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jeromestarks:
We were seven friends growing up. After University, we lost contact due NYSC posting.
Last week, we reunited at the wedding of the daughter of our village head.
To my surprise, the five that are married are not looking good at all. It was so obvious that the lady who served us food (also our close friend) asked one of us if he is sick. This guy use to have swag and clean beards then. But now, his beards look so scattered. His potbelly starts from his chest. His face have become so wide and flat. His hairs are all gone. Like, nothing on his head but skin. Clothes couldn't fit him again. Unlike when we were in the university. This guy was tall and handsome but I don't understand how he now look short, fat with shoulders raised to the neck.


He isn't the only one that looked frustrated. One can't even walk well again. Stroke? He said no. Then what happened?
The painful one is the guy who use to be gentle and happy. We all knew this guy as a jovial person. Omo! When we met at the wedding ceremony, this guy looked so depressed. The pains he goes through daily show on his face.

I thought it was the journey that put so much frustrations on them but all of them came to the wedding by fight!
The had rested in a nearby hotel for two days before the wedding day. So why did the look so bad?
The annoying part is that, as we discussed over drinks, these guys still say dumb shitts like "marriage is good oooo. Do and get married"
And I was like "marriage is good but look at you guys. You're all shadows of yourselves. Is this how you were 9 years ago?"
They all agreed that the are going through hard times caused by marriage.

I and the one who is not married looked so clean, happy and healthy. We don't have problems. We chilled with young girls at the event. We were so attractive. Unlike our married counterparts.


Omo, married men are going through a lot ooo.

2 broke people
One is struggling to break out of poverty and the other one is waiting for the first one to make it so she will claim she was there for him while he was struggling,
But my question to you my sister,
Are you forbidden from working so hard to escape poverty.
Men
She is still with you because you are her best option, there is nothing like being loyal.
I will treat a woman that stand by me very well as long as she wasn't abusive during my struggling period and claim she was doing me a favour by dating me, secondly if she is not having entitlement mentality, then I will treat her like a queen which she is.

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Lady shares "what she ordered" vs "what she got"

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Some girls be like "I suffered with him for years, now he leaves to date another woman".
When u were with him, what did u contribute? A man will manage to pay his rent and still take care of ur little needs, but because he couldn't afford the expensive ones, u call that suffering? Women need to wake up from their sleep.

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I don't even understand how and where these women got this mentality from...
"For a guy to date a broke and jobless lady, he has to be financially stable or rich.."
Like how?
As a lady, If you are from a poor background and your only hope of escaping poverty is to marry a rich man, you are in for serious issue.
The odd is exactly as betting with N100 for the hope of winning N100Million.
Only in Nollywood movies the rich marry the poor. Only in Nollywood you will see the Son of a Governor fighting his parent that he want to marry one daughter of a poor farmer in one forsaken land. Keep playing.
In real life, the rich marries the rich.
Just tell me how do you want to meet a son of a President or Minister?? How
The rich is scared of the poor to avoid being taken advantage of. The rich only use the broke ladies for fun, cos they know they will always be available. His mother won't even allow his son marry you, cos women knows women.
That's why when I see ladies waiting for a rich man, it sounds ridiculous and highly disgusting.
Few rich men in this country are taken already and they are taken by another rich woman or at least financially stable women.
It's either you build with a man and both of you makes it together or you invest in yourself and wait for your kind. Check the recent weddings for evidence.
Some ladies no get sense, how do you even want to marry a man that you have no significant impact on his wealth to treat you rightly.
Men, listen..
When you hit your prime and you start achieving your set goals, I beg you avoid broke ladies.
Ladies if you want to marry a rich man at all cost, find a billionaire like your father and marry him.

[quote author=IyaTola post=130138661][/quote]When a broke woman is dating a broke man, in her head she thinks she's doing the guy a favour for staying with him even while both of them are broke, infact the woman might even be more broke than they guy.
A broke woman do not see herself as someone who is broke in a relationship with a broke man, she just believes that she's dating the wrong man or she's doing more than enough by staying with the broke guy.
Now the irony is that they have forced and blackmail men to believe this narrative their by suggesting such broke women who date broke men as UNDERSTANDING GIRLFRIEND.
Meaning, she's just trying to endure with him in his poverty if not she would have dumped him for a better option out there.
As a man never believe in that BS, no woman is doing you a favour for dating you even while you are struggling, you both are.
Be prideful, if she's not ready to be loyal DUMP HER.
If she starts thinking she's doing you favour for dating you DUMP HER.
If she's threatening to leave DUMP HER.
no room for nonsense.
You are both broke, the truth is she's even more broke than you, she's even one of the origin why you are still broke because you are still giving her one or two from the little you are making.
Be happy she's leaving or she left for you will have more resources to chase your dream.

If he lived a good life, may his soul Rest in Peace.

If not...

zombieHUNTER:
Kindly shut up when you have nothing reasonable to say..

Yahoo boys made a dollar to be 1500

They made a paint of Garri become 4000

Yes na una cause am.

pretydiva:
Beautiful response

Beauty, is that you?

aguluobi:
Make Tinubu de do cho cho cho up n down with hw disorientated the country is. Common exchange he can not stabilize under a whole year, insecurity everywhere, inflation etc.

