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IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 9:47pm On Jan 01, 2014
babylolaroy: salam alaykum yaa jam'a. tbaba, mac, the new phemiey....i see y'all. i avnt been following in toto. i have been very busy with books ehn..exams in sight.
i know av really really missed buh in shaa Allah after exams i will be back full-on for a summary by TBABA or ESJI..


salam
wslm Ummu Nusaybah.May Allah grant u success in all ur exams...ameen.Don't worry, concentrate on your exams for nw,u'll in sha Allahu get d summary later.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: WAEC Recruitment Aptitude Test Let's Meet Here by Esji80(m): 8:38pm On Dec 31, 2013
Donalð Genes: You mean,while you was still serving your Youth service,and you were invited for the Waec Aptitude test at the same time? Wow! But,just be optimistic,there is a flicker of hope for you
Yes.I'll be finshg servce by Feb.I took d aptitude test on 29 Aug 2013 @ FGC Sokoto.With God all things are possible.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: WAEC Recruitment Aptitude Test Let's Meet Here by Esji80(m): 8:44pm On Dec 30, 2013
Helo..Are those that will be finishng their national service(NYSC) by february also part of the interview? tnx
Jobs/VacanciesRe: WAEC Recruitment Aptitude Test Let's Meet Here by Esji80(m): 5:01pm On Dec 27, 2013
Hahhahhahaa...I can't stop laughing.You are right.We should be mindful of our grammar.
#Brighter grammar advert
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 10:32am On Dec 26, 2013
babylolaroy: who else..ehn ehn mr esji, coughs# i reserve my comment for im
Ma iyawo..kenan...so I shld google for another iyawo b dt #soonest
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 10:26am On Dec 26, 2013
@Tbaba,congratulations.May Allah s.w.t bless the baby and make ha pious,bestow upon ha knowledge of the deen and long life to serve Him ameen. We look forward to seeing ur invitation...with any of d Alajas/hajiyas in d house...


@Ummu Nusaybah...soon.So u've gtn another Alhaji b d@...I'll miss yhu alot...May Allah s.w.t insert mutual tolerance,understandng,love,trust and compassion in2 ur hrts...ameen...Hope u'll invite us 2 d fatiha/walima...
NYSCRe: NYSC Batch A 2013 House by Esji80(m): 2:24pm On Dec 23, 2013
gen salute# Pls is there any state tha gt their december ALAWEE ? Guys don broke oo...abeg flash DG
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 4:21pm On Dec 18, 2013
babylolaroy: i see y'all
maraba(welcm), Ummu Nusaybah.
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 4:19pm On Dec 18, 2013
Assalamu alaikum.For those saying yoruba shld marry yoruba,Hausa to Bahaushiya etc...claimng cultural difference would have effect on the marriage...Where does Allah and/or His apostle p.b.u.h said Yorubas shld only marry yorubas ,Hausa etc shld only marry frm their tribes?
Will you disregard sm1 that propoes you for marriage just because he /she is frm a different tribe?

As for me,I can marry any lady frm any tribe Igbo,Hausa,Yoruba,Tangale,etc IF she has d qualities I need and she bears witness that there is no deity worthy of worship except Allah s.w.t and Prophet Muhammad s.a.w is His slave and messenger.


Jazakumullahu khaira
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 10:18am On Dec 18, 2013
am33rah: I know of a lady; a graduate, that married a secondary school cert.holder. Sisters, can you do that?
Allahu akbar.Nice question.
Prophet p.b.u.h married Khadijah r.a,a richer woman than he was.He married Juwairiya frm a Royal family,etc

I'm seekng for permission to copy and post this question to sisters on fb.

Jazakillahu khaira.
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 2:35pm On Dec 16, 2013
Assalamu alaikum.This question goes to sisters.
Qur'an 4:3 Allah s.w.t says "Marry women of ur choice,2,3 or 4,if you can't deal justly with them then marry only one ..." rough trans


Can you marry a husband that wll re-marry 3 wives? In other words Why is that most sisters don't want their husbands to re-marry?
IslamRe: Ask Your Questions About Islam And Muslims Here. You Are Highly Welcome :) :) by Esji80(m): 5:10pm On Dec 13, 2013
tpia@:
strict muslims?
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 11:33am On Dec 11, 2013
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah.

