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RomanceRe: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Espada10: 11:12am On Apr 29, 2018
pocohantas:
Not at all. I just had to state an observation. And something I saw him do last night, reinforced my observation. Maybe you're doing what he wishes he could do.



Trust donstan? Hahahaha, I rather spend a night in a lion's den grin
Not like it matters anyway. He is the only NLDER who wa^ks to every vile comment and still laughs with you. I don't know how he does it, but it's not easy.
nahhh..donstan18 is a cool guy and one of the few guys I like here ...him and ubunja ( I know you hate that one with passion ).

they are not perfect but most of the time I like their reasonings and where they are coming from.

Donstan18 abeg , Come oo and explain

I thought that after everything and last last , you and poco na pady pady.
RomanceRe: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Espada10: 11:04am On Apr 29, 2018
donstan18:
You'v got a point bro, a very good point.

Some ladies of these day are something else, no loyalty and respect for the preeq that paid their bride price, most of them be hopping into marriages just for "Mrs" when they'v got no love for the man, hereby punishing and giving themselves reasons to cheat embarassed

Oh! well, what do we know, they'll still blame the society for that. cheesy

Cry? Did you say cry? Like, who d'fvck does that? Cry for a cheat grin

Well, it's a fvcked world, DNA should be mandatory to save unforeseen emotional traumas.
exactly but I have seen grown men cry( it is not by muscle or brain oo) that shit hurts

but it depends on what form it comes

let me explain

if you discover it early or in your youth ..the emotion you will feel is anger..cutoff the woman from your life ( except you are one of our nairaland Martin ) ..you can afford to start over and move on with your life

but if discover it your old age ..that shit hurts like hell not necessary because of the cheating woman but of the time and investments ( both emotionally and physically ) you have already wasted on the bastard. It hurts more ( it is hurts more..it is not by muscle or brain or Alpha or Beta).

but whatever the circumstances never forgive such a woman.


but to your comment I say

RomanceRe: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Espada10: 10:45am On Apr 29, 2018
pocohantas:
Why are you both always in hurry to quote each other?

That's aside other observations.
Oh well,what do I know...
lol..it is like this my comment dey toy with your brain

pocohantas:
I can come in any form anyways.

If you know my main account ..you will be very shocked
relax..my main rarely visit romance section..I use it mainly on properties auto etc

But it is like donstan18 is one of those few guys you said you trust?

RomanceRe: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Espada10: 9:57am On Apr 29, 2018
donstan18:
If husbands start doing that cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy Marriages will crash.
That is even better
infact it should be made a law and mandatory for every hospital.

of course it will hurt ...you will even cry but

It is better to discover that kid is not yours on time( so you cand be able to move on as early as possible) than when you are old

and you discovered that you invested your money on one or two random bastard.

because make no mistake....in this day and age , one day you must surely know.

that is enough to send any man to an early grave

or don't you prefer it.
RomanceRe: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Espada10: 9:34am On Apr 29, 2018
My own is that. . The husband better use that money for push present ( whatever the hell that means) and do a DNA test
CelebritiesRe: Alex Replies A Non-Fan Who Said Her Parents Are Very Poor by Espada10: 2:27pm On Apr 28, 2018
pocohantas:
I don't live in the West.
Okay, but you know how to speak yoruba or is that google translation



pocohantas:
Perception. smiley
You get so many 'feelings'.
Even if I cut my head give you to chop, you will still get another 'feeling'... grin
I won't lie on that ..I will be suspicious oo with another feeling....You are a damn chameleon


pocohantas:
You have spoken well. For the first time ever.
If you say so...that is is your opinion ...

I can come in any form anyways.

If you know my main account ..you will be very shocked
let me quickly add... I am not your ex nairaland boyfriend













( I know you are going to say who is now the chameleon )

tongue
PropertiesRe: New 10 Flats Of 2 Bedrooms Construction In Onitsha City by Espada10: 9:23am On Apr 28, 2018
ezesj:
Not even 50million will complete a 5 storey of 12flats even with the tightest budget..... Anyways, 60-65million should do, EXCLUDING land
Kai buhari don spoil everything


My dad bulit one during the early days of jonathan with 35 million..no kidding...

he wants to build another one ...I just want to calculate the estimates

and also, he is no longer on talking terms with the previous contractor.

