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Thats not training thats wickedness

talented321:
Openfortruth, your brother is only training you to be a strong man in time to come, don't lose hope, be strong and find other ways to assist yourself. Becareful with your brother because he don't mean good for you..

Person wey no get sense

AgentGoat:
You go send him money to buy all these things?

If you take your brother asking for food and occasional support as entitlement mentality, I wonder what you do to your friends. I will be highly disappointed if you are a Yoruba man because here, Family is a priority unlike our brothers from the east who sees everything as a potential transaction

MS247:
This kind of entitlement mentality is very very wrong

MS247:



Let's get some facts clear

1: Your brother owes you nothing , you owe your brother cost of rent and accomodation

2: Your Parents owe you education, shelter and welfare until you are 18, or 21 when you are legally adult

3: If you want your brother to feed you after providing you accomodations, you humbly go to him and plead...

My dear brother, kindly assist me with feeding pending the time I get something doing fetching money and I can contribute to our welfare,

4: whenever you get any Money, try and refill your brothers cooking gas, buy some spaghetti or noddles, or Golden penny Semo, Vegetables Oil and present it to your brother




Now I want you to surprise your brother this Weekend for Saturday morning

Buy

Ugwu #50,
Okro #100
Okporoko #150
Ponmo #200
Ogbono #50
Cray Fish #100
Dry pepper #100
Onions #100
Locust bean #50
Buy Garri #200 or Fufu

That is roughly 1000 Naira

Cook Eba and Okro soup for your brother tomorrow morning and serve him

.

This is the most unreasonable comment I will see in ages.
Nobody owe you nothing quote is bullshit.
Expecting to be fed by my own blood brother is not out of place. If reversed is the case, I would do thesame too

Orie e buru werey

Iqtest:
What's wrong with these people

Ori awon molebi e buru, werey

Curious345:
Good

The SW is the worst place to raise a child at the moment.
Despite all you done , your darling child could end up as a thug ..


Lagos is a thug mansion ,where killers run wild :aided and abetted by the police and politicians

I actually need a sneaker buy would love a personal relationship too? Not necessarily love, maybe friends is ok.

wumi2017:
Yes

Wetin he wan talk, he was part of the assult

iammo:
God bless this guy.... Zinolensky couldn't speak

He was on drugs? He was incoherent? Is like head dey pain you or maybe u saw a different video

Ibechris2:
I knew the guy was on bastard drug...May his soul rest in Peace.

He was incoherent and his situation was inexplicable.

No vex oga, I just need a reasonable response and thanks for your contibutions

correctyourself:
Over-Sabi boy, what i mentioned is oil filter and not air filter.

I suspect you must be football fan, always joining issues from wrong angle that would lead to argument.

Thank you

correctyourself:
What i know is that Ford cars are cheaper than toyota, again it's more expensive to maintain if you choose to use its original parts. E.g engine oil is expensive, not like toyota that can use total, mobil oil and two other oil brand.

Its oil filter is far different from the one other cars are using

Werey nobody go chat u o

TeamXola:
08062140523

Beautiful lady who live around Airport in Ilorin should chat me up on WhatsApp. I no get money for your transport oooo

Please why is this car so cheap compared to other brands. I saw one for 2.7m just now and I was wondering why Ford cars are cheap compared to her counterparts.
Please if you have experience with FORD cars please let us know.

One question pls, why are ford cars so cheap compared to Toyotas?
does it spoil easily?

DreCharles:
Available

Underground tunnel mostly used for kidnapping and ritual purpose

BTW try to understand Yoruba, Its the Language of the FUTURE

Crenzywilliams:
For those of us that fi not understand Yoruba, pls help me understand what's happening there.

