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"I remember in school, there was this girl I’d been vibing with. Honestly, I kind of loved her, her vibes, and everything. She was an Anglican
Reverend’s daughter and was a little shy. So, at some point in our friendship, I decided to ask her out. I made the move and asked her to
pick a location for the date. She chose a popular spot back then that she had never visited before. On D-Day, I came to her apartment and picked her up. When we arrived at the spot, she peeped through the gate and refused to enter. I was like, “Ah, why are you not entering? What is wrong?” Trying to determine what was wrong. She replied, “Oh, I won’t enter. I won’t enter.” Just like in play, the girl left me there and went home. I’ll never forget that incident in my life and I still don’t understand why she left abruptly."

"When I was at University, I went on a date with a girl. As there were no nearby restaurants available at the time, we decided to go for a stroll. However, my nerves got the best of me, and I found myself speaking at an unintentionally loud volume. The girl kindly brought this to my attention, and in my embarrassment, I overcompensated by speaking in an unusually low voice. Unfortunately, this messed with the flow of conversation, and despite my best efforts, the interaction did not progress as desired."

"I have had two terrible date experiences; I don’t know which is worse. The first was when I went on a date with a seemingly nice lady. She ordered a lot of things on the menu and after eating, she said she wanted to buy something for her roommate. She ordered the biggest size of pizza. When she was done, I told her my intentions, and she responded by saying that she wanted to be placed on a monthly stipend before any of the things I mentioned could happen. There and then, the feelings I had for her died a natural death. The second was another lady that I went on a date with. After the date, she said she wanted to kiss me, and I obliged. When she got close to me, the stench from her mouth nearly killed me. I had to stop her."

"We went to one of my favourite art galleries at the time, Red Door, and he just kept talking and talking and talking. I love to talk so it wasn’t
the parrot-like chatter that put me off, it was the childlike mind I was forced to engage. Handsome guy, with a great job but no substance to his person, so tragic. To top it off I was replying to a message, and he said to me “I might know the person you’re texting.”, WOW, peeking into my phone too?"

"I met this guy I’d been chatting with on Instagram, and we decided to go on a date at a restaurant. When we got to the restaurant, we ordered, the food came, and we started eating. While we were eating, he kept drinking back-to-back like there was no tomorrow. I wanted to ask why, but I was like, let me just let him be. At one point he picked up his phone, and I overheard his conversation. The person on the other end angrily asked where his car was. I didn’t take it seriously because he had previously mentioned he was a car dealer. After a few minutes, he told me to give him two minutes to see somebody outside. I said okay, and he left. After a reasonable amount of time had passed, he still hadn’t come back. I tried calling him, but it wasn’t connecting. That was when I knew I was screwed. When the bill came, it was N30,000. I had just N20,000 on me. To cut a long story short, I sorted the bill. To make matters worse, as I was leaving the restaurant, the heel of my shoe came off. That was not only the worst date experience I had; it was the worst day ever."

"Dating has never been for me to be honest because I always meet the weirdest people. A few years ago, I went out on a date with a guy. He got to the location before I did and when I arrived, after the usual pleasantries, he went ahead to ask why I was so short and advised me to wear heels more often. The whole conversation was centered around my height. It was condescending and the most awkward conversation I have ever had, yet."

Atolu01:
Her CHOICE. Entitled-feeling rats.

Jaywon dey smell her?

banku:
Ai begi, go res.

So many things go on in the country, to get a hard on self na wahala unless you get a good man or lady.

Ashewo curvy ladies plenty for town nah!

opoor

Solofresh2:
If na me be jaywon if I no fit hold am for waist,I no go snap that picture l swear

you be Iyanya? All I want is your waist. Lol

OilandGasMarket:
I have chess boards for sale let me know if you are interested

this one don tire to feed his mind, he wan use the money to feed his mouth.

https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2024/02/29/odumodublvck-blasts-jaywon-over-subpar-comment-on-his-music/

Nigerian rapper Tochukwu Ojogwu, popularly known as Odumodublvck, has fired back at his senior colleague, Jaywon, over his recent statement about his music.

In an interview with Teju Babyface, Jaywon took a hit at Odumodublvck and Burna Boy for saying “no one paved the way” for them in the music industry.

He added that despite his love for the ‘Declan Rice’ singer, his “music is not all that”.

“I see people like Odumodu, I love Odumodu even though I know his music is not all that but I love the energy. I have watched Odumodu for a while before he even blew up, it was one of my young boy that was distributing his music,” he said.

