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When a man tells a lady, "Stop calling me Sir", what is likely happening?

"You shall reap what you sow." Why are most people not able to say 'Amen' to this?

Morizo:
In other words... wetin concern agbero with overload 😁?

Smiles. Sounds like quotes from a grandfather.

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TemporaryHansel:
Essential for what? Too much low self esteem is what is breeding such nonsense.

Calm down bro.

She was only making a Pun, using my Name.

This innovation is very sinister.

drnoel:
Lol, many guys here are too immature. Makes me wonder how they were raised.
Am calm bro.
Cheers!!

Cheers to you too. DrMaturity.

escortafrik:
Lols guys this is so not true! It’s AI . I also generated such video 😅

but is it possible or not?

There is this movie they got the idea from. Move like a Boss!

Philistine:
Criminals can use the mask to disguise

Police need to get involved in the producers of this face mask. guys could use it to run street.

doggedfighter:
I am getting by😁
Hope you are too

Yeah, I am also getting by. Thanks.

Stay cool.

doggedfighter:
Yes very necessary


Very essential too

Doggedfighter. How have you been?

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So its also essential? Lol

femi4:
I m not really interested in the face anayway.

This is a good development for people needing facial surgery

Smiles smiles smiles.

What parts are you interested in?

Just imagine ooo.

Ladies, is all these really necessary?

Avoid a Conflict Addicted Lady completely. She creates drama where there’s none. Every small issue becomes a 3-day war. Peace at home is impossible, and kids grow up in that tension.

Avoid an Unfaithful or Unrepentant Lady completely. Cheating breaks trust. Staying with someone who cheats and shows no remorse means you’re signing up for a marriage built on insecurity and suspicion.

Avoid an Irresponsible Lady completely. She has no accountability. Bills unpaid, kids neglected, house in chaos, and it’s always someone else’s fault. Marriage requires two adults. If you’re parenting her too, you’ll burn out.

Avoid an Emotionally Manipulative Lady completely. She uses guilt, tears, silent treatment, or threats to control you. “If you love me, you’ll do XYZ.” Everything becomes emotional blackmail. You end up walking on eggshells, in your own house.

Avoid a Financially Reckless or Dishonest Lady completely. She hides spending, lies about money, competes with you financially, or expects you to fund a lifestyle you never agreed to. Money fights are the number 1 cause of divorce. If you’re not on the same page about money before marriage, it gets worse after.

Avoid a Disrespectful Lady completely. She can’t disagree without insulting, belittling, or running you down in front of others. Respect is the floor of marriage. Once it’s gone, love and attraction die fast. You can’t build a home with someone who sees you as the enemy to defeat.

Cum4me:
But many men come with the intention of knack and fly.

Really?

Uptheante:
For the fact that it's only women's vagina that has hymen, that should tell you that virginity is a female virtue not a male because men don't have anything to prove sexual purity.
2ndly, it is men who finance relationships/marriage. A man spends a fortune to marry, & then take over all the expenses of the woman.
The least he should deserve is an untainted virginity so as to ensure that he's getting the best deal for all spending & effort. If he gets a vagina that has been pummeled & vandalized by others without them spending or making any commensurate effort.

Is it fair for you to pay the price for a secondhand fo car that thousands have drove for free for the price of a brand new car?

Can you buy a leftover food that many have eaten for free for the price of a freshly cooked food that has not been tampered with?

I see where you’re coming from, but a few things in this argument don’t hold up to the facts and logic.

1. Hymen ≠ proof of virginity, and it’s not exclusive to women in the way you think
The hymen is a thin membrane of tissue at the vaginal opening. Some people are born with little to none. It can stretch or tear from sports, tampon use, cycling, or nothing at all - not just sex. And it often doesn’t bleed or tear in a way that’s noticeable. So medically, it’s not a reliable test of “sexual purity” for anyone.

Men don’t have a visible equivalent, but that’s anatomy, not morality. The absence of a physical marker doesn’t mean men are incapable of sexual activity before marriage.

2. “Virginity as a virtue” is a cultural value, not a biological one
Virginity is a social and religious concept across many cultures. It’s applied to men in lots of societies too - think of expectations around chastity in many religious communities for both genders. The idea that it’s “female only” comes from specific cultural norms, not biology.

3. The car/food analogies treat people like property
Comparing a person’s sexual history to a “secondhand car” or “leftover food” reduces a human being to an object with a resale value. People aren’t commodities. Sexual history doesn’t change someone’s worth, capacity for love, health, or ability to be a good partner.

If your concern is about trust, STDs, or matching values, those are valid things to discuss before marriage. But those apply to both men and women, and they’re addressed through open conversation and testing, not through policing one person’s past.

4. On financing marriage
In Nigeria and many places, men traditionally pay bride price and take on more of the upfront costs. That’s a cultural expectation, not a universal rule. Plenty of marriages now involve shared costs, and some women are the primary earners. Even where the man finances more, a marriage is legally and emotionally a partnership - not a transaction where you buy exclusive rights to someone’s past.

If what you want is a partner with the same values and expectations around sex before marriage, that’s fair to look for. State it upfront when dating. But framing it as “paying for untouched goods” usually creates resentment, not the trust you need for marriage.

What matters more for a stable marriage is usually: shared values, communication, financial compatibility, and mutual respect - not a physical condition that can’t actually be proven.

No man comes with bad intentions to a woman's life. It's only the Woman's behaviour or continues disrespect that changes the intention of a good man.

Rape and Murder.

2 terrible crimes that deserve death penalty.

No man comes with bad intentions to a woman's life. It's only the Woman's behaviour or continues disrespect that changes the intention of a good man.

Eterna Plc Boardroom drama goes on:

2023 MD: Benjamin Nwaezeigwe
2024 MD: Abiola Lawal
2025 MD: Olumide Adeosun
2026 MD: Jude Nwaulune.





Will they also have a new MD next year 2027?

We watch and wait...

drnoel, calm down.

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