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Please, how much exactly did Skyway Aviation Plc declare as dividend for 2026? Is it N0.60 or N1.20 ? |
It is only a poor man. someone coming from a poor home who, just because he is now somehow economically stable, or maybe a Yahoo boy that just got money, will walk into a restaurant, order a portion of food he cannot finish, and walk away leaving almost half, sometimes 80% or even 90% of the food on the table in the name of “big boy.” Those attitudes, you don’t see them in truly rich men. It is always someone from a poor background trying to prove one point or the other. Now, from my personal experience, something happened yesterday. In fact, I had two separate experiences with two different individuals in a public restaurant a fancy one, as you may call it. But before I get into that, let me explain something to you. The wastefulness you see on the streets is mostly among those who do not have. When you see people who look like they have money wasting food, most times they are poor people who just arrived. If you go to a rich man’s house, before they make food for you, they try as much as possible to know the portion you can finish because they don’t want waste. That is why you will hear a poor man leave that house and say the rich man is stingy. If they don’t ask you, they will serve a small portion first, and when you finish, they will ask if you want more. If you do, they will make another portion for you. Because when you waste food in their house, it triggers them they get very angry. But poor people will tag them as stingy. Let me come back. Before I share yesterday’s experience, let me say this. the last time I spoke about something like this, some Yahoo boys came to my comment section to say all sorts of rubbish because they are mostly involved in this kind of behavior. So last week, while we were playing snooker, a guy walked in, ordered food white rice and stew with enough meat. This guy picked out only the meat, didn’t eat up to 10 spoons of the rice, dropped the plate, and went back to smoking and drinking. He’s someone I know, so I asked, “Oga, the food no sweet?” He said, “The food sweet.” I told him, “Omo, you no really wan chop. You just dey form.” I didn’t say much after that. I just folded my arms and watched him. Even the lady who served the food came for feedback, and he told her the food was fine. Someone beside me tapped me and said, “Leave am, na so he dey do. Most times he will just order food, pick the meat, and leave the rest.” And I kept asking myself this place serves food by portion. Why not ask for a smaller portion and buy extra meat if that’s what you really want? I kept quiet. Then on Sunday (yesterday), I went out with my sisters and my wife. My wife and I arrived first before my sisters joined us. We saw a young guy eating, and I tapped my wife and said, “Are you seeing this?” He finished eating, but half of the chicken was still on the plate, the rice was halfway, and even the Sprite he ordered was half untouched. The girlfriend he came with wanted to pack the food, but he refused. In fact, they were making videos with the leftover food on their table. I believe they wanted to post it to show other fellow poor men and Yahoo boys that this is their lifestyle. Like, “we don’t finish chicken… chicken is nothing to us.” That is the mentality. And if you ask me how I know they are poor, I’m also coming from a poor background. You can always tell. You know a rich kid when you see one they are quiet, calm, and humble. When they go to a restaurant, they don’t chase extravagance. They order what they need, eat, and leave. Except it’s a special day, they don’t overdo. They don’t have any point to prove. This is a life they’ve been used to from childhood. But some poor men many of them never even had access to certain things growing up. Some of their families may not even eat chicken regularly, maybe not even during Easter. So now, they want to prove a point to other poor people by ordering more than they can finish and leaving the rest. While we were still there, a man drove in with an SUV worth over 15 million naira. You could tell this is someone who has been in wealth for a long time. From head to toe, you could see class. He came in and ordered food. You could even see hunger on his face. He ordered two portions. This man ate everything finished his plate, finished his drink, used his serviette properly, and even cleaned the chicken down to the bone. If not for where we were sitting, he might have even cracked the bone. Less than three minutes after finishing, he was already on an international call, speaking fluently with Westerners. And I just sat there, folded my arms, and asked myself what is really wrong with some of our people? This is a man who has maintained wealth for a long time, yet he values what he has. Now, let me say this clearly Yahoo has caused more damage to society than good. The level of drug abuse you see today—many of them are involved. Out of every 10 you see, about 8 are into drugs pills, cannabis, and all sorts of substances. In fact, in many places where they learn this Yahoo, one of the conditions is that you must smoke. If you don’t smoke, they will introduce you to it. So when you see wastefulness, my brother, look deeper it’s not wealth, it’s a mindset problem. Let’s stop glorifying waste. Being a “big boy” is not about how much food you leave on the table it’s about discipline, value, and character. |