Pls my dear muslim brethen I need your views on xmas here

https://www.nairaland.com/1544050/what-does-sharia-says-christmas


JAZAKUMULLAHU KHAIRA
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 7:53pm On Dec 08, 2013
ssultana: the lady is probably too nice and cant say no or where the selfish ones are concerned,she doesnt want to lose the option of having u around just in case.........or,she just needs ur friendship and nothing more at the time
But sisters shouldnt keep brothers in a waiting state for long...Some days or week(s) is enough to think over a proposal and reply NO/YES.

If no fyn he'll look for where he'll b accepted,if yes Alhamdulillah.

Another point there is no harm in a sister asking for a brother...the fear of turnng down shouldn't be there...it's either you are accepted or rejected whether it's a bro-sis or sis-bro proposal.

May Allah choose us d best spouses ameen.

Jazakumullahu khaira
IslamRe: Ask Your Questions About Islam And Muslims Here. You Are Highly Welcome :) :) by Esji80(m): 7:19am On Dec 07, 2013
^^^ jazakallahu khair
IslamRe: Ask Your Questions About Islam And Muslims Here. You Are Highly Welcome :) :) by Esji80(m): 11:57pm On Dec 06, 2013
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah.
My fellow muslim brethren I want
know what Islam says about:
1. Wishing christians merry xmas
2.Eating xmas food,drinks,meat etc.
Jazakumullahu khaira
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 7:35pm On Dec 05, 2013
babylolaroy: wa alayka salam
i dont know the thread yu are referring to..who opened it? or i suppose yu have found it by now?
Though I've created another thread for my questions(on xmas).I later found d gen questions thread.Sm1 here

www.nairaland.com/1544050/what-does-sharia-says-christmas

directed me to the thread(gen questions).

Thanks ma iyawoo...
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 7:30pm On Dec 05, 2013
babylolaroy: wa alayka salam
i dont know the thread yu are referring to..who opened it? or i suppose yu have found it by now?
IslamRe: What Does Shari'a Says About Christmas? by Esji80(op): 7:28pm On Dec 05, 2013
jazakillahu khaira.

By shar'ia here I mean Islamic law-laws frm d Qur'an and Hadith/Sunna of Prophet p.b.u.h....
IslamWhat Does Shari'a Says About Christmas? by Esji80(op): 2:58pm On Dec 05, 2013
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah.

My fellow muslim brethren I want know what Islam says about:

1. Wishing christians merry xmas
2.Eating xmas food,drinks,meat etc.

Jazakumullahu khaira
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 11:40am On Dec 05, 2013
Assalamu alaikum.

Please sm1 should direct me to general Islamic questions thread.


Jazakumullahu khaira
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 1:39pm On Dec 03, 2013
am33rah: Can you marry someone you don't love just because the person is a good muslim or muslimah? Can that alone sustain the marriage without the conventional love? Some people say you can come to love a person when you get used to them,does that work everytime?
Yes.Of course love can generate frm that.Any lady I like for her being a gud muslimah..falling in love with ha it's easy...

One very important quality that I'll consider must in a lady that I'll marry in shaa Allahu is her being a good muslimah.

The Prophet p.b.u.h said marry a lady for her wealth,piety,beauty or for her lineage.

May Allah choose us d best.ameen
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 5:18pm On Dec 01, 2013
I don't knw y some sisters keep brothers in a waiting state for about a year or more...without saying NO/YES

I don't knw whether it's frm their processor that has low processing speed...

You'll ask for a sister...she'll say I'll thnk over it and keep u in a waiting state for long...
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 5:16pm On Nov 28, 2013
Sissie: Wa yakkum

No among people prohibited in marriage is foster relations i.e foster mother,foster sister, foster brother.

If the child was adopted and not breast-fed as in the case of zayd yes they can marry.

Zayd was adopted but not breast-fed.
1s mo
Jazakillahu khaira.
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 4:45pm On Nov 28, 2013
Sissie: Adoption in Islam has its rules and it's different from the adoption non Muslims do.

an adopted child in Islam is not your real child and as such he keeps his last name and don't bear yours, if he was adopted as a baby and breast-fed he becomes ones foster child, if he wasn't breast-fed all the rules that apply to non-mahram applies to him, and he can marry your biological child.
Jazakillahu khaira.