Moriyanu by - Tope Alabi

wumi2017:
Mimo ni o by Sola Alyson

Do u still sell?

wumi2017:
Available

Can you link up? I'm an introvert too, from Osun state but based in IB.

wumi2017:
Someone should pls recommend a very nice location to chill in ib city,, introvert life don tire me

Responsibility and homeliness
My dad takes responsibility of the home and he hardly goes out aside his work place. 4-5 pm hes back. He doesn't cheat too, but I don't think I can sustain that, I have to.

YoungLionken:
https://www.nairaland.com/7840982/what-habits-did-see-

Written so much, let me stop here...

Werey

saphiere:
Why do men sleep with their house helps?

He cant be a drug addict with those lyrics.
He was always composed

BGSM:
If truly Mohbad is a drug addict, the questions are
1. At what age did he start taking drugs?
2. Who introduced it to him?
3. Who are the people with fact that knows about his drug addiction and never reported to the agency that kick against it?
4. Are most of this artist drug addicts and drug traffickers?

Please I need answers

U be mumu

Creamypie:
I know say na drug kill am, no be beating. He and Marley don go separate ways long ago. The reason no announcement was made. All these kids. Watch as how drug addicts and mules go attack me

If you do love him and willing to settle down with him, tell him what you need for the relationship to work, tell him everything you have written here. You should show sign of commitment else you personally dont want him as a spouse.
If he wants to be treated as a husband, you shoulkd be respected as a wife. You should be careful with him because he seems kind of stingy. I am not a simp but I understand responsibility, if you need to eat good food, you have to pay for it, and even add gift for job well done. Try to access him if you really wish to have your forever with him, you can discuss this issues with him physically and sort it.
For the sex part, why take so long if you are not a virgin. Personally, I wouldnt stay a month with a girl without sex. I feel the woman dosent love me enough

UnconventionalT:
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I have been in relationship where I cooked, I personally enjoy cooking, but I have never been with a man that feels to entitled to me doing that for him. He says I'm supposed to be the one cooking for him. He also believes in women abroad sharing bills, but he is too traditional to share house chores"

Rest on IMOLE.
I am not a fan of Nigerian streets songs. But Mohbad was such a talent. His deep voice and his meaningful lyrics made him different.
He was promising

Omo Kaaro OOjiire bi?

dre11:
Nigerian-born U.S. Deputy Treasury Secretary, Adeyemo To Visit Nigeria To Bolster Economic Ties





https://saharareporters.com/2023/09/13/nigerian-born-us-deputy-treasury-secretary-adeyemo-visit-nigeria-bolster-economic-ties

Nigeria lifted a ban for UAE lol, my guys in UAE said the ban is still there

Yankee101:
Wait on the UAE to release a statement to that effect first

Its actually rare in Yorubaland, however, its not impossible
Maybe Mohbad and the girl are not legally married

doggedfighter:
Thought yorubas aren't into this kind of thing.




Was I wrong ?

It is rife in Igbo land.

Able bodied men, parents and even married sisters shamelessly dragging properties with a late man's wife.

Sometimes they accuse the wife of killing the man just to justify their greedy selves.


It's been receiving condemnations lately even though much is yet to be achieved.



Why should you take all and leave a man's widow and children with nothing?


It's shameful and no responsible and self respecting family should be involved in this.

And there is money tree in Nigeria abi? Ode

MimiSheWrote:
Hello Everyone, first of all I apologize in advance for the long note and also about my English, not actually my first language.

My name is Mimi, I was born in Nigeria... But cos of the nature of my dad's profession i have spent around 75% of my life in different countries outside Nigeria... Mostly in EU.

Well enough said about myself, cos this topic is not about me but about Nigerians... Our general mentality and perception of abroad.

Guys listen up... All that glitters is not really gold. Out there is not entirely what people think it is. And you might think just because I have spent so much time outside Nigeria i do not understand the struggle in Nigeria and therefore not qualified to tell you all this "nonsense"..... I completely get it.. trust me.