Jackossky:Wow. Some good phones here |
Bro, understand that w00men make rules for n0nentities. They make rules for men begging for their attention. They make rules for SIMPs seeking for validation. They make rules for men always calling and texting. They make rules for Men l!cking their wounds for validation. They make rules for mugus. They make rules for the simps. They make rules for weak Men that have been friend-zoned. Men who they feel don't deserve their attention a bit. Men that throw themselves easily on them. Pussified Men. While she's telling you not to call her by 10pm. She's busy rubbing her powder and making up to pick another man's call — the man she feels that worth her attention. That dude that's super obsessed with his success and don't take shits from her. That dude that's constantly working on himself and source of income and have little or less time for her. That dude that's hot and cold, can correct her, rebuke and punish her with lack of attention when she goes wrong. Yet kind enough to welcome her back to his arms when she's truly remorseful. That's the dude that's capable of making both her eyes and pants wet. She's most likely to stick to. Not you seeking for validation. I tell you this for free bro; 👇 There's no w00man that inconvenience herself llke a w00man who truly loves you and want to be with you — and a w00man who's looking out for her children. Be the ruler of your kingdom where she's trying to assume the position of a queen. Kings don't bow to Queens in his kingdom, rather Queens do. Make the rules, if she can't bow, prove to her you can walk away and never to turn back. Always remember — Man is the prize of any relationship. Don't turn it around for yourself. Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. Keep following for more. |
megawealth01:Omatek Plc went on Full Bid today at N2.25 Any development on it? |
spiceadole:You take too much dangerous drugs |
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A Thief (intruder) Jumps over your fence, into your Building and your DOG attacked and Kpai the thief, you will eat FR££ Stony Beans. Normal Dogs don't kpai a Thief, they disarm them. Ask anyone around who have Dogs at home, Dogs don't k1LL. Dogs are not wild animals, they don't k1LL human beings The moment your Dogs k1LLs human being, that's not a Dog anymore and you as the owner will Eat FR££ stony Beans for training wild animal as a Dog in diguise The only thing that can save you a bit is, if the Intruder (Thief) is armed. As in the TIF carry kala enter, the law may now consider the force proportional to the action of the Dog. Or the Intruder kpai as a result of fear or had injury that led to his D£@th when running away from the Dog. But if the Intruder (Thief) no carry Gvn or any Arm enter and your Dog kpai the Thief. The force is not proportional You will Eat FR££ stony beans as the owner Pls take note The law values life so much and doesn't give anyone the right to take another person's life So, any form of defence you are putting up in your house, make sure it doesn't kpai the Thief (intruder) or threat facing you. Your defense should be built to disarm only, not to kpai You may not like the position of the law, but the law is not emotional. Ignorance of the law is no excuse. Are you aware of this? |
My Landlord passed away two months ago and my rent expired that same month. There has been disputes on who to collect the rent. My Landlord married three wife with many children Each wife and their children came to hold meetings with the tenants, saying we are to pay our rent to them The other party will come and say we shouldn't pay to them that, they are the right person to collect the rent Another party served us Notice to Quit and another party said we should ignore the Notice to Quit. I am confused on who to pay to and i don't want find my self in one chance situation at the end of the day Pls, what do you suggest i do and who do you suggest i pay to? |
Your CCTV cam, caught a thief in your house or office and you now choose to post the footage online. Wetin carry you post am online when the court never confirm the Thief say e dey Gui'lty 🤣🤣🤣🤣, one chance Drop your evidence in court, not online Don't forget, That thief is still innocent before the law and the court may grant the thief bail. When the court grants the thief Bail, if the TIF no carry Any Arm for the stealing, dem go grant am bail The thief can file a suit against you for LIBEL/DEFAMATION for damaging his or her reputation online and breach of his fundamental human right and also, cyberstalking The thief has the right to Demand for damages up to one trillion Naira from you. No go believe say because say you get CCTV footage If the TIF get better lawyer, e fit come out innocent oooo Even a TIF has his own rights as a citizen of this great country and you must respect it or pay damages for breaching his right Ignorance of the law is no excuse. Are you aware of this? |
