So her phone is not password ? Abeg forget all those talk. The man or HM will only be selective when deleting messages that and phone number. Maybe your wife have something that she don’t want you to know. She can never leave her phone without lock on his desk like that as a woman for that matter. They are more secretive in all their doings. If people and witness confirm that he really called them on phone to know about their relationship, then you can sue the hm for that.

NewDadTroubles:
Good morning Nairaland


I'm going to be as explicit as possible and I need professional legal counsel/inputs to the issue stated below. (Pardon all blunders biko)

My wife recently got fed up with her place of work and decided to tender her resignation letter. She happens to be in the teaching profession and we all know what goes on in the private teaching schools (Most anyways).

On Friday the 4th of March which was supposed to be her final day at the school, the school's HM instructed her phone to put her phone on her desk (HM's) on the pretense that it was an open day and didn't want her distracted. She did exactly that and the day went just fine, after which, she dropped all the school's materials/properties with her and left.
On getting home, she went through her phone and discovered that her WhatsApp messages and conversations had been deleted, text messages deleted, all her contacts deleted, and all chats on her phone read. As if that wasn't enough, a few of her contacts called her to tell her they received messages from the school asking what her relationship was with them? Imagine!!!

Moreover, I think it is also good I state the fact that she and the HM haven't been best of friends due to an event that happened sometimes back between both parties. But for her to pick up her phone and go through it, and not just that, but also deleting her chats and wiping off contacts, deleting photos that has to do with the school, that's to the extreme haba!!!

Is there any legal ground to pursue this case or is it me just being emotional hurt that my wife's privacy has been trampled upon and I need to act. What should be my next point of action?

Thanks
NewDadTroubles

Similar to Tinubu sickness. Locate a doctor before it turned to Buhari level now.

FavourWrites:
Please help me Nairalander! Do I have a medical problem? Why do I forget things a lot?

Here’s the thing, I am someone who forgets things a lot. This may not sound like a big deal to you, but this problem is ruining the relationship I have with people.

There’ll be times when my friends would call telling me to do stuff for them, and the next day when we meet and they ask for the feedback, I’ll be there looking stupid because I didn’t remember them calling me at all. This is a problem because most times they think I faking the fact that I failed to remember.

I’ll be nineteen in a few months but I’m seriously worried for myself. I’m the kind of person who buys about three PEN every single day because I always forget where I dropped the last ones.

Don’t get me wrong, I do well in school, I currently have a 4.8 CGPA. The things I’m taught in school always seem to stick in my head, but every other thing doesn’t.

I have lost a lot of valuable friends because of this. Yes! It’s that bad.

There was a time I had a huge quarrel with a toxic friend, we ended up breaking up our friendship. But when the next semester began, I started wondering why she wasn’t talking to me. I tried approaching her but she ignored me.

I didn’t understand her behavior until the day I was flipping through my diary where I read that I had quarreled with her.

Please, I need help! My mum complains a lot about my behavior! Do I have a medical condition?

This problem is so bad that I had to buy a bracelet that connects my phone to my hand because I have lost count of how many times my phone slipped out of my hands.
If not for the sound that my phone makes when it hits the floor, I never would have known that it slipped off my hands.

I can’t write all of the experiences I’ve had, but please I need help! I’m tired of carrying a book Jotter/planner around, and I’m tired of setting an alarm for something small like “TAKE THE CUP BACK TO THE KITCHEN".

HELP ME!

Una dey praise am now and nobody ask as a youth corper where e for see money. Tomorrow we go dey hear e carry drugs and powder go one kotree na. Which work u for get this allocation from. Nor vex and you be try but this country we don too praise many youth for good work but at the end they disappoint us. Eg Abba kyari, Obi ibetus/sie , Tinubu and many more.

lalasticlala:
Kwara youth Corper, Obinna Gabriel shares story about his community development project in Kwara State.



https://twitter.com/GabrielObinna6/status/1499478127902441484?t=PY7E44OEij2CIYUJQbQ9ZA&s=08

Useless people because their children are there. Why not go north or east to assist the citizens there? Them go for their children.

lalasticlala:


https://veracitydesk.com.ng/2022/03/03/house-of-reps-delegation-arrives-romania-supervises-evacuation-of-nigerians-from-ukraine/

Oyibo you copy white from don’t announce it. You are not celebrity and even your marriage nobody heard of it, why now? Abeg divorce the man and god back to your parents house simple. Same man you give doggin style last night. Yeye people.

loosingfaith519:
I recently discovered my husband has an addiction and I can't stay married to him.
As soon as money enters his hand, he starts funding some online app and start gambling.
We got married last year Nov.
We have needs and plans we agreed to achieve before the end of March. Which a better accommodation is one of our first goal. Our present accommodation is not ok at all.
On my own part, I'm saving to meet up with our Target, but I discovered, he has nothing. He collected contributions last month, over 200k. All that money wasted. He can't account for it.
January salary has entered, he has started wasting it again.

