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 Islam › Re: The Sunnah of Love by Esji80(m): 8:08pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
babylolaroy: i didnt miss the sarcasm in your tone.Alright Ummu Nusaybah...hope U ddnt change d name of d first to b born baby gal...lol |
| Islam › Re: The Sunnah of Love by Esji80(m): 9:40am On Nov 17, 2013 |
So Sisters in this contemporary world,when will you av time to teach your children the Western and Islamic education? IF you are d WIFE,COOK,WORKER and SUB-TEACHER. |
| Islam › Re: The Sunnah of Love by Esji80(m): 4:02pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
dyfatai: its more of a compliment. Wot kinda man proposes on a social neywork? Well, not d kind d@ wants a wife d@'ll train his children 2 memorize d quran by TEN, sahih bukhari nd muslim by FIFTEEN.Bro. dyfatai it can start frm here o...In Q24:26 Allah s.w.t says GOOD MEN ARE FOR GOOD WOMEN and vice versa... 1 Like |
| Islam › Re: The Sunnah of Love by Esji80(m): 3:59pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
dyfatai: Anytime i think of a wife 2 marry, i can't but think of one d@ has proper understanding of d deen like u. I've never met u, but u'll make a very wonderful wife to any man who is blessed 2 marry u. SalamSeconded. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 8:03pm On Nov 07, 2013 |
babylolaroy: Aameen. inshaaAllahAlright |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 11:36am On Nov 07, 2013 |
babylolaroy: thanx Esji. i will just let the course of things flow naturally.U r welcm.Oryt. Eyyah we'll miss ha alot.She's really contributing alot in d Islam section.Hope ol is well? May Allah s.w.t unite us in Aljannatul firdaus...ameen |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 6:55am On Nov 07, 2013 |
ummsulaym: We CAN look nice and good with our hijabs BUT we CANNOT look flashy...Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah. @ Ummusalaym... flashy??...lol @ ol,One thng I observed with some sisters esp those frm South West is d@ de wear shot hijabs d@ hangs on their chests + short.tied jeans or skirts.This amalgamation violates d rules of hijab. I qouted earlier a Hadith where d Prophet p.b.u.h said to Asma' bint Abubakar(Aisha's sister R.A.A) when she went to his place in a transparent dress ..That when a lady begins to mensturate only her face and hands shld be seen...Reported by Abu Daoud Am sorry oo...amn't critizing d ppl frm SW OO.INNA AKRAMAKUM INDALLAHI ATQAKUM. The best of you in the side of Allah,is the most pious. I heard a kafir d@ was tryng to trans-confuse our sisters based on his way of expantiating Q24:31 and Q33:59.D@ de shld draw their veils over their bossoms not legs.Accordng to him a shirt and a mini-skirt is ok.It's nt a kafir d@'ll teach us hw to use hijab or d qualities of Hijab but d Sunnah and Hadiths of d Greatest Man Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h. May Allah s.wt guide us,help and unite d muslim ummah ameen. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 10:27pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
babylolaroy: he wants a muslim decent sister wic he may not readily find in d dating sectionUmmu Nusaybah you are very right. IF I'm to look for a sister that'll marry, ds thread s d best to meet decent sisters.Hu av strong love for d deen. BUT for Allah's sake we shld be serious...Also in a way d@ would'nt derail d thread. In Q24:26 Allah s.w.t says "...Good men are for good women, and good women are also for good men"..rough trans. In another verse HE says "O you who believe,why do you say that whch you don't do..." Jazakumullahu khaira |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 4:41am On Oct 27, 2013 |
babylolaroy: i cant practice law with niqab. Not even when hijab is not approved of and i have thus decided to leave the practice of law. Once am done wth the study just for study sake. i got admitted for law b4 i realised dah we cant practice with hijab. its kinda too late to turn bak, am already in 300lv.MashaAllahu. you'll av applied for change of course nw.Anyhw may Allah s.w.t choose us d best...ameen |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 10:14pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
babylolaroy: mashaaAllah. Am not a niqabite buh i av a dream to that effect inshaaAllah. i am a law student and it is not allowed in law. thats what is stopping me buh inshaaAllah as soon as am done with law, i will start using the niqab...i wont practise law niyenAllahu akbar ! I really admire your love for the deen. I wsh u d best of luck in ur studies.May Allah s.w.t assist us in ol our endeavours of life ameen. IF you are to practice law,will d niqab allow you to practice it? @Harmeenart. Definately,b4 I propose any lady she has to b mindfl of her dressng code i.e the sunnatic way a muslimah suppose to appear.Even if she doesn't use niqab,a complete hijab frm head to toe is necessary. I always consider a hijabated sisteras being more beautifl than an unhijabated sister....y? she obeys Allah s.w.t and the Prophet p.b.u.h. May Allah s.w.t guide and bless us all.ameen |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 8:10pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
