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Christianity Etc › Re: What Church, Or Religion Will You Never Like To Date Or Marry? And Why? by essentialone(op): 2:36am On Apr 21

While most Men are hitting 35 with less than $100 in their accounts and business worth less than $200.

And marriage is becoming some difficult sh!ts.

More w00men are hitting 30 yearly unmarried and it's becoming greatly disturbing.

Had a lady bitterly shared with me her greatest fears — she was like; 👇

I can't believe I'll be hitting 30 and nothing seems right.

No good or ready Man to think marriage. Even relationship is not assured.
If you see a man — financially he's not ready for marriage.
A lot of adult ladies everywhere unmarried.

I saw real fear on her face. Soon she'll hit 30.

I said to her. — You are a very beautiful and intelligent lady, you are also classy — so my question now is why are you not married?
Does it mean men are not coming to you or you what? Be sincere.

She gave it a thought and couldn't answer my question. That was when I understand that she wasted her prime age and rejected innocent men that meant well for her.

I told her — Understand that you have to be under a man, if you're willing to marry. That is your main problem.
Because you are a boss lady, or you're doing well does not mean you should start robbing shoulders with men.
No man will tolerate that from you. You have ego, and you're rude, that is why you still haven't secured any man of your own.

She jokingly said — That sounded like an insult to me.
I said Yes, you don't like taking accountability for your actions or attitude. You don't like people telling you your wrongs. But you always come to me because you know I will say it to your face, and you will tolerate it.

So my point is, as we are talking about most w00men facing reality because they unknowingly wasted their prime age, we also encourage men to stop going after w00men, and wasting the resources they suppose to use and build themselves.

Is not something to be proud of that a man reaches 40 years and is still not married. No business, and nothing to hold on to.

Leave that feelings for w00men.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.

Romance › Re: If A Lady Ever Tell You That She Does Not Date A Married Man, Then You Are Poor! by essentialone(op): 2:03am On Apr 21

Proserpina:
Shove your hate into the deepest hole in your body. No one really cares here.

Smiles

Romance › Re: If A Lady Ever Tell You That She Does Not Date A Married Man, Then You Are Poor! by essentialone(op): 9:55pm On Apr 20

Proserpina:
I be moral saint

I hate it when people try to act as Saints when they are not.

Romance › Re: If A Lady Ever Tell You That She Does Not Date A Married Man, Then You Are Poor! by essentialone(op): 8:30pm On Apr 20

Proserpina:
And you called me one, why?

Based on your post.

Romance › Re: If A Lady Ever Tell You That She Does Not Date A Married Man, Then You Are Poor! by essentialone(op): 7:54pm On Apr 20

Proserpina:
Explain.
Maybe I'd get you.

A Selective Moralist is the one who chooses what immorality to engage in, and what immorality not to engage in.

Or are you a Moral Saint?

Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 7:44pm On Apr 20

mikeapollo:
It is too early to say Access has done too many acquisitions without efficient delivery of benefits to customers. Wait until they conclude and reflect full results of the new acquisitions.
Few years ago, First Bank was stagnating around N4-N5 for almost 2 years without good dividends when they were undergoing restructuring. Wema Bank was less than N1 for some years. Both have now delivered more than 500% since then.
Access will click N40-N50 and above when they finalize everythin, very soon

Finally, Wema Bank breaks out from its N28.00 Resistance Point...

Romance › Re: What are you addicted to? by essentialone(op): 4:22am On Apr 20

LIVINGICONREBOR:
I am addicted to Jesus Christ.🥱🥱

Ok. It's good.

Music/Radio › Re: Which Song Can You Repeat All Day, Without Getting Tired Of It? by essentialone(op): 4:20am On Apr 20

MooMelodies:
Yes please.

Congratulations. It's a beautiful song.

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Music/Radio › Re: Which Song Can You Repeat All Day, Without Getting Tired Of It? by essentialone(op): 10:26pm On Apr 19

MooMelodies:
Mine is

"Ginger Me" by MØØ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=COhtaDBgKf4?si=EflOKyB7vXJUcj_u

You are the Artiste. It is your song.

