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Amarachibaby:
@essentialone you write so well and your knowledge is vast,pls What's your secret?

I always believe that I know nothing, so I use every available opportunity to try and learn something new.

Thanks Amarachibaby

SHOCKING: FG pays NYSC Corps Members N77,000 per month, and pays I.T. SIWES Students N2,500 per month.

Influential theories on moral judgments propose that they rely either on emotions or on innate moral principles. In contrast, the mental model theory postulates that moral judgments rely on reasoning, either intuition or deliberation. The theory allows for the possibility that intuitions lead to utilitarian judgments. Let us look at two experiments involving fifth-grade children, adolescents, and adults; the results revealed that children reason intuitively to resolve moral dilemmas in which action and inaction lead to different outcomes. In particular, the results showed female children to be more utilitarian than female adults in resolving classical moral dilemmas: they preferred an action that achieved a good outcome for a greater number of people. Within the mental model theory's framework there is no reason to expect that females and males differ in their ability to reason, but at the moment the results for females cannot be generalized to males who were not properly represented in the adults groups of the two experiments. The result revealing that (female) children are more utilitarian than (female) adults, which is hard to explain via many current theories, was predicted by the mental model theory.

Those priests who were busy mocking women for marrying yahoo boys ten years ago… how far?
I hope your own parish accounts are still balanced.
I hope your counselling sessions are still holy.
I hope the people you guided didn’t later discover the truth behind your “advice.”

Because if we’re going to talk about shortcuts…
Some of you take spiritual shortcuts every day.
Shortcuts to favouritism.
Shortcuts to covering scandals.
Shortcuts to punishing some people while protecting others.
Shortcuts to pretending holiness while hiding the mess behind parish walls.

If we’re warning young women about dangerous men,
then priests, too, should warn each other about dangerous priests.

Since we’re being sarcastic today, let’s not forget:
There is no shortcut to priesthood integrity either.
And when a priest misuses authority,
the damage lasts longer than any yahoo money ever will.

Before we joke about people’s past mistakes,
let’s make sure our own hands aren’t dipped in spiritual fraud.

#TruthWithoutFear
#SelectiveMorality
#AccountabilityInChurch
#LeadershipWithIntegrity
#WalkTheTalk
#SpiritualResponsibility
#NoShortcutsToHoliness
#ChurchAndSociety
#HypocrisyAlert
#DoBetter
#SayItAsItIs
#ProtectTheFlock
#VoiceOfThePeople

I been hearing a lot about and seeing so much foul religiosity regarding gambling. It’s weird.🤪

It’s not the gambling that’s unsettling — it’s the hypocrisy. Faith gets worn like a badge instead of lived like a discipline. Certain behaviors are loudly condemned while others, like gambling, get a pass because they’re socially acceptable, neatly packaged as “fun,” and done in polite company.

When religion is used to monitor others instead of confront the self, loopholes multiply. Gambling survives because it looks harmless, even wholesome, while feeding the same cravings and escapes faith claims to guard against. That isn’t oversight — it’s selective morality. And people who value integrity can see it immediately.

#SelectiveMorality

Corruption itself is not condemned because it exists, it is condemned selectively. It suddenly becomes BAD only when I am not the one benefiting from it. When I am involved, it is conveniently renamed as strategy, adjustment, political necessity, or smart management. When others do the same, it turns into a moral crime, a national tragedy, and a threat to democracy.

This mindset exposes the real problem, not corruption alone, but HYPOCRISY. The issue is not the act, but who controls it. Power decides morality, and involvement decides judgment. Until corruption is rejected on principle, regardless of who profits, societies will keep pretending to fight it while quietly protecting it.
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#Corruption #PowerAndHypocrisy
#SelectiveMorality #PoliticalReality

If you don't give away grace for a woman's past, you'll never keep peace in your own soul. We all have to keep our house in order - it doesn't give us license to audit everyone else's life while our own inventory is still in the red.
It's a deep kind of hypocrisy to get on social media and judge women for the same lifestyle you once profited from. But what's worse is the damage you're doing at home. Have you ever stopped to think about how your girl, wife or BM feels reading those posts? She was out there once too. Even if you think you're "defending" her now, when you trash those women, you're trashing her history. You're telling her that you only value her because she changed, not because of who she is.
You can't "preserve" a healthy relationship while you're publicly dragging the very path she had to walk to get where she is at today. Real recovery is about humility, not using a keyboard to play moral police. Check your own balance sheet before you start trashing someone else's. You can only keep (i.e., preserve) the respect you're willing to give away.