harmeenart: Assalam alaykum.w/salam w.w Allahu akbar.I hope my wife'll b using niqab..... @Ummu Nusaybah I hope you're with ur niqab...LOL For me I can marry a sister that uses niqab...but I've to see her face Tto face before the marriage.... It was narrated that a companion told the Prophet p.b.u.h that he wanted to marry a lady I've forgtn ha name.The Prophet p.b.u.h said "have u seen her?" the companion replied "No".The Prophet p.b.u.h said "go and see her,for It'll produce love btw you" later the companion saw her and they married. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 8:04pm On Oct 25, 2013 |
Gooci: abi ayam a late comer ni?Hw do we knw whether you are male,female,muslim or christain etc? |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 8:52am On Oct 24, 2013 |
^ ameen. Nice contribution.The Prophet p.b.u.h is our role model. Jazakallahu khaira. I can marry any sister from any tribe,younger or older than me,frm diff state or country so far she has d qualities and the chemistry u r talking abt exists. But the issue of staying here and she s staying somewhere won't happen.We've to live together...to avoid fitnah,for proper/moral child upbringng and education,etc. The Islamic law recommends that the husband shldn't stay away frm his wife for more than four days...to avoid fitnah. I 4gt the hadith or reference... |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 4:57pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
busar: As for me, i don't like reading long post. Let stick to the purpose of the thread.YES...so far she has the qualities I need. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 3:49pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
babylolaroy: we have sed sorry. besides it dont matter nohow. the topic is let us have a talk. not let us talk abt hijab and beards alone. And dats what we are doing...having a talk. what we have sed aint useless bro, you can learn too and every oda person. its not like we r talking about secondary school math classYou are right Ummu Nusaybah. @ ol,we are sorry if our discussions caused u any inconvinience. No knowledge is a waste.We are singles and Muslims Alhamdulillah.Hijab/beards/trouser issues and the history of Nusayba are all very important to us. What normally is done,if u thnk somethng irrelevant is been discussed,you cite another scenerio or pose another question that'll carry peoples' attention. Apologies. . . |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 7:35am On Oct 23, 2013 |
babylolaroy: first am not opposed to having co-wives o..am very very cool with it mashaAllah buh i'd like to be d first.MashaAllah.hope sisters will emulate you in love for the co-wives... Regarding wat Nusayba did,d scholar was delivering a lecture on 'What role have we played as Muslims for the success of Islam?' he then narrated that event.He mentioned what Nusayba,Abu-Dujanah,Mu'az,Mua'waz,Abubakar R.a,Umar r.a,Ali r.a.,Usman r.a,Abdur-Rahman Bin Aauf r.a,Abud-Dadah r.a,Ummu-Ammara,etc did for Islam with their wealth,time,energy and whatever they have. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 7:34am On Oct 23, 2013 |
babylolaroy: first am not opposed to having co-wives o..am very very cool with it mashaAllah buh i'd like to be d first.MashaAllah.hope sisters will emulate you in love for the co-wives... Regarding wat Nusayba did,d scholar was delivering a lecture on 'What role have we played as Muslims for the success of Islam?' he then narrated that event.He mentioned what Nusayba,Abu-Dujanah,Mu'az,Mua'waz,Abubakar R.a,Umar r.a,Ali r.a.,Usman r.a,Abdur-Rahman Bin Aauf r.a,Abud-Dadah r.a,etc did for Islam with their wealth,time,energy and whatever they have. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 1:32am On Oct 23, 2013 |
babylolaroy: Aameen. Alhamdulila for the gift of hijab for we muslimahs. i hate to even imagine myself outside my house w/o it. It brings honour and respect and you even feel good observing a right deed in d deen.Masha Allah.Hope u'll encourage other sisters to be wearing hijab. Every undercloth has to be covered.The hijab has to touch feet or more. In Q24:31 Allah s.w.t says "Tell the believing...that they should...not display their adornment EXCEPT THAT WHICH IS APPARENT..." The adornment includes both natural features and artificial enhancement of beauty such as face,hair,and other attractive parts of the body,dress,ornaments,make-ups and the likes-THOUGH THERE ARE DIFFERENT OPINIONS OF SCHOLARS. Regarding the issue of half jilbaab,lace,ankara etc there are opinions--because the lace and ankara are also part of the adornments.... Although,some scholars argue that whatsoever you use to cover the whole body with the exception of the face and hands, whether it is ankara,lace etc is a hijab...someone shld elaborate more please. The Prophet p.b.u.h said to Asma'u,Aisha's sister R.a.a when she came to him clad in a transparent cloth which revealed her body "Asma, when a woman begins to menstruate,nothing should be seen of her except this and this" ,and he pointed to his face and hands. Reported by Abu Daoud. The issue of inner gown having the same color with the hijab is a choice. WALLAHU A'ALAM |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 1:30am On Oct 23, 2013 |
babylolaroy: Aameen. Alhamdulila for the gift of hijab for we muslimahs. i hate to even imagine myself outside my house w/o it. It brings honour and respect and you even feel good observing a right deed in d deen. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 12:14am On Oct 23, 2013 |