Romance › Re: Why do married ladies & ladies in serious relationship, still give guys number? by essentialone(op): 10:01pm On Apr 19

Bro, understand that by 40, most men are not confused. They are regretful.
Because the mistakes you make with w00men in your 20s and 30s don’t just disappear. They compound. They cost you m0ney, time, peace, and sometimes your entire life direction.

Here are 7 brutal mistakes most young men make and cry about later.

First — Overvaluing kitten. You lose your mind over access. You ignore red flags. You abandon your purpose. You tolerate nonsense. All because of temporary pleasure.
By 40, you realized you sacrificed years for moments.

Second — Choosing based on beauty alone. You see body, face, curves and you think you’ve found gold. You ignore character, discipline, mindset. Then later, that same beauty becomes your biggest problem because there is no substance behind it.

Thirdly — Trying to build a w00man with no foundation. You meet someone with no direction, no structure, no discipline and you think love will fix it.
You invest time, m0ney, energy. Years later, you realize you were raising an adult who never wanted to grow.

Fourth — Ignoring body count and lifestyle. You tell yourself past is past. You ignore patterns. You ignore behavior. Then you face the consequences of poor discipline, unstable emotions, and lack of loyalty.

Fifth — Becoming a SIMPle Man. Too available. Too nice. Too agreeable. No boundaries. No backbone. You think overgiving will secure love. Instead, it kills respect. And without respect, you are finished.

Sixth — Making her your purpose. You drop your grind. You reduce your ambition. You center your life around her. You started taking the responsibility of her father
And when she leaves, you are left empty because you built your life around someone instead of something.

Seventh — Staying too long.
You see the signs early. The disrespect. Chaos. Nagging. Misalignment. But you stay. Hoping it will change. It doesn’t.
You just lose more time until you finally walk away broken and drained.

My brother, by 40, reality becomes clear.

You don’t regret the w00men you lost. You regret the time you wasted on the wrong ones. You regretted all the investment. You regret the m0ney you spent without return. You regret abandoning your purpose for temporary emotions.

Bro wake up early. Control your desires. Set standards. Choose with discipline.
Because the earlier you learn this, the less damage you carry into your future.

If this hit you hard, good. Share it with a young man who still thinks he has unlimited time to make careless decisions.

You can't continue like this bro.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.

Romance › Re: Why Do Most Married Men, Hardly Wear Their Wedding Ring? by essentialone(op): 9:53pm On Apr 19

Secretly, a lot of ladies criticizing Judy, actually wish that Yul Edochie used them to replace MAY Yul-Edochie.

TV/Movies › Re: Which Movie can you watch from time to time, without ever getting tired of it? by essentialone(op): 9:06pm On Apr 19

Which Movie can you watch from time to time, without ever getting tired of it? huh

Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 8:43pm On Apr 19

HesInMe:
Calm down. The entire market is re-rating, especially medium- to large-cap stocks. Unless you bought Ellah or Chams

Chams made 5.78 Kobo, and decided to pay a whole 3 Kobo out of it as dividend. As what exactly? Is it not too much?

Romance › Re: Can You Wed A Lady With A Wide Pussy? Does It Matter To You? by essentialone(op): 5:25pm On Apr 19

marcusverum:
Why not if you have a corresponding big tool. - HEED.

Romance › Re: If A Lady Ever Tell You That She Does Not Date A Married Man, Then You Are Poor! by essentialone(op): 3:13pm On Apr 19

Proserpina:
If a lady tells you she doesn't date married men, respect that and leave.

I get irritated when married men irrespective of their social status throw advances at me. I see them as dogs.

That means you are a Selective Moralist.

Fashion › Re: When You See A Woman Wearing Leg Chain, What Comes To Your Mind? Be Honest. by essentialone(op): 7:41am On Apr 19

Men who keep dating apps are the cheapest Men this generation can ever produce.

