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RomanceRe: Most ladies remain single, because their sex skills is bad, and uninteresting. by essentialone(op): 10:30am On Jun 15
Starz825:
Exactly...if u ask a woman, how she wants to be taken care of...she will give you 1000 ways you can take of her ..but ask her how she intends to take care of her man..

No idea.
Smiles
RomanceRe: Could it be she likes me for real, or just wants s€× or doesn't want to pay back by essentialone(op): 6:52am On Jun 15
Do the best you can, not to be the one, that people run to, ONLY when they need Help.
FamilyRe: If you were the husband, what will you do? by essentialone(op): 6:51am On Jun 15
The persons you have sacrificed everything for, will one day tell you, that they never forced you, to do anything for them.
Jokes EtcRe: To every lady, every man is either Stingy or Stupid by essentialone(op): 6:49am On Jun 15
To learn Courtesy, is part of Education.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 6:11am On Jun 15
RomanceRe: Most ladies remain single, because their sex skills is bad, and uninteresting. by essentialone(op): 3:52am On Jun 15
Jman06:
They'll run away from this thread because to them, they don't need to do anything to please their men. They expect their men to be super powers and take up all responsibilities alone without expecting anything in return from them. This is why any man that demands accountability from women is termed as not being a gentleman.
You understand it completely.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 8:13pm On Jun 14
faoogoke:
Or rather NGX uploaded the wrong document
That too.
RomanceRe: Can You Truly Love Someone You Are Not Sexually Attracted To? by essentialone(m): 9:47am On Jun 14
Love can exist without sexual attraction, but whether the relationship survives depends on what both people actually need.

Here’s how it plays out in real life:

1. Kind + loyal + stable ≠ automatic sexual spark
Attraction has a physical, chemical, and psychological side. You can deeply love someone’s character and still not feel that pull. A lot of people stay in those relationships and call it companionate love. It can be warm, steady, and deeply supportive.

2. But sexual frustration is real
If one person needs sexual attraction to feel connected, and the other doesn’t generate it, resentment tends to creep in. Not because anyone’s bad, but because unmet needs don’t vanish. They either get talked about or they leak out as distance, irritability, or straying.

3. “Attraction grows over time” vs “must be there from the start”
Both are true, depending on the person.
- For some, sexual attraction builds as emotional intimacy deepens. That’s common for people who lean toward demisexual or sapiosexual patterns.
- For others, if the initial spark isn’t there, it never shows up. Forcing it usually leads to feeling inauthentic or trapped.

4. The foundation question
Think of it like this:
- Love is the foundation for partnership, loyalty, and building a life together.
- Sexual attraction is often the fuel for the romantic/sexual part of that partnership.

You can have a house with a solid foundation and no fuel in the generator. It stands, but some lights won’t turn on. Whether that’s okay depends on whether both people are fine living in that light level.

So where does that leave you?
If you’re asking about a specific person: the honest move is to figure out what you need sexually and emotionally, and what they need. Some couples redefine the relationship, some open it up, some stay as best friends and life partners, and some decide they’re not compatible. None of those are failures - they’re just mismatched needs made visible.
RomanceRe: Most ladies remain single, because their sex skills is bad, and uninteresting. by essentialone(op): 8:23am On Jun 14
Most ladies remain single, because their sex skills is bad enough. Do you agree?
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 5:57am On Jun 14
Crossblueart:
Good morning.
I seek your input on FCMB Group. The stock seems undervalued. Why? Is it a good stock to hold for at least 5 years?
It seems FCMB published a wrong Document.

https://doclib.ngxgroup.com/Financial_NewsDocs/47171_FCMB_GROUP_PLC-_QUARTER_2_-_FINANCIAL_STATEMENT_FOR_2026_FINANCIAL_STATEMENTS_JUNE_2026.pdf
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 5:51am On Jun 14
aj8:
Zenith: Wema
Roughly 4:1
Ratio has so far been maintained.
I am watching this ratio closely.
Wema Bank Plc

RomanceRe: Men! Stop Going On Date Without Clear Intentions - Nigerian Man Warns (Video) by essentialone(m): 7:00pm On Jun 13
If most guys tell ladies that all they want is sex, they will die a virgin.