babylolaroy: are yu becuming abu nusaybah because i'm ummu nusaybah?....lol. i wnt marry you so dnt steal my baby's nameYeah.Abu Nusayba....I knw you won't like to marry me,because of the co-wives...lols. Ok,I'll wait for your daughter Nusayba to graduate...lols. Actually,I like the name Nusayba since the time I heard what she did in a battle during the time of Prophet p.b.u.h.That she per-took physically in the war against kuffars then(I forget which battle was that).I heard this in a tafsir.That a kafir raised his sword against the Prophet p.b.u.h,she used her arm to block the sword...her arm was cut... Allahu akbar. The name zilfa'u is a female name.I've seen two sisters with name zilfa'u. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 10:05pm On Oct 22, 2013 |
^ ameen. Jazakallahu khaira |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 9:28pm On Oct 22, 2013 |
**HIJAB contd. There are four qualities that hijab must fulfill: a) It must cover all parts of the body, except the face and the palms b) It must be loose to the extent that her shapes are not visible. c) It must not be transparent. d) It must be plain. That is, it must not itself be attractive or decorative. We know that we as Muslims are supposed to be those who completely surrender to the will of Allah. So even without understanding the reason why hijab has been made obligatory on us, we are obliged to comply. But Allah in His Mercy has explained the reason to us in the above mentioned verse: “This makes it more likely that they be recognized and not be harmed.” In other words, a lady is very precious, so precious that not all eyes are allowed to gaze at her. Take for example, when you posses a very precious stone or gold, do you place it in a prominent place in your living room for all that enter to gaze on? Definitely, no Indeed! Why? Because of its preciousness. You normally prepare a special box for your jewelries and place it in a much secured place in the house. Dear honorable sisters should realize that you are more precious than those precious stones. You should realize that contrary to what the enemies of Allah would want you to believe, observing the correct hijab guarantees your true freedom grants you the honor you deserve. At this point, I would want to warn us against the plots of the Shaitan. At all times, the Shaitan always tries to approach humans through the gate they would not suspect. For example, since the devil realize that most people are wise enough to realize that worshiping idols made of stones, wood, metals etc is worthless; he therefore created other forms of idols like man-made ideologies. Also, when the devil notices people’s love for religion, he brought them different false religions. Also when he notices that now, Muslim women are trying hard to regain their glorious identity by turning back to the Almighty and observing the hijab; he introduced many forms of fashion hijabs. Unfortunately, some of our sisters have fallen into this trap. Although they want to observe hijab, but they end up observing the fashion hijab. They wear tight fitting and decorative attires;which in fact makes them attract the opp charge. Another unfortunate thing is that some prominent Muslims promote such ‘hijab’, claiming that there is difference in culture and environment. Of course, there is difference in culture and environment and so hijab does not necessarily have to be uniform style,but it must fulfill the alreadymentioned qualities. Honorable sisters! You should know that your hijab is only hijab when it fulfills the qualities of lawful hijab. And that only such hijab signifies opposition to the oppressors and the oppressive system ruling the world. And only such hijab dignifies you and gives you special recognition; “This makes it more likely that they be recognized and not be harmed.” 1 Like |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 9:07pm On Oct 22, 2013 |
ummsulaym: Lol, no just dey gbadun am, try dey add seasoning... Ehen, no be bad tin u do o*fear catch you ni? Lol* and for liking her name, she say thanks...Uhmmn.Mo than nine sef.Limitless. We don't know who'll b who among the children.Whatever number Allah s.w.t blessed us with masha Allah.Some've have stayed for many yrs without having a child...going here and there from one babalawo(boka in my lang) to another.Children are blessings from Allah the Creator of all that existed,existing and those that shall exist. May Allah bless us with pious spouses,happy family and blessed children ameen. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 8:57pm On Oct 22, 2013 |
Esji80: loading...QUALITIES OF HIJABAllah the most High stated in the Noble Qur’an: “O Prophet! Tell your wives and daughters and the women of the Mumimun to draw their outer garments closely round themselves. Allah is Ever-Forgiving,Most Merciful.” Suratul- Ahzab- 59. Also in Suratun-Nur- 31 Say to the mumin women that they should lower their eyes and guard their private parts and not display their adornments except for what normally shows. And draw their head-coverings across their chests. They should only display their adornments to their husbands or their fathers or their husbands’ fathers or their sons or their husbands’ sons or their brothers or their brothers’ sons or their sisters’ sons or other women or those they own as slaves or their male attendants who have no sexual desires or children who still have no awareness of women’s private parts. Nor should they stamp their feet so that their hidden ornaments are known. Turn to Allah every one of you, mumineen, so that hopefully you will have success.” From the above verses of the Noble Qur’an,we understand that hijab has been made compulsory on Muslim women just like other obligations have been made compulsory on Muslims. For example, like salat, fasting in the month of Ramadan etc. And just as salat, zakat and fasting have specific ways of observing them, so also has hijab specific way of observing it. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 8:13pm On Oct 22, 2013 |