Stop this simp-ish westernized culture. Your forefathers didn't run to market squares to date pictures of w00men hanged on walls.

Delete dating apps on your phone. Having them is a sign of low self-esteem and disrespecting yourself.

You fear approaching w00men, therefore you prefer going for cheap, low-hanging fruits rotting desperately in dating apps.

Worst is going on a blind date to be thoroughly scrutinized, strolled, vert and talked down by rejected w00men who are desperately looking for partners.

Respect yourself.

Change or perish.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.

Romance › Re: Can You Wed A Lady With A Wide Pussy? Does It Matter To You? by essentialone(op): 7:02pm On Apr 18

kiddaz:
This your gist remind me of an experience back in my university days. I was chyking this smallie but she was always around one low budget pastor Chris looking, permy haired mofo. The first day I lashed her I picked her from his house. According to her they were reading and preparing for exams together. I no bother sha I never take my share. So we were in my apartment then, a 3 bedroom flat I shared with my brothers. They all know her. As I was trying to touch things and things this banny just pushed my hands off like " ohhh Dan(his real name) stop this naaa"! Omor my blood boil. She tried to explain me done dey vex tell her to get up and start leaving that I have places to be in. Sally begin beg and I saw the golden opportunity. Lol... When I lash nonsense commot for her kumtuz na tongues she begin dey speak sotey my neighbor one babe downstairs begin throw herself at me as soon as I escorted the smally. I never trusted her one day throughout our almost a year of dating.

Smiles

Romance › Re: If A Lady Ever Tell You That She Does Not Date A Married Man, Then You Are Poor! by essentialone(op): 7:00pm On Apr 18

Some men will meet a lady on the street today, collect her contact and tomorrow they are texting her;👇

"I love you."

Then you go expecting she should reciprocate the same energy. That's absolute stupid!ty.

If a random lady collect your contact today and began professing love tomorrow, how would you feel?

As a Man, let's assume they are three different w00men professing love to you this week just because you gave them your contacts.

Five w00men from Last two weeks still calling that they love you just because you passed your contact to them and you are attractive.

How would you feel?
Irritated right?
You'll feel these w00men are stup!d — hence let me cash out of their stup!dity.

Then you'll use their desperation against them. Isn't it?

That's exactly what do happen in the famale camp.

While love at first sight could be real, that's all infatuation.
No sane strange w00man would love you by just meeting her for the first time and professing love the next day — yet you'll be expecting same energy.

You do not love her bro, you are only captivated by her appearance — you probably just lusting after her.
Do not rush to ask strange w00men out. Don't be on a rush to profess love to strange w00men. Be connected with her under some common grounds at least..

It could be your colleague at the other branch who has from time to time seen and who's a bit aware of your personality.
It could be your client who had known a bit about you and your personality over time.

It could be a lady on a team for an assignment that would last for just few weeks or months. It could be your Church girl.

And when you wanna come up with dating stuffs, be straight forward, don't linger around, don't befriends with her — she'll friend zone you.

Say your mind, how you feel, and what you want. And if she's not giving in, no emotions, no keeping of malice, let go, walk away in peace.

Above all... don't be friends with her for months or years thinking you'll come clear with what you want soon, it doesn't work like that
It might never make sense after allowing her friend zone you.

You may need to read this again.👆

Learn or perish.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.

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Romance › Re: This Is How To Know That She Has Given Birth Before. Guys, Do Not Be Deceived. by essentialone(op): 6:35pm On Apr 18

Bro date w00men who come to you first. Date the w00man that make it easy for you — but only if she was well raised, have good attitude or willing to follow and learn as you lead.

It eliminates 90% of problems in relationship. She already invested. Already pursued. Already chose.
You're starting from power.

Dating from chase position creates problems. Creates tests. Creates uncertainty. Creates power imbalances.
But dating from pursued position eliminates most problems before they start.

Date w00men who come to you first. Don't approach. Don't pursue. Don't chase. Wait for w00men who approach you. Who initiate. Who pursue. Who choose you first. Who shows the willingness to mingle.
She will make it easy for you because she'd already chosen you before you make your intentions know to her.