anyway ..thanks
PropertiesRe: New 10 Flats Of 2 Bedrooms Construction In Onitsha City by Espada10: 9:17am On Apr 28, 2018
spyder880:
It will depend on a lot of things, especially the building plan, please contact me on 0803 335 0750 for a quote. Thanks.
cool will do that...thanks
CelebritiesRe: Alex Replies A Non-Fan Who Said Her Parents Are Very Poor by Espada10: 9:16am On Apr 28, 2018
pocohantas:
Ermm, I can't relate to this.
This whole superiority complex is actually exhibited by those same ones doing business in the SW. The same ones shouting Biafra/Lagos is a no man's land, but won't come back home grin. They are the ones that come home for Xmas and act like they're above us.
That's because Lagos is more developed than the 'East'.
That is exactly what I am saying ...you talk as if you live in the east not in the West

pocohantas:
I don't shade or hate my identity. I don't shade igbos. If there are two things I don't dabble into...it's religious and tribal taunts. Anyone that knows be beyond here would know that fact. I am just not cut out for that excessive victim mentality, some are known to put up.
Okay, if you say so.

It is just that I get that air of condescending tone when on rare occasions you talk about igbos.

it is like you are ashamed or what.

That is just the feeling I get from you but maybe there is nothing there

That is why I linked your attitude to igbos living in Lagos.


I agree with this statement you just made

pocohantas:
This whole superiority complex is actually exhibited by those same ones doing business in the SW. The same ones shouting Biafra/Lagos is a no man's land, but won't come back home grin. They are the ones that come home for Xmas and act like they're above us.
That's because Lagos is more developed than the 'East'.
those guys are the most stupid set of people on planet earth.

That is why i just want akwaibom to have a standard seaport and one very good international airport with embassies close by or

Demolish or upgrade that Enugu motor park "so called " international airport to a more standard and sophiscated airport.

That is how you win not by claming another man's land while your own remain undeveloped.

who is deceiving who?

anyway that is my understanding ..it is just that SE and SS governments don't think that far.
CelebritiesRe: Ebuka Obi-Uchendu And Cee-C At A Pageantry. Ebuka Lied? (Throwback Photo) by Espada10: 8:38am On Apr 28, 2018
ireneony:
Cee-c is trending more than the winner.
That girl is called to be a star.
Argue with your armpit.

On another note..
Ebuka fine sha ;see muscles..
The kind of physique I want my man to have.
cool..
but why would a man with nice physique want an amoeba like you?
Christianity EtcRe: Lady Who Ran Mad And Stripped Unclad In Owerri, Rescued After Prayers. Photos by Espada10: 8:23am On Apr 28, 2018
Nothing is more enjoyable than seeing a woman after all her gra gra..last last, her head go cool like ice block..that is a remarkable sight to behold
FamilyRe: "My Wife’s Beauty Makes Me Sleepless, I Want A Divorce" - Zimbabwea Man To Judge by Espada10: 5:58pm On Apr 27, 2018
I was waiting to hear affair or any type of cheating but this ...

Mr Man ..tell us your real agenda or give us a good excuse ..so we can start from there to defend you.
FamilyRe: "My Wife’s Beauty Makes Me Sleepless, I Want A Divorce" - Zimbabwea Man To Judge by Espada10: 5:58pm On Apr 27, 2018
I was waiting yo hear affair or any tyoe of cheating but this ...

Mr Man ..tell us your real agenda..so we can start from there to defend you.
CelebritiesRe: Alex Replies A Non-Fan Who Said Her Parents Are Very Poor by Espada10: 5:50pm On Apr 27, 2018
pocohantas:
It wouldn't kill you to answer though wink
but why do you hate your fellow igbos from the east.

You look down on them.

You shade them at any given opportunity

not just you sha..but it is a typical behaviour of igbos living in southwest especially lagos.

They take pride in speaking Yoruba than Igbo.

They have this delusional air of superiority around them.

even though most of them are living in "face me I face you apartment" in lagos.

Funny enough, igbos living abroad proudly identifies with igbos in southeast.

So why that pride?.
CelebritiesRe: Alex Replies A Non-Fan Who Said Her Parents Are Very Poor by Espada10: 10:22am On Apr 27, 2018
pocohantas:
Where have you been? I missed you grin
You are actually good at deflection.

If I dont know you very well ..I would have fallen for it

CelebritiesRe: Alex Replies A Non-Fan Who Said Her Parents Are Very Poor by Espada10: 9:41am On Apr 27, 2018
the troll sounds like that girl pocohantas..

the way she was shading alex and nina and girls from south east was appalling.