All bad thing in the rise with no positive of any significance. Person support Tinubu no mean say make person no get sense. Tinubu should roll up his sleeve or simply resign if he can not transform the lives of Nigerian positively.

The main cause of inflation in Nigeria cannot be tackled by CBN.

Na Yahoo Yahoo boys. Dem no dey ever price anything. Their own na "Oga na how much? Oya bring 4".

Me: 😲

🏃🏃🏃

zombieHUNTER:
Thieves in office use tribalism to keep you poor..

One year on , dollar is 1500

Kidnapping and banditry is everywhere

Food prices is high

inflation is 33% all time high

No sector is improving

Nigerians are dying of hunger

Is this the best Yoruba man can do? Ebin pawa is the song in South west

The main cause of inflation in Nigeria cannot be tackled by CBN.

Na Yahoo Yahoo boys. Dem no dey ever price anything. Their own na "Oga na how much? Oya bring 4".

Me: 😲

🏃🏃🏃

After seeing too many rings in her ears and nose, I said something in my mind, but I no go tell una.

the Consent Letter from at least one Parent, how should it be addressed?
The place is Alimosho Passport Office.

We had earlier used:

"The Passport Comptroller-General,
Nigeria Immigration Service,
Nigeria.

Dear Sir/Ma,

LETTER OF CONSENT FOR THE ISSUANCE OF AN INTERNATIONAL PASSPORT TO..."


It was rejected, and the error message on it is this:

"kindly address your application proper"

the Consent Letter from at least one Parent, how should it be addressed?
The place is Alimosho Passport Office.

We had earlier used:

"The Passport Comptroller-General,
Nigeria Immigration Service,
Nigeria.

Dear Sir/Ma,

LETTER OF CONSENT FOR THE ISSUANCE OF AN INTERNATIONAL PASSPORT TO..."


It was rejected, and the error message on it is this:

"kindly address your application proper"

the Consent Letter from at least one Parent, how should it be addressed?
The place is Alimosho Passport Office.

We had earlier used:

The Passport Comptroller-General,
Nigeria Immigration Service,
Nigeria.


It was rejected, and the error message on it is this:

"kindly address your application proper"

SuperOnyi:



I'm a big dreamer unlike most inferior Africans with smelly and dirty hair . Better go shave your dirty and smelly hair, in your next time, come back as a European or Asian .

JOESELF

All Monarchs are totally irrelevant, and useless, in today's world

SuperOnyi:



So, Africans are so inferior they copy other "races"? Are you confirming that African hair is dirty and smelly?

So God gave you that hair so you can shave it but it's cool if other races don't shave theirs? When was clipper invented?

I swear Africa can never make any progress . So you're saying ancient Africans who grew their hair were copying other races? If Nigeria makes any significant progress in 20 years, I owe you $50 million.

As if you will have the 50 million dollars even in the next 20 years. How can you owe what you do not own?

ENGLISH LANGUAGE is compulsory in Nigerian schools, while AGRICULTURE is optional. No wonder most Nigerians end up speaking good English, on empty stomachs. 🤔

SuperOnyi:



Are you trying to say the ancestors of present-day Africans were animals? Is African hair that dirty?

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Nooo way, Africa is ever rising with this kind of mentality .

It is not the hair on your head that will make Africa to rise. It is what is inside your head. The hair texture of the Negroes is not same as that of the Caucasians or the Mongoloids. God is not mocked. We need to stop this copy copy mentality. Ogbeni, go and barb your hair, or I will Delilah you. Lol

Phut:
He told you the pure, unadulterated truth.

Everything about his or her comment there was a joke.
Personally, I have assisted several guys and men financially. I needed and still need nothing from them. Not publicity. And they are also neither celebrities or public figures. If a man is stingy, then he is no man, but a lady.

Then to ladies too, I have assisted several financially. And needed nothing in return from the person. But sometimes I get forced to ask them: But why don't you approach your fellow ladies for financial assistance?

Their answer always remain the same: Women don't give money to their fellow women ooo.

That surprised me and prompted this particular thread. Why?

Nothing wrong with what the soldiers did. We are humans not animals. Go and barb your hair for fee, you say No. Now they barb your hair for free, you dey rant.

immortalcrown:
Have you informed your father that he was a Simp for getting married to your mother? Or, are you a bastard?

You are becoming a nuisance on planet earth. Besides Nairaland, what else do you achieve each day?

lol

"Simp is a term describing someone, who shows excessive sympathy, and attention toward another person, typically someone who does not reciprocate the same feelings, in pursuit of affection, or a sexual relationship."

immortalcrown:
Have you informed your father?

Your father is a Simp. He knows. Only you are not aware. Check well.

If there were no SIMPs, there will be no dating, no marriage, & no family

Why was there so much condoms on the floor of the airplane, or were those airbags?

Villa12:
men hardly help men except such a man that needed help is a celebrity, someone with public figure or someone that'd give them publicity.

I believe you are not being serious with this comment.

Villa12:
Women help with no strings attached unlike men.

When men financially help men in need, what are the strings attached?

On 21st July, 2018, 6 years ago, @Adeade11 posted this same topic here on Nairaland. So why repeating it?

https://www.nairaland.com/4630159/leave-husband-alone-wife-calls