RomanceRe: Nothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 11:11pm On Jan 24, 2020
Its a thing of pride to be liberal. To not let your past cloud your judgement when advising others or analyzing their situation.
Using the 'mgtow manual' as a guide to always or allowing its doctrines influence every of your decisions or programme your brain till you see every thing good as filthy is plain ridiculous and pathatic.
What differentiates us, even more than our physological variation, are our experiences. What you went through in life wouldnt be the same as mine.
But in a scenario where someone else ask for an advice, i would employ simple logic and use his/her situation rather than mine.
RomanceNothing Comes Free_the Redpill Is Traded With Common Reasoning by ePoster(op): 11:10pm On Jan 24, 2020
Just when eposter decided to take a break from calling out the nairaland mgtows for their ignorance...
Some minutes ago, while scrolling through this section as a guest, i stumbled upon a thread about a moniker who claimed to have lost a 'honest girl'
A popular saying is 'nothing comes free', its obvious here. The redpill is a drug whose origin in the mgtow is from the movie matrix. This pill is taken to see things the way the truely are. To leave fantasy to live in reality.
This isn't an over the counter medication. It cannot be bought nor sold but acquired with knowledge. But here on nairaland, that isn't the case. The redpill rather is traded with common sense.
Another hasty conclusion?
I have stated before that the mgtows have taken it upon themselves to be relationship experts afterall they possess the 'wisdom' that everyone else lacks.
A man who believes others are foolish is actually the only fool.
Everyone learns to learn. Ego prevents the alphas here from doing so...
RomanceRe: The Paedophile Association. A Subgroup 99.9% Of Romanceland Men Belong To. by ePoster(op): 5:06pm On Jan 22, 2020
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BadRadio:
shut up
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RomanceRe: The Paedophile Association. A Subgroup 99.9% Of Romanceland Men Belong To. by ePoster(op): 5:05pm On Jan 22, 2020
Michellekabod2:
why should I insult riele?the only female I consistently engage in banters on this forum is funmisticqueen2. I am here because I want you to leave redpillers and feminists alone.
You misunderstood me. I was angry with you because this thread has nothing to do with either mgtow or feminism.
RomanceRe: The Paedophile Association. A Subgroup 99.9% Of Romanceland Men Belong To. by ePoster(op): 3:58pm On Jan 22, 2020
Omar09:
Great move. Next is also ignoring things that doesn't concern you. Baby step I'd say.
Riele is dear to me. You wouldnt understand how.
This has nothing to do with either mgtow or feminism. That is why i was angry with michelle.
You didnt abuse riele, so why are you here?
Take your advice first.
RomanceRe: The Paedophile Association. A Subgroup 99.9% Of Romanceland Men Belong To. by ePoster(op): 3:52pm On Jan 22, 2020
Omar09:
Read the last paragraph again.
she shouldnt. But like i stated, everyone is born with a decent degree of self control and tact. What you should expect from a jambite, you shouldnt from grown men.
I have commented once in riele's thread where i told her to deactivate because of the negative influences her. She refused.
Since then i have left her. These men should have ignore the minor. Without the attention, she would have tire since. Not slut shame.

Good day
RomanceRe: The Paedophile Association. A Subgroup 99.9% Of Romanceland Men Belong To. by ePoster(op): 3:38pm On Jan 22, 2020
Omar09:
The first paragraph has nothing to do with you.

Good to know on the second paragraph. Stop behaving like you are begging one little girl for a relationship.

Your hate on men who had made their choice. If she thinks she was slut shamed, she shouldn't put herself in a spot.
point of correction, '...hate on men who acted contratry to what is expected of them. Regarding maturity...'

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