The funny part is that pocohantas is also igbo .. but she thinks insulting igbos living in the east makes her enlightened and exposed.
PropertiesRe: New 10 Flats Of 2 Bedrooms Construction In Onitsha City by Espada10: 6:17pm On Apr 26, 2018
Oga, what is the estimate of bulding a 5 story ( consisting of mostly 2 bedrooms flats and then 3 bedroom flat) in this economy now. Will 30 million be able to cover it.
RomanceRe: Help I Think I've Been Exposed by Espada10: 4:54pm On Apr 26, 2018
Ire2:
HIV is very hard to contact. Takes more than one exposure to contact it. So relax. And stop sleeping with hookers jeez. Get a gf, how do you guys even manage to sleep with someone everyone sleeps with? Well maybe because I be aje butter sha. Never used the public toilet once before in my life. So Bleep it.

RomanceRe: "Marriages Fail Because Men Seek Contentment While Women Pursue Happiness" by Espada10: 6:44pm On Apr 25, 2018
Lalas247:
If men were content ... cheating won’t exist
Most are greedy they want a wife but freedom to explore other females ..

Nothing wrong with wanting to be happy !
Thank God, you are getting married
RomanceRe: "Marriages Fail Because Men Seek Contentment While Women Pursue Happiness" by Espada10: 6:42pm On Apr 25, 2018
Lalas247:
If men were content ... cheating won’t exist
Most are greedy they want a wife but freedom to explore other females ..

Nothing wrong with wanting to be happy !
Thank God, you are getting married
RomanceRe: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Espada10: 11:27am On Apr 22, 2018
Kinggnicole:
Lol
There's so many things wrong with your post and those who know, know.

Girls whatever choice you make or whatever is your preference just know that your career can't wake up one day and tell you he don't love you no more.
Dont worry when you are fired or that someone's company you are slaving for ( morning till evening ) ..wakes up one day and folds up...

then your eyes will clear
CelebritiesRe: Princess Shyngle: Man Who Doesn't Make You ‘Cum’, Don't Waste Your Time With Him by Espada10: 11:23pm On Apr 21, 2018
She looks like one of those girls in kingthablack porn videos
RomanceRe: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Espada10: 12:21pm On Apr 20, 2018
IamD18:
This is one of the things that annoys me about these loose non-virgins, they are good in telling lies and trying to play smart by playing with your intelligence.

After turning their private part to tourist centers and loosing their virginity to their street mechanics for biscuit and coke, they'll start coming up with stupid sort of lies when asked.

It's either their uncle molested them or the lost it while riding a bicycle.

If they did not loose it while laughing, then they lost while crying.

Most of them will even tell you that they lost it while dancing shaku shaku!

If you aren't a virgin, please stop telling lies and misleading men who loves virgin, it's disgusting, loosing your virginity isn't the end of the world.

RomanceRe: I Secretly Got Rid Of 2 Pregnancies For Hubby While Waiting To Marry My BF Overs by Espada10: 3:10pm On Apr 19, 2018
What the fvck did I just read

That article about "Why men are scared to get married "comes to mind
PhonesRe: Have U Seen The Nokia Edge (nokia 8 Siroco) by Espada10: 3:01pm On Apr 19, 2018
If only Nokia entered the android market on time..samsung won't even be making noise
RomanceRe: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Espada10: 12:09pm On Apr 18, 2018
LegitGirl:
Nope. That's different. If that were the case, I'd have said 10. But I'm talking about men who are willing to be serious with her...not just screw and bounce.
more than 1 can be anything. .
it an be infinity

In maths it is represented as
x > 1

Men being serious with her ..maybe on bed or side chick

and you are lying but

RomanceRe: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Espada10: 12:03pm On Apr 18, 2018
lefulefu:
gbam gbam gbam!cheesy... Better oil dey ur headcheesy. Olosho veterans wey we dey tag as Madamscheesy ..most of them prefer their singlehood. They still engage in their olosho business once in a while and dem go recruit young young girls into their armycheesy. This is why i always say olosho business be like military job. Once a soldier..always a soldier...once a runzgirl...always a runzgirlcheesy. Many of them wen dhier ppl don too pressurize dem into marriage or their collegues dey laugh dem...then what dey do is look for one mumu Jeew guy..entice am by faking to be nice and when she don marry d mumu guy dats wen she start showing him pepper. As soon as she don preg and born then get dat Mrs tag,she go divorce d mumu man and carry d child and resume with her olosho business.na so dem becheesy. This is why its important d woman dat u want to get married to try know more about her. Listen to what ppl say around and weigh ur options thoroughly. If she be one chance park ur bag and run for ur lifecheesy. Gud morning my brothercheesy.
Perfect advise..before you marry a girl..pls ask around..dig well..study her very well especially her friends and her family.