#Reactionformation #Therebornextremist #Theghostintheroom #Perfomativeactivism #Thepathofleastresistance #Selectivemorality

SELECTIVE MORALITY — When people only remember their “values” when it benefits them.

One of the strangest patterns of our generation is how morals suddenly become flexible.
People now switch their principles ON and OFF like a ring light, depending on who is involved, what they stand to gain, or how trendy the situation looks.

You’ll see someone condemn a behavior with full chest…
…but when their friend does it, they call it “not that deep.”
You’ll see someone preaching about dignity…
…but hype indecency when it comes from someone they admire online.
You’ll see someone insisting on “doing what’s right”…
…but go silent when the wrong favors them.

That’s not morality.
That’s convenience.

Real morals don’t disappear because it’s your favourite celebrity.
Real values don’t shrink because someone attractive is involved.
Real principles don’t break because the internet is clapping.

Selective morality is dangerous because it makes people feel justified in wrong,
as long as they can find a “special case.”
It trains the mind to replace truth with excuses
and principles with preferences.

If you only apply your standards to strangers,
you don’t have standards —
you have bias.

If you correct others but defend your own for the same thing,
you’re not protecting them —
you’re enabling them.

And the worst part?
Selective morality kills growth.
You can’t become better if you’re always shifting your values to avoid accountability.

Stand for what is right, even when it is not popular.
Speak the truth, even when it shakes your comfort zone.
Let your principles be the same for everyone —
your family, your friends, your faves, and even yourself.

Because integrity is not proven when it’s easy;
it’s proven when it’s consistent.

At the end of the day,
true morality is steady — not selective.
Choose truth.
Choose character.
Choose consistency.

#SelectiveMorality

When you lie to protect yourself, you call it wisdom.
When someone lies and it costs you, you call it wickedness.

So the issue was never the lie.
The issue was who benefited.

If morality bends with advantage,
then it’s not morality—it’s convenience.

#MoralDoubleStandard
#SelectiveMorality
#TruthAndHypocrisy
#DoubleStandards
#HonestyMatters
#Ethics
#HumanNature
#ThoughtProvoking
#DeepQuotes
#MirrorMoment

Wait for your turn. Now is mine.

‎This is a beautiful example of everything I always say about $íñgle vvomen. 90% of vvomen are not $íñgle by choice. They don't have any man interested in them.
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‎A grand portion of vvomen who discourage vvomen from getting married are bíttér and hvrt. They don't have any serious man in their lives, so they push this narrative that marriage is not worth it.
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‎Imagine telling other vvomen "if you want to marry, marry and you'll see signs and wonders," just because of her own personal bad experience.
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‎A vvoman has a few bad experiences with men and boom ! She paints all men with the same brush.
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‎Whether you cohabit or not, it's your business but expecting the next innocent man to SVFFER for exactly what you gave another man for free, for 3 months is kinda reaching. I'm guessing since she admitted it's 3 months, it's probably like a year or more.
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‎Who knows she might be the difficvlt one to live with but hey ! You already know by now that a man is always the pr0blem and most vvomen can't be accountable.
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I understand the hardwork trying to portray yourself to be happy but we know the level of tears you shed every night and always.

Time will tell !

Bro understand that by discipline, your w00man is your first child. Discipline and punishment is part of it.
‎It might not be some t0xic kinda physical t0uch on her b0dy.
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‎But punish what you don't want or wouldn't what it to repeat itself or keep reoccurring.
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‎Once, twice could be a mistake, but thrice and above isn't a mistake. Because if you ignore it.
‎It will intentionally gradually turning into a character, and attitude that would soon destr0y b0th y0u and your children.
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‎That's why you must date someone you are pretty older than. Have more m0ney than. More educated than her. More influential than her — more than her in almost all the spheres of influence.
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‎While doing the corrections and punishment, learn to keep to your words and acts too.
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‎It may interest you that w00men learn by observation like children. Some will never cheat provided you'll never cheat too.
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‎But immediately you can't keep to that, you'll loose her completely.
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‎Date or marry who you can thame, correct and guide. Whatsoever a w00man is, The Man permitted it right from the day of asking her out.
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‎Be a man, hold the line, but always remember to balance the equation.
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‎Class dismissed.
‎Till I come your way again.
‎Keep following for more.

