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Sissie: Adoption in Islam has its rules and it's different from the adoption non Muslims do.

an adopted child in Islam is not your real child and as such he keeps his last name and don't bear yours, if he was adopted as a baby and breast-fed he becomes ones foster child, if he wasn't breast-fed all the rules that apply to non-mahram applies to him, and he can marry your biological child.

Sissie: I have discussed with friends and I hear men say, for some of them they know almost immediately they meet a female if they want to marry her or not, that's before the getting to know you phase, do any of the guys here think so too?

The getting to know you phase just usually reinforce what they initially thought.

babylolaroy: i didnt miss the sarcasm in your tone.

why not just lets marry nd born first to know whats up?

dyfatai: its more of a compliment. Wot kinda man proposes on a social neywork? Well, not d kind d@ wants a wife d@'ll train his children 2 memorize d quran by TEN, sahih bukhari nd muslim by FIFTEEN.

dyfatai: Anytime i think of a wife 2 marry, i can't but think of one d@ has proper understanding of d deen like u. I've never met u, but u'll make a very wonderful wife to any man who is blessed 2 marry u. Salam

babylolaroy: Aameen. inshaaAllah
she claimed to have been distracted from other things as she spent too much time online so she saw the only option of leaving

babylolaroy: thanx Esji. i will just let the course of things flow naturally.
As per what you quoted from umm sulaym about "we cannot look flashy".what she meant is dat we must not wear flashy hijab not dat hija doesnt make us look flashy. shez advising that we can look anyhow buh musnt be flashy

And for the records, she deactivated NL already...shez gone. i guess we'll miss ha online

ummsulaym: We CAN look nice and good with our hijabs BUT we CANNOT look flashy...

babylolaroy: he wants a muslim decent sister wic he may not readily find in d dating section

babylolaroy: i cant practice law with niqab. Not even when hijab is not approved of and i have thus decided to leave the practice of law. Once am done wth the study just for study sake. i got admitted for law b4 i realised dah we cant practice with hijab. its kinda too late to turn bak, am already in 300lv.
sista Ameen, inshaaAllah, i hope to find such a man that will allow me to do my deen.

babylolaroy: mashaaAllah. Am not a niqabite buh i av a dream to that effect inshaaAllah. i am a law student and it is not allowed in law. thats what is stopping me buh inshaaAllah as soon as am done with law, i will start using the niqab...i wont practise law niyen

harmeenart: Assalam alaykum.
I was conversing with a brother very recently and he mentioned to me that he can't marry a sister that uses the niqab/face veil.Personally,from his level of understanding and religious commitment,I expected a positive response.Then,I felt niqab/face veil should be discussed before marriage.
Do you think its an ''issue''?

Gooci: abi ayam a late comer ni?

busar: As for me, i don't like reading long post. Let stick to the purpose of the thread.
My question : I once told a friend of mine about a sister that I would love to marry. The sister is kind of older than me and he, my friend, was like 'don't you mind the age?' I said, 'I don't mind oh'.
Can you marry a sister that is older than you? And to the sister, can you marry a brother you are older than?

babylolaroy: we have sed sorry. besides it dont matter nohow. the topic is let us have a talk. not let us talk abt hijab and beards alone. And dats what we are doing...having a talk. what we have sed aint useless bro, you can learn too and every oda person. its not like we r talking about secondary school math class

babylolaroy: first am not opposed to having co-wives o..am very very cool with it mashaAllah buh i'd like to be d first.

Allahu Akbar for what Nusaybah did den. i've neva heard that story b4 though. aww i can imagine wat she went thru afta dat brutal amputation

babylolaroy: first am not opposed to having co-wives o..am very very cool with it mashaAllah buh i'd like to be d first.

Allahu Akbar for what Nusaybah did den. i've neva heard that story b4 though. aww i can imagine wat she went thru afta dat brutal amputation

babylolaroy: Aameen. Alhamdulila for the gift of hijab for we muslimahs. i hate to even imagine myself outside my house w/o it. It brings honour and respect and you even feel good observing a right deed in d deen.
BTW, i av a question pls. i'v heard that while observing the hijab, one has to cover every undercloth. thus hijab has to touch feet or more. this is because even d undercloth is regarded as adornment. Though i dnt wear my hijab dah way, i wud like to know if its ok to wear half jilbaab like to d waist wth a normal cloth-ankara or lace or anything. something like wat am wearing at my dp.
i see some sisters wearing d same color and material of hijab as dia inner gown. the plain types. is dat the correct use of Al-hijab?

babylolaroy: Aameen. Alhamdulila for the gift of hijab for we muslimahs. i hate to even imagine myself outside my house w/o it. It brings honour and respect and you even feel good observing a right deed in d deen.
BTW, i av a question pls. i'v heard that while observing the hijab, one has to cover every undercloth. thus hijab has to touch feet or more. this is because even d undercloth is regarded as adornment. Though i dnt wear my hijab dah way, i wud like to know if its ok to wear half jilbaab like to d waist wth a normal cloth-ankara or lace or anything. something like wat am wearing at my dp.
i see some sisters wearing d same color and material of hijab as dia inner gown. the plain types. is dat the correct use of Al-hijab?

babylolaroy: are yu becuming abu nusaybah because i'm ummu nusaybah?....lol. i wnt marry you so dnt steal my baby's name
by the way, wat is zilfau....male or female name?

ummsulaym: Lol, no just dey gbadun am, try dey add seasoning... Ehen, no be bad tin u do o*fear catch you ni? Lol* and for liking her name, she say thanks...


I like mardiya too. Ehen, u said Haritha is a nice name, tnx o.
Ama Ur daughters don reach nine sha, plus sonssss, hiyaaaa! na to kuku build school, hospital, mosque and ehen, market for ur house... *mind me not, sustenance if from Allah*

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