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Forgive me to say his story looks like a familiar story..
A son left a 3mnths brand new car under his father care while travelling out . Note d current car d father has was bought by d son 3 or 4yrs earlier. Few mnths after d son left, father started driving his new car and finally sold his own car that d car was faulty , with the mind dat e will be driving d son's car.
So wat do we call this?
What if the owner of d car returns?
Y not fix ur car or live it parked there until u can fix it?
This happened btw my bro and dad..
You kno wat i spoke d truth... you dont plan with some1's sweat. Its bad. If life was that easy, you wud have made ur money...

The children will do their best but pls dont ve entitled, rather pray that God continually blesses them to bless u.

NaijaOlosho:
Who is this animal?

Where are you raised?

Who born you
Why your parents no use condom

You be fool.

You are not wise at all.

Buhari is wiser than you.

Spits

They are saving the stupid dude some money and its unwise to be in abroad and your house is wasting away while your patents pay rent fool

Are they really saving him some money..?
They cud have suggested it to their son, not move into it like they own it...

I'm surprised at most comments. Can we stop been sentimental and entitled. I wonder how you pple grow up and can't tell your parents the truth..
The Op had a reason for going on that house project and no body has d right to just move in unless that was his initial plan or they were asked to.
He didnt abadon his parents, he gave them money for rent. Op sincerely , if your intention for the house was diff, you can tell ur parents and find money for them to go back to their rented appartment. If you want them to live there but u know the house aint built for them, let them know cos they might claim ownership in d future not knowing your wife's hard earned cash was in that project too incase sometin else happens in d nearest future.
If i was ur wife, and we dont conclude on d best way to address this together, i wudnt say anything but just kno all my savings will start going into my personal project as i'd know my fate from then.

I dont think she lied cos you guys just started dating wen she revealed her genotype to you but as it stands, i wudnt advice birthing SS kids... its not going to be an easy journey if you decide to go on with d wedding plans..think about very well.. I'm so sorry.

I kno her...her name is joy amara eze

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I'm so sorry about all these. I can't say I know how you feel, but I'm sure your wife can cos she's in the same shoes or even worse.
Please I do not think there's anything wrong with surrogacy. Please rethink it and embrace that option please.

I dunno about polygamy because it has its own wahala and divorce ain't the promise of for better for worse you made to her bro especially if the only problem you have with her is this child bearing issue.

Please have a rethink on surrogacy if you can afford it . It doesn't make you less of a man.

May God be with you both.

Even if they decide to give all citizens tfare to Abuja to come receive vaccination , it wouldn't even cost that much. Smh for these leaders.

Maybe my opinion is too late but ..sincerely we have to show responsibilities to who ever we are with and possibly extend it to their families if capable ....both men and women.

Firstly your boyfriend/ fiance must not always visit with gift unless the visit is like an August visit or a special one ...

Secondly, people have diff upbringing, he might not kno the importance of coming with gifts and whether or not it's disrespectful to do So...you can direct him stylishly in that manner and explain d role it plays in his appearance to his would be in-laws

Thirdly, some parent ain't greedy, they might just want to know how sincere and capable the fiance is ...it's believed if you go extra mile , you might be really into the child.

You messed up by telling your bf bluntly on what your mum said...it's a shame really.

Mend this if you can and want to...but for sure, there's already a grudge between both parties..You can repair it by doing d gift out on behalf of your fiancee pending when his own grudge subsides and takes over ..

But ability to give gifts opens doors and respect to every1 and we should learn to embrace it ..I will not be comfortable visiting empty handed sha...

I dunno y this debate always comes up..there shouldn't be any comparison really..
Your mum is your mum and your wife is your wife .They both should be loved and they should strive to be one happy family with each understanding it's boundary. Parents have kids and wife and the love is able to go round without aportioning which should come first or second..

Like pple have rightly said, start withdrawing that cash gradually or try out atm transfers to transfer the cash gradually to an account you can access... do this as quickly as possible before the account goes dormant, that's if its not already dormant....for most banks, it takes 12mnths of inactivity to make an account dormant...so the earlier the better...when you have the money in your possession you can now decide what you wanna do with it.

Thanks alot

Good day everyone,
Please I need suggestions and advice from people in diaspora. Please if you have your way, would you go for, a Canadian PR or a UK tier 4 visa and what's the advantage and disadvantages of your choices..for me the only disadvantages with Canada is the cold and expensive ticket fare from one province to another .Uk feels like home, weather is friendly.
Please I really need your opinion.

Ch eck the dates pls...one is for 1st and d other for 2nd..

brunnette4real:
Please we have exhausted foodstuff at home, I really need the money to buy foodstuff.

Abeg ooo,my account number is 0037301203 John Olabisi gtb.

if you are In Lagos, reach out to this NGO..https://www.covidaid.ng

historic:
Happy Easter all..pls help a brother in need..nothing is too small..
6014427694
Fidelity..thanks

if you are In Lagos, you could try this NGO...they are delivery food stuff to those in need...https://www.covidaid.ng

I think most times we become who we are as a result of experience in our nominal age. Some were lucky cos they were never exposed to the risk while some weren't.. just like we didn't choose our family background either rich or poor but can work towards been rich. I went to a single sex school, I never had same sex encounter but I had friends who did cos they were pretty funky kids exposed to it at a tender age, some even got suspended...but I never judged them cos I felt d lucky ones where just not exposed... Alot are married now, I wudnt even call them bi-sexuals cos those happened in d past.
My advice is for parents to always educate their children from a tender age, imbibe discipline in them ...fill their memory with good stuff...These things always ring in their head when you are not there..... I still believe in this saying " Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it "...
@Op you are wonderful and thank you for sharing with us...know that there are pple out there who will never judge your past...All the best in this new phase and may God bless your marriage..