Your Electric Fence is meant to shock the Thief and not Kpai them under Nigerian Law or else, FR££ stony beans for you Before you install that electric fence bah, come closer cos you fit chop FR££ stony beans because of that electric fence wey you put for your house There are rules and regulations to follow when installing electric fence in Nigeria, if you fail to follow the rules, FR££ stony beans for you 1. The peak voltage should not exceed 10,000V (10kV) 2. The shock must be a brief pulse (usually lasting about 0.0003 seconds) occurring no more than once per second. This allows a person to let go and prevents the continuous current that causes heart failure and kpai the person. 3. You must put a warning sign that says, Caution: Electric Fence. 4. The electric cables must be 6.5 ft above ground level to prevent accidental contact by children or passersby. If you fail to comply with the above requirements and do something that will kpai the Thief and someone trying to trespass into your property You will Eat FR££ stony beans for kpaing that person Ignorance of the law is no excuse. Are you aware of this? |
I just opened a shop right in front of my husbands building where i sell hots and alcoholic drinks because there is a brothel right in front of my house and thats the business that will move very well. The community chairman and Landlords Association came to meet me that they don't want such business in their community They gave me an agreement form stating that i will not sell such drink in their community. I refuse to sign and ask them why they did not close down the brothel, the chairman said the brothel has CAC and i showed him my CAC too. They threaten me that they give me 14 days to comply with the community order and directives before they do what i may not like Pls advice me on what to do Does the Landlord and Tenant Association has the right to dictate what kind of business i can sell or not? |
My husband is now a King and in less than five months on the throne One BIG man in the community, gave my husband his daughter as a Gift to marry. My husband rejected the offer but the Chiefs are saying it's a Taboo to reject such gift I told the Chiefs that we are married under the Act but, they say it's their tradition The king will get many wife as a Gift and i do not have the power to stop it and the King himself can not reject such offer. Does it mean Our Statutory marriage is cancelled because my husband is now a King? |
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I can confidently tell you that men are more s€xually careful than w00men. —Yes! One may ask why or how? Cam down and follow me — Since I became an adult and started having s€x, it has been my responsibility to always use protection (condoms). On the other hand, it has never occurred to any w00man I have piped to either bring condoms or suggest I use one. They always assume that I cannot be a carrier of any STD or deadly diseases. But these infections are not written on the face. And I'm in fact 100% sure that at least 9 out of 10 guys will agree with me on this. At some point while even using condoms on some w00men, they will suggest you remove it and go raw. Someone that doesn't know your health status, but she will want you to have an unprotected s€x with her. Some of these w00men don't even know there's a female condom. Why are most w00men this s€xually careless? Some of them wear expensive wigs, but they have never been to the hospital to check their status. Once they soak ginger and garlic in water and drink, then in their minds, they believe they have treated infections. Many of them are parading around with 500k wigs and fixed nails and eyelashes but have been harbouring infections for over 10 to 15 years. That's how careless w00men are. And it's one of the reasons why is never advisable to pipe any w00man without knowing her health status even though you will still use condoms. Condoms are not 100% trustworthy. Sometimes, it gets burst due to pressure from the piping. When you know the person you're piping is infection free, if the condoms burst on the process, you will be sure that your health is not at risk. Moat of these w00men are bed to bed midfielders, they will be sleeping around with different men like dogs, sucking every Preeq they cross paths with and without protection and good medical care. Brothers, even your girlfriend is faithful. You didn't meet her as a virgin. So there's possibilities of her getting piped over and over again with those men she has been with before you came into the picture. So please, embrace safe s€x. It's either you stay strapped or you get trapped. Protect yourself brother. Learn or perish. Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. |
Men only correct the w00men they love. If you’re sitting back, watching a w00man spiral into chaos without stepping in, you don’t love her, you’re just there for convenience. Real love isn’t about passive acceptance. It’s about stepping up, holding her accountable, and guiding her toward becoming her best self. If you’re not doing that, it’s because you either don’t care about her future or you’re too afraid to face the backlash. A man with no long-term plans for a w0pman will let her “do anyhow.” He’ll sit quietly while she dresses half-na.ked, drinks recklessly, sm0kes, or acts wild because he’s not invested in her future He’s just there for the short-term thrill. He doesn’t see her as a partner; he sees her as a temporary distraction. The sād part is many w00men prefer this. They mistake his silence for love, thinking his lack of guidance is acceptance. But here’s the harsh reality — a man who doesn’t correct you doesn’t respect you. Contrast this with a man who truly loves a w00man. He won’t sit back and let her ru!n herself. He’ll confront her, even if the truth stings. If she’s