No exceptions. No "but I saw a beautiful woman." No "but I should approach."
No compromises.
Only date w00men who come to you first. That's the standard.

It eliminates 90% of problems.
Eliminates interest uncertainty.
Eliminates testing games. Eliminates power struggles. Eliminates questions about her investment. She already proved it by approaching.

She already invested. She took risk first. She approached first. She initiated first. She invested before you did. That creates psychological commitment. She's committed before you are.

Already pursued. She's chasing. She's proving herself. She's competing for you. The dynamic is correct from start. She pursues. You select. She proves. You judge.
Already chose. She selected you from her options. She decided you're valuable. She chose you. You didn't have to convince her. She convinced herself. That's power.

Most men approach. Chase. Prove. Beg — That creates wrong dynamics from start. W00men who come to you create correct dynamic. She pursues. You select. That eliminates 90% of problems.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.

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Romance › Re: What Was Your Worst Date Or Hang-out Experience? by essentialone(op): 5:22pm On Apr 18

Jagermeister:
Motivational speaker… After you’ve made all that money, then what?

Then what in 20, 30 years from now when you’re frail, assuming you’re still alive? What’s more? 100 years from now when you’re long dead, where’s all the money you made from ridding yourself from buying that expensive sports car in your 20s and 30s..

You only have one lifetime… do all at the same time

Smiles

Education › Re: Why do NYSC Corpers never greet themselves when they pass each other on the road by essentialone(op): 2:47pm On Apr 18

Bro select the woman who brings a smile to your face every time she enters the room. Choose to be with the woman who wants to sway with you in a slow dance in the living room, listening to a song.

Select the woman who inspires you to strive for improvement in all areas of your life. Choose to be with the woman who would rather snuggle with you on the couch in her pajamas, watching her favorite show on Netflix, than go out partying.

Select the woman who eagerly shares about her day at work with you. Choose to be with the woman whose laughter can light up your heart on a tough day.

Select the woman who wants to spread a blanket on the ground and stargaze with you on a cool summer evening.
Choose to be with the woman with an old soul, embodying morals and qualities that are rare to find in this modern era.

Select the woman who values love over material wealth in raising children.

Choose to be with the woman who appreciates receiving a text from you once you've safely reached your destination.

And choose to be with the woman who prays each night for your unexpected and serene entrance into her life.

Be with the woman who makes you feel so cherished that being in her presence feels like coming home.

Stop going after shape, yash, and beauty when selecting a life partner. This is were a lot of men got it wrong.
This is why we're having so many divorce cases

Think about it.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.

Romance › Re: What Was Your Worst Date Or Hang-out Experience? by essentialone(op): 2:40pm On Apr 18

Young man in 20s, listen Up;👇

Your serious girlfriend now will be st0len or snatched by another man who is far more capable than you, and there's nothing you can do about it.

She will dump you with the speed of light and never look back in pity towards you.

You will certainly lose her to a man more better, successful and financially stable than you and if he has games — its game over.

Many of you young men, your w00man is definitely cheating on you, she's cheating on you with another man that's more better, successful and financially stable than you.
The only reason why she has not left you is because she believes she loves you more than him and she's still hoping that you will succeed.

And the capable man have not decided to be serious with her. But as for cheating — she's cheating on you.

Don't get upset my brother. Earth is hard for men.

As a young man understand that the w00man you are dating now belongs to another man in his 30s or 40s that has built his life to a comfortable extent more than you.

That is also how you will steal or snatch the girlfriend of a boy in his 20s — but by that time you will be in your 30s or 40s and well financially capable, but only if you can focus now on yourself.

Don't waste all your youthfulness focusing on building a relationship, don't waste it chasing w00men, don't waste it investing your time and resources on w00men with the hope that you will marry her — trust me, you will regret it in pain and sorrows.

Now is not the time to waste it on w00men and relationships.

You should be grateful that I'm telling you this for free.
That is what you benefit by following us here.

Learn or perish.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.