I'm expecting him to provide 300k at the end of this month. So, that when I sum it with mine, we can have over 600k. Get a decent accommodation and invest the rest.
We need to plan, save for our baby, but his attitude with money is not encouraging me.
The truth is, my husband is stressing me for lack of accountability.

Pls, how do I go about a peaceful divorce? I'm confused, because I'm pregnant.

All the things I'm seeing him do, suffocate me.
What do I do?
Pls, advise me.

Don’t blame them because the message is not clear from the massager. Because imagine Abba Kyri relation or partner in tailoring teaching anti-corruption topic, who nor go sleep?

post=110689992:
Some Corps members were pictured sleeping during a lecture organised by the Independent Corrupt Practices and Other Related Offences Commission (ICPC) at NYSC orientation camp in Ondo State.


See Photos As Obtained By Below:

Shameless people. How many times their prime minister or whoever of their wives come meet una for Nigeria before una go dey buy house and property there. Useless set of people.

sojiboy:
PRESS STATEMENT
Our attention has been drawn to a social media post shared on the 1st of March
2022 suggesting that some Nigerian Governors’ Wives were in Dubai to surprise
the First Lady of Nigeria Dr. Aisha Buhari on the occasion of her birthday on the
17th of February 2022.

For the avoidance of doubt and in the interest of the public, the Nigerian
Governors Wives were on the entourage of the First Lady of Nigeria who was on
an official trip to the UAE.

The trip included visits to Dubai Expo 2020, and tours of the Dubai e-learning
center, Dubai Youth Hub and meetings with foundations and agencies in UAE who
are interested in investing in education, health and technology in Africa, with
priority given to women and young people.

The trip coincided with the birthday of HE Aisha Buhari. On the morning of her
birthday, which was February 17th, the delegation of Governors’ Wives paid a
private visit to present a cake and flowers. After the brief presentation, we
proceeded to attend the scheduled meetings for the day.

We were therefore dismayed to see footage of the visit interpreted to mean
Governors’ Wives left Nigeria for the sole purpose of celebrating HE’s birthday.

This is not true and we find this assumption scandalous. We are all dedicated to
supporting our spouses as well as our First Lady, and we would never be a party
to anything that will bring embarrassment to them and ourselves.

Our key learnings from our visit to the various agencies in Dubai and the briefings
we received points to the need for Nigeria to scale up investments in education,
science and technology and provide more opportunities for young people, who
are the key to the future. We will continue to address these issues in our own
work as well as advocate for increased commitments in these areas from our
leaders.

HE Erelu Bisi Fayemi
Chair, Nigeria Governors’ Wives Forum.

Chidiman is second batch is loading. From the same Lagos university. Is clear they have some number of men to destroy both their lives and home. RIP in advance. Just as you cheat devil will send someone to tempt your wife to cheat on you. Na watin you like na your wife go like. Na her turn to feel same way. Continue nor stop Abeg. You are on the right track. Na your mate say satan get behind me but e reach your turn prick come rise. I pity you.

SugarPapi:
So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?

James brown is available for you since she/he is called wo/man

Daniel058:
As a humble upcoming billionaire,I would like to marry a young tall beautiful lady with flat tummy

Why those street boys wey Dey sleep under bridge nor sit down for front to take pictures with the commissioner. Because of visa people wey wear better clothes come out quickly com sit down for front make the recognize them. Remember na homeless children all this chess game under bridge take cast but now we nor see them when the warlords came. Nigeria you must use your head.

Islie:


https://punchng.com/canadian-high-commissioner-sailors-play-chess-at-oshodi/

sister na who Dey relationship them dey listen to him tips, base on experience. I wan be follow your tips before but when I see u are after without character relationship that is why I parked well for my lane.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I don't travel to meet men. Men come down to my house to meet me. So, when they misbehave, I send them packing not minding the time of the day. Even when leaving, they still give me transport money like I was the one who visited.

Women, place a high premium on yourselves. If you don't, these men will use you like rags.

Follow me for more relationship tips.