engaging in destruct!ve habits or presenting herself in ways that diminish her value, he’ll speak up, not because he’s controlling her, but because he cares. Real love involves discipline and correction. He sees her potential and wants to build something meaningful. But here’s where things fall apart: 👇 Many w00men can’t handle being corrected. They’d rather dr0wn in their emotions, run to their friends for validation, and hear comforting l!es like: 👇 “You deserve better.” They confuse guidance with control, rejecting the very men who care enough to hold them accountable. And instead, they cling to men who let them do whatever they want, men who couldn’t care less about their future. Bro, stop enabling cha0s. If a w00man rejects correction — walk away. Because she’s not ready for accountability, and without accountability, there’s no foundation for a real relationship. A w00man worth your time will respect your guidance and value your leadership. She’ll understand that correction isn’t cr!tic!sm, it’s love in action. Sister I tell you this today — A man who corrects you isn’t your enemy, he’s your ally. A silent man doesn’t care about you. The one who speaks up is the one investing in your future. Stop confusing discipline with disrespect. Real men don’t tear you d0wn; they build you up by demanding better. Love isn’t about letting someone do whatever they want. It’s about setting standards, holding each other accountable, and building a future together. Bro, if you’re not willing to correct the w00man you’re with, you don’t love her. And w00men, if you can’t handle correction, you don’t love or respect him either. Stay strong, stay sharp, and demand accountability in every relationship. A w00man worth keeping will value your guidance. Anything less is a waste of your time. The point has been made. Till I come your way again. Class dismissed. Keep following for more. |
When it comes to choosing a life partner or relationship management, one of the problem with many men today is that they tolerate and endure. Hoping that a poorly behaved adult or should I say a w00man with bad character will turn around someday, change for good and give them peace. A w00man is created for help — to help man and make things easy for him. To give him peace and happiness. Any w00man offering anything outside this should be a No No. A good w00man adds to your life. She doesn't come in and create more problems. She doesn't bring drama where there was peace. She doesn't add stress to your already full head. She doesn't make your life harder than it needs to be. She doesn't become another thing you have to manage. She doesn't turn your home into a battlefield. She doesn't make you question your worth daily. A genuine w00man takes pressure off your hands and not put more on your hands. She's your help meet and not an additional stressor. She handles things sometimes, so you don't have to worry. She solves problems, she doesn't create them. She makes decisions that benefit both of you. She protects your energy instead of draining it. She brings ideas on solutions, not more complications. She lightens the load you have to carry, not add to it. She makes your days easier, not harder. A real w00man is your teammate, not your opponent, your partner — not your competitor. She's your safe space, not your source of anxiety, stress and depression. She's your peace, not your chaos nor drama. She's your support system, not another burden. Bro, if she's not making your life easier, she's not your wife. If she's adding stress instead of removing it, she's not the one. If you're more tired with her than without her, let her go. If your life was simpler before she came along, that's the sign, the answer you need. A real w00man enhances your life, not complicate it. You deserve a w00man who makes loving her feel effortless. Marriage is a long journey to travel with a w00man that will not give you peace. No matter how long you have dated her, if your peace of mind is not guaranteed — d0n't marry her. L!fe is already hard for man — don't make it harder for yourself. Learn or perish. Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. Keep following for more. |
HesInMe:In essence, at N3.62, is Chams Plc a Buy, Hold, or Sell off? |
pluto09:Deap Capital Plc is now at N5.50 Buy, Hold, or Sell off? |
Akungitit:Write out the correct one |
Bro date someone you can genuinely see a future with. Very unfortunate that people choose partners mainly based on looks, and they overlooked what truly matters. Over time, I’ve seen many relationships built on the wrong foundations—appearance instead of character. In relationship, what really counts is who the person is — their work ethic, how they treat others, their attitude toward life, their goal or purpose in life, how they communicate, their confidence, ambition, and most importantly, their heart. These are the qualities that shape a lifelong partner — and even the kind of home you’ll build together one day. Physical attraction may draw you in, but it doesn’t sustain a relationship. Looks fade, but character remains. Thia is why we are having a lot of marriage issues and divorces. Don’t date someone just to pass time. Be intentional. And if you don’t see a future with her, don’t hold on to someone else’s potential partner. Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. Keep following for more. |
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