“I like the guy because the energy, the hard work, it eventually pays off. Because Burna Boy said nobody opened the way for him, you too are coming out to say nobody open the way for you. Yeah you are big but you do not say that.”

Disgruntled by Jaywon’s remark, Odumodublvck took his X page to lambast the singer while writing off his music.

He argued that despite his colleague’s years in the music industry, he has “nothing to show for it”.

Odumodublvck also urged Jaywon to look for ways to make money instead of engaging in interviews.

“Na why Ayra no gree hold your hand, make you no go talk say you have the way for her, still hold am for hand carry am go promise land,” he wrote.

“Baba you no pave any way for me. Awon FERMA, road maintenance agency. No go hustle, chor chor chor, babu workings.

“You like me, but you say my music is not all. OG no be by age, na by doings and coordination. When they can not do what you did, they start to belittle it.

“Mr Jaywon if my music is not all that, then your music is nothing. Bros you no be my OG, na me OD talk am. N****s always trying to play God because they released a song during the time of Melchizedek of old.”

https://www.gistlover.com/trending-photos-of-ayra-starr-as-she-refuses-to-allow-jaywon-to-touch-her-only-to-get-cozy-with-chris-brown-at-an-event/

Several comments have emerged following images of prominent Nigerian singer Ayra Starr with her senior colleague Jaywon and famous American musician Chris Brown.

In the trendy photographs, Ayra Starr joined a group of Nigerian musicians at a star-studded event in Los Angeles, USA.

he event was also graced by Chris Brown among other superstars ahead of highly anticipated 2024 Grammy awards coming up tonight, February 4th 2023.

Ayra Starr is also nominated for the 2024 Grammy Awards, with her hit song “Rush” listed in the category of Best African Music Performance, competing alongside other Nigerian singers Davido, Burna Boy, and Olamide.

However, in the photos circulating online, Jaywon was seen trying to take a picture with Ayra Starr only for the latter to press down the hand of the former so that he is unable to touch her.

A moment later, Ayra Starr was seen taking pictures with global star Chris Brown; by extension, the singer was in a cozy state with the American singer at the same event in Los Angeles, USA.

Reacting to this, an X user identified as Irunnia urges people to hustle harder so that they won’t be displaced just like the way Ayra Starr manages to displace Jaywon and feel free while with Chris Brown.

Irunnia wrote; “If you like, no hustle.”

https://www.gistreel.com/see-as-them-hold-him-hand-like-tiff-reactions-as-photo-of-ayra-starr-and-jaywon-surface-online/

A Photo showing how singer Ayra Starr held her colleague, Jaywon’s hand has set the internet bubbling in frenzy.

The photo which surfaced on social media shows the two entertainers striking a pose to take a shot.

However, what seems to have drawn the attention of netizens and has elicited reactions was how Ayra Starr held Jaywon.

She could be seen holding his palm with the tips of her finger as they stood side by side.

Read some reactions below:

oju_chase said: “He’s like a brother to her”

kia.legend said: “This girl want make I hate her nd if I hate her ehn, almost everybody go hate her too😂😂”

comradejerrbernard said: “See as dem hold Jaywon like say he wan tiff her mascara.”

ittumie said: “It’s not that deep. Ppl need to be calming down 🙄”

realestmimi_willy said: “It’s just a harmless reflex yall relaxxx!!!”

https://www.gistreel.com/ayra-starr-slammed-over-pose-with-kai-cenat-unlike-photo-with-jaywon/

Fast-rising singer, Ayra Starr better known as Celestial Being gets people talking following her recent link-up with the American Youtuber, Kai Cenat.

It would be recalled that Kai gained recognition in Nigeria some months ago following his visit to the country and had quite a tour of Lagos State.

In a recent video, Ayra Starr and the YouTuber linked up, captured in an adorable pose together, stirred backlashes on social media platforms.

Many compared the singer’s pose with one she had with a Nigerian songwriter, Jaywon some months ago where she held his wrist to avoid contact with her body.

Reactions as Ayra Starr poses warmly with Kai Cenat but not Jaywon
its_blackwizzy01 stated: “A picture with jaywon you hold hold him hand like paper make he no hold you abi? Avèrè start Alara gbigbê mtsseewwww”.

amateur6i penned: “Sha have money “brother jaywon hand o”

frog_voice_flop_ wrote: “This one and pants he Sha sure tape go soon leak”

damilola001 added: “This guy short oh to stylishly bend for him as a posture”

cen3ric noted: “If na Jaywon nau she go commot that hand hold am for hand”

cyril_unusual penned: “Same girl wey push that other egbon hand comot for her body”

isthatlarisa opined, “I love how they both made a name for themselves at such a young age… both 21 and dangerous!”