Na everywhere young children Dey die now. Northern part of Nigeria is like we don forget there is war there. Nevertheless Nigerians don forget their pain Dey cry Ukraine cry.

While those in northern part of Nigeria killed by bandit and boko boys are normal no more painful. Crying more than the bereaved. Rip to the innocent girl.

Ournolly:
News like this are so painful.

She don collect. When she jam one dirty guy thinking it was sweet during the action film. As she collect infections, the test result shock her, now she has no choice than to turn to health speaker. I know she is talking to herself and other victims of such solid infection. No worry them don hear.

onthehill:
Juliet Ibrahim: Stop Using Dirty Hands And Saliva From Your Dirty Mouths On A Woman’s Vajayjay

Popular Ghanaian actress, Juliet Ibraham, has advised men to stop using dirty hands and saliva from ‘their dirty mouths’ on a woman’s private part during sex, IGBERETV reports.

The 35-year-old actress gave this advise in a post she shared on her Instastory, while advising sexually active men and women to practice basic personal hygiene, in order to prevent bacteria and potential yeast infection.

She wrote,



https://igberetvnews.com/1415524/juliet-ibrahim-stop-using-dirty-hands-saliva-dirty-mouths-womans-vajayjay/

Why can’t tinubu tell us what Buhari told him after telling him about his plans. Tinubu has never said anything concerning that one day. Watin Buhari talk? He support you? Abeg speak

Truthisunique2:
Tinubu that is strong man with balls couldn't face Buhari and air his demand

Na for outside he dey claim power must be given to him

With the same ewedu mouth he begs obas to face his Fulani master for him

Oba travel but on a special visitation not those one taking pictures with different female or those visiting uk or Dubai with ladies and with bad news. Oba move but not like others. That is the only way to honor obj before he die. So Oba of Benin nor be una mate

Raymond0008:
Where are the 2000s kid that says Oba of Benin don’t visit people! You guys don’t know politics fah.

The woman really give am condition but he need our prayers. If this guy can lossquild for America, Mexico we ruff na devil nor go draw e leg? Abeg prayers for our brother in Christ.

They are more happy. Opportunities to steal used cars and other items. They only have problem with how to import them simple. Nigerians benefit from every disasters that took place in any area. E.g Endsars youth stole while Covid-19 the government stole palliative and this are my little evidence and many more.

Frank25:
Let's gather here and discuss about it

The day she will fail to cook well means sending her packing. Short distance love. Only Afojas has this mentality. FFK FRIENDS ANS FAMILY ASSOCIATION

kyber:
My babe is a very good cook that is one of the attributes that drew me to her since our first date

Asides that she’s supportive but she also great in other areas …

I know The Redpillers will lash at me but it’s the sweet truth

If your woman is a great cook ,hold on to her

Food is one of the primary thing that keeps a relationship going

I’m stepping down with this mixture for the night

(Picture below)

What do you think of the meal ?

You will become landlord one day. Abeg I for say not be all of them. Am not like that but only experienced wicked woman of god called past*r wey be wan kill me join my house.

Mindlog:


E no dey hard for some landlords, grew up in Lagos seeing that on a regular.

An early morning fire on Wednesday razed parts of a building at the Federal Ministry of Finance in Abuja, the Federal Capital Territory (FCT).

TheNewsGuru.com (TNG) reports it is not clear if the fire incident affected the main building of the Federal Ministry of Finance.

At the time of filing this report, the fire was still raging with no men of the federal fire service on ground.

An eyewitness said: “Ministry Of Finance on fire. Called 112. They confirmed getting lots of calls confirming that the fire is on. I was told men of the FCT and Federal Fire Service will be there soon”.

Thanks for the compliment but I wish she will have that same thought the day it will be her turn. For every marriage with good heart there must be a trial. You just tested your part for the marriage but I guess if she has that same thought. Women has no love for one man, they will only pretend and bear some things base on what people will say if it happened or base on how the children will feel or families not you the man at home. They are good but you can’t predict a woman’s love. If another compliment them outside and you jokily say otherwise, that man who compliment them is far better than you because at that moment, for them you are ungrateful.

tydi:
A man identified as Maxwell Banzi, is currently trending on Facebook after he shared how he stopped himself from cheating on his wife with an old co-worker.

Man shares

According to him, the said co-worker contacted him on Facebook and revealed that she was interested in him and is willing to do anything to be in his life.

After receiving the message, Maxwell who was lying in bed beside his wife, said he thought about the lady’s proposal and concluded that his wife doesn’t deserve to be cheated on.