But even a random 3 years old kid knows that the country is messed up and nothing to write home about, we all know about the Suffering, depression and "starvation level of poverty" in Nigeria yeah.... That's why everyone is desperatly looking for a way out, no doubt... but trust me, JAPA is not 'always' your ticket out of poverty... Well 'sometimes' it is... but most times it's just your direct ticket to being subjected to racism,more depression,more struggles,several mental disorder,homelessness, modern day slavery and the list goes on and on.

Trust me... when it comes to hustling field, success is much more louder than failure. cos our mind was designed to constantly search for hope. which means you would quickly hear about the lucky 3% that made it big through JAPA, but hardly hear about the remaining unlucky 97% that found themselves in worse possible condition after the same JAPA. There's no money tree out here... there's no diamond river out here...
Is there more opportunities? Well yes, But there are millions of people that already done and still doing whatever you intend to come do over here and yet they are still in the worse condition than you are in right now.

You would literally cry when you see what most of our African brothers and sisters go through around the world in the name of Japa. And as a Nigerian?? Trust me it gets worse.. and your chances gets even much smaller. Cos no one trust Nigerians anymore any where around the world and I believe we all know why.

Sorry but I'm not trying to burst anyone's bubble, kill anyone's vibe or being a negative biitch! Naaaah I'm only trying to be realistic! I'm only trying to tell you something no travel agent would ever tell you and something people abroad hardly tell you, and even when they eventually do tell you...? You don't believe them.. instead you result to asking them questions like "why are they still there if it's that bad"? .....

Well.... You wanna know why most of them are still there? Let me tell you why... there is a psychological reason for that... First They are still in DENIAL. Imagine dreaming your entire life to travel abroad and finally have a good life, you probably invested almost everything or everything you have got to make it happen (your money, your time, your last hope)
But then you finally got there and then meet a reality that is entirely different from your life long dreams and perception of these faraway green lands?
I don't know if you know... but our brain is defensive in nature, it will automatically switch straight to denial mode... Leaving you with atleast enough 'hope and wait for a magic or should i say a miracle' (afterall this is abroad where magic happens?)
This is just one of the reasons why most of these people continue sticking around instead of returning home.

Another reason is that they are worried about what people back home would say or think... Because the people back home also got this general fvcked up mentality and very high expectation of people coming back from Japa (y'all need to stop it! Y'all need to get rid of that mentality, seriously ) cos like I said earlier... there is no bleeping money tree over there! I don't know where Nigerians got that idea from in the first place...
It needs to stop, yall driving the youth nuts with such mentality, it's doing more harm than good. That high expectation/ pressure back home is mostly the reason our people are more likely to result to crime out here (so just stop it! )

I have met alot of other African nationalities abroad... and amazingly they don't share the same mentality we have about Abroad. They treat abroad as just another hustling ground and not a direct ticket to success... Therefore they are more relaxed and less pressured than Nigerians out here.

Moving Abroad is not such a bad idea though, it worked and still works for few lucky ones (including my Family) it would be wrong and biased of me if I fail to mention that..
There are plenty of and more opportunities over out here not doubt...
But what I'm just saying is that... it's not always that easily reached.. as most people automatically believe.
Look... Somehow all these countries are intelligently designed In such a way that it take back almost entirely everything you make out here from you one way or the other... Through tax, through mind blowing bills or random expenses around every corner.

And at the end of the day you realize you are nothing but a modern day slave building someone's country for free... And without freedom.

Most people screaming Japa in Nigeria are far in better living condition and more stable mentally ,more happy than majority of people in the so called abroad without even knowing it. Sometimes Instead of gambling and betting your hard earned million of naira on Japa, it's more advisable to chill out... relax and invest that Millions in Nigeria. I'm just saying... You would probably end up living a life most people over there can only envy and dream of.

Thanks for reading my long note... I hope this helps someone in making a life decision out there. #ItsYourGurlMimi

How many people will Nigerian govt lift the ban? thseame way Buhari did,. Now this one lifted a ban the UAE govt said nothing about

benuejosh:
just like you.