ummsulaym: umm Nusayba, u got me laughing... Ummsulaym is a kuniya taken after a female sahab I never saw though but love so much... Her real name is Ghumaysa, some say Rumaysa... But I don't know if she had a son called sulaym. You & I have sumtin in common*gathering names for the unborn* and we aren't even married yet*LOL*. My dream names for boys are Muhammad and Jibril, for females; Summaya and Rahila... My name is Haritha*just like Adam feminize to Adama, LOL*w/salam.Nice names Haritha and Waduuda. For me I'm hearing these names for the first time. For my daughters in sha Allah.They'll b : Maryam,Mardiya,Nusayba,Fauziya,Zilfa'u,Fatima,Rukayyat,Zainab,Aisha...... |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 6:40am On Oct 22, 2013 |
NO. As I qouted what Dr Qaradawi said there was no any of sahabah that shaved beard. But the scholars equate it with dyeing the hair since they serve the same purpose-to be different from the jews and christains. @Ummu ,ameen. loading...QUALITIES OF HIJAB |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 12:41am On Oct 22, 2013 |
ummsulaym: sis sissie question-answered your question gbaskilly*pardon my grammar*... Really, that's a straight foward answer she gave even though in a question format...You are the kind of sister a gud brother will long to've as his adorable first lady *wink* y? Due to the love you'll have for the coming co-wives... The Prophet p.b.u.h said "none of your trully believes until he/she loves for his/her brother/sister what he/she loves for himself/herself" Another question- Does wearing hijab diminishes a sister's beauty? *wink* I was advising a sister to be dressng hijabatedly-she said actions are judged according to intensions...have I finish washing my sins...she knows the way she worship her God etc. Thanks for your contribution Jazakillahu khair |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 12:19am On Oct 22, 2013 |
harmeenart: Dyeing gray hair and shaving the beards are two different issues with different judgements and cant be compared.check www.muttaqun.com for evidences on beards,cant type much.I hope it helps a little.Jazakillahu khaira. I visited the site,masha Allah well organised. But there is no where that they compare dyeing hair and letting the beard grow. The essence of dyeing the hair and letting the beards grow is the same-to be different from the jews and christains. So they have the same judgement. Al-Bukhari,on the authority of Abu Hurairah,reported the Prophet p.b.u.h as saying "The Jews and the Christains do not dye their hair,so be different from them" Reported by Bukhari in his book clothing,Chapter "Dyeing the Hair" Some sahabas such as Ali,Ubay ibn ka'b and Anas did not dye their hairs according to scholars. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 12:06am On Oct 22, 2013 |
tbaba1234: ^Has to do more with ' arrogance' ?Yeah |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 11:17pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
***Trousers below the ankle Abdullah ibn ‘Umar narrated that the Prophet (saws) said : “Whoever trails his garment out of pride Allah will not look at him on the Day of Judgment.” Abu Bakr said “One of the sides of my garment drags below [the other] unless I protect myself against that.” The Prophet (saws) said “You don’t do that out of arrogance.” [Bukhari] Also in another hadith Abu Huraira narrated that the Prophet (saws) said “Whatever is below the ankles of the izār is in the Fire” [Bukhari] |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 10:55pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
tbaba1234: I think we have to analyse the evidence for each position to see what is more convincing.He said shaving the beards is Makruh. Growing it is commendable rather than obligatory. He further stated that the reason for growing the beard is to be different from the non-believers,it is similar to the matter of dyeing gray hair in order to be distinct from the jews and christains; it is known that some of the sahabah did not dye their gray hair, signifying that it was commendable rather than obligatory. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 10:42pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
Esji80: Assalamu alaikum w.wAbu Huraira r.a narrated that the Prophet p.b.u.h said "I won't b a witness for 2 ppl who are destined for the Fire: ppl with whips like the tails of cows,who beat the ppl(i.e tyrannical rulers who are the enemies of their ppl),and women who although clothed, are yet naked,seducing and being seduced,their hair styled like the tilted humps of camels. These will not enter paradise nor will its fragrance even reach them,although its fragnance reaches a very great distance" Reported by Muslim |
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