Read his full post below,

“As I was sleeping with my partner last night �I got a notification from fb. I stood up to check; it was a friend request from a lady. I decided to go through her profile to know who she is. Finally, I found out that it was my old time coworker.

I accepted her friend request and she sent me a massage “Hello” since I was still online. I replied “Hi, I heard you are in a serious relationship ” I responded, “Yes”. she said, “I used to have a huge crush on you and I was afraid to tell you but I’m not afraid anymore✋really love you and I’m willing to do whatever it takes just to be part of your life”.

Hmmm�I quickly closed the chat to make sure my partner was sleeping�and I just slid off the bed and sat my ass down and asked myself is this girl worth my time�.

I looked at my lovely wife , she was deeply sleeping after the busy and exhausting day she had from taking care of our son and chores. As I was still looking at her, something came into my mind. “This woman doesn’t deserve to be cheated on, look at how safe and comfortable she’s sleeping in our bed. She really trusts me so much that I can’t hurt her” I started thinking, ” she left her family, her caring mother and father, who at all times were providing almost everything she needed and her siblings who always brightened her day. But she decided to leave all that behind just to come and share her entire life with me. All these thoughts and more were driving me crazy. Then I asked myself, “how can I do this wickedness to this innocent woman?”

So I hurriedly picked up my phone and hit the “BLOCK” button.I turned to my lovely wife and I rolled over to the bed and cuddled her and she adjusted herself to accommodate me�♥️ I can’t afford to lose her trust or make her cry. Never!

I really hope my bond with my partner doesn’t break, I really love my Ayanda Chantell Mnyambo ❤️�”

See his post below,

lalasticlala

Bench na bench. Which one come be wood again. The difference is just that machine Plain this wood well simple. If you wan to defend him just say na gateman own, to relax in case he feel like staying close to gate simple. Rich man mess get name?

Ever8090:
you no see d wood wey them take do d bench?...you think say na d type wey their Okoro dey use play draft?

Please don’t be offended, what they fail to understand is your profession. Imagine you as Abba Kyari assistant for obioma for clothes amendment department Dey argue with scholars, who dey look for trouble? Next time ask question first before answering people. For my two children self for Benin, if I tell you how much I Dey pay for home lesson, you go understand those lazy parents in those big area for cities can pay more, because they won’t have time. You wey go government backyard school how you want take understand home lesson. No vex I understand where you for grow.

Revolution2022:
Guy,all na still lies.

Some hands are disabled. If you asked them to draw human tooth, some decided to draw that of devido or white money you will score them good but what about those that will draw tinubu aka jagaban or oshiomole teeth nko? Be sincere ooo what will you score them?

Maybe your time don almost Dey near. All you fail to mention which I know you don’t have for now is Jesus Christ. Accept him today you will see that thinking or stress you are passing through will vanish. Try Jesus Christ and see.

Yoruba and betrayal is like 5&6 me and you know about just forget all those gist.

seunmsg:
I love my Yoruba folks, we just can’t stomach treachery. We can allow a lot of things to slide but definitely not treachery. So many people came out in Osun state yesterday to vote for Oyetola not because they like him but to register their displeasure towards the irresponsible and ungrateful behavior of Aregbesola.

I sincerely hope he has gotten the message that Yorubas won’t condone betrayals and support anybody no matter how highly placed to bite the fingers that fed him. Hopefully, he will retrace his steps quickly.

You can’t learn from Adenuga children or Dangote children? Just be fooling yourself. Your behavior make people to doubt if your innocent father’s wealth is natural. Get a man and be responsible. If your father stop giving you allowance can you meet up with such way of life. Not that I hate you but is like giving your father headache each time he sees your post. You can’t copy from other rich men son or daughter that act responsibly.

You wan use style ask about Malian people if they pay well. Taking olosho to Africa league. Good. At least exchange rate is little good.

Na God Save the girl that night. It was her turn to sacrifice her. The guy just Dey deceived the girl. Them be wan use that girl so. Nor be say e buy drinks and the girl nor even sense anything like get together. Na apartment them kill ataga and is like Na apartment people come Dey use Na. Beware of this lavish life.

Jealousy Dey worry this Yoruba people. To study Igbo language for Oxford University is causing problems to Yoruba people. Politics can’t work there. Igbo people never go for meeting to achieve this glory. Sunday is still in contonue but you refuse to assist him but looking for how to be recognized because of visa. Causing problem any office you work with them with their juju on their waist. I come in peace but you may hate the truth.