‎Bro, that situation where she did something truly wr0ng. She knows she's wr0ng. And you corrected her. You put her in her place.
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‎Then she decided to ghost you. She's not picking your calls again. She's not replying your chats because you c0rrected her.
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‎Match the breaks, bro.
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‎You even made a big mistake by trying to reach out to her after she snubbed you for correcting her.
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‎Don't worry.
‎Don't call her again.
‎Don't text her again.
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‎When you correct a w00man and she snubs you for days or months — snub her too. If she avoids you, avoid her too.
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‎Leave her alone and focus on your business or job.
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‎If you want to have a great relationship with w00men, learn to avoid them when they avoid you.
‎Don't go back to typing and sending long texts explaining why you corrected her and why she should talk to you.
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‎Let her be.
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‎She'll do all the drama for just a few days. If she's into you, she'll come back to say, sorry and would want to fix things up.
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‎But if she never returns, that's the universe telling you she's not into you.
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‎Let her be my man.
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‎That kind of w00man wouldn't give you maximum respect as it ought to be. Don't beg her back into your life, even when you both knew she was wrong.
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‎You'll sūffer if you go ahead doing that. It's called emotional blackmail and mind games to keep you under her control.
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‎It's a hypergamy.
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‎If you aren't careful, if you aren't emotionally str0ng, she'll use all these tactics to keep you under her.
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‎You can't continue this way bro.
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‎Learn or perish.
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‎Class dismissed.
‎Till I come your way again.
‎Keep following for more.

yMcy56:
No be small thing...
Every stock has its own time.
Meyer's time will also come...
As for Premier Paints, I think that one go still waka far small...

I actually came to look for the post that argued this Premier Paints with me when suspension was lifted on it......😊
From N10, it closed @28.20 today with full bid....


Jan 22

E shock me ooo

what does peace of mind mean to you

Sniper101:
As in, you're telling us here now that your wife can possibly be deciding when to be giving YOU the coochie? Seriously?

Na WA for some males sha

Me none of my girlfriends, past and present, ever gave me a timetable or timeframe for sex

Are you among the violent that taketh it by force?

spiceadole:
Until then..

My dear. Enjoy your man. He is a rare type.

Smiles.

keemsleek:
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For real ll single mon are broke? Lol that I don't where u people get ur analogies from. There lot of single mum doing well for themselves, maybe u talking about d olosho single mom's. You people should always differentiate the single mom's u talk about. There Widows, divorcees, the naive ones boys like una took advantages off and dey learnt thier lessons and the olosho and olosho vibes ones.

Smiles

It's sad

She graduated from Michael Okpara University of Agriculture Umudike and worked briefly in that University. She was employed through then VC's recommendation against the recommendations of her departmental lecturers who see her as unfit to be employed in the capacity she was employed. Her deficiencies were noticed here before she went international.

Some people say maybe in Nigeria, she obtained an STD, Sexually Transmitted Degree

She should have started as a band 4 or 5 dietitian.
This will enable her catch up with uk standard of doing things.
Then subsequently grow from there.

If you come from outside to start a senior position those on ground will surely set a trap you cannot escape.

Ifeyinwa Chizube Ndulue-Nonso was hired as a Band 6 rotational dietitian at Manchester University NHS Foundation Trust (Manchester Royal Infirmary) starting 19 Feb 2024, and was suspended within weeks, then struck off the HCPC register after a tribunal on 2 Mar 2026—so she can’t legally practise as a dietitian in the UK.