_prettyesther1 reacted: “But wait o00 why them wear pink together Abi today na barbie day”

thesmartnoble stated: “From the pic I observed two thing Kai is protecting his ego While Star is lighting up her pantiesAbi no be wetin the pics mean.”

thereal_marteno said: “Na this girl commot Egbon J hand.”

https://www.gistlover.com/it-makes-sense-now-why-jaywon-got-restricted-mixed-reactions-as-ayra-starr-gets-touchy-with-brazilian-fans/

Ayra Starr, a Nigerian singer, received backlash from some Nigerians for her close interaction with her LGBTQ+ fans, referred to as “SabiGays,” at a concert in Brazil. The incident occurred during her performance at the C6 Festival in São Paulo on Friday.

The SabiGays, a term created by the LGBTQ+ community in honor of Ayra Starr’s song “Sabi Girl,” were seen holding signs declaring their support. Following the concert, one of her LGBTQ+ fans, @miketrindade, shared photos of his meeting with Ayra Starr on social media, captioning it “Today I met my Starrrrrr.”

The post quickly went viral, eliciting mixed reactions from fans, especially Nigerians.

Ayra Starr later reposted the photos on her Instagram story, showing her solidarity with her LGBTQ+ fans.

It is important to mention that Ayra Starr had previously declined an embrace from a popular Nigerian musician and fan, Jaywon, at the event, sparking a discussion about her interactions with fans from diverse backgrounds.

Read some mixed reactions from Nigerians online;

@AGRF9: “The moment the gays start stanning you, it’s officially over: You are in for a long career.

“If you check very long and resistant female careers such as Madonna, Beyoncé, Mariah, Nicki etc., just to name a few, you will notice their careers were/are heavily supported by women and gays. These people will support you till the end of time.”

@Ikopema09: “It makes sense now why Jaywon got restricted”

@BayoOtedola: “Jaywon no even see hand hold”.

@Ojodale: “Jaywon no dey reach like this before you embarrass am”.

immortalcrown:
The effect of preconceived notions.

na evening school I go. abeg explain

LilMissFavvy:
Nairaland men always advise wives not to go through their husbands phones for peace of mind. Me I want to also advise men to never go for DNA for peace of mind to reign in the home .

A prostitute sighted.

Ayra Starr Blocks off Jaywon, but hugs Foreign Celebrities romantically. Why?

Which tradition or culture do you see as now outdated, and should be scrapped off?

Ilamina:
But Bonny people are just so ugly and horrible

Somehow some men have married some bad women because she was with them when they were broke and was managing poverty with them. First you are not the only guy she was piping then. Secondly no be you carry am come township. Everybody must hustle to provide for themselves.
It's only in the third world countries especially Nigeria that a lady will tell you that her prayer made a man to be successful. Sister see, in this life eeh! Anybody destined to be great must be great.
Don't allow most of this women to use self pity to make you marry them. You must learn to be a stoic man for you not to enter their trap.

Melagros:
You think so?

I know so

NairaOcean:
In the viral video, a Nigerian soldier has captured the internet's attention with a humorous yet poignant video addressing infidelity. The video, featuring the soldiers in their uniforms, shares across various platforms.

In the clip, the soldier poses a rhetorical question that has struck a chord with many viewers: "If woman can cheat on soldiers with bombs and guns...who be you wey dey carry laptop and pen?"


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4vyy5QJxEdI

a woman is not doing you a favor to stay with you when you have not made it, it is i. e she chooses you for whom you are and pray things gets better and she too have to be working as well for the betterment of you both...
And note: those gender respect their own feelings more any other sacrifice you made to them

Ilamina:

No woman will tolerate to date a broke guy she's just using the guy to pass time if a rich guy comes for her immediately she will quits!

Melagros:
COMRADES, all I've ever heard in my life about China is that:
China is productive
China has the largest economy
China gives loans to Nigeria or Africa
China will soon take over Nigeria due to insolvency
China is crime free etc
But I've never knew that prostitution is also prevalence in China. Why? Because the media never told/ informed us

Two broke people, and I believe it is the guy who still provide… Then the lady is suffering with him 🤣🤣🤣… Ndi ara

JUMO95:
I saw it on X
Dude seem to have cried his eyes out.
I see alot of comfort around him and I don't know what he could be facing but..... Mmmm

Whatever you are going through, please don't break

I remember when I visited my grandmother in our small town, she dropped some serious wisdom on me. She said “Grandson, one day some people will waste their time reading your comment.” Today is that day