Look for people who knows her ,attends or attended school with her and ask ( never fail to this). Be sincere and ask them..u can even pay for information ..Don't be suprised even her "so called" friends will tell you who she really is .


One of the greatest myth on earth is that you can never know or tell with women.

that is a fat lie.

there is always signs

women are smart but not that smart and they lie better than you.

Always pay attention to whatever she says( whether as a joke or not)..never dimiss it

It is just that men and their non-chalant attitude , ego and asslicking behaviours often understimate and dismiss that signs.

Pay very close attention to your so called woman for 3 months..monitor her at a distance but not that close.

You will start predicting her next move..when she changes from the woman you use to know.

or

when she is trying so hard to pacify for something

or

if she is faking it

never you dismiss your fears about her..if you suspect anything ..act on it until you are satisfied ..Don't dismis it..

Actually, women are good at this.

example

It is better you discover that your child is not yours at an early stage than when you are old. Of course it will hurt and you will be devastated. .even cry but is better and you can move on time ( that is an example)


unless you're under a spell then OYO is your name.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Espada10: 10:55am On Apr 18, 2018
LegitGirl:
Very correct @bolded. I don't know why men have decided to lie to themselves that they can get married anytime they wish. An average girl has more than one man trying to win her affections.
Correction

An average girl has more than one man trying to FVCK her
....

now you are good to go
RomanceRe: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Espada10: 10:11am On Apr 18, 2018
SonsOfLiverpool:
Very soon baby mamarism will be the new "marriage"

Humans, we keep inventing things to suit ever changing environment.

Nice.
actually, it is not about change but rather history repeating itself.

Despite the so called civilization. .baby mama is the new marriage.

A man can afford 2 or 3 baby mamas in Nigeria with less stress and less responsibility in Nigeria just like our for-fathers did with their many wives before Christianity destroyed that .

Now it is back and better in another form and it keeps growing even helped by feminism(with-out them knowing) ..by next generation ..marriage of one man -one woman will be obsolete.

The only thing a man owes himself on earth is to be successful in life because nature is already in your corner . You already have that advantage
RomanceRe: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Espada10: 9:43am On Apr 18, 2018
IamaNigerianGuy:
When you count the number of unhappy marriages ...
When you count the number of divorces...
When you witness the humiliation and spousal abuse both parties go through...
when you witness spousal infidelity...
People living in pain and dying in silence...
When you consider the unrealistic demands of women...
When you realize 'most hoes a'int faithful'....
When you come to know that sex is cheap and abundant in our time...
When you consider the bad economy.....

You will be afraid of marriage too OP
So True ..So True
RomanceRe: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Espada10: 9:36am On Apr 18, 2018
Ebuka2016:
sorry to say but if not for social conditioning, this is what a man really wants:

1. Money
2. Steady supply of sex
3. Kids (his own fresh and blood)

a woman comes with her own set of wahala and responsibilities. The responsibility woman dey carry dey come eeh, e no be here.

Men dont really need a woman to live with them for the rest of their lives, they rather need that which only a woman supplies- sex and kids

If for say men can impregnate themselves and give birth, no single man go ever marry.

RomanceRe: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Espada10: 8:11am On Apr 18, 2018
cloud9usher:
Guys, if you are the type who has plenty girls as friends for them to show you their Facebook inbox/notifications, you'd know the type of excess attention ladies get on Facebook.

Even the ugliest girls get their inbox and notifications flooded, all thanks to stupid randy Nigerian guys who keep on licking the a*s of every lady on Facebook. When I see Nigerian guys doing this on Facebook it annoys me like mad! A lady drops a picture and you see their a*s licking comments and they also rush into her inbox as well. I tag such guys as men who find it hard getting girls, annoying set of people!

So you just used your money to buy your relationship a problem, it would take a lady with strong will not to get moved by such attention, and if its her first time getting such attention, brother you are on a long thing o! grin

If its just me or guys like myself on Facebook, I bet you most ladies would have uninstalled the app long ago. grin

Just ignore this lady, text her and inform her that you have seen she has enough attention already and yours is no longer needed, then watch, if she comes back then set standards for her to follow if she wants you guys to be cool, if she doesn't come back then smile and kiss the b*itch goodbye because such a child would only give you more headaches.
damn..I had goosebumps reading this

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