Islamically,can sm1 marry d divorced wife of his/her adopted son(breast-fed)?...I want to knw as in d case of zaid and d Prophet p.b.u.h...whch type of adoption was d@...
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 3:57pm On Nov 28, 2013
Sm1 shld please elaborate on Q33:37-40(Prophet's p.b.uh marriage wt zainab bnt jahash-divorced wife of his adopted son(Zaid)).Does these verses prohibits adoption? If yes,whch type of adoption?

Jazakumullahu khaira
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 1:33pm On Nov 28, 2013
Sissie: I have discussed with friends and I hear men say, for some of them they know almost immediately they meet a female if they want to marry her or not, that's before the getting to know you phase, do any of the guys here think so too?

The getting to know you phase just usually reinforce what they initially thought.
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 12:26pm On Nov 28, 2013
[quote author=Sissie][/quote]how can sm1 know d@ frm first impression?
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 5:44pm On Nov 27, 2013
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah.

@Busar,jazakallahu khair for such beautiful reminders on bidi'a(innovation) and it's consequences.

I want to remind us about few things.
Firstly,these hadiths on innovation are refering to INNOVATION of acts of IBADATS which were not endorsed by Allah s.w.t and/or Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h. Not innovations like cars,bicycle,aeroplane,etc


In the above you qouted they are cautioning us on d effects of celebrating birthdays...treatng d day with special attention,parties emulating d kuffarsetc.The Prophet p.b.u.h said we shld be different frm jews and xtians.

A brother I met on facebook was telling me that tafsir,maulid(celebration of the Prophet's birthday) and qur'anic musabaqa(competition) are all acts of ibadats that were innovated.He further classified innovation of act of ibad@ into two(gud-Tafsir n Maulid, bad-musabaqa).Though I agreed with him that maulid is an innovation.But I ddnt I agree wth d two classifications-gud/bad.Wakullu bidi'atin daolala,wa kullu daolalatin fin naar...every innovation(of acts of ibadat) is misguidance,every misguidance leads to hell fire...rough trans

May Allah guide us all.ameen
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 5:39pm On Nov 27, 2013
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah.

@Busar,jazakallahu khair for such beautiful reminders on bidi'a(innovation) and it's consequences.

I want to remind us about few things.
Firstly,these hadiths on innovation are refering to INNOVATION of acts of IBADATS which were not endorsed by Allah s.w.t and/or Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h. Not innovations like cars,bicycle,aeroplane,etc


In the above you qouted they are cautioning us on d effects of celebrating birthdays...treatng d day with special attention,parties emulating d kuffarsetc.The Prophet p.b.u.h said we shld be different frm jews and xtians.

A brother I met on facebook was telling me that tafsir,maulid(celebration of the Prophet's birthday) and qur'anic musabaqa(competition) are all acts of ibadats that were innovated.He further classified innovation of act of ibad@ into two(gud-Tafsir n Maulid, bad-musabaqa).Though I agreed with him that maulid is an innovation.But I ddnt I agree wth d two classifications-gud/bad.Wakullu bidi'atin daolala,wa kullu daolalatin fin naar...every innovation(of acts of ibadat) is misguidance,every misguidance leads to hell fire...rough trans

May Allah guide us all.ameen
EducationRe: Difference Between Been And Being ? by Esji80(m): 5:49pm On Nov 22, 2013
Helo ds thread I believe is a conglumeration of nairaland English gurus...just like d nairand mathematics clinic...

Differentiate btw these words:
1.can and could
2.smh and lol
3.omo and kuku
4.lmao and lol
5.Iyawo and ojo...more words are comng...lol
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Esji80(m): 3:18pm On Nov 21, 2013
Assalamu alaikum...

Beauty doesn't relate to attitude...A lady can be beautiful and have good attitude.She can be of good attitude but not d@ beautiful...Similarly,she can be beautiful but have no good attitude...They said beauty lays in...


Reported by Abu Hurairah
(RA): The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "A woman is married for four things: for her wealth,for her lineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious, may
you be blessed!".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

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