Read again.
CultureRe: Which tradition or culture do you see as now outdated, & should be scrapped off? by essentialone(op): 10:31pm On Jun 12
Female Disinheritance, where many traditional customs bar women from inheriting land or property from parents or husbands. This leaves women completely financially vulnerable after a death. This should be scrapped off immediately.
CultureRe: Which tradition or culture do you see as now outdated, & should be scrapped off? by essentialone(op): 10:04pm On Jun 12
Wife Inheritance, where a widow is automatically passed to her deceased husband’s brother. This practice completely ignores the woman’s right to personal consent. This should be scrapped off immediately.
CultureRe: Which tradition or culture do you see as now outdated, & should be scrapped off? by essentialone(op): 10:04pm On Jun 12
Money Marriage, where young girls are given to older men in exchange for money or livestock to settle family debts. The girl becomes property and loses all personal autonomy. This should be scrapped off immediately.
CultureRe: Which tradition or culture do you see as now outdated, & should be scrapped off? by essentialone(op): 10:00pm On Jun 12
Which tradition or culture do you see as now outdated, and should be scrapped off??
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 8:31pm On Jun 12
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 8:28pm On Jun 12
Oando Plc will proceed with formal publication of the 2025 AFS. This process is expected to be completed on or before June 12, 2026, after which the Company intends to publish its Q1 2026 Unaudited Financial Statements on or before 30 June 2026.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 8:25pm On Jun 12
LivingTrust Mortgage Bank Plc looks forward to filing and publishing the 2025 AFS and the Q1 - 2026 UFS by 31st of May, 2026.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 8:21pm On Jun 12
Caverton Plc is working diligently to conclude the process and expects to complete the process and submit the Audited Financial Statements for the year ended 31 December 2025 and 2026 Q1 UFS on or before Tuesday the 5th of May, 2026.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 8:18pm On Jun 12
Aradel is working closely with its external auditors to complete the process without compromising the quality, accuracy or integrity of the financial statements. Both the FY 2025 Audited Financial Statements and the Q1 2026 Unaudited Interim Financial Statements will now be released on or before 19 June 2026.
SportsRe: Thomas Partey Denied Entry Into Canada, To Miss Opening Match by essentialone(m): 8:07pm On Jun 12
dominique:
Ghanaian international Thomas Partey denied entry into Canada, to miss opening game against Panama

Source
there were not going to win the world cup anyway, so not a big deal.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 5:34pm On Jun 12
Conoil Plc declares a Dividend of 2 Naira...
EducationRe: Mention That Topic In Mathematics, That You Still Do Not Understand. by essentialone(op): 5:33pm On Jun 12
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PoliticsRe: Where Is MC Oluomo? Is He Now A Silent Coward? by essentialone(op): 5:33pm On Jun 12
Owoino:
Don't worry, you will see him with his boys on election day. Be patient grin
Hahahahhahaha.
Christianity EtcRe: What Is D Most Foolish Or Weirdest Thing You Have Ever Done Because Of Religion? by essentialone(op): 5:33pm On Jun 12
sonmvayina:
We are the people who opened st. Patrick Catholic church,ugbowo. And like every new Catholic church, we were asked to join a society. I choose the Altar servers and legion of Mary.
As part of my legion work, I was assigned to go visit the sick at UBTH, i would go to , especially the Geriatric ward and tell them about a dead jew who loved them......and was coming again to carry them to heaven.

Hahaha, oyinbo, really did a number on us.
Lol
EducationRe: Mention That Topic In Mathematics, That You Still Do Not Understand. by essentialone(op): 6:49am On Jun 12
Whatever you criticize in other people's children, make sure that your own children do not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's wives, make sure that your own wife does not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's husbands, make sure that your own husband does not end up doing the same things.
Christianity EtcRe: What Is D Most Foolish Or Weirdest Thing You Have Ever Done Because Of Religion? by essentialone(op): 6:49am On Jun 12
Whatever you criticize in other people's children, make sure that your own children do not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's wives, make sure that your own wife does not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's husbands, make sure that your own husband does not end up doing the same things.
BusinessRe: Mention one abnormal thing Nigerians do in business, and they think it's normal. by essentialone(op): 6:48am On Jun 12
Whatever you criticize in other people's children, make sure that your own children do not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's wives, make sure that your own wife does not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's husbands, make sure that your own husband does not end up doing the same things.
RomanceRe: Giving birth to female children, is a punishment. by essentialone(op): 6:48am On Jun 12
Whatever you criticize in other people's children, make sure that your own children do not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's wives, make sure that your own wife does not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's husbands, make sure that your own husband does not end up doing the same things.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerians, Stop Sending Money To Online Beggars! Stop Encouraging Nonsense! by essentialone(op): 6:47am On Jun 12
Whatever you criticize in other people's children, make sure that your own children do not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's wives, make sure that your own wife does not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's husbands, make sure that your own husband does not end up doing the same things.
PoliticsRe: Where Is MC Oluomo? Is He Now A Silent Coward? by essentialone(op): 6:46am On Jun 12
Whatever you criticize in other people's children, make sure that your own children do not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's wives, make sure that your own wife does not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's husbands, make sure that your own husband does not end up doing the same things.

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