Brymo4all:
Balogun market

Where exactly in balogun market pls?.. tot they have different names of streets or lines?I wanna buy in bulk

Brymo4all:
Can I message you on WhatsApp?

please where can I get good flat shoes not just made In Nigeria, also some foreign ones to buy ?

STENON:
Thanks. I have saved your details.

One more advice, Since you have good writing skills, after getting the laptop you can be helping those wanting a scholarship or travelling abroad for studies to write a statement of purpose (SOP) which is like maximum of 500 words, do the admission processing for them and you would be paid handsomely.
You can always get your clients on nairaland, all you need to do is to open up a thread pertaining to that and if you need any assistance, always mention me and I will respond.

Happy boxing day bro. Wishing you all the best

I probably will be his first client on this
.. am kinda busy and can't make out time to do this. Kindly reach me when you kick off on your writting jobs

UjuJoan2:
I'm honestly not bothered about them, I know how difficult it is for MEN to accept the truth that their actions have direct consequences in the long run. Nigerian men are laden with this 'God complex' and most times it's difficult for them to realize that they will have to be held accountable for their mistakes, just like use mere mortals (women).

Let's take for instance a man who dated a woman for 10 years, probably even dis-virgined her . . at the point when he becomes finally stable he realizes she's not his 'type' and begins to mess around with other women. The will act like they are doing her a favor. . . . The woman, who thinks the odds are already against her will stay and hope he comes around eventually. But it doesn't stop the resentment from building. It doesn't stop the hatred from brewing . . . Eventually when he marries her after dangling marriage around like a carrot, and she realizes the burden of raising his family is actually on her, she sees the enormity of the sacrifices she has to make and realizes he's just not worth it and never earned her, she begins to act up. . . . Actions = Reactions!!! I'm a marriage counselor of sorts and I know what I see/hear on a regular basis.

Same goes for a cheating man . . . Many women will never walk out of a cheating spouse. But if a woman is aware of her husband's indiscretions, there's noting stopping her from doing same. I know the men will want to have my neck for this too, but it's just the truth. Any woman who gladly accepts a cheating husband is definitely cheating herself. I just pity these men who cheat and flaunt it thinking their wives have no option. She may play the docile wife, but who knows what she's also up to.

Untill men learn to respect and treasure women, there will always be dysfunctional marriages.

wow...this is deep...THE TRUTH

Mightyhaiz:
When are we going to start organising pageantries for brains ,talents and gifted kids.. To start taking home cars,houses and millions..

The last birthday of my daughter,my criteria for winning expensive prices were answering difficult questions and speaking local dialects..then very small gifts for dancing and other games..one particular calabar girl from a poor background won gifts over 30k including cash prices(this child for no win pin if the criteria na who dance pass, who fine pass or who dress pass).Guess what ?almost all the kids in my neighborhood have been preparing (academically)for the next birthday and giftings for brilliance. The side effects of this is improved grades in school and general awareness and competitiveness in academics.. Let's encourage brains and talents among our youths..

I think I saw on star scholar naija (SSN) ...there's now something like that for kids...infact d star prize is 10m scholarship and an SUV I guess...I was wowed...just check it out.

kayzee2374:
Yeah it's nomination before admission, although I don't know it all because even some department request for an english proficiency result ielts or toefl which was not part of the documents to be sent as listed by mfs, so to say departments av different rules guiding the nomination process .or may be u didn't emphasized that you needed a nomination for MasterCard foundation scholarship. Also hope mining is part of the listed courses? If yes,
I will advise you to write her back an explain to her that you are applying through mfs in which if nominated the application fee will be waived an all others
Subject of the mail: departmental nomination for MasterCard foundation scholarship. So if they reply wit the same message then it's ur decision.

thanks alot for your response.

Matinoh:
I earlier sent a nomination request to mining and materials engineering department at McGill. The department just sent an email that I need to have a conditional admission first before requesting for nomination. I thought it was nomination before admission.

can any1 in d know respond to this pls...

ESE234:
Good evening.

I trust you're doing great.

Please, you said you graduated with a Second Class Upper, I'd like to know your CGPA.

Thanks

I will like too apply too..although my GPA is 3.64...quite low wen converted to a GPA of 4.

ditha:
I attached my academic CV, transcript and nomination form

pls where did you get the nomination form from?

Wow...one of those stories with happy ending ...sounds like a movie...congrats ma'am...

demoBaba:
I've collected 450k without going to bank or fill any documents. Lastly am not salary earner.

How...?

How can those without salary account get loan from gtb

peacenaija:
I haven’t received any mail from them. Has anyone who applied for finance analyst role gotten response?

yes

shogz89:
my firends have actually received their respective success and regret mails for finance analyst role.

yeah...regret mail for finance analyst role...