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Politics › Re: With Love To Waziri - By Chief Femi Fani-kayode by essentialone(m): 5:05am On Apr 18

Only 2 Nigerians, I can wake up even at midnight to read an Article they wrote:

1. Femi Fani Kayode
2. Reuben Abati

Even though I dont in any way like the personality of FFK, but my gosh, reading their flow and command of English language, always gives me an urge. Like wow!

Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 2:41am On Apr 18

millo:
Thank joor. I am in a part of Canada where I have to wake up at 3 am to place trade on NGX and market closes at my 6;30am.

That would mean that you live in or around AB...

Romance › Re: What are you addicted to? by essentialone(op): 5:20pm On Apr 17

Pootle:
i was addicted to smoking virtually at any point i had the opportunity but am free for 4years now

Wow you really tried to break from that addiction ooo.

Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 10:50am On Apr 17

phemmie06:
Good job and nice update but some of these companies still have more than 40 days to release their result, company like AIRTEL, Learn Africa, Academy press, Cutix etc

And why is that, please?

Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 8:06am On Apr 17

Full List of Companies yet to publish their Audited Financial Statement:

1. Lasaco Assurance
2. Regency Alliance Insurance
3. Academy Press
4. Access Bank
5. Airtel
6. Aluminum Extrusion
7. Aradel
8. Caverton
9. Chellaram
10. C I Leasing
11. Conoil
12. Cornerstone Insurance
13. Deap Capital
14. Cutix
15. Enamelware
16. Eunisell
17. FCMB Bank
18. Fidelity Bank
19. First Bank
20. Fortis Global Insurance
21. Honeywell Flourmill
22. Jaiz Bank
23. JapaulGold
24. John Holt
25. Learn Africa
26. Legend Internet
27. LivingTrust Mortgage Bank
28. Mutual Benefit Assurance
29. Morison
30. NCR
31. NNFM
32. Oando
33. Presco
34. Prestige
35. PZ
36. Redstar Express
37. SCOA
38. Stanbic
39. Sterling Bank
40. Tripple Gee
41. UBA Bank
42. Universal Insurance
43. Universal Press

Any Correction?

And which of them do you have in your Portfolio?

Romance › Re: What are you addicted to? by essentialone(op): 8:06am On Apr 17

Cum4me:
The masturbation cruw will deny there addiction. Some gose 5 round everyday...Jo soapy

Smiles

Crime › Re: A Yoruba Muslim lady by name Opeyemi Faridat Adedoyin has scammed someone 100k by essentialone(op): 4:49am On Apr 17

A Criminal, a Scammer and a Fraudster

Romance › Re: What are you addicted to? by essentialone(op): 3:39am On Apr 17

Remove s€x from relationship and see that there is nothing left: no meaningful conversations, no shared values, no vision for the future, no real direction.
Just two adults deceiving each other — one wants s€x and the other want m0ney.

Many relationships today are not built on love, purpose, or commitment— and they are sustained by s€x

This is the painful truth many people avoid.
Premarital s€x has numbed the senses of this our generation.
It clouds judgment, weakens discernment, and creates emotional attachment were there is no genuine commitment. People call it love, but in reality, it is often bondage disguised as affection.

Let this be made clear: — dating is not a license for s€x. Dating is a season of discovery, to observe character, test values, examine purpose, and discern compatibility.

It is a time to ask serious questions, not to exchange bodies. Premarital s€x keeps people trapped in relationships they should have left long ago.

It silences red flags. It excuses disrespect. It makes people endure manipulation, abuse, and spiritual compromise — all in the name of love or dating.

S€x has a way of convincing people to stay were reality is clearly saying leave..

If s€x is removed from a relationship and confusion, emptiness, and frustration are exposed, then that relationship was never built on a solid foundation.

Ask yourself — honestly; 👇

If s€x were no longer part of this relationship, would I still want to be here?
Would there still be purpose, direction, growth, and peace?
Any relationship defined by fornication alone is already dishonoring God, and it's foundation.is weak.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.

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