*What the tribunal found*
- She “persistently” exaggerated her experience to get the job; 20 of the 28 competencies she claimed weren’t supported by actual knowledge.
- Basic anatomy/clinical gaps flagged by supervisors Lorna Haywood and others: said urine is stored in the gallbladder, that radiotherapy treats heart failure, couldn’t calculate BMI, and said the large intestine follows the stomach.
- Couldn’t identify a nasogastric feeding tube, had never given IV (parenteral) nutrition or used supplement drinks despite claiming otherwise, and was seen googling basic terms at work.
- She admitted she’d “exaggerated a bit,” blaming cultural differences and saying she’d learned interview answers from 15 prior NHS interviews.
- Panel ruled the dishonesty was planned and persistent and posed a significant patient risk; no patients were harmed because supervisors kept her from patient-facing duties.

Bottom line: not a knowledge gap from a different health system—tribunal concluded it was deliberate misrepresentation, and she’s now off the UK dietitian register.

Senior NHS Dietician from Nigeria FIRED in the UK after she didn't know what intestines were.

Ifeyinwa Chizube Ndulue-Nonso, of Nigeria, was hired in Manchester in 2024, and claimed she had "lied over her qualifications a bit", blaming cultural differences.

Before she was fired, it was found that she had “persistently” exaggerated her level of expertise in order to secure employment with Manchester University NHS Foundation Trust.

Ndulue-Nonso, who moved from Nigeria to the UK, began working in the role on February 19, 2024, after scoring 62 percent in her interview.

However, concerns about her competence emerged within days.

According to the tribunal, she told colleagues that urine is stored in the gallbladder and that radiotherapy is used to treat heart failure.

She was also reportedly unable to calculate a body mass index (BMI) and incorrectly identified the large intestine as the part of the digestive system that follows the stomach.

Lorna Haywood, her supervisor, described these gaps as “extremely concerning”, noting that such knowledge is “basic anatomy” and “fundamental” to the role.

By February 22, Haywood had escalated concerns, stating that Ndulue-Nonso “did not know the fundamentals.”

In another instance, she reportedly admitted she had never administered feeding via intravenous catheter or used supplement drinks, despite claiming prior experience.

Further concerns arose when she failed to identify a feeding tube in a patient and appeared to search online for basic medical terms during work.

She was suspended on March 12 as investigations began into the accuracy of her application.

Disciplinary hearings later found that 20 out of 28 areas of expertise she claimed were unsupported by her actual knowledge.

This means she can no longer legally practise as a registered dietitian in the UK.

Do not mix up these 4 things.

There are Single Mothers, there are Divorcee Mothers, there are Widowed Mothers, and there are Bitter Mothers.

So many people mix up these 4 things. Stop it.


Not every lady who claims to be a Single Mother, is actually a Single Mother. A Single Mother is only a lady who has a child but has always been Single, meaning she has never ever been married before.

Know the difference and Know Peace.

Do not mix up these 4 things.

There are Single Mothers, there are Divorcee Mothers, there are Widowed Mothers, and there are Bitter Mothers.

So many people mix up these 4 things. Stop it.


Not every lady who claims to be a Single Mother, is actually a Single Mother. A Single Mother is only a lady who has a child but has always been Single, meaning she has never ever been married before.

Know the difference and Know Peace.

Do not mix up these 4 things.

There are Single Mothers, there are Divorcee Mothers, there are Widowed Mothers, and there are Bitter Mothers.

So many people mix up these 4 things. Stop it.


Not every lady who claims to be a Single Mother, is actually a Single Mother. A Single Mother is only a lady who has a child but has always been Single, meaning she has never ever been married before.

Know the difference and Know Peace.

Bendeco02:
Funny

You switched the topic to sex and I replied you on that aspect.

You just confirmed why the man is taking the rubbish from you because you're more financially stable than him.

Remove the money and know if he will still keep you as his wife with your attitude.

I saw that from her very first comment and I smiled.

Do not mix up these 4 things.

There are Single Mothers, there are Divorcee Mothers, there are Widowed Mothers, and there are Bitter Mothers.

So many people mix up these 4 things. Stop it.


Not every lady who claims to be a Single Mother, is actually a Single Mother. A Single Mother is only a lady who has a child but has always been Single, meaning she has never ever been married before.

Know the difference and Know Peace.